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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

316 - Celebrating Bicons

It's still Pride Month and this week on our podcast we're discussing bisexual icons. Whether it's celebrities like Katharine Hepburn or politicians like Cynthia Nixon, these are the people who have helped shape public perceptions of bisexuality and brought visibility to our community. We'll be talking about what makes an icon, and why they're important. So whether you're bisexual yourself or just interested in learning more, join us for a discussion of some of history's most influential bicons. ...

Jun 21, 202256 min

315 - EStim Stroker

Some of you may recall that talked about our foray into electro-sex a while back. We mentioned at the time that we'd purchased an e-stim toy to experiment with. We've since added a few new pieces to our collection, and thought it might be fun to share what we've been up to. If you're not familiar with e-stim, it's basically a way to deliver electrical current through the body, either directly or indirectly. Some people find it incredibly pleasurable, while others find it simply enjoyable or stim...

Jun 15, 202245 min

314 - Awards & Pendulum

If you're a podcast listener, then you know that we like to discuss recent events. And what could be more recent than an awards ceremony we went to and Pendulum Party? We'll be discussing both of these events in this episode. Warning… bitchfest to follow! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast...

Jun 08, 202247 min

313 - Waxing the Gentleman...Never Gets Old

Yes its a rerelease… but damn is it a funny one. Oh have we a delight for you this week... an equation! The Gentleman + Home Waxing Kit = Tears running down EVERYONE's faces Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leav...

Jun 01, 202242 min

312 - Talking with Adult Children

When it comes to discussing sex and sexuality with our adult children, many parents feel apprehensive. After all, it's an intimate topic that can be difficult to talk about. But by not discussing these issues openly and honestly, we may be doing our children a disservice. In this episode, we’ve invited some guests to explore some of the reasons why parents should talk about sex and sexuality with their adult children. We'll also talk about some “getting caught” moments. Sit back, relax and prepa...

May 25, 20221 hr 18 min

311 - The Great Lingerie Imbalance

What's the deal with lingerie? Why is it that when a woman wears a sexy dress, she's considered "dressed up," but when a man wears lingerie, he's considered "weird"? There seems to be a major imbalance when it comes to women and sexy clothing. This week on the podcast, we're going to discuss why this might be the case, and what we can do about it. Tune in to hear our thoughts! Some of the brands discussed: Leak NYC Menagerie Intimates CandyMan Fashion Ciciful Wicked Mmm Cosabella Andrew Christia...

May 18, 202246 min

310 - Have More Sex When?

Apparently, when it comes to sex, timing is everything. And when it comes to your period, the time you have sex can make a big difference in terms of how enjoyable the experience is. So, what's the best time (according to some rando internet article we stumbled upon on Facebook) to get down? According to "science", there's actually a pretty specific window of opportunity that corresponds with your menstrual cycle. Listen in to find out more! Appologies in advance for not fully reading the articl...

May 11, 202250 min

309 - Swingcations with Three

Imagine this: you, your partner, and another person, all taking a vacation together. Picture the three of you exploring a new city, sipping cocktails on the beach, and enjoying amazing dinners together. Sound like fun? It can be! polyamorous vacations are a great way to explore new relationships and have some sexy fun. Whether you're looking for a wild getaway or just want to try something new, traveling with three can be an amazing experience. Ready to take the plunge? Here's everything you nee...

May 04, 20221 hr 13 min

308 - Wet Moments at Wet on Wellington

If you're a regular podcast listener, then you know that we like to keep things interesting by trying out new places. This week, we ventured to Wet on Wellington – a gay sauna that opens up to swingers on the 3rd Monday of every month in Melbourne that's known for being sexy and fun. We weren't sure what to expect, but we had a blast! The club was packed, the staff was friendly, and the drinks were strong. If you're looking for a place to let loose and have some fun, Wet on Wellington is definit...

Apr 27, 20221 hr 23 min

307 - Myers Briggs & Sexuality

Have you ever wondered how your personality type affects your sex life? Do people with different personality types have different needs in the bedroom? Are some personality types better at sex than others? Wondering what your Meyers Briggs personality type says about your love life? Stay tuned, because we're going to take a look at exactly that! Listen as we learn more about the sexual tendencies of our Meyers Briggs personality type. You might be surprised by what we uncover! Find out what your...

Apr 20, 202249 min

306 - Never Have I Ever from the Wayback

Due to travel schedules this week, we return to the way back machine and grab an episode from the way WAAAAY back, number 87. Listen along as young Bradford and Angela gather some friends to play Never Have I Ever and ask you to play with us! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us ...

Apr 13, 20221 hr 46 min

305 - Overheard at a Swinger's Party

You might be wondering what kind of questions swingers ask each other at a party. Well, wonder no more! Here are some of the most common questions we can expect to hear - along with some tips on how to answer them. Whether you're a swinger yourself or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode will give you a little sneak peek into what goes on behind closed doors. So listen on and get ready to be entertained! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! H...

Apr 06, 202248 min

304 - HUMP! 2022 Review

Have you ever seen a movie so explicit that you couldn't help but watch it? Well, this week we're joined by The Gentleman, Leo, and Coby to talk about Hump!, the film festival known for its X-rated short films. From amateur porn to documentary-style sex stories, this festival has something for everyone. Whether you're a seasoned viewer or just curious what all the fuss is about, we've got everything you need to know about Hump! right here. So grab some popcorn and get ready for an interesting ri...

Mar 30, 20221 hr 18 min

303 - Categorizing Sexuality

With sexuality becoming more and more fluid, many people are beginning to question where they fit into the spectrum. This week on the podcast, we'll be discussing different ways of categorizing your sexuality. Whether you're questioning your current label or just exploring what's out there, we hope this episode will provide some insight into an often complex topic. So whether you're gay, straight, bi, or something else entirely, join us as we delve into the world of sexuality! Sit back, relax an...

Mar 23, 202239 min

Covid Break

Hello all! Just. quick apology for not having an episode this week. Angela and I have both been hit with COVID. We will be back! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast....

Mar 16, 20221 min

302 - PENELOPE a Musical Bicon

This week we are so incredibly excited to interview musical bicon, PENELOPE. Enjoy as we chat with her about music, her journey, putting together a Mardi Gras float in a fortnight, and what its like to come out like an absolute boss! Find PENELOPE's music on Spotify, Apple Music, and Sound Cloud. Find her on Instagram @i.am.the.penelope And on Facebook Penelope Pettigrew Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord c...

Mar 09, 202247 min

301 - Get to Know Our Listeners, Part 2

We are back this week with the second half of our 300th episode! (Or as Bradford likes to call it... 300b) Once again, thank YOU, community members. Without dedication like yours, this show wouldn't exist at all! We owe our success in part due not only to your continued support throughout these years but also because of those who joined us on our podcast today: our listeners, The Gentleman, and Leo (thankful beyond words). Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure yo...

Mar 02, 20221 hr 12 min

300 - Get to Know Our Listeners, Part 1

We are thrilled to share with you all our 300th episode. (Well... at least part one of it!!!) Thank YOU, community members, without dedication like yours, this show wouldn't exist at all! We owe our success in part due not only to your continued support throughout these years but also because of those who joined us on our podcast today: our listeners, The Gentleman, and Leo (thankful beyond words). Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Pa...

Feb 22, 20221 hr 20 min

299 - VDay Stats & Do I Come Out

This week we look at the statistics behind Valentine's Day... and yes we are a bit cynical. Later, we discuss some details on "coming out". How do you do it? Should you do it? And what are the ramifications? Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibilit...

Feb 15, 202251 min

298 - Has Our Kinkiness Changed

This week we were inspired to take a look at the responses we had to the BDSM test found here . We last took it in 2019. How much have we changed? Quite a lot! In fact, more than we had expected. Is it time for you to retake the test? if yes... do so here: https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPo...

Feb 09, 202253 min

297 - Hosting a Lifestyle Party

This week your party-loving hosts will be sharing their tips and tricks to throw the perfect sexy soiree. You'll learn how they plan every detail sure not only to impress but also keep guests on (or off…) their feet all night long! Your excitement level can't help but increase when you hear about some amazing tips and tricks for hosting lifestyle parties without breaking out into hives from stress - because let's face it: who wants an overworked skin sensation?? Thank you to the folks on our Dis...

Jan 31, 202252 min

296 - Chateau Vino with Exclusively RHP

You know you're in for a good time when the organizers of a Meet and Mingle are Exclusively RHP. We just got back from our first trip to The Gold Coast and we can't stop talking about it! Listen in as we give you all the dirty details on how to spice up your next trip to South Queensland. Find The Chameleon Lounge Bar here ! Find Chateau Vino here ! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on so...

Jan 26, 20221 hr 6 min

295 - Dating Apps & Profiles

So you're looking for love but don't know where to find it? We've got the perfect solution! Dating apps are all over this place. Why go through all the trouble of finding a date when you can just press one button on your phone? Dating apps have made it easier than ever before. But what makes an app "good" and how do you start a conversation with someone from Tinder, Grindr, or RHP? Listen here as we dive into this week's episode so that by Friday night (or sooner!), everyone will know everything...

Jan 18, 20221 hr

294 - Chastity Challenge...Again!

We have an oldie but a goodie for you this week. A release of a podcast almost 4 years old! Okay... so not too long ago whilst recording for "Dawns with Lakey" on the Hit Network here in Sydney we had this "great" idea to see which of the three of us could wear a chastity belt the longest. As bad ideas go, this one was pretty terrible. We'll go over a bit of the history of chastity belts and then dive into the worst, 31 and 39 hours we have ever spent. We'll talk about everything from choosing o...

Jan 11, 20221 hr 7 min

293 - Bring in 2022 with Toys!

It's 2022 and maybe your sex life could use a little pick-me-up. Luckily, we've got you covered with our latest in sex toy reviews. Whether you're looking for something to spice up your alone time or want to add a little excitement to your bedroom playtime, we've got the perfect toy for you... or do we? So bring in the new year with some new fun! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on socia...

Jan 04, 202255 min

292 - 2021 Year In Review

It's the end of another strange and difficult year. In this episode, we'll go over some highlights from 2021 and look forward to what we might see in 2022! Additionally, we have a listener question that lets us once again preach about fatphobia and body image. You are beautiful! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On I...

Dec 28, 202147 min

291 - Christmas Time

Well... It's Christmas time... and as such, we have a Christmas episode for you to enjoy! Listen as we talk about which Christmas songs are actually about sex, what you can say around the tree and in the bedroom, why you might want a Christmas tree IN your bedroom, and, to cap it off, a sexy Christmas poem. Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On...

Dec 22, 202140 min

290 - Pendulum XX

Oh yeah!!!! This week we talk about the RETURN OF PENDULUM! That's right folks we are out of lockdown and ready to get our sexy on with Pendulum XX. We are joined once again by The Gentleman as we talk about ALL of our thoughts, feels, and sexy experiences that we had at our most recent party. Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook Byth...

Dec 14, 20211 hr

289 - Always Have I Always

Welcome back, sexy people!!! This week we have a couple of wonderful humans join us for a game of "never have I ever" that ultimately ended the way that game ALWAYS ends with us... feeling like we are the most amazing sluts in the world! So join us and see if you too are the sluttiest of sluts in slutville. (Own it baby! You are amazing.) Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook Byt...

Dec 08, 20211 hr 20 min

288 - Meetups, a Listener Q

This week we talk a bit about some recent experiences we've had and then dive into a question about meeting men from one of our listeners! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted...

Nov 30, 202144 min
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