Life STARTS at 40, and is fabulous well into your 50’s and beyond, despite what society says about being “over the hill.” The 40+ adult is more open, experiments more, and has finally embraced the living part of life. Consenting Adults explores this new frontier. From open marriages to swinging, ethical non-monogamy, sex workers, and chasing that libido, every day people reveal what really goes on behind closed doors and how they’re enjoying sex and life more than ever. When it’s a normal way of living for many, is it still “freaky?” Frank, funny, thought-provoking conversations with Emmy Award-winning journalist and host of Consenting Adults, Leyna Nguyen.
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Some swingers need a connection before they're willing to hop into bed with someone. Some like to get to know them, develop some sort of relationship. Others are just DTF. A group of them in Texas is having way too much fun. Chris and his wife are part of that group. He was married twice before, a serial cheater...and now he's happily married and ethically non-monogamous. Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "L...
Doug and Patty return to share their two-year transformation from a BDSM-exclusive couple to avid swingers. They recount the initial awkwardness of dating sites, the challenges of setting and breaking rules, and the importance of open communication to navigate jealousy. The couple details their first soft and full swap experiences, including Patty's bicurious explorations and humorous encounters, ultimately reflecting on how they integrate this "dessert" lifestyle into their busy lives.
Maya from episode 77 is back on the show with her former volleyball coach. They ran into each other in Vegas after all these years and boy, have things changed. The coach is now being coached by her former student on all things lifestyle. She's checking a lot of her fantasy list, like BBC...but her husband has no idea what's going on. The episode artwork is actually Maya and Coach Loni during that reunion in Vegas. You can find Maya on Twiiter and OnlyFans @MayaBensinger and the coach is on Twit...
Andy and Elle describe their extraordinary "real unicorn" polyamorous relationship where two married couples formed a unique quad. Initially seeking lifestyle fun, they unexpectedly fell in love with their swapped partners, forming deep emotional and romantic bonds. They discuss the challenges of integrating this into family life, navigating jealousy, and the profound impact on their original marriages, all while exploring a future without a relationship "manual."
Venus, the cuckoldress we talked to in episode 42 is back, and she's no longer hiding her identity! Venus talks about her struggles in finding the right man for a cuckolding relationship, and why she created a matchmaking service for men and women interested in this kind of dynamic. You can find out more about the service at VenusConnections.com Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Yo...
A 52-year old man is Sports Administration for a University wants to be dominated in the bedroom. He's finally able to identify and admit to his guilty pleasures but finds it hard to find the right woman or couple to explore his kinks. Although Danny did this interview via video, because of his job, I can't show his face. He's a handsome, fit man in a conservative environment who wants to fly his freak flag and he's hoping to find his tribe with Consenting Adults listeners. Support this show and...
Nick and Nina have always had a great sex life, but it got sent in to overdrive when they moved to Toyko and found "the scene." Ex-pats who were well-to-do, and ready to play --gave this Stag-Vixen couple a new playground. Nina went from the traditional Japanese role of the good wife to hot wife, and her husband is all for it. You can find them on Twitter at @ToykoHotLife Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , &...
A cheating girlfriend steered Marty into the lifestyle where he enjoyed watching her with other men. It also allowed him to explore his other kinks like cross-dressing, pegging, and cuckolding. Now he's married and his wife is vanilla. She's told him she's ok if he plays as long as she doesn't have to hear about it. You can find Marty on Twitter @SissyCuckWannabe Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Vid...
Dustin first talked to us in 2021, episode 73--where he insisted it was a Stag- Vixen dynamic and he seemed resistant to the possibility of being a cuck. Fast forward to a little more time in the lifestyle and Dustin is back to update us on his choices and he brought his beautiful wife "A" on the show to share her thoughts as well. You can find them on Twitter @ShowMeSwing Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , &...
New to the lifestyle, Anna and Waylon recount their first MFM experience, from Waylon's long-held fantasy and Anna's initial reluctance to their awkward encounter with an inexperienced third. They detail the "broken dick" incident, the importance of hard limits, and the unexpected boost to their own relationship after the guest departed. Despite its flaws, the experience solidified their desire to continue exploring the swinging lifestyle and offered valuable lessons for future encounters.
Mizzy Bender was in a miserable marriage where sex wasn't enjoyable even when it did happen, until one day her Aunt took her to what turned out to be a swingers' meet and greet. She ended up meeting her future husband there and boy, how life has changed! You can find Mizzy at MizzeBender.com Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast...
Bill and Lana have both had had several failed marriages and then the found each other. More afraid of failure than rejection, he tells her right off the bat about his kink and she decides to give it a try despite her initial reaction. She's finding out it matches with her own tendencies and now they're exploring cuckolding. Their task now is to find something that will humiliate him but so far--no luck. Listen to their story! He's on Twitter @old.kinster Support this show and get bonus and excl...
A unicorn turned vixen is flying her freak flag after finding a husband in the lifestyle. She's done it all and now has her heart set on DVP--They won't even meet up with men who won't consider it. Listen to how she got here. You can find Casey (that's her in the picture) on IG @InBedWithStrangers.official Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna'...
This bull from Chicago talks about how he got into the lifestyle, how he became known to be a reliable bull for couples, and what he finds attractive in a couple. Some of our guests may have experienced him before... D can be found on Twitter @CHIBLKSTUD Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna Nguyen, Unscripted." Shop Ada...
JR is a foot fetishist who after agreeing to coming on this show, decided to tell his wife about it. He hadn't before because he didn't think she'd be into it. He shares how and when his fascination with women's feet started, how he deals with it when his partners aren't into it, and we'll see what the wife thought when she found out. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/L...
May says she and her husband haven't found any labels that fit them but one that fits her for sure is cuckquean. They're somewhat of a rarity so we're happy to have this opportunity to find out what makes her tick. This couple has done just about everything in the lifestyle and are looking to fulfill a couple more fantasies. You can find her on Twitter @MissBabyMay. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! ...
Brit and Max went from totally vanilla to something else after discovering Consenting Adults Podcast. They've known each other as kids, lost their virginity together--in fact, had never been with anyone else. And now--they've dipped their toes into the lifestyle together too. You can find them on Twitter @BritandMax Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check ...
Outside the bedroom John is a take-charge man with lots of responsibilities. When he's home, he likes someone else to make the decisions. He has finally found the woman of his dreams. She dominates him when he needs it, and not only accepts his bisexuality but is happy to participate. He's one happy cuck! He's on Adult Friend Finder as "The Happy Cuck" Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episo...
What happens when your spouse falls in love with play partner in the lifestyle. What if you did too?! Emma and Finn learn to never say never in their exploration of non-mongamy. They host a podcast called "Normalizing Non-monogamy" and can be found on all platforms as @nnmpodcast Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna Ngu...
Maya and her boyfriend had been in a non-monogamous relationship when she met Mr. Big at the beach and started fulfilling her own fantasies including BBC and impregnation. What happens when fantasies come true? Turns out, Maya is the female half of "Mr. and Mrs. Jones from episode 77 where they talked about living out rape fantasies. Listen to that episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4uEi1DSJjtxyPuip6Kc9Cw?si=N_lYLMiKQweijnztFrux6g Maya is on Twitter, OnlyFans and IG @MayaBensinger Su...
Raj joins us from India where he and his wife are in a cuckold marriage. She was a virgin when they married but he wasn't her first. Although in a conservative society, Raj believes many are taking part in non-monogamous relationships. What has happened to their marriage and his sex life since she confessed to cheating on him?! Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNgu...
Victoria got into the lifestyle while still working as a school teacher but after getting out of that profession, she discovered another one: porn star! She talks about how doing it professionally has changed the way she plays personally. You could say porn ruined swinging for her, but swinging also ruined porn--her own personal stash is so much hotter than any porn she could find online. She talks about safety and STDs as well. You can find her on Twitter @VictoriaPeaks Support this show and ge...
Monogamous when they were together, a couple reconnects over different experiences in non-monogamy and start a movement to bring lifestyle experiences and knowledge to a country, the say, that's hungry for it. Kinky kiwis in New Zealand say it's time! They have a podcast called Sex With my Ex and can be found on Twitter: @Sex_With_My_Ex Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com...
Ember's husband wanted his wife to shoot a video of her having sex with someone else as a birthday gift to him. Well, it's the gift that keeps on giving because she's full blown hot wife and it's taken on new...lengths. She also talks about a sex toy Leyna hasn't even heard of before. Ember is on Twitter: @xxEmberRaexx Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Che...
Curious about how to start practicing ethical non monogamy but don't know what you should do? David Singer, aka the LA Kink Shrink talks about how couples can take that first leap, mistakes commonly made, and why he thinks people who don't think you can love your partner AND be ethically non-monogamous are wrong! You can find David Singer at www.LAKinkShrink.com Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Vide...
Sheila has many kinks and one of them keeps pushing the cuckolding button with her husband. She's 27 weeks pregnant and still playing. Her husband J was on a guest on Consenting Adults talking about how the lifestyle destroyed his first marriage. Has he figured things out to make it work this time around? From being a bull to stag to treading lightly into cuckolding, he's finding new ways to please his new wife. Listen to the husband's episode here. You can find Sheila on Twitter @hotwifesheila ...
T and K are married with two small children and recently decided to open up their marriage by exploring non-monogamy. Her first experience as a hotwife just a couple of weeks ago was so amazing, they're bursting with excitement to tell someone, so she tells Leyna all about it! While T was out on her date, K was at home, anxious and nervous--and tweeted his feelings that night. You'll hear what really happened. You can find them on Twitter @into_the_gray Support this show and get bonus and exclus...
A nurse and teacher married at 19, she had never been with anyone else. So they started to explore despite the husband's issues with jealousy. As it turns out--the thing that fills him with angst is also the thing that turns him on like nothing else. Listen to how they found their way into the lifestyle and figured out what works and what doesn't. They're on Twitter: @Hotwife_CC Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG ...
Kiley didn't realize there was a term for her lifestyle; unicorn. Her openness in exploring sexuality causes pushback. She lost friends and family relationships but it didn't stop her and her finance from being open about being in the lifestyle. She too, had preconceived notions about who swingers were, and didn't realize the stigma associated with non-monogamy. You can find her on Twitter to find her other links @SexySwingerChic Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcof...
Tommy is married to Megan from episode 99. Tommy, like most men, couldn't imagine seeing his wife with another man, let alone enjoying it. He was a virgin when they married and eventually opened up their relationship to experience other people. Tommy worked so much that it turned into a lot of solo play for her. And because of naughty texts on Tommy's phone, they decided to come out to family and friends about being swingers. Tommy's on Twitter at @aBeardedGun Support this show and get bonus and...
