Courtship Code

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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code. Resources: Www.captivatingcourtship.com Instagram: @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Like, Subscribe, leave a Review and Share!

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Being honest about what you want S2E7

This week's episode of Courtship Code we discuss Q&A about a man's wife wanting to be paid a dowry and why everyone is struggling. LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and Google podcasts leave us a comment follow us on Facebook and Instagram Have a question? email us at contact@blackmuslimsinglessociety.com enroll your profile at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com

Jun 24, 2019•30 min

Accept making effort S2E6

In this episode of courtship code we kick it off with Q&A and discuss the importance of making effort. Making effort in the 3 areas discussed makes a difference in pushing the process forward. We also share information on the Riyadaah, get tickets at riyaadah.org and our new ambassador program. Don't forget to like and subscribe to our show for notifications for new episodes.

Jun 17, 2019•28 min

Courtship Masculinity Basics S2E2

Thanks for joining us for another episode! This week we're breaking down 5 basic principles for masculinity and how to identify them in yourself and others. Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety Are you a part of Black Muslim Singles Society? Visit our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com

Feb 25, 2019•34 min

S2Ep1 Is He Leading the Courtship?

Welcome to season 2 of the courtship code! This week we'll discuss if you as a man are leading her to marriage AND if you as a woman are allowing yourself to be led? How to identify this and when to allow it to happen.

Feb 11, 2019•31 min

Did you get Ghosted? Ep14

Have you been ghosted? Are you the ghost? This week we share 7 tips on dealing with ghosting and how to overcome the hurt and not carry it into your next relationship experience. 2 IN '18 PROMO on our website and Instagram www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/enroll/2in18 www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety

Dec 11, 2018•49 min

Fighting About Money Ep13

This week we did a book review for the book, Let's Fight About Money by Martin & Chelsea Matthews, and discussed how knowing how to discuss money matters can help your relationship flourish. BOOK GIVEAWAY on our Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety DECEMBER 2 IN '18 SPECIAL www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/enroll/2in18 Enroll your profile www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/enroll/bmssprofile PURCHASE YOUR COPY Let's Fight About Money: How to Communicate About Money, Handle Conflict and Build...

Dec 03, 2018•27 min

Never Right for Wrong Person Ep12

You will never be right for the wrong person, and here's how you change that. Listen to this week's episode and don't forget to favorite, SUBSCRIBE, share and comment. follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety enroll your profile at blackmuslimsinglessociety.com

Nov 19, 2018•39 min

Feeling Unworthy of Love Ep11

Have you ever secretly struggled with feeling unworthy of love? This week we discussed what feeling unworthy looks like in relationships and how to combat it. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety

Nov 12, 2018•29 min

MAJOR keys for Long Distance Courtship Ep10

Need Major Keys to Long Distance Courtship? This week we broke down 5 major tips to help you gain success from a distance. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Use Code: FALLINLOVE for Basic Profile Listing and save $10 Follow on Instagram: @BlackMuslimSinglesSociety

Nov 06, 2018•30 min

Creating Balance or Excuses Ep9

Let's dive into 5 ways to acknowledge if you're creating balance or excuses when it comes to courtship! Favorite us on Anchor for updates Follow on IG @blackmuslimsinglessociety www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com

Oct 30, 2018•23 min

Negotiating in Courtship Ep8

5 tips to better negotiating during. courtship to create win win situations for both parties. This quick episode gets straight to the point on some life long skills for every relationship in your life. follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com

Oct 22, 2018•17 min

Wear your age with honor Ep7

Episode 7 is all about wearing your age with honor! We're giving you 5 tips on how to wear your age with honor and confidence during courtship and single life. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety

Oct 01, 2018•26 min

What do they want? Ep6

What qualities are the opposite sex seeking? Listen to this episode to learn the top 3 qualities both sexes are looking in a long term partner. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety

Oct 01, 2018•25 min

Creating Your Courtship Code Ep5

Do you have a courtship code? Today we'll be discussing how to develop your personal code and the 4 phases of courtship. Follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_ Enroll in matchmaking www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com

Sep 17, 2018•29 min

Courtship vs Dating Ep4

Episode 4! We're discussing the difference between courtship vs dating, especially for Muslims singles with marriage, and how to shift from a dating mindset to a courtship one. We also shared how to shift your actions for better results. SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel Favorite and Listen on the Anchor App **** Let us know you're single>> bit.ly/bmsssingleL Men click here>> www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/men Women click here>> www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/women Instagr...

Sep 10, 2018•33 min

Does Past Equal Future? Ep3

Special guest and one half of That Clay Couple marriage counseling duo, Hasan Clay, joins us to discuss the impact of a person's past relationship behaviors on your potential courtship or marriage. Blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Instagram: @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_ZaraJ_ Follow that Clay Couple on IG @thatclaycouple Thatclaycouple.com

Sep 04, 2018•1 hr 17 min

Haters Won't Get Your Process Ep2

Favorite this podcast for New episode notifications! This week of Courtship Code we're discussing exactly why your haters won't get your process and just how real the Glow up will be. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow us on Instagram: @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_

Aug 27, 2018•33 min

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