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Heart of Dating

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The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.

Episodes

S12 Ep 218: The Hidden Season of Singleness: Does God even see me? With Dr. Alicia Britt Chole

Today Kait and JJ have Alicia Britt Chole on to talk about hidden or anonymous seasons and what grows in there. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dati...

Jan 24, 202447 minSeason 12Ep. 218

Q&A: just friends or more? Pacing in dating, seeing your ex in public and more! Patreon Bonus (January 2024)

On today's episode, Kait and JJ are doing their very first LIVE podcast recording with the Patreon fam and answering questions YOU submitted! We're talking about building a friendship before a relationship, long distance, pacing while you're in a relationship and still evaluating and so much more! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/chann...

Jan 22, 202422 min

S12: Mini Man-sode 45: Friendzoned for Three Years + The Secret to Growing as a Man with Will Chung

Today JJ is joined by Will Chung to talk about being friendzoned for three years and the secret to growing as a man. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your...

Jan 19, 202445 min

S12 Ep 217: Reclaiming Worth and Value as a Single with Jason VanRuler

Today Kait and JJ have on Jason VanRuler to talk about reclaiming worth and value as a single through your own journey of healing. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want t...

Jan 17, 202450 minSeason 12Ep. 217

S12: Mini Man-sode 44: How to Build Holy Habits with Noah Herrin

Today JJ is bringing on the head pastor of The Way Church in Nashville, Noah Herrin, to talk about how to build holy habits. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to furt...

Jan 12, 202453 min

S12 Ep 216: Will I be single forever? POV from a Celibate Christian Dr. Gregory Coles

Today Kait and JJ are joined by Dr. Gregory Coles to talk about celibacy, shifting our mindset around singleness, and how to flourish as a single person. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-...

Jan 10, 20241 hr 3 minSeason 12Ep. 216

S11 Ep 215: Reignite Hope This New Year with Jayme Vainer, Lola Alapo, Michael Pham, and Jeff DeBaldo

Today, as we’re gearing up for 2024, Kait and JJ are joined by School of Dating Coaches, Michael, Jeff, Lola, and Jayme to talk about what it’s like to start the New Year single. Join School of Dating HERE! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resou...

Dec 27, 202352 minSeason 11Ep. 215

S11: Mini Man-sode 43: How to Shoot Your Shot

Today, JJ is getting really pracital with you guys and breaking down how to shoot your shot in the DMs. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dat...

Dec 22, 202337 min

S11 Ep 214: Psychoanalyzing Holiday Rom-Coms with Lacy Abercrombie

Today Kait & JJ are joined by Lacy Abercrombie to psycho-analyze The Holiday. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a b...

Dec 20, 202350 min

Q&A: Intimacy Timeline, Who Pays for Dates, Spiritual Practices for Couples in a Relationship, and More! Patreon Bonus (December 2023)

On today's episode Kait and JJ are answering your burning questions! These are questions our community submitted to be answered. Everything from who pays for dates to how to have romance while keeping physical boundaries, we're talking about it today! If you want to listen to the whole thing, make sure you join our Patreon community! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download t...

Dec 18, 202321 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 42: One Bullet Dating

In today’s episode JJ is talking about one bullet dating, the idea that you only get one shot in dating. We’re talking high stakes dating. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.hear...

Dec 15, 202331 min

S11 Ep 213: How to Ace Meeting the Parents (PS - it did not go great for us)

Today Kait and JJ are talking all things meeting the parents, from when to meet them to how to prepare to meet them and more! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com...

Dec 13, 202351 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 41: Are you obsessed with your future spouse? Pt. 2

Today JJ is picking up where we left off last week and unpacking the hallmark signs that you may be obsessed with a future spouse instead of preparing for them. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating lib...

Dec 08, 202342 min

S11 Ep212: From Closed to Open Singleness with Tara-Leigh Cobble

Kait and JJ are joined today by Tara Leigh Cobble to talk about open and closed singleness, holiday traditions as a single, emotionally healthy community, and a message to our married friends. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? C...

Dec 06, 20231 hr 2 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 40: Are You Obsessed with Your Future Spouse?

Today JJ unpacks part one of the difference between preparing for your future spouse and being obsessed with your future spouse. He gives warning signs at the end. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating ...

Dec 01, 202338 min

S11 Ep211: Single Shaming with Courtney Leo

Today Kait has a conversation with Courtney Leo about single shaming, both the external and internal, that happens during the holidays. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartof...

Nov 29, 20231 hr

S11: Mini Man-sode 39: What You Should Pray for Your Future Spouse with Scott Kedersha

Today JJ is joined by Scott Kedersha to discuss what you should be praying for your future spouse. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-l...

Nov 17, 202345 min

S11 Ep 210: HOLIDATE: Dating during the Holidays

Today we’re talking about dating during the holidays, the do’s, the don’ts, where to meet people, creative date ideas, and more! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating....

Nov 15, 202350 min

Q&A: Rejection, How to not Be obsessed, Preparing for Engagement, and More! Patreon Bonus (November 2023)

Today Kait and JJ are answering questions you guys submitted! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank ...

Nov 13, 202317 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 38: Why You Should NOT Pray for Your Future Spouse

In today’s episode JJ is unpacking if praying for your future spouse even matters and if you should or shouldn’t do it. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resou...

Nov 10, 202342 min

S11 Ep209: Overcoming Loneliness and the Single Holiday Blues

Kait and JJ tackle a sensitive topic today. They’re talking about loneliness and the holiday blues as we enter the holiday season. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdatin...

Nov 08, 202346 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 37: She's Just Not That Into You

On today’s men’s minisode JJ unpacks a story as old as time, she’s just not that into you, what now? Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download thi...

Nov 03, 202333 min

S11 Ep208: The #1 Green Flags to look for in Christian Dating

On today’s episode Kait and JJ talk through green flags as we wrap up season 11 on red flags. We’re talking communication, healing, friendship, and more! We would love to hear your feedback on this season of the podcast, please fill out this form so we can continue to bring you content you love and benefit from! https://forms.gle/GD8LKaDhSgjjHYV9A Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some...

Nov 01, 202355 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 36: Are You Looking For The One?

JJ brings on a special guest, Kait Tomlin to talk about compatibility, and the fairytale list we make up in our heads looking for the one. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSi...

Oct 27, 202357 min

S11 Ep207: Red Flag: Age Gap, Cheating, Liars, Politics… and More

Kait and JJ are going through a smorgasbord of red flags in today’s episode answering some of the top things you guys sent in. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushin...

Oct 25, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 11Ep. 208

S11: Mini Man-sode 35: She's Entitled/Ungrateful

Today JJ talks about if it’s a red flag when a woman has an attitude of being enttiled or ungrateful and how you should evaluate. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crus...

Oct 20, 202334 min

S11 Ep206: RED FLAG: Opposite Sex Friends

Kait and JJ are talking opposite sex friends today…everything from good boundaries to red flags to watch out for. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie?...

Oct 18, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 11Ep. 207

Psycho-Analysis of Love is Blind: Patreon Bonus (October 2023)

In this episode Kait and JJ are spilling the tea with a psycho-analysis of the popular dating show, Love is Blind. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie...

Oct 17, 202321 min

S11: Mini Man-sode 34: Red Flag - Her Family is Crazy

JJ explains what to do if you are dating someone and their family is a little "cray cray". Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Res...

Oct 13, 202328 minSeason 11Ep. 206

S11 Ep205: RED FLAG: Lack of Vision with Lecrae

The one and only Lecrae joins Kait and JJ to talk about not having vision and how that can impact a dating relationship and eventually marriage. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSd...

Oct 11, 202342 minSeason 11Ep. 205