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By the Bi

The Atomswww.bythebi.com.au

By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

77 - Passion in Paradise Part 2

In this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland. We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the afternoons. (Here's a hint; they include orgies!) We finish the episode with some messages from a few of the other patrons of Passion in Paradise and their favorite moments. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!...

Oct 31, 20171 hr 38 min

76 - Passion in Paradise Part 1

OOOOH BOY!!! This is the first part of a two-part episode on our fantastic experience at Passion in Paradise. In this episode, we discuss our arrival to the resort and our immediate first impressions. We describe the layout of the resort including the rooms, bar, and pool area. Then we start with the first couple of days and start going into our experiences. So sit back and enjoy!!! As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcas...

Oct 24, 20171 hr 12 min

75 - Pre-Passion in Paradise

Hello constant listeners (and new folks listening for the first time)! In this episode, we start by discussing WHAT JUST HAPPENED!!!! We won't spoil it for you but we may have JUST tried something that we had tried before, weren't sure we liked it and decided we should try it again... right now. Then we discuss Passion in Paradise... or at least what we expect from Passion in Paradise as, if you're listening to this on the day of release, it starts TOMORROW!!! Woohoo! It's our first time to an o...

Oct 17, 20171 hr 12 min

74 - Conversations with The Gentleman

In this episode, we have a conversation with our Manticore, The Gentlemen. The three of us talk about what it's like being a single male in the swinging community. He talks about getting into the lifestyle, some of the things he has learned and some of the pitfalls he's experienced along the way. As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on wha...

Oct 10, 201755 min

73 - Recent Sexcapades

Hello, kind people! In this episode, we discuss the events of the past couple weeks. Mrs. Atom was traveling in Europe and poor Mr. Atom was left home alone... well sorta. Listen as we share our stories of playmates that we spent our time with and some of the naughty (and not so naughty) things we got up to. We also discuss just how small our community is and why you should ALWAYS be nice to people. Lastly, in our question of the week, we were asked about sexy scenes in tv and movies and Mrs. At...

Oct 03, 201757 min

72 - Conversations with Our Secret Spot

Welcome back! In this episode we, once again, sit down with the owners of Our Secret Spot to talk about... well a little bit of everything. We start off by asking for the club's origin story and what they want from and for the club. Admittedly, by the end, we have disintegrated into laughing rambles about sex, clubs, and the lifestyle laced with a few moments of genius here and there. As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodc...

Sep 26, 20171 hr 2 min

71 - The 7 Types of Love

Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks. Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it affects us. We discuss how these loves can help us better define our own love for each other and our play partners. If you want to read the article that we used as a source for the podcast you can find it here ! As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Faceb...

Sep 19, 20171 hr 3 min

70 - Bisexuality in Our Everyday Life

Welcome back y'all! In this episode, we talk about our daily lives and how (or in some cases if) our bisexuality affects it. As one might imagine... Mr Atom rants from atop his soapbox more than once! Thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on ...

Sep 12, 20171 hr 3 min

69 - Games We Play

OOOOOOOOOHH!!! Number 69... Sexy times! And that is what we are talking about tonight! On our Kik feed, we had a question about ice breakers and games that we play as sexy swingers. We loved the idea! Join us as we go through games you can play one on one, two on two, or a bunch on a bunch! We discuss games we've played at home, at clubs, and at pub crawls. Enjoy! Find us on social media!!! On twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! ...

Sep 05, 201759 min

68 - A Tale of Two Parties

In this episode we talk about a couple of parties that we have recently attended at Our Secret Spot. First is the Sexy in His Shirt , a concept from our friends over at Swinging Downunder. We'll highlight some of the icebreakers that we played and saw and some of the action that we had. Next is the highlights from our own Pendulum Party . This was our third one and seriously... oh what a night! Once again it was a HUGE success with lots of mixed-couple mixed-sex play. The evening culminates in a...

Aug 29, 20171 hr 1 min

67 - Awkward Stories with Our Secret Spot

This one will for ever be known as the one where we talk about farts for half the episode. Once again we invited our dear friends Lawrence and Jess, the owners of Our Secret Spot to sit down and talk with us about some of our more awkward moments in our swinging history. Of course, we ended up with farts, gas, flatulence, toots, breaking wind, cutting cheese, blow off, bum breathing, and anal applause. We also tried something a bit new with this episode... We opened up a Kik chat group inviting ...

Aug 22, 20171 hr 1 min

66 - Sexpo Brisbane

Welcome back and we hop you found us alright as we have moved to being a LibSyn hosted podcast. In this episode, we take you on a journey to Sexpo in Brisbane Australia. Join us as we livecast portions of the episode from the show floor. We interview Bentleigh Gibson (the man behind Sexpo), Lucie Bee, L0l0 Lady, The Ginger Tramp, and many others! We also talk with some of our favorite products of Sexpo including After Dark Intimate Wides, Geeky Sex Toys, and Kinky Boots and Bits. Sit back and en...

Aug 15, 20171 hr 22 min

65 - Would You Rather? (Part 3)

Holy smokes a trilogy! This week we are serving y’all up with another game of “Would You Rather?” Once again we have the podcast fan-favorites L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp to play a sexy (and smurf-tastic ) game of … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 08, 20171 hr 9 min

64 - The Meet & Mingle and Malebag #2

Not too long ago we were invited by a few folks from up the coast to come to a meet and mingle in Sydney. Unfortunately, we had double booked ourselves as it was also the Lady’s Night party at Our … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 02, 20171 hr 7 min

63 – The Manticore

This week we talk about a new fella that’s been coming around. We’ll talk about how we met him and then discuss two dates that we’ve had. We’ve also had an influx of questions so we took the time to … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 25, 201759 min

62 – The Australian Adult Industry Awards 2017

A couple of weeks ago we went to the Australian Adult Industry Awards, a wonderful night that was both sexy and a BIT odd. We had been lucky enough to be nominated for Best Adult Podcast and while we didn’t win we … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 18, 20171 hr 3 min

61 – Would You Rather? (Part 2)

Apologies for missing last week’s episode. We were both traveling and were unable to get a podcast recorded! Hopefully, we make up for it this week with another game of “Would You Rather?” We are joined by the podcast fan-favorites … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 11, 201756 min

60 - The Second Pendulum Party & A New Lady

Well, it finally happened again!!! The second party that we have been planning and talking about for months was a while ago now at Our Secret Spot. It was, in a word, amazeballs. Join us as we give you some … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 27, 201758 min

59 - Twelve Couples Walk into a Bar…

In this episode, we discuss a big group date we were invited on. We got the invite to meet about a dozen other couples at a local pub. While at the pub, Mr. Atom broke away from the group to try … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 20, 20171 hr 2 min

58 - MysteryVibe Crescendo Review

The lovely folks at MysteryVibe reached out to us a bit over a month ago and asked us if we’d like to have a play with their newest (award winning) toy The Crescendo. We, of course, said, “Absolutely we would!” After … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 13, 201744 min

57 - Body Image Issues – Part 2

Howdy folks! In this episode, we conclude our chat with the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, in his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… We are still trying to talk about body image issues, though we … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 06, 20171 hr 3 min

56 - Body Image Issues – Part 1

Howdy folks! In this episode, we are joined once again by the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, for his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… And we are here to talk about body image issues. This was recorded … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 31, 20171 hr 7 min

55 - Our Latest Sexcapades – Volume 1

In this latest episode we talk about Mr Atom’s recent trip to Melbourne where he had a less than fun time at the local gay sauna (sad face). We also talk about a new couple that we are already giving … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 24, 20171 hr 3 min

54 - An Interview with Cooper S Beckett

In our community Cooper S Beckett is very well known. He’s popular author (this is his third book), podcaster (he’s been podcasting for 7 years), and life coach, so as you may imagine, he’s an extremely busy guy. When he said he … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 16, 20171 hr 40 min

53 - The Pleasure Lounge Review

In this episode we talk about a recent trip to Perth. On that trip we visited The Pleasure Lounge, one of the local swingers clubs. We describe the club and the experience we had there. (Admittedly, one of the best … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 09, 201746 min

52 - Clone-a-Willy

In this episode we take our listeners along for a ride as we try “cloning” Mr Atom’s cock using the Clone-a-Willy kit we got on our last trip to the states. Clone-a-willy is a penis casting and moulding kit by … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 02, 201743 min

51 - Mike’s Place Review

While recently up in Brisbane, we were lucky enough to hit up Mike’s Place, The Best Darn Swingers Club in Brisvegas, with the beautiful L0l0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp. It ended up being a wonderful evening at a pretty … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 25, 20171 hr 7 min

50 - Jealousy Revisited

Can you believe it?!? We’ve made it to 50 episodes!!!! And you’re still here listening to us! In this very special episode, we invited back two dear friends who were featured more than a year a go in our sixth … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 18, 20171 hr 3 min

49 - Hack Live Review

Remember that time we were on the television show “Hack Live”? No? Well not too long ago we were asked to appear on an episode of “Hack Live” on ABC2 filmed at Our Secret Spot here in Sydney. As we … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 11, 201755 min

48 - Sex Furniture

Recently, while at Our Secret Spot, a couple asked us our opinion on sex furniture and if we had any pieces of our own. The conversation got so interesting we thought it would be fun to do a full episode … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 04, 201756 min
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