A podcast for the sexually curious and hedonistic adventurers, by the people behind KinkyEvents.co.uk. Feel empowered sexually, and learn about kink, BDSM and Dom/sub dynamics. Chief (a male Dom) and Moineau (a female sub) discuss everything from events they've been to, to advice on starting a D/s relationship, becoming comfortable with your sexuality, getting your partner to be more dominant, explaining the world of D/s for newbies, and some killer tips for the more experienced kinksters amongst you. The show contains adult themes, strong language, and discussions of sexual activity.
Chief and Moineau are back, answering your burning BDSM questions submitted via KinkyEvents.co.uk. Whether you're a solo submissive wondering how to start your journey, or struggling to find a dominant who’s more than just talk, they’ve got you covered. They provide candid advice on tackling BDSM as a solo submissive, ways to find a true dominant partner, overcoming challenges in kinky relationships, and dealing with anxieties and insecurities within the dynamic. Additionally, they discuss pract...
Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions! Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren’t into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what’s the best way to meet a unicorn? Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy - this time, an oct...
Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they tackle it all with humor, honesty, and practical advice. Ever felt your dominance wane? Wondering how to introduce kinks to a vanilla partner without freaking them out? Curious about the psychology behind impact play? They’ve got you covered. Expect candid ...
Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners. We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships. We then try out two exercises from the book - a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language. If you're a kinky pers...
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint journaling and desire mapping to more elaborate setups like role-reversal games and fantasy sharing, each exercise builds upon the previous ones. Each exercise is discussed briefly, including instructions and several resources for each activity, emphasising ...
Chief and Moineau share intimate details of a recent sensual encounter that blended psychological dominance with physical pleasure. Expecting punishment after naughty sexting, Moineau was surprised by a deeply relaxing massage that built incredible anticipation. They discuss how intent and psychological elements transform acts like massage and oral sex into powerful DS play, ultimately leading to intense physical connection and orgasm.
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancin...
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM. They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community. Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode pa...
Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication. From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy. Join us for an enlightening dis...
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all. Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics. Sup...
What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear: Tom's journey : How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices. How to find the right Dominatrix for you : W...
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their story about how they got into Pup play, their transition from Alpha pup to Dom, and their involvement in Puppy Ireland and charity work. Plus, we explore how pup play has been a supportive tool for them in relation to their autism and discuss ways the BDSM com...
Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking about instead, and ways to ensure your Dom/sub relationship is on the right track. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just...
Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can she offer to couples who want to introduce dominance and submission into their relationship? Find out in this episode of Conversations with a Dom. Warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of sexual assault at 3:53. Find out more about Miss Mae Ling...
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled ' Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to your husband? '. The episode includes tips on taking about kinks with your partner, how Chief and Moineau's limits have changed over time, forced orgams, and getting kicked out of a club for having sex in the toilets! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my boo...
Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill the beans on our pre-event jitters, the nerve-wracking process of figuring out the perfect moves, and the heart-pounding aftermath as we dissect how it all went down. We delver into the world of Sensual Dominance, opening the door to BDSM for every couple ...
Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial world of public kink and discuss what makes public displays of kink both intriguing and potentially inappropriate. We also share 5 ways you can engage in powerplay and D/s in public, including sharing a personal story of a hilarious mishap with a cat and a remote-controlled toy. We discuss navigating the thrilling yet risky world of public play, e...
Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare to have your curiosity satisfied, as we have an enlightening conversation with Chief and Moineau, exploring the fascinating dynamics of a Pleasure Dom and the importance of prioritizing the well-being of the submissive partner, even when they seek pain. We delve into the nuances of creating a safe, consensual environment, and how this contrasts dra...
Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle : Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes . Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and...
Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs. Moineau kindly volunteers her body for science. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle : Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyeven...
Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they wrote and reflect on our own thoughts about power play and being in a relationship revolving around dominance and submission. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with ...
In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy?'. Their lively discussion revolves around exploring their own kinky inclinations. They explore interesting topics, like the differences in fantasies between genders, and discover what percentage of men and women have fantasized about: Having sex with multiple men Engaging in intimate encounters in unconventional places Swinging with both...
Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you. The discussion emphasizes the impor...
Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find out what goes on at a swingers day club, and what you can expect your first time. For photos, visit the accompanying Kinky Events article . Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle : Get...
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did together, involving rope bondage, teasing, erotic NLP techniques, quite a lot of roughness, and a favourite new activity - face f*cking. Listen along for spicy tips to incorporate into your power play dynamic and get a sense of what really happens in a real-life D/s relationship. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex l...
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a Daddy Dom/Little dynamic, and what to do if you're kinky but your partner isn't. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle : Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a b...
In this BDSM podcast episode by Kinky Events , Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant, shares her story of how she ended up in this world, and how she helps people safely discover kinky connections and intimacy. Mistress Jayne can be found on Instagram @sexcoachsarahjane . Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle : Get my two best s...
In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynamic. There really are some KILLER tips in this episode that I've used and had fantastic results with for years. Enjoy! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle : Get my two best selling d...
In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who emailed in asking if she could share her experiences of engaging in a D/s dynamic after testing positive for the Herpes simplex virus (HSV). We talk about: What HSV is and what the symptoms are How Emily contracted Herpes What she does and doesn't do in her dynamic to keep herself and others safe How it impacts play with her Dom Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your...
*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we practice it in our relationship? And how might you go about introducing it into your relationship? We discuss psychology, why it turns us on, and how to talk to a partner about it. Please note: We also discuss CNC, the R word, childhood trauma, and parental wounds, which can be very sensitive topics. Please proceed with caution if these are triggering for y...
