I have just been so shocked and amazed at how the power of perspective has changed my week. Comparing where you were and where you are is an incredible way to measure gratitude and grit. Comparing yourself to others is never a good idea. But comparing yourself to who you were and what you went through is so powerful! Looking back on creating my first book to now preparing to launch Overcome Your Villains is completely different! Before, I had no idea about how to sell a book and now I am running...
Jul 14, 2021•35 min•Season 1Ep. 130
Who hasn’t dealt with anxiety and depression, especially after this pandemic!? But what do we do about it? Thankfully, I have the incredible communication pathologist and cognitive neuroscientist, Dr. Caroline Leaf, with us to share her 5 step process to managing our MINDS. She is here to shift the narrative about mental health and encourage us to put a stop to the shame-spiral once and for all. Let’s get the tools we need, stop repressing, start self-regulating, and clean up our mental mess! Ab...
Jul 13, 2021•59 min•Season 1Ep. 129
What happens when you simply show up as the best version of yourself? The opportunities come streaming in! But you have to get your mindset right within yourself first. Why are you the best fit for the job? Why do you deserve the raise? Why are you the perfect candidate? When you know the answer yourself, others will believe it! Keep your eye on the solution, build up your confidence, and be yourself! There’s no better way to get what you want. Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To...
Jul 07, 2021•31 min•Season 1Ep. 128
Amy Peterson is THE premier skin care specialist who opened a spa in 2020, a time when giving and receiving treatments was impossible! So how did she turn her business into a success post-pandemic? She invested in people! Amy spends no money on marketing, every customer is won by referrals, and every bit of business is through word of mouth alone. That is what happens when you work with a genuine investment in those you serve! If you want to know more about focusing a business on your primary pu...
Jul 06, 2021•36 min•Season 1Ep. 127
Here’s some hard won truth: it doesn’t matter if you work for a year or a decade, if you’re in a toxic place without people in your corner, you aren’t going anywhere! That’s what I learned after 14 years in corporate America, just HOPING something would change. That’s not how it works. You GET OUT! You find those supporters! And you take one decade of stagnation and trade it for a year of massive growth. And you keep growing. If you need to hear how to get free, rebuild your confidence, and step...
Jun 30, 2021•25 min•Season 1Ep. 126
Have you ever worked and worked and worked and seen no progress!? Have you ever been lost and had no idea what’s holding you back? You may be harboring an Undeserving Belief that is dragging you down! Don’t worry. Today I have Dr. Josh Wagner with me to discuss the WAY OUT! He’ll tell us all about The Deserving Process and how to turn an Undeserving Belief into a Deserving one. Because a strong Deserving Belief is the foundation to success, happiness, and peace of mind. Let’s dive in! About The ...
Jun 29, 2021•31 min•Season 1Ep. 125
Why is asking for what you want so hard sometimes!? We can be so afraid of asking that we are depriving ourselves and others of amazing opportunities. So here is the truth: It is our JOB to ask and let the other person make the decision. Don’t decide for them! And this week I share the 10 basic rules of asking from my book, Confidence Creator. I also cover tips for speaking, the evolution of working for yourself, and how to know when you are in a toxic environment. Rate, Review, and Subscribe to...
Jun 23, 2021•31 min•Season 1Ep. 124
This man has completely REWROTE my concept of gift giving with his philosophy of Radical Generosity. It’s time to stop giving underwhelming gifts that cost us money and actually damage our relationships with clients, customers, and employees. John Ruhlin is the creator of Gift·ology, the strategy of maximizing customer loyalty and turning clients into active referral machines. It’s about getting out of the transaction business and getting into the relationship business. It’s about going all in o...
Jun 22, 2021•53 min•Season 1Ep. 123
This week I was faced with such a hard situation. Complications with Amazon, my self published book distribution, and extra charges of thousands of dollars was truly throwing me for a loop. But this is what I did and what I challenge you to do as well. Stop, do your homework, and find the solutions within the set backs. What can you do to leverage the situation and set yourself up for new opportunities? Now I am well on my way to a new partnership, new relationships, and new doors to walk throug...
Jun 16, 2021•36 min•Season 1Ep. 122
Turns out there IS a formula to greatness! And Ron Friedman, accomplished academic with a Ph.D. in social psychology, best selling author, speaker, and coach, has figured it out. And lucky for us, he wrote Decoding Greatness to share that knowledge! Sit down with Ron and I today as we dive into what top performers do differently, the power of reverse engineering, and busted myths about creativity. If you were ever curious what the secret strategy is that launches people into greatness, press pla...
Jun 15, 2021•41 min•Season 1Ep. 121
What are you waiting for? When opportunities come, jump at them without any hesitation. This week has been so insane. Here’s how you get through: Start MOVING! By taking action, you build momentum and when you build momentum, you gain confidence, and with confidence, you get where you need to go! This week I ask you to get clear on what you want and then go for it! If you need a push, this is IT. Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To inquire about my coaching program opportunity vi...
Jun 09, 2021•25 min•Season 1Ep. 120
Are you tired of working hard for someone else’s dream?! It’s time to STOP. If you are asking yourself if now is the right time to start a business, become an entrepreneur, and chase your passion, the answer is always YES. Today I have Jay Samit, international best-selling author and expert on disruption and innovation, to tell you how. Jay has developed the 12 Truths to creating opportunity, maximizing wealth, and controlling your destiny. And he put his theory to the test by empowering a young...
Jun 08, 2021•46 min•Season 1Ep. 119
Sometimes, it can be so hard to stand up for yourself! Especially when setting a boundary can feel aggressive or argumentative. But it doesn’t have to be that way! This week I take you through a few situations where my boundaries were pushed, where I went wrong, and how I would deal with them now. You can be calm, you can celebrate, and you can joyfully teach others how to treat you every day. Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To inquire about my coaching program opportunity visit...
Jun 02, 2021•20 min•Season 1Ep. 118
Steve Olsher has created the “where to begin” system to find the one thing you were born to do. A 30 plus year entrepreneur with a huge range of successful businesses, Steve was once struck with a powerful realization: what would he be remembered for? And he discovered that to leave a legacy to be proud of, he had to live a life of purpose, conviction, and contribution. But how to start? Join us as Steve shares the simple system he created to find your unique gift and how to share that with the ...
Jun 01, 2021•41 min•Season 1Ep. 117
Have you ever been completely called in to assess the standard you hold yourself to? That’s what happened to me this week and it has totally inspired me to take myself to the NEXT LEVEL! And I encourage you to do the same. This week we discuss how our environments affect us and how to use our surroundings to our advantage. And we also cover one of my most asked questions: how did I book Gary Vee? Come along for this quick dose of knowledge and keep building your confidence! Rate, Review, and Sub...
May 26, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 116
What is the secret to a good idea? How do you know what to pursue and what not to? Wouldn’t you like to live in an abundance of good ideas? Well, my guest this week, James Altucher, is an idea generator and he can teach you how to be one too! James is an entrepreneur, angel investor, and best-selling author. He’s here to let you know it’s time to stop listening to the “cant's” and start chasing your own success! Skip the line, follow your creativity, and stop asking for permission! It’s time to ...
May 25, 2021•54 min•Season 1Ep. 115
As I come up on my 4 year anniversary of being fired, I think about all the advice I’d share with my younger self that I now know. Where would I be if I left my toxic job 10 years ago instead of holding on to the comfort and betting on others rather than myself? So here’s the advice: take a moment to gauge how the people around you are treating you and ask yourself these questions: do they appreciate my time, thoughts, and opinions? If not, get out of there as fast as you can! It’s time to shine...
May 19, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 114
Have you ever wondered what it was like to be in a Harvard class? Now you don’t have to! Get a behind the scenes look into my classroom and join in on this ultra special lecture. Today we bring in world-renowned negotiation expert, Chris Voss, to speak to us about the true power of the “no oriented question”, what questions to ask, and the lies we can put to bed about sealing the deal. That’s right! One of my all time favorite guests, former FBI hostage negotiator, and absolute powerhouse of sal...
May 18, 2021•58 min•Season 1Ep. 113
If the pandemic has taught us anything, it is that change is a CONSTANT. And how do we deal with it!? Better yet, how do we take change, make the pivot, and use it to our advantage? What can it teach us? That’s what I’m here today to talk about! And then I answer your questions on how I got my own business started, diversified my revenue streams, and chased one opportunity after another. Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To inquire about my coaching program opportunity visit https...
May 12, 2021•24 min•Season 1Ep. 112
Everyone is waiting for that special moment, that perfect opportunity, to chase their dream. What if that moment doesn’t come! Make that moment for yourself and just start now. That’s how Ellen Bennett built her own success. Now she owns multi-million-dollar kitchen gear and apron manufacturing business, Hedley & Bennett! She showed up, embraced humble enthusiasm, and built up her confidence through baby steps. And you can do it TOO! Listen in to find out how to navigate the winding path, put so...
May 11, 2021•38 min•Season 1Ep. 111
The world is opening up and the time for business is now! But that means big, exciting, and potential scary opportunities will be coming your way. And you have to know what to do when they come. Take these tips from me on how to break down a task, lower expectations on yourself, visualize, prep, and perform! You will be amazed at your results. No more waiting in the wings. Let’s tackle these opportunities together! Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To inquire about my coaching pro...
May 05, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 110
What is the key to growth? How do you double down on what you’re really good at and how do you fill the gaps for the rest? Today, I have a guest on with me who has real actionable advice on how to roll up your sleeves and do THE WORK. Tiffany Bova is THE master of sales, total innovator, and mind blowing speaker. She is here to give YOU the secrets to finding your own superpower while illuminating the realities of going back to work post-COVID and the best practices for speakers. Do not miss thi...
May 04, 2021•43 min•Season 1Ep. 109
So many of you wonder what I do on Clubhouse every week! Now is your chance to listen in and hear a Confidence and Cocktails Q&A session where I answer your questions in real time. Plus this time, I have the negotiation expert, Alex Carter, marketing media star, Hala Taha, and other special guests, along with me to give real actionable advice. Together we uplift, support, and empower everyone in the room and we invite you to join in. Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To inquire ab...
Apr 28, 2021•1 hr 28 min•Season 1Ep. 108
Your light is your GIFT! It is up to you to let it shine. And when it does, success will find you! But if you are ever feeling dimmed, it is time to fight back! No one knows this better than my guest this week, the incomparable Jerrod Blandino! He went from selling Estée Lauder’s makeup to Estée Lauder buying HIS for $1.45 billion! Now Too Faced Cosmetics is the powerhouse brand you know today. But it wasn’t easy. Jerrod learned countless lessons along the way and now he is here to share them. L...
Apr 27, 2021•41 min•Season 1Ep. 107
Have you ever tackled a problem with complete and utter conviction? Things change when you are committed to your goals. You do more and the people around you want to help! There is so much power in relentless determination and when you embrace your challenges, you will surmount them. Today we talk about what conviction can really do and how to advocate for yourself. Let’s answer your questions and get this done! Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast here! To inquire about my coaching progra...
Apr 21, 2021•26 min•Season 1Ep. 106
Corporate marketing just doesn’t work anymore! The average person sees 10,000 ads a day! How in the world can your ad get noticed? Thankfully, I have political marketer and data master, Phillip Stutts, back on the podcast to BREAK IT DOWN. From the campaigns used to get presidents elected and businesses booming, Phillip has devised the Undefeatable Marketing System. And it really works every time. And the best part? This secret formula is only 5 steps! What are you waiting for? Click play! About...
Apr 20, 2021•44 min•Season 1Ep. 105
This mistake is so common! And everyone from my Harvard students to CEOs mess this up. Today I talk to YOU about communication and how to avoid making decisions for other people before they even get the chance. Don’t pre-reject yourself on the behalf of others and definitely don’t assume you know why people do what they do. It’s about honesty, putting yourself in the shoes of others, and getting your message across. It’s time to answer your questions and communicate better! Rate, Review, and Sub...
Apr 14, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 104
What do you do when you get stuck!? What do you need to make the most of every day and move FORWARD? How do you build real, unshakeable confidence? These are the questions we all ask ourselves! Today, David Nurse, the NBA Mindset Strategist, is here with the answers. This is the invaluable coaching that NBA basketball stars use to rise to the top and now it is available to YOU. Stop stalling, start laughing, and go! About the Guest: David Nurse is an NBA life and optimization coach, future bests...
Apr 13, 2021•40 min•Season 1Ep. 103
Welcome to the new format! You spoke and I heard you. Now that we have moved to a 2 episode mode, we can really reflect and focus in. We are entering the new normal and options are finally opening up. I am so optimistic for the future and for YOU! Your questions today are on how to explain a resume gap and how to pivot in your 40s. Let’s dive in. Send Heather feedback on her podcast format here! To inquire about my coaching program opportunity visit https://mentorship.heathermonahan.com/ Review ...
Apr 07, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 102
The mental strength goddess, Amy Morin, is back on the podcast. And not a moment too soon! We know the 13 things mentally strong people, women, and parents don’t do. But what about KIDS? Amy Morin is here to share the knowledge that turned her viral article into a franchise! It’s time to give the mental strength toolkit to our children. This pandemic has affected everyone and kids need these tools to address all the depression, fears, and anxieties that come with that. It’s time to act now! What...
Apr 06, 2021•44 min•Season 1Ep. 101