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Desire on Fire

Aimee Batuski & Ellie Montgomeriewww.desireonfire.com
Welcome to the Desire on Fire podcast! (Formerly With Pleasure) We're Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie, intimacy experts and two best friends on a mission to help YOU put pleasure first and own your feminine power. If you are ready to become a powerful agent of change, who allows your desires to lead the way as you step into a whole new world of freedom, manifestation, and ease, then you're in the right place! On this podcast we interview friends, lovers, experts, and thought leaders to remind you that no matter how big, wild, or taboo your desires are... you CAN have it all.
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039: Desire-Led Life Meets Motherhood with Sasha Kerkmann and Megan Lambert

This week I had the opportunity to sit down with two dear friends who are both birth goddesses and amazing mothers, Sasha and Megan, and absorb their wisdom for empowered pregnancy, birth and postpartum. Sasha is a trained midwife, relationship and sexuality coach and postpartum guide and Megan is master certified intimacy and desire expert helping people to experience better love, sex and relationships. They both share the intimate moments of their birthing journeys including the eerily similar...

May 11, 20221 hr 13 minSeason 2Ep. 39

038: Marrying Sex and Money with Ashae Sundara

In this episode we go all the way back to the beginning with special guest Ashae Sundara, a feminine leadership coach and artist, to how she first got started as an entrepreneur (hint: it's very different from what she's doing now!!). We get into the nitty-gritty of what she's moved through to create a massive empire impacting thousands of women, and become a 7+ figure mentor to female leaders. We relish over the synchronicities in all of our stories from our shared passion for holistic wellness...

May 04, 20221 hr 4 minSeason 2Ep. 38

037: From Numb and Burned Out to Manifesting the Relationship of her DREAMS with Pleasure Mastery Grad Suzan Taylor

This week we’re chatting with one of our very own Pleasure Mastery graduates, Suzan Taylor! Suzan has been on an incredible journey from being overly independent to falling in love with herself and becoming the ultimate receiving queen. Suzan bravely opens up about her battles with burnout, depression and low self-confidence and how a single swipe on a dating app and a yoni massage transported her into a whole new world of unimaginable pleasure and undeniable self-growth. We discuss: Her journey...

Apr 27, 20221 hr 25 minSeason 2Ep. 37

036: Feng Shui as a Powerhouse Tool for Manifestation with Patricia Lohan

It’s easy to get so focused on becoming the woman you want to be that you forget to look up at your surroundings! Today’s episode is all about Feng Shui and will give you the permission you may need to upgrade your space from “home” to “sanctuary.” This week’s guest is our new friend Patricia Lohan — Feng Shui expert, author, and master manifester. We learn a ton about the importance of our physical environment, how it can impact everything from intimacy to abundance, and simple changes we can m...

Apr 20, 202253 minSeason 2Ep. 36

035: Aimee and Ellie Get Coached by Master Coach and Teacher Kyle Mercer

We had an unbelievably eye-opening experience this week with our friend Kyle Mercer— master coach, guru, and the creator and founder of Inquiry Method (a powerful coaching modality that he’s currently teaching inside of our Desire on Fire Apprenticeship Program). In this episode, Kyle guides us both through somatic techniques and practices LIVE, and offers us an opportunity to release our burdens so we can open more fully to the present moment. We dig into: How the identity of “successful busine...

Apr 13, 20221 hr 4 minSeason 2Ep. 35

034: Recapping Our 7-Day Tantra Retreat with Aimee, Sheree Savage and Alee Hoffman

We are relishing in sisterhood this week with a warm, illuminating episode with my friends Sheree Savage, a feminine leadership coach, and Alee Reina Hoffman, a transformational coach, on our life-changing time together at the International School of Temple Arts, Level 1 Retreat. I open up about how I faced my fear of rejection during the retreat, and the magic I’ve experienced from following my desires, even at the risk of hearing “no.” We digest our nourishing yet confronting experiences, our ...

Apr 06, 20221 hr 6 minSeason 2Ep. 34

033: Aimee and Ellie Coach Feminist Dad Zach Watson

We are flipping the script this week by giving you the male perspective with our guest, Zach Watson, who Aimee’s known for almost a decade. Zach is a husband, father, accountability coach, author and is currently killing the game on TikTok, where he advocates for dad’s participation in pregnancy and fatherhood. Tune into our honest conversation on marriage, masturbation, pregnancy, addiction, cheating, and so much more in today’s episode. We dive into: How to invite healthy conversations about s...

Mar 30, 20221 hr 28 minSeason 2Ep. 33

032: Behind the Scenes: Ellie’s Pregnancy Journey

Birth is the ultimate surrender… and we don’t just mean birthing babies. Birth can come in many different forms in our lives through businesses, relationships, opportunities, all of which we’ve experienced at different points in our journeys. But this week, we’re especially focused on babies! This episode is all about birthing babies, partners, and businesses as the two of us sit down and chat about Ellie’s pregnancy journey that’s almost at the finish line! We talk about Ellie’s experience work...

Mar 23, 202250 minSeason 2Ep. 32

031: Successful Tech Exec Finds Sexual Freedom with Ilana Brown

Want to get inspired by a badass woman truly having it all? Our guest on the @desireonfire podcast this week is successful tech executive and philanthropist Ilana Brown, who raised $11 million dollars during the pandemic for non-profit Frontline Foods, before landing in Bali with her partner and experiencing a radical shift. Through their travels, she dove into the world of Tantra and has since created a life of mind-blowing sex, fulfilling communication, and a whole new purpose guiding others o...

Mar 16, 202243 minSeason 2Ep. 31

030: From Making Millions to Finding Magic in Embodiment with Audrey Castonguay

This week we speak with a dear friend and client of ours, Audrey Castonguay. In her twenties, Audrey founded and built Wholesome Culture, a multimillion dollar apparel company, from the ground up. We have an honest conversation about her struggles with burnout and chronic pain, and what she had to face in order to heal and lead a life she truly desires. We find out: Why she let go of a multimillion dollar business to follow her inner whisper of desire. The rock bottom moment that led to her sayi...

Mar 09, 202243 minSeason 2Ep. 30

029: Aimee’s Dating Adventures

Yes… we are manifesting cute guys in coffee shops in 2022! Grab your favorite drink and get comfy because this week it’s just us and we’re having a catch up! In this episode, Aimee shares an update on her recent dating escapades. We speak about coming face to face with fear of rejection when approaching men, working through feelings of shyness and hesitation, and finding ways to shake off paralysis in pursuit of our edgiest desires. Aimee shares the juicy details about a recent (majorly transfor...

Mar 02, 202232 minSeason 2Ep. 29

028: Sex Talks - How to Have Healthy Conversations with Your Children with Dr. Holly Richmond

Is our school system currently doing a good job of educating our children around sex? Is there a right or wrong time to discuss sex with our kids? It can definitely be an awkward topic that seems easier to avoid but we’re here to tell you that these conversations are beyond essential to your child’s sexual development. Today we are exploring what it really means to be sex positive parents with Dr Holly Richmond, a somatic-psychotherapist, marriage and family therapist, author and national and in...

Feb 23, 20221 hr 1 minSeason 2Ep. 28

027: Unwavering Commitment Inside a Kinky Marriage with Alexa & Jordan Bowditch

Do you hold shame around your kinky desires? Do you fear you and your partner are incompatible lovers? Do you crave more adventure in the bedroom? This week we’re joined by Jordan Bowditch, a professional edutainer and men’s coach dedicated to inspire higher truths, and Alxa Bowditch, a sex and relationship coach and the founder of That Sex Group. We discuss Alexa’s suffocating Catholic upbringing and Jordan’s self-described “self-development junkie” phase, before starting their committed relati...

Feb 16, 20221 hr 7 minSeason 2Ep. 27

026: All the Dirty Details Behind the Intimacy Styles!

We spent the better part of the last year creating a unique framework to help you master your biggest blocks when it comes to sex, love and relationships. The more you understand your limiting beliefs and sabotaging behaviors when it comes to intimacy, the easier it is to attract the truly nourishing and healthy connections you crave. In this episode, we take you behind-the-scenes to share about The Intimacy Styles: how we came up with them, why they matter, and why we can’t stop talking about t...

Feb 09, 202234 minSeason 2Ep. 26

025: Thriving in Marriage After Hitting Rock Bottom with Joy Harrington

Thriving in Marriage After Hitting Rock Bottom with Joy Harrington Marriage is not always sunshine and rainbows. In this episode, we dive into a taboo topic we've never covered on the podcast before: porn addiction. Joy Harrington — coach, multi-entrepreneur, wife and mom of two (with a third on the way!) opens up about her rock bottom moment, and how the lowest low in her marriage motivated her to face her fears and step into a whole new version of herself. She shares how she discovered her fem...

Feb 02, 202253 minSeason 2Ep. 25

024: Living Unreasonably with Jill Herman

Making the decision to follow your intuition and live unreasonably isn’t a simple or easy choice. But if you’re ready (or you want to be!) to live beyond your reasons and step into more healing, self-compassion, and connection in your life - then this one’s for you! In today’s episode, we invite our dear friend, Jill Herman, to share how she stepped into her true purpose and how she inspires others with her outspoken & vulnerable voice. We dive deep into topics like politics & abortion (...

Jan 26, 20221 hr 24 minSeason 2Ep. 24

023: Honoring Our Cycles with Peyton Callahan

Are you in love with your cycle? Do you honor it? Are you connected to your body’s wisdom? Embracing and falling in love with our cycles is central to embracing our feminine. In today’s episode, we have an incredibly special conversation with beautiful soul and doula, Peyton Callahan. We discuss honoring our cycles and sex education (not only for girls, but for our boys & men too!), the importance of reciprocity & community, and how we can embrace our sensuality and connect to all of the...

Jan 19, 20221 hr 27 minSeason 2Ep. 23

022: Three Stories of Desire & Surrender with Cailin McDuff

Let’s get real, surrendering to desire can be painful. It can come with suffering. But the purpose of following the path is that we become the women that we’re meant to be in pursuit of our greatest desires! In today’s episode, we dive deep with our dear friend and coach, Cailin McDuff, to share three stories of desire and surrender - and a peek behind the curtain at what it really looks like to live in the space between wanting and having, and to relate to your desires in a more aligned way. We...

Jan 12, 20221 hr 2 minSeason 2Ep. 22

021: The Kinky Life with Kayce Neill

Curious about kink? Maybe you’re intimidated by it and feel frozen in that place? It’s true that taboo desires can be difficult to follow, but trust us - the more you get curious about that little whisper, the more healing and expansion you can find! In today’s episode, we invite coach & intimacy expert, Kayce Neill, to talk to us all about kink! We discuss the beauty in combining kink & sensuality, the common misconceptions (and what the truth really is!), and the deepened sexual experi...

Jan 05, 20221 hr 11 minSeason 2Ep. 21

020: We Got Cancelled with Kelley Bode

Afraid of getting canceled? We were too! But the truth is - nobody can actually cancel you. And telling the real truth might be the adventure of your life! In today’s episode, Kelley and I share our stories of “getting canceled” this year and the powerful self-discoveries along the way. We discuss the truths that got us canceled, the impact and ripple effects on our lives & businesses, and why we are truly grateful for this expansive experience. Ready to lean into more truth in your life? Le...

Dec 22, 202159 minSeason 2Ep. 20

019: Coming Home to the Feminine with Kayla Yoder

Often in sex and relationships, we can restrict our own pleasure by stifling our erotic expression. But what would happen if you embraced your sexuality and the fluidity of how you express it? In today’s episode, pleasure instigator & transformational leader, Kayla Yoder, shares her erotic healing journey and all the juiciness of her kinky life. We discuss sexual edges & exploration, leaning into the feminine, and the vulnerability it requires to be truly seen in your sex and relationshi...

Dec 15, 20211 hr 3 minSeason 2Ep. 19

018: Reverence for the Masculine with Claudia Lucida

What is beyond desire? Can we hold both the full honoring of the feminine and respect for the masculine? We are answering these questions and more in today’s episode! This week we invite wife and mentor, Claudia Lucida, to share her wisdom and passion for helping alpha women cultivate a passionate and polarized partnership that lasts a lifetime. Ready to fall more in love with the masculine, the sanctity of marriage, or your own desire for a relationship? Let’s dive in! We dive into: Claudia’s u...

Dec 08, 20211 hr 6 minSeason 2Ep. 18

017: We Can Have it All with Carin Rockind

This is the moment you were born for, sisters! Time for you to tap into your deepest desires, remove the barriers in your way, and birth your next chapter. In today’s episode, we invite our dear friend and Purpose Girl, Carin Rockind, to share her beautiful journey as a bad bitch CEO, new mama, and empowerment goddess. We discuss how she turned her pain into purpose and how you can have it all (with help, of course!) and experience the full range of your womanhood - the crying, screaming, celebr...

Dec 01, 20211 hr 5 minSeason 2Ep. 17

016: The Journey to a Million Dollars

Desire on Fire is celebrating hitting a million dollars in revenue for 2021! Look at how much is possible when women tune into their desire and work to heal their wounds and trauma around money, sex & pleasure! In today’s episode, we are sharing the lessons, portals & resistance that came up and how we are holding the frequency and abundance of reaching this 7-figure milestone. Tune in for the celebration, growth & gratitude - we are so thankful that you’re here! We dive into: The jo...

Nov 17, 202146 minSeason 2Ep. 16

015: A Deep Dive with Rinsha Ballani Part 2: Blowing Shit Up + Breaking Through

This week we are diving into part 2 of the juicy conversation with Rinsha Ballani all about learning to trust yourself and your desires! We go deep into working through the resistance to her transformation, building the fortitude to trust herself and listen to her inner voice, and how she ultimately blew up her life to follow her truest desires. We dive into: Why after expansion there is typically a period of contraction (and what this can look like) What happened when Rinsha took the first step...

Nov 10, 202150 minSeason 2Ep. 15

014: A Deep Dive with Rinsha Ballani Part 1: Resistance, Resilience & Rock Bottom

Do you crave a new path or transformation in your life, but feel a lot of resistance to it? If so, you have something in common with today’s guest! This week we dive into part 1 of a powerful conversation with our beautiful friend and project manager, Rinsha Ballani. We get into her initiation to feminine embodied work, acknowledging that transformation doesn’t come all at once, and realizing that the bigger the desire - the bigger the resistance! We dive into: The catalyst that led her on the p...

Nov 03, 202136 minSeason 2Ep. 14

013: Wealth, Abundance & Jealousy with Jenna Black

We are getting into a taboo topic today (surprise, surprise!) and it’s one that has a lot of fear and charge around it - money! In today’s episode, Jenna Black, energetic wealth & embodiment mentor, dives deep with us into wealth consciousness, empowering women to live abundantly, and the connection between wealth, abundance, jealousy, AND our sensuality. Let’s dive in for a deeper conversation around money - with the Abundance Queen! We dive into: A deeper conversation around money, abundan...

Oct 27, 20211 hr 4 minSeason 2Ep. 13

012: Masculinity & Vulnerability with Ben Goresky

It’s no secret that masculinity gets a lot of criticism in our culture. So, this week we are getting into it and discussing one of our favorite things - men! In today’s episode, we invite coach, counselor, and founder of Evolving Man, Ben Goresky, to share his wisdom on masculinity, vulnerability, and his mission in the world. We dive deep into what it really means to look inward for answers, finding your mission and not getting distracted from it (like his mission to make men’s work as common a...

Oct 20, 20211 hrSeason 2Ep. 12

011: Set Your Path on Fire with Cailin McDuff

Do you crave more connection, more business success, or a more fulfilling sex life? You can create ANYTHING you want if you are in touch with your desire. In today’s episode, incredible coach and teacher, Cailin McDuff, shares all about her powerful journey to connecting to her desire and living a life on fire. We get deep into what it takes to fully claim who you are, and why connecting to yourself in times of transition (especially when you hit rock bottom!) can reveal your truest and most aut...

Oct 13, 202158 minSeason 2Ep. 11

010: A Wedding From Desire with Stacy Trujeque & Victoria Lützhøft

Imagine planning your wedding by taking the most direct path to your desires. What would that look like for you? What would it feel like? When you’re really on the path and following your desire - planning a wedding doesn’t have to feel stressful or tight. In today’s episode, I invite author & women’s empowerment coach, Stacy Trujeque, and women’s leadership & business mentor, Victoria C. Lützhøft, to talk all things weddings and marriage! We discuss each of our wedding journeys (includi...

Oct 06, 20211 hr 1 minSeason 2Ep. 10
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