Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this riveting episode, we journey back in time to explore the intertwined realms of queer sex, magic, and spirituality with renowned historian and expert Tomás Prower. Dive deep into understanding the essence of "Queer Magic" and grasp its profound significance for LGBTQ+ individuals throughout history. Have you ever wondered if there was a place for LGBT spirituality in the ancien...
Dec 08, 2023•37 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, we dive deep into the intricate relationship between film, media, and pop culture and its influence on our perception of masculinity. Join us as queer film critic Manuel Betancourt takes us on a captivating journey, shedding light on how media shapes our desires and dictates the ideals of manhood. Discover the ways pop culture has tried to define and redefine the boundaries of ...
Dec 01, 2023•42 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Uncover the allure behind drug-fueled sex and the root causes of addiction in the gay community, particularly the lasting trauma experienced during one's formative years. Why is crystal meth the drug of choice and what roles do other substances play in this narrative? Jason unravels the ties between sex parties and substance use, the harrowing consequences of meth addiction, and the profoun...
Nov 24, 2023•49 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, men’s sex coach Cam Fraser shares how to move away from goal- and performance-oriented sex and masturbation, and towards exploratory sexual experiences. You’ll learn how to overcome shame around self-pleasure, ways of releasing toxic masculinity narratives and find freedom in your sex life, the difference between self-pleasure and masturbation, and 5 masturbation techniques you...
Nov 17, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet After a four-month break, Can’t Host is back and it’s sexier than ever! In this episode, I review the lessons I learned during my summer sexcapades. Specifically, I share a radical thing to ask your partner/s during sex (it’ll take your sex life to the next level, what ‘Intimacy Partners’ are how they’re different from hook-ups, why having a ‘type’ may be limiting your sexual pleasure, and what...
Jun 23, 2023•34 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this bonus episode, I wrap up season 1 and share the lessons I learned so far in this journey. I share the episodes that have impacted me mostly, my sex plans for the summer, and the topics I plan to cover next on the podcast. Episodes Mentioned Ep. 2: The Problem With Top/Bottom with Sergio Zapata: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nbfYY7bDCAb Ep.8: Dealing With Unrequited Love: My Best ...
Jun 16, 2023•18 min•Season 1Ep. 31
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Have you been ghosted before? Or, have you ghosted people yourself? In this episode, I share the various ghosting scenarios when dating and the reasons people ghost in the first place. Rather than rejecting someone by ghosting them, I share two frameworks for rejecting people in a kinder way on dating apps and real life, as well as scripts that you can use to do so. We all deserve to be treated...
Jun 09, 2023•29 min•Season 1Ep. 30
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Is your sense of self-worth tied to your weight and body image? In this episode with the creator of @gayfatfriend Todd Masterson, we talk about fat shaming, body dysmorphia, comparison, and the pressure of being fit and looking ripped in the gay community. Todd shares why gay men are obsessed with their weight and appearance, his theory about why many guys are afraid of fat people, getting feti...
Jun 02, 2023•35 min•Season 1Ep. 29
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this solo episode, I share with you the full story of healing my sexual trauma. We start by defining our terms – PTSD, Complex PTSD, and Developmental Trauma – my traumatic childhood experiences growing up gay in a homophobic community, the subsequent sexual trauma I experienced in my 20s, and my step-by-step journey to healing trauma and reclaiming my self-worth. About Me I’m George Lizos, ...
May 26, 2023•27 min•Season 1Ep. 28
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this solo episode, I share with you the benefits of being single. We live in a world that’s constantly pushing us to be in a relationship, and whereas it can be fulfilling to do so, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Simultaneously, even if you want to be in a relationship but are currently single, there’s nothing wrong with that, or with you. I’ve been single for my entire adult life. I’ve jud...
May 19, 2023•27 min•Season 1Ep. 27
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, Taoist sex expert Johnathan White introduces the practice of semen retention that allows men to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. Johnathan and I talk about ways of overcoming premature ejaculation, the causes behind low/high libido and erectile disfunction, exercises for practicing semen retention, the benefits of having non-ejaculatory orgasms, how to use sexual ener...
May 12, 2023•39 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, gay fitness coach and former Broadway actor Steven Goldsmith busts common fitness and nutrition myths, and shares tactics and strategies for losing weight and sculpting our ideal body. Steven and I talk about the biggest mistakes people make when working out, ways of optimizing our workouts for best results, mindset shifts for enjoying our workout, why motivation doesn’t work a...
May 05, 2023•45 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, bisexual sex expert Zachary Zane shares how to release sexual shame and fully embrace our sexuality. Specifically, in the episode we talk about the reasons people slut shame, how sexual shame negatively impacts our sex and relationships, the reason many people can’t get their heads around bisexuality, ways of dealing with rejection coming from friends and family, and tips and r...
Apr 28, 2023•42 min•Season 1Ep. 24
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, I talk with trans author Alex Reegan about his journey of coming out and reclaiming his faith. Alex and I talk about his transitioning journey, the dynamics between gender, sex, and sexuality, the true meaning of the word queer, ways of dealing with friends and family rejecting your gender and sexuality, and how Alex reconciled his faith following his transition. About Me I’m G...
Apr 21, 2023•46 min•Season 1Ep. 23
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure Jessica Fern and I discuss the various dimensions of Consensual non-monogamy. Jessica shares whether polyamory is a privilege or whether everyone can do it, the connection between polyamory and trauma, and how to enter open relationships without hurting our partners. Finally, Jessica shares a six-step process of creating secure attachmen...
Apr 14, 2023•42 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, Dr. Lucas Wilson shares his experience in surviving conversion therapy. Growing up in evangelical Christianity Lucas struggled to accept his queerness. Overwhelmed with shame, he signed up for conversion therapy at the fundamentalist Christian Liberty University he was a student at. Lucas shares the details of the practices he had to go through, his journey of coming out and ac...
Apr 07, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 21
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, gay anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein busts myths and shares best practices for safer bottoming. Listen to the episode to learn about the anatomy of the anus, anal care practices before, during and after sex, how often you should douche and the risks of over-douching, how to safely practice rimming and prostate play, and what anal Botox is and whether you need it. About Me I’m Ge...
Mar 31, 2023•54 min•Season 1Ep. 20
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, I chat with reality star, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum), Jeff Perla. Jeff and I chat about the importance of talking openly about sex, the main issues we face in the gay community (primarily how our lack of presence hinders connection), and how to use other people’s judgements to fuel our purpo...
Mar 24, 2023•43 min•Season 1Ep. 19
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet What are the trendiest gay sex toys to spice up your sex life? What’s selling and what’s not? Will sex toys eventually replace physical connection? Should they? In this episode, I chat with one of my best friends and manager of Europe’s business gay sex shop in Soho, London. Agnetas shares the latest trends with gay sex toys as well as an AI sex toy that’ll shake up your sex life! About Me I’m ...
Mar 17, 2023•39 min•Season 1Ep. 18
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Are straight men who have sex with men closeted gay or bi? In this episode, clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort shares the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation, shedding light on this phenomenon. We also discuss heteroflexibility and homoflexibility, why straight men enjoy anal play, and four questions to determine someone’s sexual orientation. Dr. Joe Kort also shares how ...
Mar 10, 2023•22 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Is sex addiction a thing? In this episode with clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort, we talk about what out-of-control sexual behaviour is (also known as compulsive sexual behaviour and hypersexuality), and how to heal it. Dr. Joe also shares the distinction between sexual and erotic orientation, the differences between top, bottom, versatile, and side, as well as the distinctions between asexualit...
Mar 03, 2023•30 min•Season 1Ep. 16
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this solo episode, I share why it’s essential to protect your energy before, during, and after sex, and share tactical and energetic practices you can use to do so. You’ll learn why spiritual people are more prone to psychic attack, how to prevent psychic rape on Grindr, the different types of toxic energy attachments you can encounter, and a powerful energy cleansing practice to use after s...
Feb 24, 2023•32 min•Season 1Ep. 15
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, I chat with Jonathan Sekerak about overcoming loneliness and social isolation, common feelings for queer men. We discuss the root causes of loneliness in trauma, shame, and rejection, and share nature-based practices for healing and improving our relationship with others and with ourselves. Specifically, Jonathan shares practical breathwork exercises, an earthing technique, and...
Feb 17, 2023•51 min•Season 1Ep. 14
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet In this episode, I chat with my friend Ari Wisner about their experience in sex and relationships as a non-binary person. Specifically, we chat about the interactions between sex, gender, and sexual orientation, their biggest challenges when dating, how masculine and feminine energy manifest in non-binary sex and relationships, and the importance of evolving language to include gender-neutral t...
Feb 10, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 13
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Gay saunas and bathhouses are fun places to get off and experiment sexually, but could they be spaces for healing and spiritual development? In this episode with gay life and wellness coach Michael Dilorio, we discuss ways of engaging with gay saunas to heal sexual trauma, explore our sexuality, and improve our relationships with our bodies, while having great sex! You’ll learn practical tips f...
Feb 03, 2023•38 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Can porn be healing and educational? In this video with gay YouTube icon and founder of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey, we chat about the future of gay porn. Specifically, Davey and I discuss how we can use porn in a conscious way to deepen our relationships with ourselves and our partners, ways of exploring the shadow side of our sexuality with porn, and how Himeros.tv is different from other porn web...
Jan 27, 2023•52 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet If you think you don’t experience shame about being gay, think again. In my experience, shame is so deeply rooted into the lives of gay men that we’re numbed out to it. In this episode, you’ll learn how to recognize and heal shame, so you can live a happier life and improve your relationships. You’ll also learn what attachment trauma is and how that relates to shame, and powerful practices of h...
Jan 20, 2023•50 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Have you ever used a crystal dildo? These are dildos made out of specific crystals, usually jade, rose quartz, and obsidian, used to blend crystal energy healing with sexual pleasure. Personally, I was introduced to crystal dildos while going through my journey of healing from sexual trauma. They helped me unearth repressed traumatic emotions, strengthen my relationship with, and acceptance of,...
Jan 13, 2023•28 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Have you experienced unrequited love? This is when you’re in love with someone who’s not in love with you. In my experience, it can be one of the most traumatic experiences of rejection, especially when the other person is a close friend. In this episode, my best friend Sargis and I talk about our journey to navigating this. The story is simple. We met on Grindr. I fell in love with him and he ...
Jan 06, 2023•44 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet Why are gay relationships so toxic? Most importantly, how do we heal that toxicity and manifest a healthy, fulfilling relationship with a soulmate? In this week’s episode, we talk about the path of healing and manifesting our soulmate. We’ll discuss the reasons many gay relationships are toxic, what a healthy relationship looks like, how to prepare our energy to attract our soulmate/s, what the...
Dec 23, 2022•51 min•Season 1Ep. 7
