#174 Part 2- Tips to Stop Yelling
Welcome to tip #2!! This week I'm talking about quick fixes and why they don't work. If you are ready to stop yelling for good, then you need to check out my No Yelling Bootcamp .

Welcome to tip #2!! This week I'm talking about quick fixes and why they don't work. If you are ready to stop yelling for good, then you need to check out my No Yelling Bootcamp .
Welcome to part one of tips to stop yelling. In this episode, I share with you why having the skills to yell isn't enough. Yes, skills are awesome, but you your mindset is what helps you to actually make the change.
When you start to homeschool, it's like having a new baby. It may take more of your time and some things may fall the side as you are adapting to your new lifestyle. But eventually your homeschool baby grows, and homeschool doesn't feel as challenging anymore. Your homeschool will go through different phases, just like children do. I want to give you one simple thing you can do when your homeschool starts feeling hard and challenging. Join me for the free no yelling class....
Did you know that over 15 years ago I gave up eating desserts and treats? In the beginning, it was super hard. I didn't know what to do when I was upset because treats were my go to. What do I do at a party that has treats there? It was really hard for me. Now here we are 15 years later and I don't want treats anymore. Yelling can become the same for you. It may be hard in the beginning, but eventually you will not desire to yell anymore. Check out today's episode to hear more!...
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Your example speaks so much louder than your words. Have you ever asked your kid to do something, or not do something, like check out on their phone, and then you go and do the same thing? What about talking to your kids about not fighting or yelling at their siblings, but then you yell at your kids? I am on a mission to help Mamas be the example that they want to see in their kids. If you are yelling, and you want to stop, you need to listen to today's episode for help....
Did you feel inspired to homeschool? Did it seem like a crazy idea? When I felt inspired to homeschool, I had five small children, had been hospitalized for health issues, and was still battling severe depression. It seemed like a really terrible thing to add into my life. And yet, the Lord inspires people to bring about His purpose. I can now look back and see that if I hadn't followed that inspiration, that I wouldn't have the family that I have now. I wouldn't have the connection that I have ...
Do you keep buying new curriculum hoping that the next one will magically solve all your homeschool problems? If you do, then your curriculum is probably not the problem. Check out today's episode to know when to switch the curriculum or not.
Did you know that in the early 1900s only 7% of Americans were brushing their teeth? In fact, in the 1600s the 5th reason for death was tooth decay. We have come a long way from those days and now most people understand the importance of brushing their teeth everyday. As we grow and progress as humans, we continue to find ways to improve our lives and our health. I would love to see people start little habits, like brushing their teeth, to their lives to improve their emotional and mental health...
Is your teen feeling stuck and doesn't quite know what to do? Maybe they are going through something and they just want someone to talk to that isn't emotionally involved. In today's episode, I share with you some of the things that I have had the opportunity to coach teens. Whether it is about breaking up with a boyfriend or feeling anxious, I have coached it all. Check out today's episode to hear some of the things that teens have wanted coaching on.
The sun and the wind had a competition to see who could get a child to take off their jacket. The wind blew hard, but despite its best efforts, the child only held onto the jacket tighter. The sun then took a turn and simply warmed up the child, and the child naturally took off their jacket. When you want your child to do something, do you get angry and yell like the wind, or are you patient and gentle like the sun? If you want your child to listen to you, then you will need to become like the s...
I recently bought a random pack of books from Costco and I decided to try them out for our read aloud. After having spent so much time reading beautiful, heart warming stories, it became painfully obvious that not all books are created equally. In today's episode I share with you some ideas of where to find some heart warming books.
Do you like a house full of noise or do you prefer it being quiet? Do you recharge by being alone or do you recharge by being with a group? There is no right or wrong answer to this, but by understanding your personality it can help you in your home and in your homeschool. Listen to today's episode to get some questions to help you better understand you and what supports your personality. www.coachmegthomas.com
Did you know that the average student who attends public school will spend over 100,000 hours in school? That is over 100,000 hours of being influenced with strangers beliefs and values. I have no problem with someone having different beliefs and values than me, but I want to make sure my children are influenced by what my husband and I believe and value. This is one of the reasons why you are more than qualified to teach your own children. You get to be an influence for good to them in a chaoti...
Do you find yourself getting hung up on your check list? Do you see all the things you haven't done and start to feel inadequate or that you aren't doing enough? Then you need to listen to today's episode to hear a different way you can do your check list that will help you gain momentum to keep going.
Babylon and Zion cannot coexist. Has public school become a modern day Babylon? Babylon is used as a symbol of the wickedness and evils of the world. Babylon is known for being a center of sin, carnality, and worldliness. More and more schools are coming out with wicked and evil teachings. Children as young as four are being allowed to choose their gender, and parents are where LGBT activists are telling parents that they cannot protect their kids from transgender ideology. Zion is the opposite ...
Do you look forward to summer with your kids or dread it? I have found that by doing four simple things that you can create a successful summer that you and your kids can all enjoy. Listen to today's episode to hear more.
Are you wrapping up your school year? If yes, I invite you to do a year end review. I want you to go through the questions on the podcast so you can see what is working in your homeschool and find any areas that you want to change. I go over my year with you, so you can hear what is working and what isn't working in my school. Check out the private podcast here. Check out the online homeschool event here....
Why don't more people change? Why do they keep habits that aren't serving them and even creating contention? Because change is uncomfortable. Listen to this week's episode to hear about why change is worth it and the law of creation to create the change you want.
There is one thing that I can guarantee in your homeschool and that is that at one point you will face some type of obstacle. Whether that is health, a strained relationship, or even not knowing what to teach a certain child. Do you know what to do when an obstacle hits? You can just throw your hands up and give up, but if you want to keep going then you need to listen to this week's episode to hear what you can do to get past the obstacle and continue in creating an amazing homeschool....
You are capable of so much more than you think you are. When you start to believe that, you will be able to do amazing things. In today's episode, I am giving a race recap from my recent Ironman, and talking to you about the power of belief.
Everything we do is driven because of the way we think it will make us feel. Sometimes we choose to feel good now, knowing that we will feel the discomfort later. And sometimes we are willing to feel discomfort in one area of our lives over another. What if we were more intentional of what we were willing to feel? Listen to today's episode to see what are you willing to feel?
How many of you worry about your curriculum? Do you stress if you are using the right books or method to teach your child? Spoiler alert, that isn't where your focus should be in your homeschool. If you are wanting to create an amazing homeschool that flows, you need to listen to this episode to hear the one thing you can do to help your homeschool succeed.
Today is my Brigham's 11th birthday! This kid is an absolute joy, but when he was little he was quite the challenge. He destroyed anything and everything his path. Whether it was painting his sisters with nail polish in their sleep or running away in the night when we were all asleep. How do you navigate life when you have a child that you don't know what to do? Check out today's episode to hear how.
Have you ever struggled with anxiety? So many Mamas and even children struggle with anxiety. I want to share with you today one thing you can do that can start to help you with your anxiety. You are not going to want to miss this!
Do you ever feel like the odd one out because you homeschool? I know I have. So often we don't want to be the odd one out because we want to be a part of the tribe. We want to belong. And we are afraid that if we are different than other people then something bad will happen. What if being the odd one out wasn't a problem? What if by you being willing to be the odd one allowed other people to do the same? Tune in to listen to why it's ok being the odd one out. Ticket for the live event: https://...
What is some bad advice you have received? One of my favorites was about a way to keep my runaway toddler in the house. Needless to say, the advice wasn't helpful and didn't work. I recently heard some advice at a bridal shower and instantly knew that it was some really bad advice. It is a quick ticket to causing contention and force into your marriage and/or home. The thing that surprised me was that so many people thought it was great advice. Listen to today's episode to hear some really bad a...
The world feels chaotic and crazy. We've gone from pandemics to war, and sometimes it feels like the problem is too big and we are too small. What can anyone do? If you want to change the world, go home and love your family. Change happens in our homes, and then they ripple out into the community and the world. Listen to today's episode to hear what you can do to change the world. Click here to check out: Create an Amazing Family Online Event...
Are you tired of feeling like your family is barely surviving? Are you tired of the complaining, the meltdowns, and the messes? I was too. I am taking over two decades of studying about families and sharing with you how to create an amazing one. I will be hosting a webinar to give you the steps to create the family of your dreams. In the webinar, you will learn: The one simple thing to do each week that creates huge momentum How to get rid of tattle telling How to solve problems as a family And ...
I am so excited to have Karyn Tripp on the podcast this week. She and I started Called to Homeschool together and we recorded episodes for two years. Since leaving the podcast, she has gone on to publish another amazing book. Science Art + Drawing Games for Kids. In today's episode, you can hear all about easy ways to make science even more fun with art. You can also go to my Instagram page and enter the giveaway to win your own signed copy!