In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel discusses the principles and applications of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), a method developed by Marshall Rosenberg. She emphasizes the importance of clear communication in both personal and professional relationships, outlining the four essential steps of NVC: observation, feeling, need, and request. Kissel shares personal anecdotes and client experiences to illustrate how NVC can transform communication styles, reduc...
Jul 01, 2025•14 min•Ep. 46
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel explores the concept of values, their significance in personal fulfillment, and how they can change over time. She discusses methods for identifying core values, the impact of cognitive dissonance, and the importance of taking action to align one's life with their values. The conversation also touches on the role of environment in shaping values, the discomfort that can accompany value changes, and the potential for post...
Jun 17, 2025•18 min•Ep. 45
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel reflects on significant milestones in her life, including her sobriety and turning 35. She discusses her journey of self-discovery, the challenges of entrepreneurship, and her evolving definition of success. Hannah shares insights on personal growth, creativity, and a transformative experience involving an exorcism, emphasizing the importance of emotional healing and self-acceptance. Takeaways Hannah celebrates her 35th ...
Jun 03, 2025•21 min•Ep. 44
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel and Michelle Agudelo delve into the often-overlooked topic of hormonal health and the menstrual cycle. They discuss the importance of understanding how hormonal fluctuations affect women's health, particularly in high-performance environments. Michelle shares insights on cycle syncing, a method of aligning work and life with the different phases of the menstrual cycle, and offers practical advice on tracking cycles and m...
May 20, 2025•34 min•Ep. 43
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel and Victoria Maurer explore the intricate relationship between self-sabotage, the nervous system, and personal development. They discuss how high performers often experience anxiety and self-doubt, particularly when faced with significant life changes. Victoria shares insights on how breathwork and somatic practices can help regulate the nervous system and address underlying trauma, ultimately leading to greater emotiona...
May 07, 2025•43 min•Ep. 42
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel discusses the challenges faced by high performers, including feelings of stagnation, burnout, and self-doubt. She introduces her seven-step method for transformation, which focuses on self-sabotage, defining one's ideal life, understanding values and purpose, setting non-negotiables, and effective communication. The conversation emphasizes the importance of resilience enablement in achieving personal and professional ful...
Apr 22, 2025•24 min•Ep. 41
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel explores the nuances of ambition, distinguishing between healthy and toxic ambition. She shares personal experiences with illness and how they shaped her understanding of ambition and self-care. The conversation delves into the characteristics of healthy ambition, such as fulfillment and joy, versus the anxiety and fear associated with toxic ambition. Hannah provides actionable steps for listeners to assess their own amb...
Apr 08, 2025•27 min•Ep. 40
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel discusses the intricacies of working with a coach, emphasizing the importance of understanding personal needs, choosing the right coach, and being prepared for sessions. She outlines seven key steps to maximize coaching investment, including the necessity of honesty and the willingness to embrace challenges. The conversation serves as a guide for individuals seeking to enhance their coaching experience and achieve person...
Mar 25, 2025•18 min•Ep. 39
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel discusses the importance of professional actualization, particularly in the context of public speaking and navigating office politics. She shares her personal journey towards becoming a public speaker and emphasizes the significance of understanding interpersonal relationships in achieving career success. Hannah introduces the RAPID framework for decision-making in organizations and provides actionable steps for improvin...
Mar 11, 2025•23 min•Season 1Ep. 38
In this episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast, Life Coach Hannah Kissel interviews Samantha Gold, founder and CEO of Motette, an elevated children's clothing brand. They discuss the challenges and fears of transitioning from a corporate career to entrepreneurship, the importance of financial planning, and the role of authenticity in branding. Samantha shares her personal journey, including her struggles with self-doubt and sobriety, and how she rebuilt her confidence after facing significant...
Feb 25, 2025•35 min•Ep. 37
In this episode, Life Coach Hannah Kissel shares a personal journey into personal finance and wealth creation, emphasizing the importance of mindset shifts. The conversation explores the difference between victim mentality and creator mentality, encouraging listeners to take radical responsibility for their lives. The host provides insights on how to identify victim behaviors and offers practical steps to embrace a creator mindset, ultimately aiming for empowerment and personal growth. Takeaways...
Feb 11, 2025•13 min•Ep. 36
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel reflects on personal growth and the need for mental space as they enter the new year. They discuss the concept of toxic high performance, which is driven by ambition but can lead to burnout and unhealthy patterns. The host introduces the four origins of toxic high performance: high family expectations, absent parents, competitive academic pressure, and experiences of bullying. They emphasize the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and re...
Jan 27, 2025•33 min
In this conversation, career coach Hannah Kissel and Emily discuss Emily's journey through vulnerability, confidence, and motherhood. Emily shares her experiences with postnatal depression, ADHD, and the challenges of single parenting. They explore how group coaching helped Emily build confidence in her personal and professional life, emphasizing the importance of boundary setting and self-care. The discussion highlights the transformative power of vulnerability and community support in navigati...
Jan 14, 2025•37 min
In this conversation between career coach Hannah Kissel and Deanna Cooney explore the intricacies of public speaking, focusing on the importance of mindset, preparation, and somatic practices. Deanna shares her journey from a creative freelancer to a public speaking coach, emphasizing the need for competence to build confidence. They discuss practical tips for effective presentations, the significance of engaging the audience, and the necessity of practicing in low-risk environments. The convers...
Jan 07, 2025•44 min
In this conversation between career coach Hannah Kissel and Cory Welsh. She shares her transformative journey through the Life and Work Transformation program, emphasizing the importance of community, personal growth, and setting boundaries. She reflects on her experiences in the program, the shifts in her relationship with work, and the courage it took to make significant changes in her life. The discussion highlights the value of support systems, the need for self-reflection, and the power of ...
Jan 01, 2025•46 min
In this engaging conversation between career coach Hannah Kissel and Susie Porter shares her journey as an actress and animal rights activist, discussing her big dreams, the interplay of ambition and spirituality, and the challenges of imposter syndrome. She reflects on childhood influences, the importance of humility, and the acceptance of one's journey. The discussion also touches on creativity and the transformative power of 'The Artist's Way' in unlocking personal expression. This episode al...
Dec 24, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and emotional awareness as a foundation for setting meaningful goals for the upcoming year. She guides listeners through a series of introspective questions designed to help them evaluate their feelings about the past year, identify their achievements and hardships, and establish non-negotiables and boundaries. The discussion highlights the significance of self-compassion and gratitude in personal growth, ul...
Dec 17, 2024•19 min•Ep. 30
This is a special episode of the Big F*cking Dreams podcast. Life Coach Hannah Kissel was featured on The Upward Spiral podcast. Hannah discusses with host Michelle O'Brien how to navigate the holidays alcohol-free, set boundaries with family, and set your 2025 new year goals. Whether you're rethinking your relationship with alcohol, already embracing an alcohol-free lifestyle, or simply seeking to make more mindful choices, this episode is packed with practical strategies. Here's what you'll di...
Dec 10, 2024•1 hr 5 min
In this episode, Life Coach Hannah Kissel discusses the challenges faced by high performers and introduces the concept of the 'seven deadly sins of high performance.' She shares personal anecdotes and insights on how striving for excellence can lead to burnout, neglect of relationships, and a lack of fulfillment. Each sin is explored in detail, along with practical antidotes to help listeners achieve a healthier balance in their lives. Takeaways Embrace a growth mindset and allow yourself to be ...
Dec 04, 2024•31 min
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel reflects on her wins and losses of 2024, sharing personal and professional insights. She discusses her challenges with physical health, injuries, and the unfinished novel, while celebrating her engagement, the launch of her podcast, and the growth of her community. The conversation emphasizes the importance of reflection, intention setting, and embracing a growth mindset. Reflection is key to personal growth and understanding. Prioritizing physical hea...
Nov 26, 2024•20 min•Ep. 27
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel discusses the importance of self-esteem and self-compassion, sharing personal experiences and insights on how to navigate feelings of low self-worth. She emphasizes the significance of recognizing one's emotions, setting boundaries, and taking courageous actions to improve self-esteem. The conversation also highlights the signs of low self-esteem and offers practical strategies for personal growth and healing trauma. Self-compassion is crucial for pers...
Nov 19, 2024•25 min•Ep. 26
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel introduces her new podcast segment 'Big F*cking Books,' where she passionately discusses her love for reading and specifically focuses on the works of Sarah J. Maas. She explores the cultural impact of Maas's writing on millennial readers, critiques the often dismissive labels attached to her work, and emphasizes the importance of strong female characters in literature. The conversation also touches on the significance of reading for pleasure and encou...
Nov 12, 2024•22 min•Ep. 25
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel discusses the challenges of imposter syndrome and the importance of confidence in professional settings. She explores how societal norms, particularly tall poppy syndrome, affect individuals' ability to assert themselves. The conversation delves into practical strategies for improving self-confidence, including body language, the power of silence, and the significance of preparation. Hannah also emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with sup...
Nov 05, 2024•16 min•Ep. 24
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel shares her reflections on personal growth, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the often overlooked topic of friendship breakdowns. She discusses her journey of self-discovery, the challenges of navigating friendships in adulthood, and offers insights on how to manage and understand friendship dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the significance of emotional literacy in both personal and professional contexts, and encourages listeners to ta...
Oct 30, 2024•20 min•Ep. 23
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel discusses the critical role of self-trust in achieving high performance and personal empowerment. She shares her personal experiences with self-trust and locus of control, emphasizing the importance of taking responsibility for one's life and decisions. Hannah identifies signs of low self-trust, such as seeking constant validation and people-pleasing, and offers practical steps to build self-trust, including following through on commitments and establi...
Oct 22, 2024•21 min•Ep. 22
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel discusses the transformative power of a growth mindset, contrasting it with a fixed mindset. She shares personal experiences and insights on how adopting a growth mindset can lead to personal and professional development, emphasizing the importance of skill acquisition, overcoming imposter syndrome, and improving relationships. The discussion highlights practical steps to cultivate a growth mindset and the significance of viewing challenges as opportun...
Oct 15, 2024•19 min•Ep. 21
In this conversation, Dr. Bradley Wright and career coach Hannah Kissel discuss the process of finding one's purpose in life. They explore the idea of translating dreams and desires into actionable steps and the importance of holding onto guiding hypotheses rather than expecting a binary discovery of purpose. They also touch on the concept of manifesting and the interplay between our internal and external environments. The conversation emphasizes the need for continuous refinement and exploratio...
Oct 08, 2024•55 min•Ep. 20
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel discusses the journey toward self-actualization, emphasizing the importance of meeting basic needs as outlined in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. She explores how personal development and coaching can help individuals align with their purpose and achieve their full potential. The discussion highlights the significance of mental health, relationships, and boundaries in the pursuit of fulfillment and purpose. Self-actualization is about achieving your full ...
Oct 01, 2024•21 min•Ep. 19
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel explores the dark side of high performance, discussing how the insatiable drive for achievement often stems from trauma responses. She identifies characteristics of triggered high performers, including a tendency to spiral after setbacks and a lack of self-care. Kissel emphasizes the importance of internal family systems therapy as a method for healing and understanding the parts of oneself that drive these behaviors. The discussion highlights the need...
Sep 24, 2024•22 min•Ep. 18
In this episode, career coach Hannah Kissel and Tracey Brown discuss Tracey's journey through burnout and her transformative experience in a coaching program. They explore themes of high performance, self-care, and the importance of setting non-negotiables in life. Tracey shares her insights on building self-trust, the impact of internal family systems therapy, and the empowerment that comes from prioritizing personal well-being over work demands. The conversation concludes with Tracey's encoura...
Sep 18, 2024•26 min