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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

287 - Holiday Sanity

This week we talk about how we dealt (and deal) with the stresses of the holidays. From family to friends to being your own ho ho hoe. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on ...

Nov 24, 202153 min

286 - What's in a Theme?

This week we look at themes. As you go out into the swinger world you will notice that parties, resorts, and clubs all have one thing in common: Theme Parties. We dive into the most common and our favorite themes and help you figure out the best way to approach what to wear to get your getting it on on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPod...

Nov 17, 202154 min

285 - We’re Back and Ready to Go!

We’re back baby! Both in a sexy way and in an actual one… and now we are ready to leave again! This week we talk about a recent sexy time with some of our friends and we discuss what it takes to successfully travel with sexy swinging friends! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by click...

Nov 10, 202150 min

284 - Which Desire Resort Do You Desire?

This week we decided to take the week off and return to a past in which we were allowed to travel... and we did! Let us return to The Desire Resorts in Mexico and, once again, compare and contrast Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl. We will let you know our honest reviews and tell you which one we are dying to go back to for our next sexy swinger vacation! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPod...

Nov 03, 20211 hr 31 min

283 - Freddy's Revenge - A Halloween Episode

This week we dive BACK into horror with a more in-depth discussion of the horror genre, what it means to queer communities, and specifically, A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy's Revenge. As the first, and one of the few slasher movies, to have a male protagonist it is chock full of a lot of gay subtext and BDSM references. We also talk about our Discord peeps' favorite Halloween horror movies. Have a happy and sexy Halloween! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join ...

Oct 27, 202152 min

282 - Post-Covid Horror

We are FINALLY out of lockdown... so we talk about it. We've had a number of dates since our lockdown has lifted and so far... well, it's not been what you at home might have expected it to be. We also talk about the genre of horror and what it means to the queer community. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna ge...

Oct 20, 202153 min

281 - Galactic Cap...Condom of the Future?

This week is an exciting one. We were recently encouraged by our Discord chat to look into The Galactic Cap a new condom design touted as "The condom men WANT to wear." Is it? Well, you'll just have to listen to find out. Enjoy as we discuss our experiences with the Galactic Cap and a brief history of the condom. (Thanks to Lauren L'Amie and DailyDot.com for your condom history lesson) Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for l...

Oct 12, 202154 min

280 - The Erotic Ball

This week we were fortunate to catch up with one of the masterminds behind the highly successful 'Erotic Ball' and then we spoke with one of the delightful couples who actually went to the ball. Enjoy as you get both sides of this sexy story. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to ...

Oct 06, 20211 hr 14 min

279 - PornPornPorn

This week we flip through some 40+ year old porn, reading snippets from the horny past. Additionally, we have a piece of erotica written by Bradford for Penthouse magazine Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord...

Sep 28, 202153 min

278 - Cuckolding, Hot Wifing, or Stag & Vixen

This week we invited Naughty & Rocket back to discuss everything from Hot Wifing, Cuckolding, or Stags and Vixens. Somehow we even get into the breeding habits of the cuckoo bird and the refractory periods of Fairy Wrens... Look it was a strange one this week, but heaps of fun and some fascinating tales including one that will be on our Patreon only podcast! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on soc...

Sep 22, 20211 hr 25 min

277 - Is It Legal?

This week we dive into the quirky, queer, and quazy laws about sex from around the world. How many of these have you broken?! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky...

Sep 15, 20211 hr 10 min

276 - E-Stimulating

This week we talk about the E-Stim. We have spoken about the Neon Wand in the past but now we drive head first into playing with an E-Stim unit. We invite The Gentleman back on to reminisce about a time (pre-COVID) when we all got together for some SHOCKINGLY sexy play and we struggle to stay grounded as the memories rush back! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPod...

Sep 08, 202152 min

275 - Love Fest

This week we answer a listener question about opening up their relationship and sexuality to their partner. We also talk about ourselves... and why we love one another. All in all, a touching episode full of love and advice! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure ...

Sep 01, 202155 min

274 - Where Did the Sex Go

This week we talk about things we miss about our own sex lives and (just to keep it entertaining) Bradford throws out some facts about the vagina! (And one about the anus!) Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discor...

Aug 25, 202151 min

273 - Is Toxic Monogamy Culture Real?

This week we dive into a meme that we've seen going around talking about toxic monogamy culture. Sit back and enjoy as we dissect this extremely complex subject. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here...

Aug 18, 202155 min

272 - Am I An Asshole

This week we drunkenly chat with The Gentleman about things of which we aren't too proud. We are not condoning our actions... but we are regaling you with stories of our experiences and hopefully, we come out as better people. Sit back and enjoy us asking ourselves, "Am I an Asshole?!" (SPOILER ALERT: Yes... Yes we are.) Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On...

Aug 11, 20211 hr 9 min

271 - Fetish MythConceptions

This week we discuss some common myths and misconceptions about fetishes and kinks. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in t...

Aug 04, 20211 hr

270 - Origins & Coming to Australia

Another podcast for our Discord folks! This is one that we released in April 2018, but we added some new news to the end about how we made it to Australia! As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW! This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid. The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story! You'll hear about how we met, our first date...

Jul 28, 20211 hr 6 min

269 - Triangular Theory of Love

This week we discuss "The Triangular Theory of Love', a theory developed by Robert Sternberg in the mid-1980s (ignore Bradford and his blatant incorrectness on the dates during the podcast). If you're keen on psychology and love this is a podcast for you! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us ...

Jul 21, 202150 min

268 - Erotica Reading

This week we start with a couple of questions sent to us by some of our listeners. Later, we read an extremely sexy story written by one of our talented Patreon/Discord users. Special thanks to JB Hindo, author of the erotica piece we read. I think you're really gonna like this episode! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instag...

Jul 14, 202149 min

267 - Lockdown Relationship Changes

This week we dive into some research that was done on relationships during the time of Covid. (We also discuss how we changed too!) Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your are...

Jul 07, 202149 min

266 - Are We In "The Lifestyle"? (Part 2)

Part two to us going through a very dated document and trying to determine if we are, indeed, "in the lifestyle". Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn...

Jun 30, 202156 min

265 - Are We In "The Lifestyle"? (Part 1)

With this podcast we show what happens when we find documents hidden away on our laptop… apparently we learn whether or not we are “In the Lifestyle”… … yeah you read that right. Live, learn, and laugh with us as we go through this EXTREMELY dated document. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email u...

Jun 23, 202150 min

264 - Another Listener Q&A

You got the Q's and we have your A's. This week we discuss some of the questions that we got from Instagram, our website, and emails that YOU, our beautiful listeners, sent in. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Di...

Jun 16, 202154 min

263 - Sex Toys & Canes, Oh My!

This week we answer a listener question about sex toys! We also talk about our weekend... which included Angela learning some details on canes and caning. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find s...

Jun 09, 202151 min

262 - Pendulum XIX

This week we get around the microphones with The Gentleman and talk about the most recent Pendulum Party... amongst other things. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area ...

Jun 02, 202154 min

261 - Facts of Modern Pornography's History

This week we dive in to facts... Pornography facts. Sit back and prepare to learn! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in th...

May 26, 20211 hr 1 min

260 - East Meets West

We just got back from vacation and lucky you, we don't want to forget it just yet... so we do a quick and sexy review of the "East Meets West", the sexy swinger resort takeover run by the amazing folks of Exclusively RHP. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you...

May 19, 20211 hr 2 min

259 - We Do Sexy Mad Libs

This week we have a very special “user generated” episode. We asked our Discord group for volunteers in a game of “sexy MADLIBS”. We asked for adjectives, nouns, verbs, and more! Woah boy did they deliver. Sit back and enjoy as we stumble through a few stories and have some moments of hilarity. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast O...

May 12, 202136 min

258 - Aussie Slang Sex Terms

This week we are on vacation and we dug waaaaaay back to rerelease an oldie bit a goodie. Join us as we discuss Aussie sex slang with our good friends Danny and Sandy. See you next week for an all new episode. As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on th...

May 05, 20211 hr 5 min
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