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Consenting Adults

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Life STARTS at 40, and is fabulous well into your 50’s and beyond, despite what society says about being “over the hill.” The 40+ adult is more open, experiments more, and has finally embraced the living part of life. Consenting Adults explores this new frontier. From open marriages to swinging, ethical non-monogamy, sex workers, and chasing that libido, every day people reveal what really goes on behind closed doors and how they’re enjoying sex and life more than ever. When it’s a normal way of living for many, is it still “freaky?” Frank, funny, thought-provoking conversations with Emmy Award-winning journalist and host of Consenting Adults, Leyna Nguyen.

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Episodes

EP 105 Young Newbie Swingers

A young couple didn't realize there's a thing called the "lifestyle" and finds value in having a community of like-minded people who enjoy sex with others while in a committed relationship. While pretty new in this journey, they want to share with others who may be struggling to find their way as they talk about their explorations with bisexuality and non-monogamy. You can find them at https://www.fresh-pineapples.com/ Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/Ley...

Jul 18, 202221 min

EP 104 Fetish for Asian Women

BigB has a fetish for Asian women, talks about an LA newscaster he had affair with and the sexual nature of an entertainment-based business where he discovered it wasn't just women he was interested in. He also talks about food play, bi-play, and toys, oh my! Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna Nguyen, Unscripted." Sho...

Jul 11, 202226 min

EP 103 Curvy Women do it Better

A married couple starts exploring the lifestyle after the wife has a drunken encounter with a girlfriend. It leads to swinging, open marriage and a lot more including cuckolding? Kristy says accepting her body's flaws has lead to a better sex life and closer marriage...but there's more! Wait until you hear what happened when Kristy's husband experiences a mid-life crisis! She's on Twitter @MsKristyKey Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect w...

Jul 04, 202225 min

EP 102 From Cheating Housewife to Hotwife

Three years into an affair, Holly's husband finds out and his reaction shocks her! The cheating housewife is turned into a hotwife after some discussion and it's been 13 years in the lifestyle for this couple. They're now looking for an FWB for the wife, and although he was promiscuous in his younger years, he's fine just watching now. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/...

Jun 27, 202220 min

EP 101 Finding Your Playstyle

Full swap, group play, open marriage, stag/vixen, cuckold, poly, and the list goes on and on. Couples often evolve in the lifestyle and their playstyle can change with their experiences. Sometimes your fantasies and what you really like can be different. This couple talks about how they found what makes them comfortable. You can find this couple at www.bullsandqueens.com Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & ...

Jun 20, 202224 min

EP 100 How to Date Kinky

How do you approach your partner with wanting to be kinky and/or non-monogamous? Nookie is a hedonist dominant cuckoldress pimptress who's a polyamorous monoromantic. She talks about new relationship energy, pimping out her cuck husband and helping others navigate the world of kinky dating. You can find her at DatingKinky.com Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguye...

Jun 13, 202232 min

EP 099 Coming out as Non-mongamous

After a couple of text message mishaps, this couple decided to come out to family and friends about being in the lifestyle. How did it go? How do you explain to your children? Hear their experiences as well as how they went from being swingers to poly to stag and vixen. Find Megan on Twitter @snsultry13 Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's o...

Jun 06, 202224 min

EP 098 Blasian Goddess Makes Life of ENM

Blasian Goddess's life both professionally and personally revolve around ethical non-monogamy world. Kellie Talks about how she and her husband made newbie mistakes and learned from them. They plan lifestyle events and parties and brings a touch of art and physical fitness into the lifestyle. You can find her at on Twitter @ksblasianbabe or facebook at www.facebook.com/KSBlasianGoddess Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitte...

May 30, 202224 min

EP 097 Husband Made Me a Hotwife

Anita and her husband decided to dip their toes into the lifestyle as swingers but then he worked so much that he couldn't play. So they came up with a solution that works for both of them, and now she's a Vixen/Hotwife! Anita is on Twitter @AnitaUKslut4u Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna Nguyen, Unscripted." Shop Ad...

May 23, 202223 min

EP 096 Swinging Destroyed My Marriage

J and his wife were a full swap couple but the lifestyle broke up their marriage. Cheating occurs with swingers and it can be devastating. But he learned a lot of valuable lessons and is now in the lifestyle with his new wife. He went from being a very jealous person to being a swinger to being a bull and now he's something totally different. Listen to his wife Sheila's take on episode 110. You can find them on Twitter: @hotwifesheila Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyM...

May 16, 202232 min

EP 095 Getting Off on Chastity

Unlike many cuckolds, Jamie doesn't have a voyeuristic desire to see his wife with other men. His FLR doesn't incorporate punishment. There's nothing "typical" about this cuck and he shares how his marriage evolved to involve her sleeping with bulls and him being locked in chastity. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna ...

May 09, 202228 min

EP 094 Foot Fetish

Fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. Our guest discovered his fascination with feet in elementary school and shares how it became a big part of his sexuality. He and his wife consider themselves in the lifestyle but are monogamous. Foot jobs, wrinkly soles, high arches, oh my! Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with...

May 02, 202224 min

EP 093 CBT Ball-busting, SPH, and Edging

A deeper dive into CBT (cock and ball torture), also known as ball-busting, Small Penis Humiliation, Edging or orgasm control and other kinks by a young Marine whose cuckolding and femdom kinks have led him to explore other kinks. You won't believe what he does for a living! Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna Nguyen, ...

Apr 25, 202229 min

EP 092 How to Deal With Jealousy as a Swinger

Coco enjoys watching her husband with other men and as a couple, because of jealousy issues, prefer to be with single males. This couple talks about how they got started swinging, how they deal with jealousy, and the stigma against bisexual men not only in the ENM community but in African American community as well. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check ...

Apr 18, 202225 min

EP 091 Single Cuckoldress Looking for Partner

A divorcee finds her voice in sexual exploration but finds it difficult to find the right man for a cuckold relationship. But while she hasn't found "Mr. Right," she's having a lot of fun with Mr. Right Nows. Xena explains the difference between a male-led and female-centric cuckold dynamic. Is the right guy out there? She's on Twitter @LL_Xena Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: You...

Apr 11, 202222 min

EP 090 The Situational Cuck

Just because you like something some of the time doesn't mean you want it all of the time. And sometimes the thing that you want doesn't "fit" into the mold others have made. "MC" talks about how not being able to satisfy his wife led them to cuckolding but he also has interest in sleeping with other women. MC is on Twitter @PoorLittleWhit1 Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube...

Apr 04, 202226 min

EP 089 What Happens Inside a Vegas Brothel

A couple goes from experimenting with a threesome to throwing their own parties to making adult films to the wife working at one of Dennis Hof's infamous brothels in Vegas. Catrina & John talk about their progression in the lifestyle and give us a peek into what really happens inside "the Ranch." Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtube.com/LeynaNguyenTV Check out Leyna's othe...

Mar 28, 202229 min

EP 088 A Unicorn's Journey

A beautiful young woman finds herself in a sex club and getting the attention, respect, and sex she wanted so she became a unicorn. Her interest in sexuality has led her to helping others as a licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist. She talks about how newbies can get started in the lifestyle. You can find Mina at NewSparkTherapy.com Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of epi...

Mar 21, 202222 min

EP 087 She Owns Me

Power struggles in their marriage led to a turning point both in and outside the bedroom. A man on his third marriage finally figures out the kind of communication it takes to save a marriage--and it leads him down the path of total submission to his wife. Lines can blur between FLR, femdom, and cuckolding but there's no doubt who's in control in this relationship. He's on Twitter at @The_HopefulCuck Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect wi...

Mar 14, 202225 min

EP 086 Asian Cuckold Couple

An Asian couple with different sexual appetites finds the lifestyle helps their marriage. But besides the wife getting the sex she needs, they find that watching her with someone else turns him on, and there are power dynamics at play. She also prefers to be intimate with Caucasian men. Is the husband ok with this? Why are they still married? Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Video of episodes: Youtu...

Mar 07, 202228 min

EP 085 Sleep With My Husband: A Cuckquean's story.

Even more elusive than the unicorn is the cuckquean; the female version of a cuckold. Quean Mo was an insanely jealous person but turned that fire into lust and is happily married as a cuckquean. Is there humiliation in this dynamic as there often is in cuckolding? Is there an equivalent to SPH? (small penis humiliation) Quean Mo wants to be a resource for other cuckqueans and writes a blog you can find at CallOfTheQuean.com. She's also on Twitter @COTQofficial Support this show and get bonus an...

Feb 28, 202228 min

EP 084 FLR vs Femdom vs Cuckolding

Female-led relationships in and outside the bedroom. What are the differences between FLR, Femdom, and cuckolding? Tatyana explains how they're intertwined in her marriage to The Hopeful Cuck. She was afraid to tell him his penis was too small to bring her pleasure but turns out--that turns him on. They've found a new dynamic that works for their marriage and brings them both satisfaction. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Tw...

Feb 21, 202222 min

EP 083 Better in Bed, Closing the Orgasm Gap

The average male takes about 5:30 mins to orgasm, but the average female takes over 18 minutes. What to do?! Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent talks about what couples can do to close that gap and have more enjoyable sex by focusing on the pleasure part of sex. This is a sponsored episode but we put the products to the test with past guests. Was it as advertised? From delay spray to female arousal gel to Vita-flux , a sexual wellness supplement, we're talking about erection strength, libido, and l...

Feb 14, 202241 min

EP 082 Single Male Swinger's Bath House Adventures

A twice-divorced single man comes to terms with his bisexuality but it was a long road. From his first experiences at bath houses to full on gay orgies, Tom talks about how his female partners reacted to his sexuality, and how he learned to accept it. He has experienced a lot as a young, good-looking bi-male. Tom is a senior tech executive from Northern California. He's single and looking. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Tw...

Feb 07, 202225 min

EP 081 Nude Vacation Leads to Swinging

A 50th birthday at a clothing-optional resort opens the door to ethical non-monogamy for a happily-married couple. They discovered instead of feeling jealous, they felt turned on and happy to see their spouse with someone else. It's also opened the door to bondage and other things like an anal hook. Don't ask--I already did! This couple is on Twitter @NewWithTagsPod Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! ...

Jan 31, 202219 min

EP 080 Why I'm a Cuck

Those not in a cuckolding dynamic don't understand why a man would want his wife to sleep around but not do the same himself. This one-way non-monogamy is one of many aspects of cuckolding that don't make sense to others. Richard is Crystal Welch's husband. (from episode 75) He explains what drives his desire to be a cuck, and why he would engage in sexual activities with other men even though he's not attracted to men and doesn't consider himself bisexual. He talks cleanup and other things that...

Jan 28, 202224 min

EP 079 Contract for Cuckolding

A contract for cuckolding! Married legal professionals draw up a contract for a female-led relationship and she redlines the part that ends up sealing the deal. She's learning to be more dominant while he enjoys being her cuckold. It's not just an activity--it's an identity. She also talks about a fun movement called #SlutSisters that's uniting women with a common thread. Aine is on Twitter @Goddess122217 and her podcast is called "Sexualchemy." Support this show and get bonus and exclusive cont...

Jan 26, 202226 min

EP 078 High-Profile Cuck

De-stigmatizing Cuckolding. Man with high-profile job explains why he's a cuck. He wants to give up control, not have to think, and be just the opposite of what he's like in his every day life. This is the first in a series of three episodes for Cuck Week. Scott talks about why it's been a difficult journey trying to figure out where he is on the spectrum, how this fits in with his life, and how to embrace his own definition of cuckolding. He also talks about autofellatio. The end. You can find ...

Jan 24, 202231 min

EP 077 Real Rape Fantasy

Are rape fantasies normal? Many people have them, including men--but not too many people admit it. Would you be the aggressor or the "victim?" This couple makes that fantasy come true in the the most realistic way possible by making their first meeting consensual non-consent "forced sex." Mr. and Mrs. Jones both describe what it was like, and both say it was their best sexual experience ever. This couple is on Twitter and Instagram as @MrMrsJonesFL Support this show and get bonus and exclusive c...

Jan 17, 202226 min

EP 076 Living a Secret Life

In a long time marriage that has been sexless for the past few years, Kristie has been living a secret life; meeting men online, and hooking up for sex. It started with an encounter inside an adult bookstore. After years of covering up, hiding, and lying, this is the first time the story is being told. Support this show and get bonus and exclusive content at BuyMeAcoffee.com/LeynaNguyen Connect with us on Twitter , IG , & FB ! Check out Leyna's other podcast, "Leyna Nguyen, Unscripted." Shop...

Jan 10, 202224 min
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