What are 3 of the most common passion patterns? Today we discuss the 3 most common wounded passion patterns that sabotage your love life and keep you stuck in a single cycle. Breaking patterns can be hard but with clarity, intention, and inner work you can reprogram the way you've been attracting partners and now have an amazing love life with a partner who sees your value and desires commitment. Download the FREE Playbook at www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook or join the FREE women only Face...
Mar 09, 2020•31 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Been curious about Captivating Courtship coaching programs or Wounds to Worth coaching? This week we discuss 10 ways to identify if you have a wounded Passion Pattern. Grab a pen and paper and see how many times you say YES. Want to join the FREE training, How Successful Spiritual Women Break Their Single Cycle? Join the Facebook group, Captivating Courtship Code, to gain access to the FREE training. Download your Courtship Code Playbook at www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook or apply to work ...
Mar 02, 2020•30 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Back for another episode on this episode Zara J. Shares 5 tips she's learned by age 34, tips include how to appreciate and gain perspective on blessings, if not you then who, the number one thing she likes to remember about love, and more. Continue the discussion or post your relationship questions in the private, women only Facebook group, Captivating Courtship Code, and download your FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook at www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook. Master attracting better qua...
Feb 24, 2020•38 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Do you have children or open to marrying someone with children? This episode touches on a few tips you may want to consider when blending families or courting someone while being a parent. Visit captivatingcourtship.com for FREE resources
Feb 18, 2020•23 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Part 2 to the Habeeb Akande interview about pleasure Givers and Takers. Follow @@habeeb_akande on Instagram and follow Zara @_zaraj_ subscribe to Courtship Code Podcast and visit www.captivatingcourtship.com
Feb 10, 2020•31 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Author and Speaker of the books, A Taste of Honey and Kunyaza, Habeeb Akande, joins us for an amazing discussion on pleasure, sex, and insecurities both men and women face in the bedroom. Follow Habeeb on Instagram at @Habeeb_Akande to purchase his books or learn more about his work. You can follow Zara J. @_zaraj_ to connect. Don't forget to subscribe to Courtship Code and leave a Review!
Feb 03, 2020•52 min•Season 3Ep. 5
The tragic death of Kobe Bryant has been a shock to the world. In his memory, we take time today to remember to value and utilize our time which is not promised.
Jan 28, 2020•8 min•Season 3Ep. 4
This week we're ending our Courtship series with Courtship Beyond Your 40s. Relationships and marriage can be a challenge for any group but when you're over 40 the intention and plan shifts and is focused even more on the long game. Ready to start coaching? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com . Follow Zara @_zaraj_ on Instagram Don't forget to leave a review and subscribe on your favorite podcast channel
Jan 20, 2020•38 min•Season 3Ep. 3
In the Episode if the courtship code we continue the courtship bracket series and dive into courtship in your 30s. The 30s can be one of the most stressful yet most important brackets when it comes to finding the love, marriage, or partnership your desire. It takes a deeper level of patience and understanding to navigate this decade. Checkout the insight and tips from matchmaking and relationship coaching specifically for singles in their 30s. To learn more visit www.captivatingcourtship.com and...
Jan 13, 2020•32 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Welcome to Season 3 and Happy New Year! In this week's episode we discuss Courtship in your twenties, mistakes many young Singles make when trying to get married, and tips you can use towards marriage and courtship before thirty. The keyword for this age bracket is proactive. Learning to be proactive about your love life is essential to make the most of your foundational years in your twenties. Ready to get coaching? Visit go.captivatingcourtship.com to learn more or book a discovery call at cap...
Jan 07, 2020•40 min•Season 3Ep. 1
On this week's podcast we discuss 5 lessons Zara has learned from her late father about marriage, relationships, and communication that has impacted her and set an example for real life achievable relationship goals. Follow @_zaraj_ or visit www.captivatingcourtship.com to book a call or watch a FREE video about the Captivating Courtship program
Dec 30, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 28
On this episode we discuss what ego and mindset shifts you need to make in the new year in order to change your love life. Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com to book a discovery call or for FREE downloads to help you attract quality matches. .
Dec 02, 2019•21 min•Season 2Ep. 27
You are what you attract. Don't like how that makes you feel? Listen up, on this week's episode we discuss how your own emotional Unavailability is attracting emotionally unavailable partners. You'll learn 3 questions you can journal and ask yourself to gain a deeper clarity on your own relationship sabotage and then you'll receive 2 tips to turn your emotional availability around in relationships, courtship, dating or marriage. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com ...
Nov 25, 2019•28 min•Season 2Ep. 26
I'm a huge fan of Real Housewives of Atlanta and couldn't hold back from discussing season 12 and Kenya Moore's narcissistic marriage. If you've checked out episode S2E20 Why Smart Successful Women Attract Toxic Men then this gives real life application to everything mentioned. From Kenya's unhealed emotional wounds to her deep need for validation, she is the perfect attraction for a narcissist. Want to learn more about how the Captivating Courtship Code can help you heal emotional wounds and le...
Nov 18, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Hey! On this week's episode of the Courtship Code we discuss fun facts about the psychology of Cuffing Season and why you're so drawn to coupling and relationships during this time of the year. It's more than just a feeling! Your desire to find a great partner and avoid loneliness is a natural combination of evolution and psychology. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit captivatingcourtship.com to book a call and learn more how you can benefit from coaching this Cuffing season.
Nov 05, 2019•19 min•Season 2Ep. 24
This quick episode provides 3 Questions to ask yourself in order to get clear on your own trust issues and what you need to do to turn it around. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit captivatingcourtship.com to book a 20 minute discovery call. We will discuss your current dating/relationship struggle, a few tips to turn it around, and how the proven 6 week program can work for you. Follow Zara @_zaraj_ on Instagram.
Oct 28, 2019•16 min•Season 2Ep. 23
Ready to Captivate Courtship? Sometimes it's just a small gap between the mindset and actions you have and where you need to be that's keeping you stuck, frustrated, and wasting years not meeting quality partners. If you want to learn how coaching can help fast track your love life listen to this episode for all the details. Then, visit the website or send an email and book a 20 minute discovery call. We will discuss where you currently are and what steps you need to take to move forward. Want a...
Oct 21, 2019•39 min•Season 2Ep. 22
On this week's episode of the Courtship Podcast Divorce Coach Tonya Carter discusses with the us the importance and impact of divorcing your story, finding your purpose, and using your setback as a catalyst for get back. Follow Tonya on Instagram @mstonyaspeaks for more information and content about how you can divorce your story and turn heartbreak into a breakthrough. BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL www.captivatingcourtship.com or follow Zara @_zaraj_
Oct 15, 2019•58 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Why do smart, successful women attract toxic men? Why do good girls love bad guys? Despite what you may think it's not always as simple to break up with your childhood as you may desire. In actuality, toxic partners prefer high quality partners, and not the weakest link. Today, we discuss 5 reasons you may be attracting toxic relationships despite your career success. Follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_ Book your FREE discovery call at www.captivatingcourtship.com/woundstoworth or send an email to...
Oct 07, 2019•26 min•Season 2Ep. 20
New season means a new opportunity to get the stress and sweat of the summer off of you can turn a new leaf with your relationship habits. Just like any other good or bad habit we’ve developed overtime, we also have relationship habits. So this week’s episode is about creating new, and healthy relationship habits that you can commit to before the year is out, even if you’re not currently seeing anyone. Before we get into the 5 habits I’ll be sharing today let’s talk about how habits are formed. ...
Sep 30, 2019•27 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Could you use an extra $5k a year?Financial Coach, Tasha Kinnard, brings us the mindset and approach to start making money moves and teaches how it starts with mindset. Tasha exposes how unmarried women have the upper hand to start getting ahold of their finances and leverage their spending money to increase a minimum of $5k a year. We had a ton of fun talking money, relationships, and how your childhood impacts it all! Follow Tasha @yourfinancesis on Instagram and follow Zara @_zaraj_ visit cap...
Sep 23, 2019•50 min•Season 2Ep. 18
On this week's episode of the Courtship Code podcast we share with pastor, speaker, singer, and brand strategist Rachel Yvonne. Rachel is amazing at being fully authentic and shares some lessons with the importance of owning your story and embracing shame and guilt. Learning to embrace your shame and guilt in order to feel more authentic is extremely important in all areas of life, especially with relationships. Working towards becoming more authentic allows you to attract more compatible partne...
Sep 11, 2019•43 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Hey everyone, I was led to share a very personal forgiveness story in this episode because I know so many listeners are burdened by a lack of forgiveness. I want you to listen to and share this episode with someone you know who needs to learn about forgiveness. This was SUPER intimate and personal for me, so I thank you for listening and allowing me to share my story in order to help your story. The captivating courtship program and FREE masterclass is about to launch and I would love for you to...
Sep 03, 2019•41 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Do you want to attract better matches on online dating sites? We have created a FREE Popping profile cheat sheet for you to download as a go to checklist to enhance your profile. In this episode I share with you 3 ways to maximize your profile plus a reminder to get over the fear of being seen. These tips include: 1. Photo tips 2. High energy words 3. Non specific description you can get your FREEBIE Popping Profiles cheat sheet on our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/popping profiles. ...
Aug 26, 2019•30 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Do you know how to play your position? In this week's episode we share 3 ways to get out of your own way and start playing your position. You can checkout the Free Attract Your Match webinar at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/podcast/s2e14 www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/attractyourmatch Follow on Instagram @_zaraj_ @blackmuslimsinglessociety you can join the Match Society at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Top 3 reasons people avoid playing their position: 1. Fear of being seen 2. Procras...
Aug 19, 2019•26 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Listen, I understand how easily it is to get emotionally triggered because you're not in the relationship you desire, but as one of my favorite rap lyric goes..."I'm not the captain of the yacht but I'm on the boat." You're still In the game. You have to practice gratitude for your courtship journey and relationships on your road to marriage. Youre probably doing better than most in your love life if you really look around. Just know, and trust, good is on the way. If you haven't already, go thr...
Aug 12, 2019•27 min
Have you ever felt like you're meeting the same types of people, experiencing the same relationships or courtships, and are going through deja vu experiences in your love life? That means that you're experiencing tests in your courtships that's telling you it's time to change up whatever behavior you're continuing to repeat and increase your self worth and make different choices that reflect that you deserve what you desire. Visit our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com to enroll in The Ma...
Aug 07, 2019•33 min
We interviewed Nyla and Fatimah from Outstanding Personal Relationships, a family, marriage and polygyny coaching business that helps families learn how to improve communication skills, and gain support on how to have healthy polygyny. The ladies broke down how they struggled with building a relationship and communication in the beginning of their poly family and how they finally came to a cross road that pushed them to finally breakdown walls and build marriages and sisterhood that they have to...
Jul 15, 2019•1 hr 1 min
Nadirah Pierre is a social media Influencer with a huge spirit, who uses her platform to Inspire change in the Muslim community. Today we interviewed her to dive deeper into her views on courtship, marriage, and even her personal experience as an Influencer and Muslim woman in the public eye. You can follow Nadirah Pierre on Instagram @nadirah.p Follow Zara on Instagram @_ZaraJ_ Follow BMSS @Blackmuslimsinglessociety Women Only* Join Courtship Club Facebook Group Links in this Episode Our Websit...
Jul 08, 2019•50 min
This week's episode of Courtship Code we discuss Q&A about wordly baggage, how everyone is struggling with something, and share an awesome listener review. Courtship Code is the go to podcast where we discuss all things related to relationships and courtship from the Muslim perspective. Check us out at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow on Instagram and Facebook @blackmuslimsinglessociety for FREE STUFF! Have a courtship story or question? email us at contact@blackmuslimsinglessociety....
Jul 01, 2019•36 min
