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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

257 - 50 Shades Darker Reviewed

In another example of we did it so you don’t have to, we recently watched the sequel to 50 Shades of Grey, 50 Shades Darker... and oooft you owe us! Listen and (hopefully) laugh as we dissect this mess of a film. As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on...

Apr 28, 20211 hr 25 min

256 - Post Coital Sex Facts

This week we talk about sex, baby. What happens to your body and why we do the things we do! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: AltPlayground Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head ove...

Apr 21, 202149 min

255 - New to the Club Life

This week we have another podcast sparked by the conversations from our Discord chat! Join us as we talk about the best practices for first timers going to play parties and sex clubs. From what to wear to how to behave to how to discuss your experiences the next day! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join ...

Apr 14, 202156 min

254 - Breaking Into an Open Relationship

This week we took a conversation that the amazing folks over on our Discord channel started and expanded upon it ourselves! What questions do you need to ask yourself and your primary partner (and other potentail partners) when you are looking at living a healthy and happy polyamourous life? You'll get a great start here; we promise it can be done. As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or...

Apr 07, 20211 hr 15 min

253 - Hump! with The Bed Hoppers UK

This week we start the first part of a two-part episode with the amazing Bed Hoppers UK. We got together with the amazing Mr & Mrs H from The Bed Hoppers and our own Gentleman to watch, discuss, and review Dan Savage's Hump! Film Festival. NOTE: This is a 2-Part episode. Find part 2 over on The Bed Hoppers UK podcast!!! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to he...

Mar 31, 20211 hr 4 min

252 - Toxic Masculinity

This week we talk about Toxic Masculinity and how we've seen/experienced it in the lifestyle and within ourselves. We also give some tips on how to subvert it! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: A...

Mar 23, 20211 hr 1 min

251 - What Animal Am I?

This week we talk more about PetPlay, what kind of pets you can play as, what their characteristics are, and Angela's first time experience with a little pet roleplay. As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in th...

Mar 17, 20211 hr 9 min

250 - Games Review - Game of Lifestyle & Fog of Love

This week we talk about two lifestyle/relationship games that we've recently played. If you want to play the games too you can find The Game of Lifestyle here and The Fog of Love here . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifesty...

Mar 10, 202152 min

249 - Reliving Angela's Birthday G**gb**g

We are going back in time and revisiting Angela's 40th birthday gangbang, finishing in bukake! The Gentleman joins us in telling the tales of the evening at Our Secret Spot. We describe the setup and the action, what it was like to be a participant and a spectator. We also give advice on how to behave if you are ever given the opportunity to participate in your own gangbang scenario. So grab the headboard... this one might get a bit rough. We'll be back with more stories of sexy times next week!...

Mar 04, 20211 hr 6 min

248 - Contraception Figures

This week we briefly discuss the sexy weekend we just returned from then later, we jump into different contraceoptions their efficacy when used perfectly and when they are used the way we normal folk use them too! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area o...

Feb 23, 202152 min

247 - Sexy Catch Ups

This week we talk about the sexy weekend we JUST had and the sexy weekend that we are JUST about to have! Woohoo, sexy times! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: AltPlayground Wanna get your own pr...

Feb 17, 202144 min

246 - Soft Intro to BDSM

Join us this week as we discuss some unsafe BDSM practices that we have recently seen and how you can avoid these same pitfalls in your kinky life! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: AltPlayground...

Feb 10, 202155 min

245 - All About Polyamory

Welcome loyal listener! This week we dive into polyamory. Discussing terminology, experience, and debunking some of the myths of polyamory. As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: AltPlayground Wanna g...

Feb 03, 202148 min

244 - More Listener Q's

We had heaps of listener questions come in over the last couple of weeks so we decided we should do another podcast of Q's & A's See more of Swingfessions here ! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: AltPlayground Wanna g...

Jan 26, 202154 min

243 - Pendulum Party & Listener Qs

This week we discuss our recent Pendulum Party, The Swingefessions Comic, and go through a Listener Question about butt plug fears and self anal play. See more of Swingfessions here ! As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: Alt...

Jan 20, 202150 min

242 - The (R)Evolutionary Man

This week we start with a deep dive into Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra, all drugs for helping with erectile dysfunction. After, we are lucky enough to interview Nic Tovey, author of The (R)Evolutionary Man. This amazing new book teaches all of us about what it means to be a man. "Become your own unique version of an awesome man, free from the old bullshit ideas of what that means. “Man up”, “be a man”, “grow a pair” we’ve heard it all a million times, and we’ve probably said it too, but what does ...

Jan 12, 202157 min

241 - Ringing In 2021

Happy New Year! This year we start with an ultra honest story about where we found ourselves at the end of 2020 and how we plan to improve ourselves in 2021. What an odd NYE it was. Definitely not what we expected... definitely what we needed. As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your ar...

Jan 06, 202150 min

240 - Wrap Up 2020

This week we have a 2020 wrap up episode with our friends Lawrence and Jess from Our Secret Spot. (Listen to the very end... it’s a riot!) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA:...

Dec 30, 20201 hr 10 min

239 - Origin Stories - Revisited

Here is a blast from our past. Originally posted in April of 2018! Hello constant listener! As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW! This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid. The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story! You'll hear about how we met, our first date, our first hookup, when we finally decided to become an item, a...

Dec 23, 20201 hr 3 min

238 - Let's Pop Some Cherries!

This week we discuss a recent play experience that Bradford had. He was lucky enough to pop some cherries that he didn't even realize that he had; but oh was he excited to pop them... hard! This one gets a little more graphic than we usually get... just an FYI. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure...

Dec 15, 202045 min

237 - Sexy Holiday Gift Ideas

This week we head over to Max Black with The Gentleman and peruse their shop for a few holiday gift ideas to give and receive. (There is a pun in there somewhere!) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifest...

Dec 09, 20201 hr 6 min

236 - Sex Positions... Reviewed, Part 1

This week we decided to start rating sex positions. We scoured (read did a google search) the internet and found a list of sex positions and decided... let's give 'em a go! Enjoy as we giggle our way through a LOT of sexy talk. Listen all the way to the end as we call out for silly, sex, and sad sex stories for our upcoming Drunk Sex Stories videos. (You can email us your stories here !) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!...

Dec 02, 20201 hr 12 min

235 - Rando Erotica

This week it's all sexy times. We talk about our exploits over the last couple of weekends.... and it's a lot of sex. Like... a LOT of sex. Listen all the way to the end as we call out for silly, sex, and sad sex stories for our upcoming Drunk Sex Stories videos. (You can email us your stories here !) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast O...

Nov 25, 202051 min

234 - Flirting Revisited

In the recent past, we have had a bunch of folks messaging and emailing asking us to discuss flirting. While it is an art, there is a lot more science to it than people realize. Join us as we go back into the way back machine to rerelease one of our podcasts from the past!!!! Listen all the way to the end as we call out for silly, sex, and sad sex stories for our upcoming Drunk Sex Stories videos. (You can email us your stories here !) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, th...

Nov 18, 20201 hr 6 min

233 - Professor Marston & the Wonder Women...Oh, One Last Thing

This week we sit down with the creative team for our upcoming movie, Refused Classification. Together we watched the amazing film "Professor Marston & the Wonder Women" and discussed the importance and relevance of this film. We look at all aspects and try to explain how this movie inspired us to create our own! Such a fun time of laughs and loves and quite a bit of sexy talk to boot! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media...

Nov 10, 20201 hr 32 min

232 - Curling Iron Sex

This week we talk about why we might have homosexual feelings, what we did this weekend, and a bunch of other weird and sexy things. We revisited sounding with The Gentleman, had a lot of impact play, and a bit of fox play too!!! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreo...

Nov 04, 202052 min

231 - Pendulum XVI Weekend

We go over an amazingly busy weekend full of missed moments, amazing sexy parties, and the first Pendulum party to occur on a Saturday! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: Al...

Oct 28, 20201 hr 4 min

230 - Tangents Galore

Listen this week as we go on tangent... after tangent... after tangent! New Patreon tiers, a Discord channel, Angela’s adventures, and listener emails! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle communit...

Oct 21, 202055 min

229 - When the Stars Align

Sometimes you have a play session where everything just seems... amazing. This week we had a play with Leo and it was so good that we decided to immediately jump on the microphones and talk about it. Enjoy as we ramble on in the post-coitel bliss talk fuled by sex, love, and wine. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want ...

Oct 13, 20201 hr 7 min

228 - Blow Me

Angela tries to blow Bradford’s mind with some amazing sex facts. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!!! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Find sexy couples in your area on the best damn open lifestyle community in the USA: AltPlayground Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over he...

Oct 07, 202054 min
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