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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

346 - Stay Connected

Are you looking for ways to stay connected with your partner physically and mentally? Are you eager to spice up things when together or apart? Technology can definitely help us stay united even when we are miles away. With today's great selection of apps, toys, gadgets and gizmos at our fingertips – keeping tabs on one another has never been easier! If you’re looking for unique ways to show undying affection without compromising intimate moments then why not consider trying out a few of the many...

Jan 18, 202349 min

345 - Between Friends

This past weekend, we packed our bags and hopped on a flight to Melbourne for a long overdue adventure. We were so excited just to get out of the house, throw off our work chains, and step into a world of pampering, delicious food, wild nightlife experiences – plus some good old-fashioned sexy fun. And boy did we deliver! Our journey through Melbourne took us everywhere from high-end restaurants to back alley bars and eventually landed us at Between Friends Wine Bar where we had an amazing. So c...

Jan 10, 20231 hr 3 min

344 - A Rear View of 2022

It's been ten years since 2022 and it feels like a lifetime ago. On this week's episode we look back at some of the things that made up 2022: The media that captivated us, the sex that shaped its landscape, the stories from then to now - join us for an insightful journey into our past as we revisit 2022 with sexy smart funny nostalgia. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheB...

Jan 04, 202351 min

343 - Feeling Ya Philia

Welcome back to another sizzling episode of our show! We have an incredible treat for you this week -- The Gentleman is joining us! Angela has more Philias for us to interpret. Get ready for some juicy conversations with The Gentleman as we dive deep into what each one means. Fasten your seatbelts - it's sure to be a wild ride full of valuable insight, and terrible puns. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitte...

Dec 28, 20221 hr

342 - Relationship Questions

Are you feeling a bit lost in your relationship? Is communication lagging or emotions getting the best of you? Well, not to worry. This week on our podcast we are diving deep into the world of relationships and helping get everything back on track! If you're looking for some guidance and want to spark the romance between you and your partner again, then make sure to tune in. We vow that with this knowledge, togetherness will blossom like never before! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us ...

Dec 21, 202251 min

341 - Adventures Apart, Part 2

Are you ready to jump into the tantalizing world of Angela’s sexy adventures while she was in London? If so, join us for an exciting episode as we chat about her wild experiences abroad. (It’s sexier than what Bradford did!) Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ...

Dec 14, 202252 min

340 - Adventures Apart, Part 1

Podcast listeners, we need to talk. This week's episode is a little different than usual. You see, we've been apart for the last few weeks and one of us did some things that we're not exactly proud of. But before we get too into that, let's discuss some of the sexy things we did while we were apart. We hope you enjoy this week's show! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBi...

Dec 07, 202258 min

339 - Xcape to the Tropics Review

It was an all-out swinger takeover this past weekend at the Xcape to the Tropics event! From start to finish, attendees were treated to a naughty good time with plenty of sexy activities and opportunities to let loose. Whether you're new to the swinging lifestyle or a seasoned pro, there was something for everyone at this event. If you missed it, don't worry – we've got all the highlights for you here. Yeah we co-hosted it… but it was f**cking awesome! Listen on to find out what went down at Xca...

Nov 30, 202254 min

338 - Xcape to the Tropics Live Podcast

This week is our live podcast recorded at our recent resort takeover Xcape to The Tropics! We have chats, games, and a wedding… yes you heard that right… a wedding. ENJOY! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you l...

Nov 22, 202253 min

337 - Sydney Sexpo 2022

As Australians it's hard not to get swept up in the hype of Sexpo. The promise of a steamy, sexy good time has us all eager to check it out; and with new management we were super excited to see what had changed from Sexpo past. But is this really something we should be getting behind? This week on the podcast we take a look at both sides of the coin. Did you go? What did YOU think? Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!...

Nov 16, 202257 min

336 - Introducing Curious Humans Game

This week we are joined by Tyler, the creator of Curious Humans Game. Listen in as we chat about how he created one of our favorite games, and get some insights into his creative process. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whate...

Nov 09, 20221 hr 18 min

335 - Review of They/Them

Welcome to our latest podcast episode! This week we're discussing the new horror film They/Them. We had a lot of fun analyzing this movie and we think you will too. Be sure to stick around until the end, where we give our final thoughts on the film. Thanks for listening! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please dona...

Nov 02, 20221 hr 6 min

334 - Gentleman Waxing - Loving It

We are going in the way back machine to get us excited for Halloween… How do we do that? With screams… lots and lots of screams. The Gentleman + Home Waxing Kit = Tears running down EVERYONE's faces. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for...

Oct 26, 202244 min

333 - Questions from Facebook

Hey podcast listeners! This week we answer some questions that we were never asked! Bradford found some questions that folks had posted to a Facebook swingers group. These questions range from beginner tips on how to get started in the lifestyle, to more advanced advice on how to make your swinger experiences even better. We had a lot of fun answering these questions, and we hope you enjoy listening to them as much as we enjoyed recording them! Thanks for tuning in! ;-) Want to help us out? Sure...

Oct 19, 202256 min

332 - Erotic Ball Sydney

This week, Bradford is out sick, so Coby steps in with Angela to discuss their experiencs at the Sydney Erotic Ball. We had a great time at the ball and they’re excited to share the experiences with all of you. A fun and naughty night out with friends, the erotic ball was definitely an event that we won't soon forget. Stay tuned to hear all about it! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On ...

Oct 12, 202237 min

331 - Coming Out as Bi in a Straight Presenting Relationship

When you're in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, and presenting as straight, there are some things that people may assume about you. That you're completely heterosexual, for example. Or that your partner is also heterosexual. But what if you're not straight? What if you're bisexual? How do you come out as bisexual in a straight presenting relationship? Should you even bother coming out at all? These are questions that many bisexual people face when they're in a relationship with s...

Oct 05, 202255 min

330 - Consent is Sexy

This week's podcast is all about consent. What it is, what it isn't, and why it's so important. It can be a tricky topic to navigate, but we're here to help make sense of it all. Whether you're just starting to think about sex, or you've been at it for years, consent is something everyone needs to understand. So join us for a sexy smart conversation about how to make sure both you and your partner are getting what you want in the bedroom. Consent is about creating a safe and healthy sexual exper...

Sep 27, 202255 min

329 - Themes Themes Themes

This week we go back in time an once again look at an OLD episode on themes. As you go out into the swinger world you will notice that parties, resorts, and clubs all have one thing in common: Theme Parties. We dive into the most common and our favorite themes and help you figure out the best way to approach what to wear to get your getting it on on! Next week we promise to have a new episode! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on so...

Sep 21, 202247 min

328 - Introducing Exclusively RHP

If you're a fan of our podcast, then you know that we love to talk about all things sexy. This week, we had the pleasure of interviewing Ray and Jackie from Exclusively RHP, who gave us the inside scoop on who they are, what kind of parties they host and our upcoming resort takeover in Far North Queensland. If you're looking for a sex-filled vacation, look no further than Xcape to the Tropics! We definitely know how to make your fantasies come true. So what are you waiting for? Start packing! Ex...

Sep 14, 202258 min

327 - Reconnecting at Sea

If you're like most people, you probably spend the majority of your time at work or focused on other obligations. But what about when it's time to relax? What do you do to reconnect with your partner and really enjoy their company? This week on the podcast we discuss how to thrive in your relationship by making time for each other. Whether that means scheduling regular date nights or simply taking a break from electronics to spend some quality time together, we've got you covered. So tune in and...

Sep 07, 202252 min

326 - Wanna go to a club?

So, you're thinking about going to a swingers club? Before you take the plunge, there are a few things you should think about. Our latest podcast is all about what to expect when you go to a swingers club, so make sure to listen for some tips! Whether you're curious about it or have been before, we'll give you the inside scoop on what goes down at these places. Keep in mind that every club is different, so don't be afraid to ask around and do your research beforehand. Ready to explore your wild ...

Aug 31, 202255 min

325 - Etymology of Words We Use, Part 2

If you liked last week, you are going to love this week! Join us as we continue our deep dive on the etymology of the sexy (and not so sexy) words that we use. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to you...

Aug 24, 202251 min

324 - Etymology of Words We Use, Part 1

As podcast listeners, we're used to tuning in to hear interesting stories and insights from people we admire. This week, we're doing something a little different - delving into the etymology of the lifestyle labels we use. Whether it's "Queer" or "Swinger,". Where do they come from, and what do they really mean? Join us as we explore the origins of some of our favorite - and least favorite - labels. NSFW! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here F...

Aug 17, 202253 min

323 - Headspace Undecided

This week's episode is a tough one. We talk about headspace and how it can be difficult to deal with when things get tough. Bradford opens up about his own struggles and we hope that our listeners can find some comfort in knowing they're not alone. Just be warned, this episode is pretty raw and definitely not an easy one. Thanks for listening. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Faceboo...

Aug 10, 202250 min

322 - Pendulum XXIV

We’re still recovering from the amazing time had at the Pendulum Party last weekend. If you missed it, let us fill you in - it was a night of sexy shenanigans and good times had by all! We discuss everything that happened with special guests The Gentleman and Coby. Have a listen; you won't regret it! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcas...

Aug 03, 20221 hr 4 min

321 - Food or Sex Position

What's the deal with this food thing? Join us as we learn about some very naughty foods from around the world and then get down to business, answering is it a sex position or not. Then we go back and discuss iconic bisexuals throughout time! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicki...

Jul 27, 202247 min

320 - Exploring Sensation Play

Are you looking to add something new and exciting to your sex life? If so, you may want to explore sensation play. This week on the podcast, we're talking about all things related to sensation play, from what it is and how to get started, to tips for making it even more fun. So whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting out, there's sure to be something in this episode for you! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!...

Jul 20, 202255 min

319 - Bringing Back Pet Play

***RERUN ALERT*** We delve back into the archives to talk, once again, about Pet Play. In this episode, we brought The Gentleman back to discuss Pet Play. In the not too distant past he came over to play and Mr Atom was in full puppy mode but what is pet-play? We chat with him about mindset of a pup during playtime as well as all their actions involved for those who are curious or newbies looking at getting started themselves! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sur...

Jul 13, 20221 hr 3 min

318 - More Sexy Games

What happens when we open a couple of bottles of wine and sit around the table asking sexy questions? We get some hilarious answers, that's what! Last month, we took a group of friends to the Hunter Valley and after a few glasses of wine, things started to get a bit naughty. We asked our friends some sexy questions and their answers were hilarious. From sexy fantasies to wild encounters, we got it all. If you want to know what happens when you mix wine and sexy questions, just turn up the volume...

Jul 06, 20221 hr 6 min

317 - Guess Who, Bicon Edition

This week, we, once again, celebrate icons who identify as bisexual. Though they may be lesser known than their gay and lesbian counterparts, these individuals have made significant contributions to society. Their stories offer hope and inspiration to those who are struggling to come to terms with their own bisexuality. We owe them our gratitude for helping to break down the barriers that still exist between straight and queer communities. So please join us in celebrating these bisexual icons! B...

Jul 06, 202254 min
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