Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday and Season 4's wrap! What if conditions like ADHD, autism, and OCD weren't permanent disabilities but rather brain imbalances that could be corrected? Dr. Robert Melillo, a pioneering functional neurologist with over 30 years of clinical experience and author of eight bestselling books including "Disconnected Kids," joins us to completely reshape how we understand developmental disorders. Dr. Melillo's groundbreaking approach starts with a fundamental insight...
Jun 26, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 4Ep. 17
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday Authenticity begins in the mirror, but what happens when the reflection others see doesn't match your self-image? In this deeply reflective conversation, I'm joined by my mother to untangle the complex web of perception, identity, and the courage to be truly seen. We start by examining those uncomfortable moments when we hide parts of ourselves that feel too vulnerable, only to discover these very traits are plainly visible to everyone around us. My mother sh...
Jun 05, 2025•54 min•Season 4Ep. 16
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday! What happens when life breaks you completely? After losing her teenage son to a violent crime and surviving an attack by a serial killer just months later, Sylvia Moore Myers discovered a profound truth that transformed her understanding of trauma: we aren't designed to heal—we're designed to scar. This realization sparked her journey to become a traumatologist and author of "Gold Scars," where she shares how trauma and grief can become beautiful parts of ou...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 4Ep. 15
Send us a text What would our lives look like if we had learned financial literacy from an early age? Sean Lax, who joined us on Essential Mental Healing, answers this question through his remarkable journey from childhood homelessness to successful real estate agent. Sean's story begins in suburban St. Louis where his family embodied the American dream – until they lost everything in 1992. At just 12 years old, Sean experienced the devastating shift from comfort to sleeping in the family car. T...
May 08, 2025•54 min•Season 4Ep. 14
Send us a text Have you ever noticed how life seems to move in cycles? That's because there truly is nothing new under the sun. In this soul-nourishing conversation, Janet and Candace explore how ancient patterns repeat throughout our lives while revealing that our unique power lies in how we respond to these timeless challenges. Janet shares her journey back to veganism and how physical nourishment connects to spiritual growth, remembering that "what I put in this body determines how this body ...
Apr 26, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 13
Send us a text Michael Pereira's journey from corporate traveler to autism advocate began when his son Christian started showing developmental concerns around his first birthday. Like many parents, Michael and his wife initially struggled with denial – a phase he now recognizes was rooted in focusing on their own feelings rather than their child's needs. "The extent of denial reflects the extent of selfishness," Michael shares with remarkable candor, explaining how acceptance finally allowed the...
Apr 10, 2025•56 min•Season 4Ep. 12
Send us a text Tired of failed relationships? You might be asking one person to fill too many intimacy needs. In this deeply thoughtful episode, relationship expert Tannaz shares her transformative concept of the six intimacy tanks we all have: physical (non-sexual touch), sexual, emotional, experiential, intellectual, and spiritual connection. Instead of expecting a single person to fill every tank, Tannaz encourages taking inventory of your relationships to identify who fills which roles in yo...
Mar 27, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 11
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday Your screen time is shaping you in ways you might not realize. Every show, movie, and social media scroll leaves an imprint on your mind, influencing everything from your daily thoughts to how you interact with others. Candace and Janet take us on a revealing journey through their personal media consumption habits, examining how what we watch creates a "mental diet" that nourishes or depletes us. Candace shares the surprising story of experiencing her first p...
Mar 13, 2025•57 min•Season 4Ep. 10
Send us a text Dive into a heartfelt conversation that tackles the complex emotions surrounding imposter syndrome and the often-hidden feelings of inadequacy we carry with us. In this episode, we peel back the layers of self-doubt and explore how our upbringing, societal expectations, and personal narratives shape our perception of worthiness. Janet and I share candid stories from our experiences as parents, navigating the challenges of helping our children while facing our own anxieties. We dis...
Feb 27, 2025•54 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday Sipping our morning coffee, we invited the enchanting Misty Bell Stiers, an artist, storyteller, and advocate for diversity, equity, and inclusion, to share her inspiring journey. As a creative director and author, Misty sprinkles a touch of magic into her mission to create systemic change. Our conversation dances through the joys and challenges of parenting in small living spaces and the nostalgia of having kids at home, all while celebrating the beautiful c...
Feb 13, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! When life throws a curveball, how do you respond? Join me, Candace Patrice, and my wonderful mother, Janet Hale, as we navigate the rollercoaster of family life when illness hits home. Despite my crazy schedule, there was no question about being there for my mom, reminding us of the power of familial bonds and the little acts of care that mean the world. Through laughter and nostalgia, we explore how life's unexpected moments can bring us closer, making us ...
Feb 06, 2025•45 min•Season 4Ep. 7
Send us a text Ever felt trapped in your life's circumstances, unsure how to break free? Our special guest, Judy Larson, shares her profound journey from feeling out of place in her own family to navigating the pressures of adulthood. Facing a marriage to an alcoholic and the shadow of her father's struggles, Judy battled low self-esteem and depression, culminating in a pivotal episode that challenged her mental health. Her story sets the stage for an exploration into holistic healing and the im...
Jan 02, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 4Ep. 5
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday! We explore the transformative power of decluttering both physical and mental spaces and how they create room for new opportunities and joy. By integrating love and reciprocity into our daily lives, we redefine work as a fulfilling expression of our true selves. - Discusses the importance of maintaining a decluttered space to enhance reception of new opportunities - Explores the connection between giving and receiving in life, emphasizing reciprocity - Consid...
Dec 19, 2024•53 min
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! Amazing Soul's journey of healing will inspire anyone feeling trapped by their own pain. After two decades of crippling lower back pain, she discovered a transformative path of introspection that changed everything. By embracing her pain as a teacher, she uncovered her purpose through a deep understanding of personal patterns and limiting beliefs. Her story is a testament to the power of inner work, as illustrated by the poignant lyrics of Michael Jackson's...
Dec 05, 2024•57 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! Discover the transformative journey of Denise Schonwald, a former critical care nurse turned licensed mental health counselor, as she integrates the worlds of mental and physical health. Her inspiring narrative, alongside insights from her children's book "Getting Back to Happy," reveals the profound connection between emotional and physical well-being. We explore how anxiety manifests physically and discuss the importance of addressing root causes for holi...
Nov 21, 2024•56 min
Send us a text Therapy Thursday!! After a summer of soul-searching and self-care, Janet Hale, our beloved "hippie mama," returns to kick off Season Four of Essential Mental Healing with a heartwarming and honest reflection on mental health. Imagine the profound impact of a child's wisdom when Janet's daughter gently nudges her to confront her struggles, reminding us all of the strength found in familial love. Through laughter and sincerity, we explore how acknowledging our children's concerns ca...
Nov 07, 2024•53 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Send us a text Therapy Thursday! What if music could be your sanctuary in the storm of life? Join us as we uncover the transformative journey of Heather Hill, a singer-songwriter from the Blue Mountains of Canada. Heather opens up about her transition from a corporate career back to her true passion for music, all while balancing the demands of motherhood. Her latest album, "Twilight Mist," is an emotional tribute to herself and a testament to the power of mentorship in finding one’s authentic v...
May 29, 2024•53 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday! When the path of self-discovery intersects with the embrace of one's true identity, the journey can be transformative. That's a truth our guest, Ann Russo, knows well as a psychotherapist and advocate for culturally affirming care. Together with the heartening presence of Janet Hale, we traverse the tender terrains of mental health, social justice, and personal identity. Ann sheds light on her mission to aid the queer community, people of color, and those in...
May 02, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday! Have you ever considered the possibility that your mind might hold the key to relieving your physical pain? Brandy Gillmore joins me, Candace Fleming, for an eye-opening discussion that will challenge what you think you know about the healing process. Brandy's remarkable journey from relying on a wheelchair , walker, and cane to achieving a complete recovery is truly miraculous. Together, we unpack the complex relationship between our emotions and our physic...
Mar 14, 2024•49 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! Facing life's storms with unwavering courage, my sister Amanda and I, Candace Fleming, come together in a raw exchange on the trials and triumphs of Essential Mental Healing. Amanda, a beacon of resilience, unfolds her narrative from teen motherhood to the hallways of nursing, painting a picture of the grit and grace it takes to juggle family, career, and self-reliance. Our conversation meanders through the valleys and peaks of her life, revealing the unbre...
Mar 07, 2024•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 8
Send us a text Therapy Thursday!! When life throws curveballs, it's the stories of triumph and relentless pursuit of purpose that fuel our resilience. Navy veteran John Miles embodies this spirit, transforming personal tragedy into a beacon of hope through the Passion Struck movement. Join us as John shares the profound experiences that shaped his mission to inspire others and reminds us that, like snowflakes, each individual's journey through trauma is unique. His powerful message underscores t...
Feb 29, 2024•53 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Send us a text When my dear friend Corene Johnson faced her child's severe illness, she made a valiant pivot to homeschooling—a decision that would unknowingly become her family's saving grace during the pandemic. As Corene shares her story, you'll witness the weight of parental choices under societal scrutiny and the unexpected affirmation found in another's envy. This episode takes you through the complex tapestry of motherhood, where trust in parental instincts and community support in the ho...
Feb 01, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Send us a text Therapy Thursday!! Janet and I bare our souls as we recount the trials and victories that have shaped us, from the resilience required to pretend financial stability for our children to the relentless pursuit of education. We toast to the power of support and the indomitable spirit of perseverance, sharing tales of basketball practices where defeat turned to triumph and how the choice to attend Howard University marked a defining moment in one's life. Our conversation goes beyond ...
Jan 19, 2024•1 hr 18 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! Embark on a transformative exploration with us as we welcome Dr. Elsbeth and Freddy Zental from the Tantra Nova Institute to uncover the profound connection between intimacy, sexuality, and personal growth. Their wisdom illuminates how ancient tantric practices can be harnessed as a powerful tool for deepening relationships and enhancing self-awareness. Together, we venture into candid discussions about the importance of sexuality and pleasure in our daily ...
Jan 04, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! When you think of marriage, do you picture a best friend by your side through thick and thin? Scott and Shate from the Love Haze podcast join us to unravel the threads of love, friendship, and healing in relationships. As we wade through the seasonal stress and the pursuit of personal and professional growth, their insights shine a light on the importance of a strong relational foundation and the resilience required when life tosses challenges our way. Havi...
Dec 21, 2023•54 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Send us a text Therapy Thursday! Have you ever felt the profound peace that comes from surrendering control? This episode is a heart-to-heart conversation between myself, your host Candace Fleming, and my mother, Janet Hale, as we shed light on our journeys to discovering tranquility in letting go. We unmask the beauty of embracing surrender and the freedom it bestows, demonstrating how it has played out in our lives, from giving up cable to learning to release control as parents. There's transf...
Dec 07, 2023•48 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Send us a text Therapy Thursday!! What if everything you thought you knew about ADHD was just the tip of the iceberg? Join us as we explore this question with Dr. Connie McReynolds, a seasoned expert in rehabilitation psychology. The deep dive into the complex world of ADHD diagnosis and treatment starts with a riveting discussion on dyslexia and its fascinating link to ADHD. We then touch upon the critical connection between auditory and visual processing problems and various learning disabilit...
Nov 23, 2023•50 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Send us a text When was the last time you truly took a hard look at your mental health? We're back for season three of Essential Mental Healing, and we're putting our own journey front and center, in a bid to help you navigate yours. Our discussions are going to be raw, unfiltered, and deeply personal, covering everything from unique healing strategies to enlightening readings like 'The Body Keeps Score' and 'Scarcity Brain'. Our mission? To empower you with the tools and resources you need to e...
Nov 09, 2023•59 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Send us a text It's therapy Thursday! Dive into the fascinating science behind hair loss with Mariah as he explains the difference between testosterone and dihydrotestosterone, and how inherited factors can affect hair loss. Learn how innovative ingredients like hyaluronic acid, stem cells, polyotics, and amino acids work together to strengthen the hair follicle and restore blood flow. Mariah also shares the unique approach his team at More Hair Naturally takes to assess each client's individual...
Jun 08, 2023•47 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Send us a text It's Therapy Thursday!! In today's episode we will discuss how music can heal you. How music was used to give directions. How our moods change the lyrics we want to hear. How it helps with memory and more. Host Candace Fleming Co-host Janet Hale visit the website at https://www.essentialmotivation.com/ visit the store at https://shopessentialmotivation.com/ Instagram instagram.com/essentialmotivationllc To be a guest on our show email me at candacefleming@essentialmotivation.com S...
May 25, 2023•37 min•Season 2Ep. 16
