Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com

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Episodes

Ep. 6: Masc4Masc, Grindr Tribes and Homonormativity with Colin Bedell (@QueerCosmos)

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ In this episode, queer astrologer Colin Bedell and I problematize outdated gay stereotypes, such as masc4masc and Grindr Tribes through a critical lens, tieing this to the subject of homonormativity. We talk about the origins of homonormativity in heterosexual patriarchal systems, how queer men can work towards dismantling patriarchy, and the importance of healing our relationships with straigh...

Dec 16, 2022•49 min•Season 1Ep. 6

Ep. 5: Gay Sex Tantra with Finn Deerhart

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ How can we have more fulfilling and intimate sex? In this chat with gay sex tantra coach Finn Deerhart, we talk about the ins and outs of our sexual lives and the journey we can take to have more fulfilling sexual experiences. Specifically, we discuss how shame affects our sex lives, how to communicate our desires and preferences in sex, and how to use porn as a tool for self-inquiry and person...

Dec 09, 2022•57 min•Season 1Ep. 5

Ep.4: How to Have Great Sex Without Grindr with Cael O’Donnell

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Is it possible to have great, fulfilling sex without using Grindr or other gay hook-up apps? In this episode, Australian bestselling author of ‘Three Minutes With Spirit’ and psychic medium Cael O’Donnell and I, share creative ways of attracting sex without being on the apps. Listen to the episode to learn an energetic process of becoming a “sex magnet” and using the Law of Attraction to draw i...

Dec 02, 2022•44 min•Season 1Ep. 4

Ep. 3: Does Size Matter In Gay Sex? With Sergio Zapata

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ To what degree does dick size matter in gay sex? In my second conversation with Sergio Zapata, we bust myths about penis size and pleasure, talk about comparison, dick shaming, and how to fully accept ourselves, and take deep dive into the psychology and spirituality behind our collective obsession with size. You can read more about the research mentioned in the episode at https://gaymalejourna...

Nov 25, 2022•54 min•Season 1Ep. 3

Ep. 2: The Problem With Top/Bottom with Sergio Zapata

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Are you a top, bottom, vers, vers bottom, vers top, power bottom, dom top...? The list goes on! In this episode, I'm joined by Sergio Zapata in a conversation about how these gay sexual position preferences are empowering or limiting our sex life. Kicking the episode off with a candid sex story of how I negotiated these labels within me, we chat about whether being a top or bottom is someth...

Nov 18, 2022•51 min•Season 1Ep. 2

Ep.1: I Can't Be Gay

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ In this episode, I share my journey of coming out of the closet. Growing up in a small, homophobic, and Christian community, my childhood was marked by bullying, judgement, and self-loathing. Conditioned to pleople-please and change for others' love and acceptance, I couldn't accept my gayness. Instead, I was led down a traumatic path of rejecting and trying to "cure" my gayne...

Nov 11, 2022•31 min•Season 1Ep. 1

Introducing: Can't Host

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone...

Nov 03, 2022•1 min

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