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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex

Trina Leckiewww.breakupboost.com
Honest and logical breakup and relationship advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Whether you’re stuck in a toxic loop, settling for crumbs, or still texting someone who clearly doesn’t care, Trina’s here to snap you out of it - with real talk and practical tools to get your heart and head in check. This isn’t your feel-sorry-for-yourself podcast; it’s your tough-love guide to peace, self-respect, and relationships actually worth your time. Learn how to set boundaries that stick, rebuild your confidence (no begging allowed), and spot red flags from a mile away. Whether you’re drowning in drama or celebrating your freedom, breakup BOOST gives you the realness and clarity - with humor and plenty of sass. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you’ll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship coaching, visit breakupBOOST.com. Follow on TikTok @breakupBOOST. Subscribe on YouTube "breakup BOOST."
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#357: STOP Being the “Rehab Center” for POTENTIAL in Dating and Relationships

The time has come, ladies and gentlemen... let's get REAL about that thing called POTENTIAL. You know, the magical spark that has you thinking "Maybe this could work!" as you ignore all the red flags waving in your face like you're at a used car dealership. I mean... who doesn’t love falling for someone who’s “still figuring things out” or “just needs a little more time” ? Because who needs self-respect when you’ve got potential staring you in the face?! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don'...

Dec 13, 202412 min

#356: Don’t Try SO HARD to Prove Your Happiness To Your Ex Online (Tsk, Tsk...)

You know what I’m talking about… maybe you’ve done it, maybe you’re currently doing it, or maybe you are aware of people who do this... Listen NOW! (You're sure to get a chuckle out of this one...) Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details:...

Nov 28, 20248 min

#355: RED FLAGS Aren’t Just Warnings: 4 Relatable Examples of How They ESCALATE

So-called "small" red flags may seem harmless or easy to overlook at first, but over time, they grow into problems that can severely impact your emotional well-being. Join me in diving into this further, including some relatable examples... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup...

Nov 24, 202416 min

#354: PEP TALK: No Half-Baked Efforts Here: Cake Analogy for Relationships

This episode is all about recognizing your worth and how to stop settling for the bare minimum. Kind of like a pep talk, centered around CAKE! Did that make you hungry? Me too! LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://...

Nov 18, 20247 min

#352: ASK TRINA: 35 Random Breakup, Dating & Relationship Questions!

There's a boat load of topics covered in this round of ASK TRINA... so don't delay... press PLAY and listen to this episode NOW! I'm sure you'll be able to relate to some aspect of at least a handful... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breaku...

Nov 12, 202455 min

#351: Dissecting a Threads Post: “Emotionally unavailable guys. When is this going to end???”

I came across a post on threads (which is basically the new x for Instagram) and wanted to address it on here, as I know so many people are in this same type of position… and need a bit of a wake-up call. Lots of important lessons in this. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Brea...

Oct 15, 202415 min

#350: The Temptation to Break "No Contact" to Call Them Out & Tell Them Off

Temptation is a son-of-a-gun... isn't it??!! Add that onto dealing with a "no contact" situation... and, well... you've got a challenge on your hands. After listening to this episode, I think you'll be more motivated to ramp up that self-control. (I mean, at least that's what I'm going for... ;) Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coach...

Oct 06, 202412 min

#349: 3 LAME A$$ Excuses You Need to Stop Making for Their Bad Behavior

In this episode, I'm talking all about EXCUSES... including breaking down three common excuses people make for their partner’s bad behavior (or whoever they are dating or interested in). These excuses are holding you back from the respect and love you deserve. It’s time to get real, call out the nonsense, and take your power back. Enough already! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3...

Sep 27, 202415 min

#348: Stop Using “Unconditional Love” as an Excuse to Be a Doormat

If you’ve ever found yourself enduring bad behavior in the name of love, this episode is for you! I break down why "unconditional love" shouldn’t be a free pass for someone to walk all over you... and remind you of the non-negotiables in a relationship. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina dire...

Sep 17, 202410 min

#347: BREAKUP PEP TALK: Douchebag Detox: From Heartbreak to HEAD HELD HIGH!

Breakup pep talk time! If you're out there crying over a jerk who mistreated you, cheated on you, lied to you... or sold you a story they never delivered on... (maybe all of the above)... this pep talk's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see w...

Sep 10, 202410 min

#346: Are they an “AVOIDANT” or are they just NOT INTO YOU or THE RIGHT FIT for you???

I can't go a day without seeing or hearing the word “avoidant”... and I'm here to do my part in sharing some much needed FRESH perspective. Hopefully it will resonate with you and make you think twice before joining the herd in overusing the term ;) Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct o...

Aug 20, 202418 min

#345: The REAL Problem When You Are Irritated By Someone Who Won't Change

There is so much irony in wanting someone else to change. If you find yourself in a situation where you are super frustrated by the person you're dating, in a relationship with, or even married to... this one's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME!...

Aug 10, 202412 min

#344: “I Would Have Done ANYTHING for You!!!”

SUPER RELATABLE topic today! Lots of gold nuggets to be discovered and tucked away in your back pocket. Let me stop you from diminishing your value and having to look back on this with regret. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: ...

Jul 28, 202414 min

#343: Having the Attitude of “Easier Said Than Done” When Getting Over a Breakup (or other adversity)

When you’re going through a breakup, it can be easy to sink into a negative thought pattern. It can seem like everything is working against you. It can be easy to think that whatever you want in life will never become reality and that good things only happen to OTHER people. It can make you envious to see happy couples, wishing you had that too. I get that. BUT....... Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Ama...

Jul 17, 202412 min

#342: 21 HARSH TRUTHS for Women in Dating ... Don't Shoot the Messenger ;)

It's time to drop some truth bombs to prevent you from doing things you shouldn't be doing ... because doing certain things and making certain choices in dating will not lead you to The Promised Land. And THAT is one thing I can promise. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breaku...

Jul 05, 202417 min

#341: REALITY CHECK: “Will They Regret It?" / “But, He Was Crying!!!” (insert eye-roll)

One of the MOST COMMON questions after a breakup is, "Will they regret it???" I have so much to say about this so that you can flip these thoughts around and get on with your life. Doesn't that sound good? Or would you rather keep sitting around sulking and walking for a lousy text or investigating the story-watching on your social media?! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz ...

Jun 26, 202412 min

#340: Mindset Shift: Embracing the Path of Least Resistance in Relationships

Your mindset influences how you think, feel, and behave in whatever situation you find yourself in. And speaking of mindset, I have often talked about the importance of going with the flow of life… or in other words... embracing the path of least resistance. This advice stems from observing how people can drive themselves absolutely crazy by clinging onto dead-end, unhealthy relationships. When you’re trying to force situations, you do this out of insecurity and fear. To hear everything I have t...

Jun 21, 202415 min

#339: Dating Someone New, But Can’t Stop Thinking About Your Ex or Situationship?

Wouldn't you just be tickled pink at the thought of being all wrapped up in someone who can't get over their ex?? So, then why are you doing this to someone else?! It's time for a lil reality check, a lil honesty, and some self-reflection. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Brea...

Jun 12, 20247 min

#338: To The Guy Who Wants You to “Be His Peace” (While Robbing You Of Yours)

This is an episode to make women, who have been through this, feel validated... and for the guys listening, it's to give you perspective as to what you don't want to do and why. As soon as I hear a guy say, 'I just want a woman to be my peace," it's like an alarm bell goes off as to how this guy operates. Let me fill you in on why I say that... listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2...

Jun 04, 20248 min

#337: BREAKUP PEP TALK: Yearning for Reconciliation as the Dumpee??

If your relationship ended and you're in a panic to get things back on track, THIS EPISODE is EXACTLY what you need to hear right now... before you end up doing all the things you shouldn't be doing and would later regret. Cause who likes regret?? No one. And hey, even if you already did some things you regret, that's ok! Let's start fresh NOW! Listen to this episode. I got your back! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https:...

May 31, 202416 min

#336: REALITY CHECK: “It’s So Unfair!” (And does the dumper REALLY have it SO much easier after a breakup?!)

Breakups suck. There's no denying that. However, going through a breakup doesn't mean you put your life on pause and mope around for years to come. Hell no! You've got things to do. And should we really assume breakups are just a walk in the park for the dumper?? Listen to this episode now! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call ...

May 16, 202413 min

#335: Feel HEARD, SUPPORTED & SEEN with My Unique Couples Coaching Mentality & Approach!

I absolutely LOVE working with couples. It's all about forming a really healthy professional relationship that feels like having a solid friend in your corner who is there to support you, who wants the best for you, and who has your back as a UNIT. We all work together as a TEAM. And of course, that includes holding you accountable and calling you out when needed, for the greater good of the relationship. I am confident you will feel a sense of relief and feel genuinely supported if you choose t...

May 07, 202413 min

#334: "LISTEN IN" w/ KYLIE: Getting Off the Heartbreak Train & Heading to Michigan Avenue!

I love connecting with podcast listeners on "LISTEN IN." If YOU are interested in being a guest, here's how: https://www.breakupboost.com/be-a-guest/ In this episode, I’m thrilled to be joined by Kylie! Kylie went through a breakup about 6 months ago, and although she has done a lot of healing since, she has been dealing with the remnants of it and shares some fears that many of you will find very relatable in terms of moving forward and what the future holds. And oh, what a BRIGHT future she ha...

May 06, 202459 min

#333: How Complacency KILLS Relationships

You won't win if the word "complacent" describes your relationship or lifestyle. Complaceny takes the ZEST and EXCITEMENT out of life and holds you back. So, the moral of the story = don't be complacent. And if you find yourself in a complacent relationship, job, or other type of situation, it's never too late to switch gears! That's the beauty of CHOICE. Listen to this episode now! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://...

Apr 29, 202413 min

#332: So Lemme Get This Straight - Thinking “Everything Happens for a Reason” After a Breakup is Toxic Positivity?!

By the end of this episode, if there's only one thing you leave with, I hope it's to not be a sheep and think with your own head lol. Listen now! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz THANK YOU to today's sponsor: COZY EARTH . Use promo code BOOST for a whopping 35% OFF! They have the most amazing luxury bedding, pajama sets, loungewear... and so much more! https://cozyearth.com/ Get More Help: (1) ORDER ...

Apr 27, 202418 min

#331: Breakup Glow-up? Revenge Body? Don't Wait for a Breakup or Divorce to Become the Best Version of Yourself!

Everyone can gain a gold nugget or two from this episode, whether you're going through a breakup, dating, in a relationship, married, divorced, or on a path of self-discovery. Listen now! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz THANK YOU to today's sponsor: COZY EARTH . Use promo code BOOST for a whopping 35% OFF! They have the most amazing luxury bedding, pajama sets, loungewear... and so much more! https:...

Apr 23, 202413 min

#330: ASK TRINA: 20 Questions: Cheating, OnlyFans, Ex Drama & More!

It's time for another episode of 20 RANDOM breakup, dating, and relationship questions! You just never know what's gonna pop up... so, grab a snack, and enjoy the show! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz THANK YOU to today's sponsor: COZY EARTH . Use promo code BOOST for a whopping 35% OFF! They have the most amazing luxury bedding, pajama sets, loungewear... and so much more! https://cozyearth.com/ Ge...

Apr 15, 202434 min

#329: "LISTEN IN" w/ HARLEY: Breaking Free of a Toxic Relationship & Reclaiming Self!

I love connecting with podcast listeners on "LISTEN IN." In this episode, I am joined by the lovely Harley who wanted to share her breakup and healing journey from a toxic off-and-on relationship. Her wish is to help other listeners not feel so alone... plus give them a BOOST of motivation to let go of their own toxic relationships and reclaim their sense of self. It's all about feeling at peace again and rebuilding that confidence! Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be D...

Apr 07, 202450 min

#328: REALITY CHECK: Stop Chasing Them!

Are you in a position where you feel as though you are chasing someone? Or as though you are the only one who reaches out, not getting anything back? Or maybe you continue to feel ignored or used at someone else's convenience? THIS is the episode you NEED to hear! It's time to shift some gears, take your power back, and restore your dignity. Listen to THIS episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHi...

Mar 18, 20249 min
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