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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

375 - Sexcapades VIII Resurrected

Join us for a tantalizing episode of By the Bi, where your hosts Bradford and Angela ignite your imagination with tales of recent romantic adventures. From the allure of solo dates to the heat of passion with special play friends, this episode is a sexy, sultry, and intimate glimpse into the desire-filled world of a couple who know how to enjoy the full spectrum of pleasure. Whether you’re seeking inspiration for your own explorations or just eager to indulge in some vicarious pleasure, this epi...

Aug 23, 202349 min

374 - A Chat with Tristan Taormino

Prepare for a fascinating journey on By the Bi, as we sit down with Tristan Taormino, an acclaimed author, educator, speaker, and filmmaker. With her fearless approach to sexuality, relationships, and personal empowerment, Tristan has become a leading voice in the fields of sexual health and education. In this episode, we navigate a lot of subjects, touching on her new memoir, “A Part of the Heart That Can’t Be Eaten,” a work that beckons readers into her fascinating life and experiences. Her wr...

Aug 16, 20231 hr 16 min

373 - Swinging Boundaries and Hidden Meanings in Music - A Listener's Q&A

In this episode, we dive into the questions that you, our community from the Discord server, have been asking. How much kink wear is too much at a swingers club? What are the norms and etiquettes around bisexual play? In this segment, we unravel these complex questions, navigating the fine line between personal expression and community standards. Join us as we share insider tips, real-life experiences, and expert opinions on what makes the swinger's lifestyle both alluring and respectful. In the...

Aug 09, 202349 min

372 - What Are We Talking About

Discover the language of love, redefined, in our latest episode exploring the unique vernacular used within open relationships. We delve into the often misunderstood terms and concepts, fostering a broader understanding of non-monogamous partnerships. Unveiling the meaning behind words like 'Swinger', 'Stag/Vixen', and 'Polyamory', we're here to decode the lingo and debunk the myths. Tune in to enhance your knowledge and to celebrate the diverse dimensions of love and commitment in the 21st cent...

Aug 02, 202353 min

371 - A Night at Between Friends Wine Bar (Discussion)

Join us as we discuss our recent evening at Between Friends Wine Bar with friends who joined us on the night! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/priv...

Jul 26, 202353 min

370 - Live at Between Friends Wine Bar

Join us as we visit Between Friends Wine Bar in Melbourne and record a live podcast! Tune in and hear some chats as we start our evening of debauchery. When in Melbourne, check out our friends at Between Friends Wine Bar ! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! ...

Jul 19, 202353 min

369 - Pendulum & Advice

This week we talked about our most recent Pendulum Party and our headspace’s going into it. Additionally we had a listener reach out to us asking about meeting people in our local bars. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whateve...

Jul 05, 202343 min

368 - Pride Month History

In this week's episode, we embark on a journey spanning continents, exploring the rich history and profound significance of Pride Month in the United States, Europe, and Australia. Join us as we unravel the vibrant tapestry of events, struggles, and triumphs that have collectively shaped this monumental period. We will be spotlighting the resilience and spirit of the LGBTQ+ community and illuminating the indispensable role Pride Month continues to play across these diverse societies. Don't miss ...

Jun 28, 202346 min

367 - Talking to Our Past Selves III MSP3K

This week we are once again joined by Josh & Kez as we dive back into the past and re-listen to an episode where we dove into Aussie Slang with Danny and Sandy. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen t...

Jun 21, 20231 hr 38 min

366 - Decoding the Queer: A Dive into Queer Coding in Films and Books

In this insightful episode, we delve deep into the nuanced world of queer coding in literature and film. Join us as we dissect famous examples, both positive and negative, from classics like ‘Rebecca’, ‘Cabaret’, and ‘Midnight Cowboy’, to contemporary gems like ‘Scooby Doo’. We’ll discuss how these coded characters have served as mirrors for queer individuals, offering subtextual representation where there was none. But we also shed light on the darker side of coding, where queer traits are tied...

Jun 14, 202340 min

365 - Masturbation Nation!

Welcome, dear listeners, to an electrifying episode. Today, we dive deep into the realm of pleasure as we explore and review some of the most captivating and innovative masturbators on the market. As connoisseurs of sensual delights, we they take you on an intimate journey through the world of self-pleasure. Our spotlight shines brightly on some remarkable devices: the iconic Tenga Egg, the revolutionary Fleshlight, and the game-changing Autoblow. (Amongst others!) In this episode, we leave no s...

Jun 07, 202351 min

364 - Affirmations

This week we are joined by Josh and Kez and we all sit together and give each other compliments and other words of affirmation! Don't forget to tell your friends and loved ones how important they are to you! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feed...

May 31, 20231 hr 20 min

363 - Best of the Worst Erotica

This week we read the best of the worst of Erotic fiction. From Updike to Rowling we read and discuss passages from fiction meant to titillate but ultimately fail to get the blood flowing. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on what...

May 24, 202358 min

362 - Questions, Questions, Questions

This week we answer your questions! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

May 17, 202355 min

361 - Talking to Our Past Selves II MSP3K

Get ready for a wild ride down memory lane as we dive into the deep end of meta-commentary! We revisit Episode 2 of our own podcast and bring our quick wit, sharp insights, and self-deprecating humor to dissect and poke fun at our past selves. Come along as we explore the quirks, missteps, and awkward moments of our early podcast days, all while providing fresh perspectives and commentary. This episode is guaranteed to make you laugh, cringe, and maybe even learn a thing or two about our journey...

May 10, 20231 hr 37 min

360 - Pendulum Review

This week we discuss the recent Pendulum Party and whether or not Content Creators have a responsibility to be “out”. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast....

May 03, 202337 min

359 - Connections and Other Rambles

This week we are joined by friends of the podcast Coby and Judy to talk connections, cruising, and just ramble a bit about questions that have been asked on our Podcast channel of our Discord Channel. Sit back and relax to our dulcet tones. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clickin...

Apr 26, 202358 min

358 - Guess the Implement!

This week we “play” with The Gentleman. The game is called “Guess the Implement”. Listen is and play along. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privac...

Apr 19, 20231 hr 2 min

357 - Talking to Our Past Selves I

As promised this week we have a looooooong one. So many of our listeners say they have conversations with us as they listen so we took this idea to revisit past episodes and comment on them as we listen to them too! Here we are listening to our original Episode 63 The Manticore, where we discuss The Gentleman BEFORE HE WAS The Gentleman… and as an added bonus… He is with us talking about it too! What’s resulted is a fun episode full of echos, laughs, and clever commentary on who we are and how o...

Apr 12, 20231 hr 48 min

Easter Break

A short episode this week as we are both traveling! Tune in next week as we will have an extended episode as penance! :) Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See aca...

Apr 05, 20233 min

356 - Pregnancy & Lactating While Swinging

In this episode we'll be discussing the topic of swinging before and after pregnancy. We're joined today by Kay and we'll be diving into her personal journey, how her experiences have changed over time, and what advice she may have for others who may be considering swinging while pregnant. We ask her to share tadvice for others who may be considering swinging before, during, or after pregnancy. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on s...

Mar 29, 20231 hr 8 min

355 - Chat with the Steamy Romantics

On this week's podcast, we have an exciting conversation with "The Steamy Romantics," the brilliant creative team behind the hot new play, Compersion. We dive deep into the world of theater, discussing the inspiration behind the play, the creative process, and the challenges they faced in bringing it to life. Join us as we explore the themes of love, swinging, and the complex dynamics of relationships that are at the heart of this intriguing production. Get ready for an entertaining and insightf...

Mar 22, 20231 hr 4 min

354 - The Cost of Swinging

In this episode, we'll be discussing the cost of being a swinger and how you can enjoy this lifestyle either expensively or on the cheap. Swinging is great, but it can also be an expensive hobby. From club memberships to travel expenses and outfit costs, the price of swinging can quickly add up. However, there are ways to enjoy the lifestyle without breaking the bank. We'll be discussing how you can find affordable swinging events and parties, what to look for when selecting a club, and tips for...

Mar 15, 202353 min

353 - Positives of Bisexuality

In this episode, we celebrate and explore the many positive aspects of being bisexual. Whether you identify as bisexual or are simply curious to learn more about this often misunderstood orientation, this episode is sure to enlighten and inspire. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by c...

Mar 08, 202351 min

352 - World Pride and Mardi Gras

Welcome to our latest episode where we celebrate diversity and equality through the lens of World Pride and Sydney Mardi Gras! This year marks the 43rd anniversary of the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, a vibrant celebration of LGBTQIA+ rights and culture that attracts visitors from all over the world. We'll delve into the rich history of World Pride and our local Sydney Mardi Gras, which began as a protest march in 1978 and has since evolved into one of the largest LGBTQ+ events in the world...

Mar 01, 202346 min

351 - Pendulum XXVII

In this episode, we are joined by dear friends Josh and Kez recount their unforgettable experience our Pendulum Party. With a mix of excitement and nerves, they immersed themselves in a world of sensuality and self-discovery, encountering new friends and exploring their boundaries in ways they never expected. They offer a candid, unfiltered perspective on the electrifying energy of the party. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or simply curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers a tantalizi...

Feb 22, 20231 hr 8 min

350 - Apology Languages

Do you ever feel like someone owes you an apology, but they don't seem to understand why? Or maybe you struggle to apologize to others in a way that truly resonates with them. The Apology Languages quiz might just be the answer you're looking for. Based on the popular book, "The Five Languages of Apology" by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas, this quiz will help you identify your preferred way of giving and receiving apologies. Whether you value taking responsibility, making amends, expressing re...

Feb 15, 202350 min

349 - Love Languages & Styles

Love is an ever-evolving part of relationships, and knowing different love languages can make us better partners. In this episode, we will explore what makes for better understanding of our love styles and the five love languages. This episode dives deep into why we express love differently — both through words and actions. Whether you’re single, in a monogamous relationship or polyamorous, this podcast will provide tools that help us nurture more satisfying connections with our partners. Experi...

Feb 07, 202353 min

348 - Holiday Redo - Meyers Briggs & Sexuality

As we continue on our holiday, we have another look to the past...at our Meyers Briggs personality types. Have you ever wondered how your personality type affects your sex life? Do people with different personality types have different needs in the bedroom? Are some personality types better at sex than others? Wondering what your Meyers Briggs personality type says about your love life? Stay tuned, because we're going to take a look at exactly that! Listen as we learn more about the sexual tende...

Jan 31, 202348 min

347 - Holiday Redo - Desire Resort Comparison

As we are on holiday this week recharging our batteries, we are harkening back to several years ago when we had the luxury of spending back to back weeks at Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl in Mexico. If you are interested in visiting Desire and aren't sure which resort is best for you, listen in on our side by side comparison of the two resorts. We try as best as our brains can to remember every up and down of both locations. Note, that this is a direct comparison of the resorts not any of ...

Jan 25, 20231 hr 32 min
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