Welcome back to ADHDnD! In this episode Cate...I mean, Helvetica, gets her Greatest Wish and the team visits a library...and it doesn't exactly go to plan. Blumken does something so adorable that Cate cries in real life, and the team navigates another dangerous area of the ADHDND facility. Our fearless DM, Chris, puts up with a lot of questions about the Dewey Decimal system and we get even closer to the exciting conclusion of Season One. Consider supporting the work we do by visiting www.patreo...
Aug 24, 2022•53 min
Oh boy! Blumken and Helvetica are back! They got their gear back, but did something just knock out Atticus the Goliath? What's going on? We're getting close to the finale of ADHDnD Season 1, folks. Let's do this! Consider supporting the work we do by visiting www.patreon.com/infinitequest Erik: www.patreon.com/heygude Cate: mostlypans.com or www.patreon.com/catieosaurus Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude @baileyosaurusrex We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch...
Aug 19, 2022•39 min•Season 1Ep. 8
In this episode, Cate and Erik semi-triumphantly return back from GenCon and settle back into the podcast with a big announcement about trebuchets. The announcement is big, the size of the trebuchet is yet to be determined. We'd say that there is a GenCon update but that's a lie. ---- Consider supporting the work we do by visiting www.patreon.com/infinitequest Erik: www.patreon.com/heygude Cate: mostlypans.com or www.patreon.com/catieosaurus Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @hey...
Aug 10, 2022•33 min
Welcome back to Infinite Quest!! Cate and Erik are back after their break (and some unplanned life stuff) to debut season THREE, and oh boy do they start off with some...thoughts. A lot of thoughts. Thoughts about thoughts about thoughts. They discuss new revelations about TTRPGS, roleplaying, and how the microcosm of game play can help inform the macrocosm of life, in general. Bailey also makes a guest appearance as the official PodDog of Infinite Quest Industries. ---- Consider supporting the ...
Jul 19, 2022•31 min•Season 3Ep. 1
In this episode, Cate and Erik invite you to take a breath and feel whatever it is you need to feel right now. There's a lot going on We talk about our relationship to kindness, how it matters, fundamentally, but how it isn't always the easiest thing. We unpack some of the work needed to be *truly* kind and discuss just how important kindness can be, not only on the individual level, but also to our communities as a whole. Support Equitable Access to Necessary Medical Care: Home - National Netwo...
Jun 30, 2022•41 min
In this episode, Cate is joined by writer, actor and co-host of the hit podcast Stuff Mom Never Told You , Anney Reese! They talk about...a LOT of stuff, including Star Wars, podcasting, what it's like being a woman in a male-dominated field, and discover that they are, in fact, basically the same person. Find out more about Anney and her work by visiting these links: Anney Reese (@AnneyReese) StuffMomNeverToldYou (@MomStuffPodcast) Savor Podcast (@savorpod) Consider supporting the work we do by...
Jun 29, 2022•31 min
In this episode, Cate and Erik sit down to talk about over versus underpreparing in conversation with ADHD and the curse of all-or-nothing-thinking when it comes to *actually* getting stuff done. They discuss how planning for something big (like a new web series...) can be made even more stressful by the idea that it has to be perfectly done or not at all, and how scary it is to be on the verge of something big, especially when you never know when that hyper-fixation will wear off. Consider supp...
Jun 14, 2022•32 min
In this episode, Cate and Erik sit down to discuss a therapy breakthrough (and perspective adjustment) that Cate recently had. We talk about ADHD task management, how 'leaving things until you HAVE to' can make more work on the back end, and how frustrating it is to feel immobilized by not having enough momentum to start. In the back half, they make the biggest announcement in Infinite Quest history and ask if there are any experts in the house. Get ready, Summer 2022 is going to be WEIRD. Consi...
Jun 02, 2022•37 min
Hello from the sick ward at Infinite Quest. Consider supporting the work we do by visiting Podcast: www.patreon.com/infinitequest Erik: www.patreon.com/heygude Cate: mostlypans.com or www.patreon.com/catieosaurus Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/catieosaurus https://ww.twitch.tv/heygude Cool new listener email: [email protected] Media/Business Email: [email protected] Find all of our links and...
May 24, 2022•6 min
In this episode, Cate is feeling quite under the weather, and so Erik tags in cool guy, incredible maker and truly excellent content creator Tim Ahern sit down to talk about their experiences with ADHD. They talk video games, failure, growth and have a surprisingly in-depth conversation about the finer nuances of the Animorphs series. Spoilers, Cate rallies at the end and performs the greatest Patreon song in the history of the podcast. Consider supporting the work we do by visiting www.patreon....
May 19, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 49
In this discordant two-part episode, Cate and Erik have a ...pointed and passionate...conversation about the frustration of consistently having to navigate misinformation as educators and advocates. Cate rails against the broad generalities of "adhd mindreading" and he harm that narrative can do, and Erik gets vulnerable about what this work means to him. Later, Cate and Erik outline their 2022 tour schedules and do some announcing and explaining of where they'll be for the next few months. Cons...
May 03, 2022•39 min•Season 2Ep. 47
In this episode, Cate and Erik review a new study by UKAAN, the United Kingdom's Adult ADHD organization and what it has to say about the challenges of being both intellectually gifted and having ADHD. They talk about their experiences on either end of the "gifted kid" spectrum, and what it's like to grow up with the expectation "gifted" brings, and the expectations we put on ourselves. Cate talks about boredom and self-governance, Erik talks motivation and self-defining, and also remembered to ...
Apr 28, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 47
In this episode, Cate and Erik sit down to talk about one of the hardest things in the world: asking for help. They discuss the difficulties of owning the need for help, how to ask for it and what 'help' itself can look like. They discuss how ADHD can often complicate help, and offer some insight on accepting the need for help as part of the ADHD toolbox. Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/catieosaurus https://ww.twitc...
Apr 26, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 46
In this episode Cate and Erik discuss recent breakthroughs in therapy for Cate and what "getting to know yourself" really means. Erik and Cate wax very philosophical and meander to the point. They talk about ADHD hyperfixation and identity along with some deeply personal thoughts about the importance of self acceptance and self-improvement. Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/catieosaurus https://ww.twitch.tv/heygude Co...
Apr 20, 2022•30 min
On this Very Special Episode of Infinite Quest, Cate sits down with educator, advocate, ADHD coach and Queen of ADHD podcasts, Kristen Carder from the I Have ADHD Podcast! We talk about late diagnosis, building systems, and the difference between "broken" and "your brain works different". Cate and Kristen talk the nuances of navigating life with ADHD and Cate definitely doesn't fan girl super hard nope not even a little bit. Visit https://ihaveadhd.com/ for more information about Kristen and her...
Apr 14, 2022•41 min•Season 2Ep. 43
In this episode, Cate and Erik sit down and answer a question from someone on Twitch "what's the worst thing to deal with because of your ADHD"? They share their experiences with two particularly difficult scenarios and discover a common unifier among the two very different situations. Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/catieosaurus https://ww.twitch.tv/heygude Cool new listener email: [email protected] Medi...
Apr 12, 2022•35 min
In this episode, Cate sits down to talk with author, educator and advocate KC Davis, aka @domesticblisters. We talk about her journey to diagnosis, her incredible book, Keeping House While Drowning, and what it's like to own the sickest magnet collection this side of the equator. Cate fangirls pretty hard and we discuss the nuances of navigating shame, guilt and embarrassment in household task management. Pre-order your copy of the newly revised and expanded How To Keep House While Drowning here...
Mar 31, 2022•52 min
On this Very Special Episode of Infinite Quest, Cate and Erik ease back on into their regularly scheduled programming with an episode that mostly consists of Cate crying about how good dogs are. It's been a long couple of weeks, so this is mostly a life update, but there are also a few surprise announcements scattered within about some upcoming conventions and appearances that InfiniteQuest has got going on, along with a LOT of anxiety about dog-sitting. Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @cati...
Mar 24, 2022•32 min
In this Very Special Episode, Cate sits down with Chris, everyone's favorite ADHDnD-DM and also very conveniently her husband, to talk about what it's ACTUALLY like to be in a dual-neurodivergent relationship. They talk about the challenges of diagnosis, negotiating chores, tasks and generally what it's like to have to work to find the balance between neurodivergent needs when a very calm, cool and collected Autistic person and an ADHD chaos gremlin fall in love. Find us on TikTok and Instagram ...
Mar 11, 2022•33 min
Saying "No" is hard, but also often necessary, unless your grandmother asks you if you're having a good time at her birthday party, in which case you say "Yes!" in the most enthusiastic way possible, no exceptions. In this episode, Cate and Erik discuss their relationships with saying "no" and setting boundaries, and the struggle to balance being honest about your own needs, and accommodating the needs of others. Also, Erik takes a phone call and Cate shuts a door. Find us on TikTok and Instagra...
Mar 11, 2022•30 min
You know what's scary? Trying new things. You know what's awesome? TRYING NEW THINGS! In this episode, Cate and Erik discuss the strangely bittersweet feeling of discovering something you like, and what it even means to like something. Also, Cate will be sleeping in a tent for the first time in their life and we're very proud of her for that. Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/catieosaurus https://ww.twitch.tv/heygude ...
Mar 03, 2022•30 min
Being a human is hard, but also pretty freaking cool! In this episode, Cate and Erik tell stories about some of the ADHD-related experiences they've had that were actually pretty awesome! They also discuss the importance of remembering your successes, not just your failures. It's not all doom and gloom, folks! Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream daily on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/catieosaurus https://ww.twitch.tv/heygude Cool new listener email: ask@infi...
Mar 01, 2022•28 min•Season 2Ep. 38
In this seven-tries-to-make-an-episode episode, Erik and Cate sit down to answer a listener question: " Every week, you remind us to love ourselves, what does that look like to you ?" It turns out that Erik and Cate have *very* different takes on this question. They discuss loving themselves, what that looks like, the implications behind it, and how to define loving yourself when you're not quite sure what that means. Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude We also stream dail...
Feb 22, 2022•26 min•Season 2Ep. 37
In this "episode" which is probably a strong word, Cate models some self-care and compassion and tells you what to listen to instead. Listen to Cate and Kristen Carder talk about ADHD, relationships and sex: ADHD's Impact on Sex - I Have ADHD Podcast | Podcast on Spotify Listen to Cate and Gia Goodrich form a friendship in real time: Only The Bold | Podcast on Spotify See Cate talk DnD on Critical Misses this Saturday (2/12) at 11AM EST CriticalMisses - Twitch Find us on TikTok and Instagram at:...
Feb 10, 2022•5 min•Season 2Ep. 33
CW: This is a particularly vulnerable episode, especially towards the end. Impulsive decision-making is a hallmark of the ADHD brain. However, the grown-up reality is that sometimes, impulsive decisions affect more than just you. Sometimes, impulsive decisions can hurt others. In this episode, Cate and Erik sit down to discuss what happens when you make a mistake, when you rush into the "yes", when you overcommit or rush into something before doing your due diligence, and what effect that can ha...
Feb 08, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 35
In this episode, Erik sits down with Astrid Lundberg, aka @oddpride, Tiktok's anthropology and evolution enthusiast and dispenser of hot fresh knowledge for your brain. Also she's a composer because her talents know no bounds. Erik and Astrid enjoy what Erik is insist I type as "illuminating discourse" about life, evil and the nature of what it means to be human. Support Infinite Quest at: www.patreon.com/infinitequest Find us on TikTok and Instagram at: @catieosaurus @heygude @oddpride We also ...
Feb 03, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 35
On this episode of Infinite Quest, Cate hosts a very special guest- her actual, real-life sister who continues to be much funnier than her. Fruitsnack Nation, meet Lillian Schreiner. Cate and Lillian discuss what it's like to have a sister, trade thoughts about medication and mental illness, and generally fuck around for the duration of the podcast. We discuss our career goals for the future and also Lillian delivers at LEAST 7 good dunks on Cate. There's some good stuff in there, but also somet...
Feb 02, 2022•33 min•Season 2Ep. 34
In this episode, Cate and Erik take on TIME ITSELF...well, at least as it relates to the experience of living with adult ADHD. They discuss some of the science and studies that have been done about the phenomenon of time perception and ADHD, and share more about their own frustrations and experiences of how time often exists and then suddenly doesn't. They also absolutely massacre the Patreon Song so sorry in advance this week. Hey. If you're still here in our show notes, we have a favor to ask ...
Jan 27, 2022•37 min
In this episode, Cate and Erik answer a FANTASTIC question from listener "Carol", who asks: "Am I being lazy for saving my energy?". They discuss the finer nuances of what makes laziness....lazy, and listeners will learn a WEIRD amount about toilet paper rolls in Cate's house. Cate and Erik discuss the challenges of executive disfunction, task interruption and the cognitive dissonance of our brains turning day-to-day tasks into monumental, impossible obstacles. Stick around to the end of the epi...
Jan 25, 2022•37 min•Season 2Ep. 31
In this episode, Cate decides to completely change the plan last minute, and Erik saves the day. They discuss the new DSM, the struggles of ADHD and the intersection between interoception and alexithymia, and what it's like to struggle to not only FEEL, but feel what you're feeling...while you're feeling other feelings. (Also just a note for everyone: we are having some issues with the video uploader, so head on over to youtube.com/infinitequest if you want to see this week's episodes video-styl...
Jan 20, 2022•39 min
