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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex

Trina Leckiewww.breakupboost.com
Honest and logical breakup and relationship advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Whether you’re stuck in a toxic loop, settling for crumbs, or still texting someone who clearly doesn’t care, Trina’s here to snap you out of it - with real talk and practical tools to get your heart and head in check. This isn’t your feel-sorry-for-yourself podcast; it’s your tough-love guide to peace, self-respect, and relationships actually worth your time. Learn how to set boundaries that stick, rebuild your confidence (no begging allowed), and spot red flags from a mile away. Whether you’re drowning in drama or celebrating your freedom, breakup BOOST gives you the realness and clarity - with humor and plenty of sass. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you’ll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship coaching, visit breakupBOOST.com. Follow on TikTok @breakupBOOST. Subscribe on YouTube "breakup BOOST."
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#386: “Why Is My Narcissist Ex Doing This or That?!” (Reality checks & the clarity you never knew you needed.)

Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupbo...

Jun 24, 202517 min

#385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships

So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe . You know the ones - where you ask yourself, “What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, ...

Jun 06, 202511 min

#384: The 1 Thing You ACTUALLY Want When You Say You Want “Closure” ... Post-Breakup REAL TALK Advice

You say you want closure - but is that really what you’re after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really behind that phrase. It’s not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There’s something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER ...

Jun 04, 20257 min

#383: Groveling After a Breakup Is the Death of Your Dignity (The "please just talk to me" texts gotta go!)

Let’s be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every “please just talk to me” moment? It’s not helping. It’s eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I’m giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn’t chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com ...

May 24, 20256 min

#382: 6 Truth Bombs For Cheaters That’ll Make Them Squirm (And Validation For Those Who Were Cheated On)

Dear Cheaters: Don’t get too cozy. This episode’s got your name written all over it! And to everyone who’s ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy ... y ou’re about to get the validation you deserve. I’m dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They won’t stay broken... but YOU'LL carry the stain of that choice for a long a$$ time. LISTEN NOW! Then...

May 21, 202516 min

#381: How to Cope When It Feels Like Your Ex Doesn’t Miss You After Your Breakup

Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: “Do they even miss me?!” If you’ve been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (...

May 14, 202510 min

#380: The "Block-Unblock Your Ex" Olympics Will Win You a Gold Medal in Desperation

Let’s get real - blocking and unblocking your ex or situationship isn’t a power move - it’s a hot mess. A cycle that hurts you WAY more than it helps. It’s time to stop giving away your power and start standing by your decisions. If you’re ready to ditch the drama and step into your confident era, this one’s for you. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... ...

May 08, 202511 min

#379: Dear Men Who Date Women Young Enough to Be Their Daughter:

In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those “age is just a number” relationships. Whether you’ve dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The...

Apr 24, 20258 min

#378: 10 Types of Men to NEVER Have a Baby With - Because Parenthood Is PERMANENT

Let’s get real: too many women end up tied to the wrong man for life because of pressure, fear, or straight-up wishful thinking. In this episode, I’m breaking down the types of men you should never have a baby with (let alone date lol)... The men who’ll charm you into chaos and leave you holding the bag - diaper bag included! Girl... it doesn't matter if he looks good in a selfie if he can't even grasp the word "responsibility," ok??!! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get...

Apr 11, 202524 min

#377: Are You Missing Your Ex - or - THE HIGH They Gave You? (Post-Breakup Reality Check)

Let's dig into the truth about post-breakup grief. Sometimes, it’s not the person you’re grieving — it’s the rush . The attention. The chaos. The illusion of connection. If you’ve ever felt addicted to someone who wasn’t actually good for you, this one’s going to hit hard (in the best way). Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE co...

Apr 07, 202516 min

#376: “What’s Your Body Count?” is the Dumbest Question You Can Ask

Thanks for stopping by for the latest "tiny talk" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I explain... (in great detail)... why you NEVER want to ask someone what their body count is. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching ...

Apr 04, 20257 min

#375: The Bachelor S29 E9 FINALE: Safe Pick or the Fun, Alluring Gamble? (Episode 9 After Show)

Season 29 Finale is HERE! Listen now for my insights and full breakdown - plus I give my take on where this relationship may be headed now that the show is over. Oh, and PS... I also spotted a RED FLAG on a social media video of Grant & Juliana that was uploaded this morning about their "next steps." Hmmm... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Mar 25, 202527 min

#374: The Bachelor S29 E8: THREE Room Keys… TWO Mysteries (Episode 8 After Show)

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Mar 18, 20259 min

#373: Common Thought after a Breakup: Did They Ever Really Love You??

One of the hardest parts of a breakup is wondering: Did they ever actually love me? Was it real, or was I just convenient? In this episode, we’re cutting through the confusion and getting honest about what real love looks like. I’ll break down key red flags that will hopefully give you some insight for your personal situation, share relatable analogies, and help you stop overanalyzing whether they loved you - so you can start focusing on loving yourself the way you deserve.... and MOVING FORWARD...

Mar 13, 202510 min

#372: The Bachelor S29 E6: Hometowns! So Little Drama, It’s Almost Suspicious (Episode 6 After Show)

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Mar 04, 20259 min

#370: The Bachelor S29 E5 Recap: Sulking, Sabotage & Scottish Dates (Episode 5 After Show)

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Feb 25, 202521 min

#369: Cut the Melodrama: Breakups Are a Reset, Not a Tragedy

Breakups can feel like the end of the world, but they’re really just the beginning of something better (even though you may not see that light at the end of the tunnel yet). In this episode, I break down why turning your breakup into a dramatic, life-ending event only makes it harder to move on. Instead of wallowing in sadness and replaying the past, it's time to treat your breakup like a reset - a chance to reassess, rebuild, and create a new version of yourself. Listen NOW! Then, check out my ...

Feb 24, 202514 min

#368: The Bachelor S29 E4 Recap: He's Not Your Boyfriend, Hun (Episode 4 After Show)

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Feb 19, 202514 min

#367: The Bachelor S29 E3 Recap: Finance, Fake Drama, and a Fear Factor Date (Episode 3 After Show)

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Feb 12, 202514 min

#366: The Bachelor S29 E2 Recap: Grant's 1st Major Red Flag, Things NOT to Do, Cringeworthy Moments (Episode 2 After Show)

I’m breaking down the Season 29 as a Breakup Coach... (and hopefully you'll get some cheap entertainment out of it ;) What can we learn from THIS episode? Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboo...

Feb 04, 202517 min

#365: Why Your Ex Never Apologized & Why You Really Need to Let That Go

Welcome to "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this "tiny talk," I explain why your toxic ex didn’t apologize - and why, even if they had, it wouldn’t really matter. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breaku...

Jan 30, 20255 min

#364: The Bachelor Season 29 Premiere Recap: First Night, First Impressions (Episode 1 After Show)

Will YOU accept this rose??? I’m breaking down the Season 29 Premiere of The Bachelor ! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red and green flags... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina...

Jan 28, 202517 min

#363: No, You Don’t “Wait” to Be Respected in a Relationship. Hell to the NAW.

Have you ever felt like you’re stuck waiting for someone to change or finally treat you the way you deserve? In this episode, I’m breaking down why waiting around for respect or accountability from the wrong person is a losing game. It's time to look at this LOGICALLY and from a place of SELF-RESPECT. This is your wake-up call, with a sprinkle of humor... and a whole lot of tough love. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on A...

Jan 27, 202512 min

#362: When They Don’t Want to Claim You, But Keep You in Their Orbit

Introducing the first of "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I tackle a situation that’s all too common: when someone tells you they don’t want to be with you, but still keeps you "hanging around." And yes, I break it down with a lil tough love so you can stop making excuses for your involvement with them and stop being stuck in a cycle of self-deception. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one! Listen NOW! Then...

Jan 22, 20254 min

#361: You're Not Alone in What You Are Going Through and You WILL Get Through It xo

This episode is to remind you that no matter what you're going through, you’re not alone. Life can throw unexpected challenges - whether it's a sudden life change such as a breakup or divorce, loss of employment, natural disaster, financial stress, or overwhelming grief. In those moments, it’s easy to feel stuck and hopeless, but the truth is, many people are facing similar struggles. This isn't about comparing problems - it's about not feeling isolated. Life has a way of testing us, but know th...

Jan 19, 202510 min

#360: Maintaining a Positive Mindset & Detoxing from Negativity to Transform Your Life

In this episode, I explore the power of maintaining a positive mindset and the role self-awareness plays in navigating negativity. I encourage you to actively work on cultivating positivity in your life, so you can create an environment that fosters growth, happiness, and healthier connections. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHON...

Jan 19, 202523 min

#359: How to Stay Motivated & Keep Moving Forward

Struggling to stay motivated? (This can be especially challenging after a breakup or divorce.) It's all about your mindset and the way you look at things. You can either work against yourself and stay stagnant... OR... make daily choices and build new habits to make progress. It's clearly a 'no brainer' what the best route is, right?! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this ...

Jan 19, 202517 min

#358: Protect Your Peace in Relationships - Let Go of Conditional Respect in 2025

Happy New Year, everyone! I wasn't sure what the first episode of the year would be, but I knew it had to be impactful and set the tone for the year ahead. After some thought, I realized the one thing that’s truly changed my life - protecting my peace - needed to be the topic. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at brea...

Jan 02, 202513 min
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