By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.
Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.
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Heya gang! This episode is all about Birthdays! We spent last Friday night at the 24th Birthday of Hell Fire Sydney and then Saturday night was the 3rd Birthday party for Our Secret Spot. Lots and lots and lots of … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this week’s episode we introduce our friend and new business partner MisJif. She’s a sex educator, therapist, presenter, and aficionado who has an abundance of experience teaching adult education around the world. In Canada she planned a number of charity … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Big announcement time! For a while we have been discussing some of the classes in which we have been participating. Well now we are ready to tell everyone about “Sex Ed in the City” a business we have started with … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week we talk to The Law and Babydoll, owners of Our Secret Spot, a swingers club here in Sydney. We cover a vast range of topics from the development of the club’s vibe and feel to advice for first time … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, we are joined by a couple of our play friends to discuss how they manage an active swinger lifestyle while still keeping their parents’ hats firmly in place. This has been one of our most highly requested topics. … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Well it finally happened! The party that we have been planning and talking about for months was this past Friday night at Our Secret Spot. In a word, it was amazeballs. Join us on a trip down own memory lane … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, we talk about our sexy adventures over four days in New York City. We definitely learned why it’s the city that never sleeps. First up is our day of shopping. We may have gone a bit overboard … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
If you’ve been in the lifestyle for more than a little bit this podcast is not going to come as much of a surprise to you. In this episode we talk about a couple of recent encounters we’ve had where at … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we play a sexy game of “Would You Rather?” If you’ve never played this game before, the idea is that you’re asked a question like, “Would you rather be a virgin until you are 40 and subsequently have … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we delve into profiles on dating sites. From swinger sites to Grindr, we discuss what we look for; and what is needed for us to send a message. Wondering what guarantees our interest? Curious as to what will … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What do you get when you add two Americans, two Australians, 3 bottles of wine, and a whole lot of sexy slang? You’re about to find out because in this episode we get Danny and Sandy to help us suss … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, we talk about our latest SexEd class that was held on the Eve of New Year’s Eve. It was a big one. Intro to kink and BDSM with two live demos and a kink fashion show! Next … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We get so many questions on swinging and life in “the lifestyle” that we’ve decided to start our own series called Swinging 101. In this first installment in a multipart series, we discuss the decision to open up your relationship … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of the podcast, we talk about a recent red heaven event that we went to called “Christmas in Wonderland”. A fantastic holiday party where we got ALL dressed up and partied until late in the evening/morning. Then … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we talk anal! Butt stuff like this is often overlooked and is extremely important. Once again we were part of the Sex Ed session at Our Secret Spot–and what an honor it was! In this session, Mis … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Come listen in as we discuss our hard and soft rules and what happens when one of us breaks them. This podcast is a bit different in that one of us broke a couple of our rules but we hadn’t … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this special episode, we both come out of the closet. For almost a year we’ve been doing these podcasts talking about how we are open and honest and unashamed for being bisexual and swingers. Despite this talk, we have never … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Can it be episode 30 already!?! In this episode we talk about a whole heap of new toys that we’ve gotten over the last few months. Sit back and enjoy as we discus toys for him and her. Everything from … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we do a quick catch up to some of the things going on with us and what we’ve been up to. We discuss Mr Atom’s trip to NZ where he checks out the local sauna and has … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Howdy folks! You’ve heard us talk about communication and the importance of communication with our partners (both inside of and outside of our primary relationships). This episode we talk a bit about loooooooove and how the two of us discuss, … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we go back to Our Secret Spot for another Sex Ed class with MisJif. This time its the lady’s turn and we focus on clitoral and g-spot massaging. The Atoms were lucky enough to be approached to … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we talk about Mr.Atom’s adventures with his beau. We talk about his going to a big gay dance party and the first overnight with the new fella. In our question of the week we discuss whether or … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hello folks! In this episode we talk about our experiences AFTER the SexEd class at Our Secret Spot. After being properly primed by the SexEd class on giving good head, we were both really excited to wander about the club. … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hiya Folks! Sex Education. If you’re like us, when it comes to sex, you probably think you know all you need to know. If you’re like us… you have A LOT to learn. In this episode we recap the recent … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Welcome to Hellfire friends and neighbors! In this podcast we tell of our adventures to a local BDSM nightclub party here in Sydney called “The Hellfire Club” at Midnight Shift. We talk about our clothing choices, the club experience, and the … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hello folks and welcome back! In this episode we talk about STIs. There is A LOT of misinformation out there and we are looking to dispel some of the myths and make getting yourself tested less scary. We still remember … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we go to our first Glow Party after being invited by Mr Atom’s special fella. We talk about what a glow party is exactly, what our choices of costumes were and then we take you on the journey with … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hello and welcome back! In this episode we discuss and review our recent trip to “Newbie Night” at The Couples Club. Swing in Style A few weeks ago we got a wild hair and decided we wanted to visit … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What does a relationship really look like to a twenty something? Welcome back to a SUPER long episode of our on going podcast. We discussed splitting this one into two episodes and then decide we couldn’t be bothered!!! So here … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hello folks and welcome to our 18th installment. WOW, we never expected to make it this far! In this episode we go through an article by Lelo titled “Mistakes We Make” We discuss how we have experienced these issues first hand … Continued Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
