Relationships, at their core, are like a dance—a continuous process of attunement, connection, and curiosity. True attunement means being present, asking questions, and discovering what helps both you and your partner feel seen, heard, and regulated. It’s not about perfection or wrapping things up neatly every time, but about showing up, communicating, and holding space for growth. In this week’s episode, Michaela and I talked about... What does it really mean to “attune” to your partner? Is you...
Dec 18, 2024•49 min•Ep. 255
When we release the weight of trauma and embrace our raw, authentic selves, we unlock a flow of energy that fuels our wildness, empowerment, and sensuality. True wildness isn't chaos—it's a tender, uncompromising connection to life, expressed even in subtle, mindful movements. Sexy, too, begins from within; it’s about an intimate relationship with your essence, a playful and unapologetic embrace of your vitality and connection to the world. Empowerment stems from deep self-loyalty, the courage t...
Dec 11, 2024•51 min•Ep. 254
Intimacy, whether physical or emotional, isn't about obligation—it's about mutual desire and replenishment. When approached with love and genuine connection, it can be a source of strength, grounding, and joy that helps you navigate the chaos of parenthood. To truly thrive, you must nurture your children, yourself, and your relationships. In this episode, Marianne and I are deep-diving into... The mental and physical barriers to desire Importance of support and self-care Reclaiming one’s power a...
Dec 04, 2024•52 min•Ep. 253
Awakening isn’t about reaching a place of constant bliss or escaping life’s challenges—it’s about transformation. It’s the death of the ego, a stripping away of illusions we hold about ourselves, which can feel brutal but ultimately leads to deeper love and truth. True awakening demands facing everything we are, both light and shadow. In this episode, Luna and I talk about... What does awakening really mean How this liberation and newfound awakening affect the collective How do you know where to...
Nov 27, 2024•48 min•Ep. 252
Life throws challenges our way, and it's easy to get stuck in action mode, pushing through stress and overwhelm. But true empowerment lies in returning to our core – our pleasure, intuition, and aliveness. Life’s challenges can disconnect us from our true selves and how practices like meditation, rituals, and pleasure can help us return to a state of flow and aliveness. In this episode, Isabel and I talk about... Finding yourself again amid chaos What it means to truly trust your body How can pl...
Nov 20, 2024•47 min•Ep. 251
When life feels overwhelming and our emotions are intense, many of us instinctively disconnect from play, pleasure, and presence. Yet, these very elements can be powerful tools for resilience. True pleasure isn't about escaping our pain or numbing our emotions but embracing them and finding the beauty within. In this episode, Donna and I dive deep into... Reclaiming Play and Pleasure Finding Stillness in Overwhelm Balancing Emotions and Pleasure Listening to Your Body If you would like to connec...
Nov 13, 2024•50 min•Ep. 250
Life can feel like a balancing act between staying true to ourselves and adapting to what others expect from us. When we live by others' rules—what we "should" do or how we "should" act—we often lose our sense of self. Without firm boundaries, we allow others to shape our lives, fearing we’ll lose love or belonging if we stand up for ourselves. But setting boundaries is essential for self-respect and personal peace. Remember, being kind to yourself and honoring your needs isn’t selfish; it’s fou...
Nov 06, 2024•48 min•Ep. 249
Sometimes we spend years learning about ourselves through words—talking, reading, even sitting with therapists—and while it helps, there’s only so far the mind alone can take us. True transformation starts when we look inward and feel what’s within us, learning to recognize emotions like anger, grief, or fear as they live in our bodies. In this episode, Jin and I talk about... Why just talking isn’t enough How hidden emotions shape our lives Living for ourselves or others If pain holds the key t...
Oct 30, 2024•58 min•Ep. 248
Life is more than just going through the motions. It's about digging deep, listening to what your soul truly desires, and finding the courage to break away from the things that don't bring real fulfillment. Often, we fall into habits that numb us—whether it's overworking, overindulging, or overconsuming—because society encourages it. In this episode, Karin and I discuss about... Discovering the power of reconnecting with your inner self through Tantra Breaking free from the societal norms and ha...
Oct 23, 2024•43 min•Ep. 247
Life is full of grief, pain, and challenges, but it's how we hold these experiences that shape us. It may not have been easy in the past, but with time and self-work, we learn to integrate and embrace the complexity of life. In this episode, Harmony and I discuss... How to handle life's toughest moments If one can truly embrace both joy and suffering How to stay grounded when life shifts If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, bo...
Oct 16, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 246
Conscious connection is the key to transforming our relationships in everyday life and intimate moments. When we learn to communicate our needs and desires openly, without shame, we create space for deeper, more meaningful connections. In this episode, Faith and I talked about... What does it mean to consciously connect with others Where to start when things feel off in a relationship Why is safety so important in intimacy If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call a...
Oct 09, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 245
Healing from trauma and sexual trauma is not about completely erasing it but becoming aware of triggers and managing them better over time. While trauma may still arise, it no longer controls daily life or interactions, showing growth and resilience. In this episode, Cara and I dive into the journey of healing from trauma and or sexual trauma in your 30’s and 40’s —not by erasing it. A preview of what we talked about... What does healing really look like in your 30’s and 40’s How to manage trigg...
Oct 02, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 244
Tantra, while often misunderstood, offers a powerful path to healing. The ongoing journey of healing and self-connection is not just about the physical, but learning to trust yourself, feel your emotional wounds, and come back to your truth, especially after heartbreak. The practice of tantra, allows you to transform your journey but also shows you how to show up in the world. Yulia and I dived deeper into answering the following questions... What does it mean to reconnect with your body? How ca...
Sep 25, 2024•55 min•Ep. 243
Tantra honors the sacredness in all aspects of life, from light to shadow. It offers a glimpse into a deeper understanding of life and invites us to see everything as sacred. It can also be lived through practices, rituals, and daily experiences. Tantra invites us to see everything as sacred, including our struggles and fears. It’s a powerful tool for shifting perceptions and deepening our connection to ourselves and others. In this episode, Sasha and I talked about How tantra opens a pathway fo...
Sep 18, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 242
Has there ever been a time when you can’t seem to bring yourself to understand your partner regarding bedroom play? Or have you struggled in dealing with the immense pressure of always giving and making sure that your partner experiences this orgasmic high? Still, you somehow feel disconnected from your partner after? Today’s episode explores how being fully present can transform your intimate relationship. Learn simple yet powerful ways to deepen your connection by focusing on mindfulness and l...
Sep 11, 2024•49 min•Ep. 241
It can be difficult to be consciously present with the now. Fear can get in the way of that. It takes some practice and work to be able to get to the point of having both your body and mind be consciously present. There is power in being able to embody what is and just be present. In today’s episode, Jenny and I discuss... The importance of being present in what is and being with our emotions How fear can be used as a beacon to guide someone to the right path and one’s desires How fear comes wit...
Sep 04, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 240
The body holds so much knowledge and memories that it may or may not sometimes cloud our judgment. It is also a vessel that saves us from making terrible decisions and it is a vessel that holds so much truth. Learning to trust the body isn’t easy, especially, when it has become dependent on negativity and pain. So now, how can one learn to trust their body when everything else says otherwise? In this episode, Amy Guerrero and I talk about... Listening to the trigger cues the body detects How the...
Aug 28, 2024•51 min•Ep. 239
Tantra has been an integral part of the healing journey of a lot of people. This is one of the things I love about tantra, is that it has allowed people to have a space for healing and openness. It has opened up a pathway to allow people to heal their inner child during their adult lives. Healing is a process and a journey. One will continuously have to put in the work to grow and stay connected with the body and mind. It is always going to be a work in progress. For this week’s episode, Sophia ...
Aug 21, 2024•55 min•Ep. 238
We humans tend to struggle to give back to ourselves what we are willing to give to others. It seems easier for us to give love, compassion, grace, understanding, and acceptance to those around us or even strangers while we can’t seem to provide those same things to ourselves. Sometimes these are the things that we need to heal, move forward, and grow. In this episode, Erica Wiederlight and I discuss... How there is so much freedom in being able to come home to your body, feeling deep body love,...
Aug 14, 2024•58 min•Ep. 237
Healing doesn’t have to be a solo journey - you can also heal through intimacy with your partner. There is safety and strength in facing things you fear or run away from with someone who makes you feel seen and heard. The pullbacks and fears that you have welcome it, don’t run. In this week’s episode Eve and I discuss... Being curious about the things that we need to heal from instead of running away from it Welcoming the contractions and pullbacks Healing together with your partner Eve Kundycki...
Aug 07, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 236
A misconception that people have is that tantra is all about s*x, but, the sexual aspect of tantra is just 8-10% of what tantra is about and used for. Tantra is about body connection, strengthening relationships, and much more. One particular thing that Tantra has done for me is that it has helped me heal from some traumas I have in my life. The same can be said for my guest Frances. In this week’s episode, Frances and I talk about... The connection between how you are in the bedroom and how you...
Jul 31, 2024•31 min•Ep. 235
Can tantra be used to help us go through difficult times? The answer to that is YES! It worked for me and my lovely guest for this week’s podcast - Savannah ❤️ There is more to tantra than just s*x. It is a practice and way of life. It is building and strengthening connections. It is also about making use of your energy to create and manifest something for yourself. What Savannah and I covered in this episode... Using s*x magic and tantra to get us through some difficult times Consenting to unwa...
Jul 24, 2024•41 min•Ep. 234
Fix, fix, give, give, and that is what we women were kind of hardwired to do or be. But we should also be comfortable and be okay with being selfish, especially in owning our pleasure. In today’s episode, Melanie and I talked about... Embracing and relearning that selfishness is a great and important thing Listening with an open heart while being grounded in our presence in our relationships Being able to show up our true selves and how it will be life-changing Melanie Bonk is a trauma-informed ...
Jul 17, 2024•48 min•Ep. 233
Have you guys ever wondered why you sometimes feel so closed off from everyone else? Or wondering if there is a safe space for you to be yourself and explore different connections? Unlocking our energy centres through the use of tantra has helped us find that space and open up different power sources. This week with Isa Devi we discussed... How tantra has been a safe container to explore intimacy, tenderness, and emotions What it was like to channel and open up the different energy centres Learn...
Jul 10, 2024•30 min•Ep. 232
I have been enjoying this tantra series we have right now. It has been fun and interesting to hear and learn how others are weaving tantra into their lives and relationships. Together with returning guest, Serena Novelli, we talked about... How being present and navigating the different realms of tantra is so powerful in bringing back ourselves to our bodies The beautiful process of eye gazing How we were navigating through our different shadows Serena Novelli is an intimacy & relationship c...
Jul 03, 2024•45 min•Ep. 231
Often times we forget to listen to what our bodies are telling us. Most of the time our bodies tell us a truth that we don’t see right away. This week with Daniela we will be talking about... Showing up in our aligned power How we see our bodies as brilliant truth tellers How tantra helped us hold space for more Understanding the conflict we have within our selves in connection to trauma Daniela (she/they) is a queer bi+ trauma- and attachment therapy-informed certified Sex and Intimacy Coach fo...
Jun 26, 2024•58 min•Ep. 230
Connecting with your body and being in tuned to your true self takes time. It is and will always be an ongoing journey – especially with tantra. In this week’s episode, we will again be deep diving into the world of tantra. Stephanie and I will be talking about Our tantra journeys, tantra retreat experiences, and how we were able to ground and resource using tantra Quick take on the difference between in person and online trainings The struggles we faced in our tantra journey and how viewed ours...
Jun 19, 2024•41 min•Ep. 229
I know it has been a while but I am back from my little break with a new episode that I think you will all love and learn a lot from. In this episode together with a very special guest, Anne Bland we will discuss… Tantra as an infiniti loop and weaving it into our lives Aligning with your truth, connecting more with your body, and living the lives we want to live with the principles and philosophy of tantra How tantra has helped us in our healing journeys and how it made us more connected with o...
Jun 12, 2024•43 min•Ep. 228
Update! Where I’ve been, what’s new and coming soon. Pushing pause here…but I’ll be back…enjoy all the episodes in the meantime and reach out if you’d like to discuss the option of working together - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power ------------------------------------- Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyba...
Apr 24, 2024•10 min•Ep. 227
In this episode we discuss how the fashion and beauty industry are controlling how we see ourselves, how we can stop them from calling the shots and how we can take our power back and embrace our true beauty. ~with guest Lauren Dimet-Waters In this episode Lauren & Kim discuss… The fashion should’s and should not’s Pro-aging and what that means & looks like to do so gracefully A true look at what is going on in marketing right now and how it is making so many women not feel good enough O...
Apr 17, 2024•42 min•Ep. 226
