Are you worried that you need to teach your children everything? Do you worry about what will happen if you haven't done enough by the time they are 18? If so, you need to check out this episode from a mother who has three adult children who have graduated from homeschooling.
Did you know that learning to play an instrument is so good for your brain? Playing an instrument recruits almost every part of the brain, including regions that process vision, sound, movement, and memory. It's easy to see why so many homeschool parents are encouraging their kids to play one. However, if you are fighting with your kid, is it worth it? Check out today's episode to see if your kid should play an instrument.
We just finished studying about WWII and I wanted to do a book review of all the amazing books we read. I have suggestions on books for younger kids and older kids. History really does come alive and can be a very enjoyable subject when you are studying it from really good books. I put together a list of all the books; you can check them out here .
To celebrate my 200th episode I put decided to answer your questions!! Some of the questions were: How do I start homeschooling? How do I homeschool through High School? Do I need a transcript for college? How do I homeschool challenging behaviors? ADHD and disrespect. Check out today's episode to hear what I had to say.
What is a family culture and why do you need one? I adapted this from the book How Will You Measure Your Life, When you have a a supportive family culture, children don’t even need to ask how to behave, how to make decisions, or how to make this trade-off against that one, your family has become self-managing thanks to it’s culture. Parents don’t need to dive into the details of every decision, because they culture of the family is present in the details of every decision. Having a family cultur...
This is an incredibly powerful interview with Lyissa Anderson. She is the most amazing teen that I have had the privilege of knowing for a long time. Lyissa was a typical amazing teen. She loved her family, was incredibly kind and helpful, and she got addicted to porn. She is probably the last person that you would think that would struggle with pornography, but now she goes around helping others who have found themselves addicted and she is teaching moms of how they can best help their teens. I...
Have you ever wondered what yelling does to your kid, or how do they feel when they are getting yelled at? I interviewed several teens and asked them what they thought about themselves, the parent, and many other questions about yelling. I also asked them how they wish their parents would show up instead. Listen in to today's episode to see what yelling is doing to your kid, and what can happen to your family when you stop. Click here to check the no yelling course....
Do you want your children to listen to you more? Do you want to stay more calm and patient when something at home doesn't go the way you planned? Then you need to listen to today's episode of why taking care of your fundamentals will help you so much. Taking care of your fundamental needs helps you to feel less anxious and depressed and more calm and loving. Check out the episode to hear what the fundamentals are and how they will be incorporated into this year's no yelling course. Check out thi...
Who wants a step by step guide of how to create something?!? I know I do. That's why in today's episode I am going to be giving you a step by step guide of how to create something by using the law of creation. Check out this year's No Yelling Course .
What does nature do during the winter? It sleeps. Then when spring comes, it starts to wake up. Animals become more active and it's the perfect time to plant seeds. This year, I want to help you plant seeds this springs to become a calm parent. I want to help you grow all summer long, so that when harvest time comes, you'll be able to reap the harvest and no longer yell at your kids. Find out more about planting your seeds here....
Do you remember when they used to list clothing as one size fits? Then they realized that one size does not fit all. Education has been a one size fits all model for a long time, and people are realizing that one size does not. But what do you do if you feel like you don't have the time, money, or energy to homeschool your kids? I am interviewing Allison Sorenson today who is helping those in Utah to have more options with their education. Even if you don't live in Utah, this is a great episode ...
Not too long ago I wrote a post in my No Yelling group and I had someone comment that my message came across as toxic positivity. I had to look that phrase up because I had no idea what it meant, and I was surprised that someone would say that about me. I want to share with you a very raw and real episode of where I came from, and how much I have struggled with depression, and how I feel about someone telling my message is toxic.
I am so excited to share this interview with you! Tanner & Alisa documented their experience with last year's No Yell November challenge. It was so amazing to be able to see the day to day struggle they went through. I was so impressed with their video that I wanted to have them on the podcast and talk about their experience. You can also check out his video on YouTube by going to The Terrible Husband and find their video, I tried not yelling at my kids for 30 days.
Have you ever worked with your teen and their goals? Maybe you sat down with them and helped them create an actionable plan of how to achieve that goal, and even put it in easy to manage steps. Then, a few weeks, or even a few days later, your teen completely gives up on that goal. What do you do? Get after them? Push them harder? Check out this week's podcast episode to hear how to help your teen and their goals.
A few weeks ago I was upset that my favorite music app has sexual content. I was angry and mad that the world seems to feel like it continues to get dark and evil seems to be everywhere. I want to end this year's podcast with challenging you to be the light. Light always chases away the darkness. I would love to hear from you how you plan on being a light in 2023.
How does one become a great homeschool mom? Do some people just have it, and others don't? I don't think so. I think anyone can become a great homeschool mom, and I'd love to show you how in this episode. Also, here is the link to join my annual membership and receive your Family Planner as a thank you gift!
I know that there are days that you are wondering if it is worth it. Days where kids are crying and screaming, and you feel like school was chaotic and no one learned anything. I now have three adult children, and recently one of them sent me a letter telling me what they thought about my parenting them. Listen to today's episode to hear what the letter said and if working on connection is really worth it.
I watched The Hunger Games recently with my daughter and I couldn't help but think that the whole rebellion could have been avoided if the president would just stop trying to use force and fear to control them. It made me wonder how many parents are using fear and force with their kids and then wondering why their kid is rebelling? If you want to put the odds in your favor to not have a kid rebel, or if you currently have a kid who is rebelling, and you're not sure what to do, you need to check ...
I had a few interesting conversations over the last few weeks with two different women who each had two children. One woman told me why she thought having more kids made it easier to not yell at your kids, and the other women told me why it was easier to have independent kids when you have more kids. The truth is that it doesn't matter how many kids you have. Whether or not something is easy or hard, is all in the way you think about it. Tune in to today's episode, to hear what are some of my th...
Do you want to know how I make sure I enjoy the holidays? I do what I want. Maybe that sounds selfish, but doing what I really don't like doing doesn't sound very kind to me. I want to empower you to do the holidays the way you want to do them. Not the way you think you should do them.
I am always on the hunt for ways to make my life and homeschool easier, and one of the ways to do that is to create a rhythm for your home. A rhythm helps build connection and cooperation, it helps children to know what is expected, and it helps to simplify your family. Listen to today's episode to hear more about why you need a rhythm in your home and how to create one.
Mike Tyson once said, "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face." Months ago I created my dreamy homeschool plan. I had visions of what it would look like, and I couldn't wait to do school with my kids. Life has a funny way of punching you in the face sometimes and forces you to adapt. In this episode, I talk about some of the ways I have had to adapt my schedule, and I want to challenge you to look at your own schedule and see if there is something you could adapt....
I am so excited about this episode. I had the opportunity to interview Daniel Harmon. You may know him from the Harmon Brothers and his viral videos from Squatty Potty, Chatbooks, and Purple just to name a few. He has taken his passion and talent for creating and has joined forces with Connor Boyack, the creator of the Tuttle Twins, and has made the Tuttle Twins TV show. I do not promote TV shows lightly, so that is saying something about how much I have enjoyed this. Also, as an added bonus, th...
Want to know a really quick way to shut someone down? Criticize what they are doing. So many of you have experienced being criticized whether about your homeschool or other choices you have made, and so far, I haven't heard that anyone likes it. Then why do so many people criticize their children? I want to dive into that in today's episode, and give you some help of what to do instead. Want help to stop the criticism for good? Click here to join Mama's Members and get access to the No Yelling B...
This week I have a confession to make. I did a full episode of how to create an amazing birthday and/or holiday, and then guess what? I ended up getting upset over my husband's actions about my birthday. I am trying to embrace my humanness, and I want you to do the same. So today, I want to share with you what you can do when you show up in a way that you wish you wouldn't have. Here are the journal questions from today's episode: After you have written your thought download, circle what are the...
I hear a lot of parents concerns about their teens. One of the concerns I hear is the worry that their teen isn't planning for their future. That their teen won't be able to provide for a family, or do anything with their life. But what if you're wrong? What if your teen is going to make some awesome choices and some dumb choices, and they will learn a lot from all of them? In today's episode, I want to give you some journal questions to ask yourself if you are struggling with your teen and choi...
Guess what, it's my birthday today!! So I wanted to talk about what you can do to enjoy your birthday, anniversary, or any other special day.
This is the final tip I'll be giving in this series. This one is a skill. I wanted to leave you with something you can do when your child isn't listening. If you struggle with your kid not listening to you, then you need to check out this episode. Also, the last day to sign up for the No Yelling Boot Camp is September 30th, so don't miss out! https://www.coachmegthomas.com/no-yell-november-bootcamp...
This week I am focusing on what to do instead of yelling. Did you know that about 85% of the energy in the home is used to correct weakness? What if you used that energy differently? What if you used that same amount of energy and put it into pointing out what your kids are doing right? Can you imagine what a difference that would make? Check out today's episode to hear more about how to point out what your kids are doing right. Click here to learn more about the No Yelling Bootcamp
Welcome to tip #3!! In this episode, I talk about how to feel your feelings without reacting to them. I give you the tool to stop and take a BREATH, so that you can give yourself more time between the stimulus and the response. If you are wanting more help to stop yelling, you have to come and check out the No Yelling Bootcamp .
