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Beat Your Genes Podcast

BeatYourGenesbeatyourgenes.org
Evolutionary psychology with Dr. Doug Lisle, PhD and Nathan Gershfeld, D.C. Most psychology advice treats your brain like a broken machine. Beat Your Genes starts somewhere different: your instincts aren't broken. They're just optimized for a Stone Age environment that no longer exists. Dr. Lisle - Evolutionary psychologist, former Stanford lecturer, and co-author of The Pleasure Trap - has spent decades developing frameworks that explain human behavior from the ground up. Nathan Gershfeld, D.C. - trained first as an electrical engineer and then spent 14 years as a Doctor of Chiropractic. He brings a systems thinker's curiosity to every conversation. He mostly lets Dr. Lisle talk. Topics include relationships and attraction, self-esteem, personality, depression and anxiety, willpower, the ego trap, and how pushy people exploit agreeable ones. 380+ episodes. New episodes every other week. New here? Start at beatyourgenes.org/start-here
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Episodes

66: About Dr. Doug Lisle

We'll get to know a little more about how Dr. Lisle became a psychologist and how he learned about evolutionary psychology. This is Part 1 of a two-part interview. Stay tuned next week for part 2.

May 18, 201744 minSeason 1Ep. 66

65: Finding your edge in life

I'll read a follow-up email with one of our listeners. And some fun questions from our listeners this week as well. We will try to get to as many as possible.

May 11, 201747 minSeason 1Ep. 65

64: Dealing with a Micromanager - An On-Air session with Dr. Lisle

Most people assume a micromanaging boss is a control freak who needs to be put in his place. Dr. Lisle says that's exactly the wrong read. Your micromanager isn't a jerk, he's terrified, and the strategies your instincts are telling you to use will only make things worse. In this on-air session, a listener describes a new boss who demands daily itineraries, audits his expense reports over the weekend, and sends back his schedule with minutes allotted to every task. Dr. Lisle diagnoses the behavi...

May 04, 201737 minSeason 1Ep. 64

63: Marital jealousy, Distancing yourself, Self-limiting beliefs,and more...

Question we will try to get to: 1. Is the concept of self limiting beliefs the same as ego traps in evo psych? Why do these occur? 2. My boyfriend and I are very nice people (very agreeable). Frustrating and funny at the same time. We have a problem figuring out what we want, since our first reaction is to please other people. But because we are not alone in the world, what happens a lot is that our decisions are made by others... We decided to try to have a baby. There is simply so much written...

Apr 27, 201743 minSeason 1Ep. 63

62: Making it to Date #2, Political Correctness, Self-Limiting Beliefs

Listener questions we will try to get to for today: 1. For a successful first date, Dr. Lisle said the goal is to not get ruled out. I'm using online dating and it seems like every time that I've met a girl that meets my standards physically, we'll have a pretty good first date, but then when I try to set up another date I usually hear from them that they didn't feel a connection. Based on what you guys talk about in your podcast it leads me to believe that what they're saying is an inoffensive ...

Apr 20, 201753 minEp. 62

58: Mate-choice copying, The Milgram Experiment, Trans athletes, Darwin Awards

-Do men appear more desirable when seen with attractive women? What does the science say? -Stanley Milgram's famous study demonstrated people's capacity for obedience to an authority figure in the name of the common good. Recently, Milgram's work was replicated. The results may surprise you. -One transgender athlete has made it to the spotlight in competitive lifting. Listen to what happened. -In honor of Darwin, we present a Darwin Award whereby someone unwittingly takes themselves out of the g...

Mar 23, 201758 minEp. 58

54: Repairing a strained relationship: On-air session with Olivia & Dr. Lisle

Most people try to fix a conflict with a difficult parent by defending themselves better, explaining themselves more clearly, or finally landing the point that wins the argument. Dr. Lisle says that approach guarantees failure. When two people are locked in what he calls a vicious cycle, the only move that actually reverses it is the one that feels most counterintuitive. In this on-air clinical session, Olivia calls in about a deteriorating relationship with her disagreeable father, and Dr. Lisl...

Feb 23, 201755 minSeason 1Ep. 54

53: Flakes, gays, and cougars

A conversation with Dr. Lisle about flakes. We take a caller with a few excellent questions.

Feb 16, 201758 minEp. 53

50: What's your personality?

We will review how to assess your own personality characteristics by going over the BF-10/Ten Item PersonalityIndex survey. You can download it here: http://gosling.psy.utexas.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/tipi.pdf

Jan 26, 201754 minEp. 50

43: Inside the Criminal Mind

Dr. Lisle shares his experiences as a forensic psychologist for the criminal justice system in Dallas, Texas. We will go inside the psychology of a criminal mind with some insights & stories.

Dec 01, 201654 minEp. 43

38: More listener questions/comments

Lots of emails and questions from our last few shows so I'll be reading the emails on air and Dr. Lisle will be answering your questions.

Oct 27, 20161 hr 5 minEp. 38
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