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Desire on Fire

Aimee Batuski & Ellie Montgomeriewww.desireonfire.com
Welcome to the Desire on Fire podcast! (Formerly With Pleasure) We're Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie, intimacy experts and two best friends on a mission to help YOU put pleasure first and own your feminine power. If you are ready to become a powerful agent of change, who allows your desires to lead the way as you step into a whole new world of freedom, manifestation, and ease, then you're in the right place! On this podcast we interview friends, lovers, experts, and thought leaders to remind you that no matter how big, wild, or taboo your desires are... you CAN have it all.
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Episodes

009: An Invitation to Your Desire-Led Life...Want In?

You’re invited...to unlock your feminine magic, to unleash your sensuality, creativity & unique gifts on the world, and to begin on your desire-led path! In today’s episode, we let you behind the scenes of our Desire on Fire Experience as we share the process of planning the event, our passion for community and connection, and an invitation for YOU to start a desire-led life. We dive into: Our Desire on Fire Experience LIVE in LA - the fuck ton of work it took, the divine timing of it all &a...

Sep 29, 202128 minSeason 2Ep. 9

008: The Radical Responsibility of Following Desire with Courtney Cedeño

Following unconventional desires can be met with a lot of resistance - from family, friends, and especially ourselves! But our guest this week, Courtney Cedeño - holistic health coach, mom & wife, and mentor for women - is sharing her story of overcoming the barriers around stepping into her truest desires. We discuss her dramatic transformation (in only one year!), the divine experience of meeting her husband, and the radical responsibility of following desire - and what it looks like when ...

Sep 22, 202153 minSeason 2Ep. 8

007: The Desire on Fire Experience with Tasia, Abbie & Appiffanny

Are you feeling a pull? To step into more pleasure, to stop shaming and dismissing the parts of you that want more connection and purpose? That desire is there for a reason, and today we are inviting you to listen to the call! This week, we welcome three of our badass sisters, Tasia, Abbie, and Appiffanny, on the show to discuss their experience with Desire on Fire. They share vulnerably about the paths that led them here, finding the courage to live a different way, and the transformation that ...

Sep 15, 20211 hr 24 minSeason 2Ep. 7

006: Healthy Relationship Dynamics with Matt Cama & Kelley Bode

Ever wondered what a relationship really looks like when two people are committed to personal growth and responsibility? Well, tune in today because we are giving you an in-depth peek inside one! We are so honored to have our dear friend Kelley Bode and her partner, Matt Cama, on the show today to talk to us all about relationships! Join us as we discuss relationship dynamics, dealing with unhealthy patterns, and how their individual healing journeys led them to finding each other - and the tool...

Sep 08, 20211 hr 37 minSeason 2Ep. 6

005: Sobriety and Spirituality: A Deep Healing Journey with Julia Shepley

If there is a calling on your heart - if you are feeling disconnected or if you are feeling pulled towards something more - there is a way to reinvent your life! In today’s episode, I cuddle up with my beautiful sister and coach for women, Julia Shepley, to talk all about the power of recovery, healing unhealthy patterns, and how to trust in something bigger so you can find the peace of living a different, softer, and more expressed life. We dive into: What it’s like to be home for the first tim...

Sep 01, 202158 minSeason 2Ep. 5

004: Shame Slayer with Shoshanna Raven

You can have it all! More orgasms, sex, money, pleasure… sometimes we just need an expander to show us what’s possible. In today’s episode, I have a powerful conversation with shame slayer Shoshanna Raven - business and leadership mentor for heart-centered entrepreneurs - about what it means to show up authentically in your business (and life!), why a genital herpes diagnosis is NOT a death sentence, and how to reframe the hard things in your life as opportunities to alchemize your shame and pai...

Aug 25, 20211 hr 8 minSeason 2Ep. 4

003: Have the Best Sex of Your Life with Rinsha Ballani

Want to have the best sex of your life? And have your partner express the same? In today’s episode, we invite our sister Rinsha Ballani, intimacy coach and project manager for Desire on Fire, to share her awakening journey - from living outside her desires to becoming the best sex her partners have ever had! Join us as we discuss asking for adjustments, creating safety in your sexual experiences, and the power of claiming your desires. We dive into: Rinsha’s upbringing, her relationship to her p...

Aug 18, 20211 hr 21 minSeason 2Ep. 3

002: Ellie’s New Life Update

What do you want your life to look like? Truth is - you’re the one who gets to show up and create it. You have sovereignty over YOU. In today’s episode, we discuss some new developments in Ellie’s life (and what has been activated in the process!) and how to fully trust your desires and take responsibility for your own path to live a life that turns you on. We dive into: What helped move Ellie from feeling stagnant to stimulated (and how you can do this too) Generational and societal conditionin...

Aug 11, 202152 minSeason 2Ep. 2

001: Introducing The Desire on Fire Podcast!

It’s time to set your desires on fire! In today’s episode, we introduce The Desire on Fire Podcast - hosted by Aimee & Ellie! We are so excited to share why we said yes to this collaborative adventure and the juicy things to come. Join us as we get vulnerable about our partnership and the deep practices that keep us in alignment with our truest desires. We dive into: Nurturing our equal partnership and how it led to a full-body YES to combining our podcasts How Ellie honored her jealousy of ...

Aug 04, 202141 minSeason 2Ep. 1

Ep. 59: The Group Ecosystem: An Invitation to Say the Deeper Thing

We are all part of a bigger ecosystem, whether it’s our family or a friend group - we have an opportunity to relate to the people in our lives consciously and vulnerably. In today’s episode, I share why I feel so passionately about putting my attention on the ecosystem in which I live, how I use my own unique experiences and perspectives to help clean up any of the wounds that can come up (and how you can too!), and why saying the deeper thing and hearing other’s in their truth can create such d...

Jul 28, 202131 minEp. 59

Ep. 57: Confronting Desire with Emily DeBouver

Were there dysfunctional dynamics in your upbringing? Maybe you experimented in nightclub life, drinking and drugs, or felt stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics? If so - then tune in for this week’s episode! Emily DeBouver comes on the show to share her powerful story of transformation. We discuss her journey from her gogo dancing club days to the magical healing she found when she said fuck yes to following her desires. We get deep into: Emily’s upbringing dealing with abuse and reconnectin...

Jul 07, 20211 hr 3 minEp. 57

Ep. 56: How to Show Up Powerfully in Your Relationships with Ana and Ken

You are in for a treat this week as I invite another powerful couple on the show! In today’s episode, I speak to women’s rightness expert, Ana Del Castillo, and connection and intimacy coach for couples, Ken Blackman. They share their wisdom on how to show up powerfully in your relationships, how women’s empowerment intersects with intimate coupledom, and the transformative experience of sharing your vulnerable truths. We get deep into: Ana and Ken’s relationship journey and a peek into their se...

Jun 30, 20211 hr 12 minEp. 56

Ep. 55: The Gateway to Healing with Vicky Aldana

Imagine if you had all the answers to life’s big questions - inside of you. In today’s episode, I invite my dear friend Vicky Aldana, coach and guide, to talk all about the special journey that we’ve shared together and her path to healing. We discuss our first meeting and the profound practice of orgasmic meditation, how our friendship changed forms over the years, and the many gateways and portals that she went through on her spiritual and sexual awakening journey. We get deep into: How orgasm...

Jun 23, 20211 hr 3 minEp. 55

Ep. 54: Our Path to Pleasure with Carli Jo and Jose Cabrera

Having challenges in the bedroom? If you and your partner are struggling with sex - you are not alone! In today’s episode, we are diving in with sensuality coach Carli Jo and her husband Jose Cabrera, to talk all about their sexual partnership. They get vulnerable about the challenges they have faced in the bedroom, honoring each other’s process for healing, and finding their true path to pleasure - together. We get deep into: Carli Jo and Jose’s story - from the first kiss to the challenges and...

Jun 16, 20211 hr 20 minEp. 54

Ep 53: Trusting the Journey with Ilana Seewald

When you think about dropping into healing work, transforming your life, embracing your feminine - is there some resistance there? In today’s episode, I invite my beautiful friend of 15 years, Ilana Seewald, to share her journey from resistance to finding true healing and powerful growth. We get into some juicy stories from our younger years, the transformation that can come from saying the deeper thing, and how to trust your own unique journey so you can have a life filled with more pleasurable...

Jun 09, 20211 hr 14 minEp. 53

Ep. 52: The Magic of Sisterhood with Kendall Wallace

I have had many adventures and magical moments with today’s guest, Kendall Wallace, and in this week’s episode, we share some juicy, heartwarming (and hilarious!) stories from our years of friendship. We discuss Kendall’s passion for adventure and the founding of her travel adventure company, how our relationship to pleasure has evolved our lives and sex, and the impact that sisterhood can have on your transformational journey - wherever you find yourself on the path! We get deep into: Kendall’s...

May 26, 20211 hr 1 minEp. 52

Ep. 51: Being Unabashedly and Unapologetically You with Monica Jayne

Ready for the reckoning? In today’s episode, I invite Monica Jayne - certified erotic blueprint™, accelerated evolution, and queer competency coach - to talk about her work helping others reckon with everything they are taught so they can live in their authenticity. We dive into her upbringing as a Catholic in a Mormon area, the conditioning she had to release to live as her authentic self, and the journey to getting unstuck from the past and living your dream life - unapologetically! We get dee...

May 19, 202158 minEp. 51

Ep 50: Conscious Sex: A Deep Dive with My Former Lover Kevin Hart

Not sure where to start with a conscious sex conversation? Naming your desires, communicating boundaries, asking a lover to get tested - you are not alone if you feel some resistance or fear around talking about these things with a partner. In today’s episode, I invite Kevin Hart - my dear friend, former lover, and sex and intimacy coach - to talk about conscious sexuality. We discuss the role it played in our sexual relationship, why the RBDSM conversation is so powerful (and advice for how to ...

May 12, 20211 hr 2 minEp. 50

Ep. 49: My Top 3 Practices to Help Enhance Your Sex Life with a Partner

Do you feel empowered in the bedroom? Are you getting everything you desire with your partner or in sexual play with a new person? Altering that connection in the bedroom and understanding each other’s bodies can be confronting, but there are tools to help! In today’s episode, I dive into my TOP THREE practices to enhance the pleasure potential in the bedroom and get you the sex you truly desire. I get deep into: An empowering exercise to help discover what you and your partner like (this is esp...

Apr 28, 202126 minEp. 49

Ep. 48: Partnering in Growth with Ellie Shepley-Montgomerie

What does it look like to run a business and grow in sisterhood with your best friend - all while prioritizing pleasure? Well, in today’s episode, my business partner Ellie and I give you a peek behind the scenes of our partnership and intimacy work. We share our experiences as we’ve grown and transformed our business and the inner guidance that informs our programs and teachings. Join us as we get vulnerable about our partnership and why we feel so deeply called to do this work. We get deep int...

Apr 23, 20211 hr 11 minEp. 48

Ep. 47: The Relationship Episode: A Peek Inside My New Lovership

What does living a desire-led life really look like in practice? In today’s episode, I get real and vulnerable about relationships - how I move through them consciously, ALL the juicy details of my recent Bali lovership (I share some super intimate stories), and what it really looks like to stay grounded while exploring intimacy and desire. I get deep into: The conditioning we have around monogamy and releasing the restrictions we put on ourselves Asking my lover to get tested and why we waited ...

Apr 14, 202133 minEp. 47

Ep. 46: Marry Yourself First: Discovering Self-Love with Fabi Dorea

You can be single - and happy. You can be married - and happy. But if you are still wondering why you haven’t found the right person or why neither of these identities has led to true happiness for you - then tune in for this week’s episode! On today’s show, I talk to corporate lawyer turned self-love expert, Fabi Dorea, about her journey to healing, leaving a relationship that wasn’t serving her, and discovering self-love and true connection by committing to loving herself first. We get deep in...

Apr 07, 20211 hr 3 minEp. 46

Ep. 45: Expand Your Pleasure Through Connection with Stephanie Dickinson

What if you could have the best orgasm of your life from one simple touch? What if I told you this is not only possible for you, but that you already have everything you need to get there - you just have to tap into it? In today’s episode, I invite my dear friend and connection expert, Stephanie Dickinson, to talk about how she embodies authentic relating and spiritual practices in her life to experience more eroticism and connection and how you can start building conscious and intimate connecti...

Mar 31, 202159 minEp. 45

Ep. 44: Divine Sensual Awakening with Yani Kramer

How would it feel to be multi-orgasmic? To feel connected to every part of your body? Truth is - YOU are orgasmic. You get to be free in your body - you just have to follow the call! In today’s episode, I talk to my Bali roommate and Divine Sensual Awakening Coach, Yani Kramer, about her journey to divine sensual awakening and her work in helping others step into their more connected and orgasmic selves. Join us as we dive into releasing the shame around your genitals and connecting to your life...

Mar 24, 202154 minEp. 44

Ep. 43: Sisterhood Dynamics: How to Go Deeper with the Women in Your Life

Have you ever had trouble relating to the women in your life? Or maybe you’ve always had a lot of female friends, but something tells you those relationships could go deeper? In today’s episode, I talk ALL things sisterhood - communication dynamics, acknowledging and healing sisterhood wounds, and some advanced practices to help you go deeper with the women in your life. We get deep into: Some of the most common issues in sisterhood communication (and ways to fix this in your own relationships!)...

Mar 10, 202141 minEp. 43

Ep. 42: Pregnancy, Birth, and Beyond: The Mind-Body Connection with Ivy Joeva

Your body has the answers, the wisdom is within you. In today’s episode, I invite doula coach and educator Ivy Joeva to share her experiences and wisdom about the journey to parenthood and her passion as a guide for fertility, vitality, and empowered births. We dive into topics of how to baby-proof your relationship, dealing with changes in libido during and after pregnancy (for both the women and their partners!), and how conception, pregnancy, and birth can be a gateway to deeper healing. We g...

Mar 03, 20211 hr 8 minEp. 42

Ep. 41: Practice Makes Progress with Kelley Bode

We have a special episode for you this week! Tune in for a double dose of pleasure as I am joined by “The Best You’ve Ever Had” podcast host, Kelley Bode - my Bali roommate, best friend, and fellow intimacy coach. We share all the juicy details of how we integrate our pleasure practices into our daily lives and how you can live a more turned-on and desire-filled life by adopting daily practices of tuning into your own body and getting clear on your deepest desires. We’re diving into: Why we have...

Feb 24, 202156 minEp. 41

Ep. 40: Empowering the Masculine with Tanja and Robert

We can hold a lot of trauma and conditioning around the concept of masculinity. But what would be possible if we released those limiting beliefs and instead began to do the work of healing our relationship to the masculine? In today’s episode, I talk with coach and expert in radical courage, Tanja Diamond, and co-founder of Rising Kings Movement, Robert Schwenkler. We discuss their shared passion for expanding and deepening the male sexual capacity, the harmful messaging around masculinity in to...

Feb 17, 20211 hr 5 minEp. 40

Ep. 39: Self-Love is the Key with Jerome Braggs

Are you a spiritual seeker? Do you have a desire to find the key to true health and happiness? In today’s show, I talk with the incredible Jerome Braggs, gifted and intuitive channel and self-love teacher, about his journey from being given 48 hours to live to ultimately finding true healing. We dive deep into all things self-love - what it really takes to love ourselves, why it’s the greatest medicine on the planet, and why it is the real secret to health, happiness, and living a delicious life...

Feb 10, 202156 minEp. 39

Ep. 38: Living a Pleasure Positive Life with The Hosts of Clit Talk

On today’s show, I invite the hosts of Clit Talk - Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar - to talk about their pleasure positive work. We dive into all things pleasure - slowing down to drop into our desire, finding time for a self-pleasure practice, and curating a pleasure positive lifestyle by dropping the walls and conditioning we have around our sex, our CLITS (this is not a bad word!), and our own erotic freedom. We get deep into: What CLIT stands for and why reframing the messaging around this word is...

Feb 03, 202158 minEp. 38
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