A mother named Tracy calls in after Chef AJ told her she was out of her league and sent her to Dr. Lisle. Tracy's 12-year-old daughter Emily has daily bowel and bladder accidents, a diagnosis of encopresis and enuresis, and a decade of failed interventions ranging from polyethylene glycol drinks to a one-hour bathroom protocol to now, at last, a recommendation for psychiatric medication. Dr. Lisle listens, asks three questions, and reframes the entire 12-year ordeal in a single sentence. In this...
Dec 28, 2017•33 min•Season 1Ep. 97
10 paid dates-what now?, Parenting with societal expectations, the future of races
Dec 21, 2017•50 min•Season 1Ep. 96
OCD, Jealousy, Over-working, and advice for a naturopath
Dec 14, 2017•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 95
Continuing on with the questions from last week's show. 5. Is orthorexia real? Does it apply to an actually health-promoting diet & lifestyle? 6. Dating while on a diet: How to bring it up without scaring your date away 7. Painful memories: Why do they replay? Why do they come up? 8. Do women naturally attempt to dominate men in long term relationships? 9. Jealousy 10. How much abuse can our bodies take from working long hours all our lives?
Dec 07, 2017•58 min•Season 1Ep. 94
Tonight's questions will be: 1. Follow up question for what the future will look like 2. What to consider when relocating your life: Near family, low cost of living, wild experiences, etc.. 3. Sexual harassment allegations in the current news 4. Anxiety about transitioning to a healthy diet 5. Is orthorexia real? Does it apply to an actually health-promoting diet & lifestyle? 6. Dating while on a diet: How to bring it up without scaring your date away 7. Painful memories: Why do they replay?...
Nov 30, 2017•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 93
What will the future look like?
Nov 16, 2017•57 min•Season 1Ep. 92
Most ambitious people assume that the point of life is to accomplish something great enough that the world remembers your name. Dr. Lisle calls this the hill climbing trap, and in this episode he argues it is one of the most consequential mistakes a creative person can make. The statue in the park 200 years from now? Birds will be crapping on it, and nobody you care about will ever see it. In this live caller episode, Dr. Doug Lisle walks two listeners through some of the most practical applicat...
Nov 09, 2017•48 min•Season 1Ep. 91
Saying sorry, Borderline personality, multiple personality, politics
Nov 02, 2017•58 min•Season 1Ep. 90
Ex-husband & father of my kids is a sociopath. On-air session
Oct 26, 2017•53 min•Season 1Ep. 89
Topics: Quitting vices one by one or altogether? Helping your SO with their vices Why are students so stressed? Tips to deal with this. Standing up for yourself if you're highly agreeabl
Oct 19, 2017•51 min•Season 1Ep. 88
87: Psych of Halloween costumes, talking to yourself, modern technology
Oct 12, 2017•50 min•Season 1Ep. 87
What is a middle-of-the-bell-curve person like? and more listener questions
Oct 05, 2017•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 86
Is online dating worth it, qualifying for your spouse.. Article on online dating: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/30/science/for-couples-time-can-upend-the-laws-of-attraction.html
Sep 28, 2017•53 min•Season 1Ep. 85
Building a community, Getting over an ex's past, non-sexual fetishes, & more
Sep 21, 2017•54 min•Season 1Ep. 84
Ep 83
Sep 14, 2017•48 min•Season 1Ep. 83
Overcoming height/weight differences while dating
Sep 07, 2017•43 min•Season 1Ep. 82
episode 81
Aug 31, 2017•55 min•Season 1Ep. 81
Most people assume altruism is selfless and that anonymous donors exist. Dr. Lisle says neither is true. Every act of giving, from the mother scrubbing floors for her son's tuition to the stranger picking up trash before dawn, is a gene-level calculation with a hidden audience. Once you see the logic, a lot of human behavior stops being mysterious. In this on-air session with longtime listener David, Dr. Lisle works through four live questions covering low conscientiousness trading partners, a n...
Aug 24, 2017•57 min•Season 1Ep. 80
Overbearing parents, Does sibling birth order matter, facing death
Aug 17, 2017•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 79
A google engineer wrote a memo explaining biological differences between men and women.
Aug 10, 2017•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 78
Child prodigies, Cat-fishing, Being born w a deformity
Aug 03, 2017•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 77
Some fun listener questions
Jul 27, 2017•1 hr 13 min•Season 1Ep. 76
Helping friends/family, self-confidence vs. self-esteem
Jul 20, 2017•55 min•Season 1Ep. 75
Millenials
Jul 13, 2017•52 min•Season 1Ep. 74
Parenting styles, Millenials, Bringing back purpose
Jul 06, 2017•51 min•Season 1Ep. 73
We'll go over an interesting study, some listener emails/questions.
Jun 29, 2017•50 min•Season 1Ep. 72
Tonight's episode: - Two recent studies - Listener emails - A very funny caller with a great question
Jun 22, 2017•59 min•Season 1Ep. 71
Most people assume finding yourself is a spiritual or therapeutic journey. Dr. Lisle says it is something much more mechanical. Your identity is just the set of conditional relationships between you and the world, and the only way to map it is to go have experiences and watch your own nervous system react. In this live on-air session, a longtime listener named Dan brings Dr. Lisle a full picture of his life. He is 35, finishing a divorce, sharing custody of a young daughter, caught between tradi...
Jun 15, 2017•48 min•Season 1Ep. 70
1. If evolutionary psychology considers parental investment theory and the investment in kin as essential why do so many people in the West keep animals. 2. I used to get really upset when my partner watched . I have relaxed and now feel like it's not the worst thing he can do and will not end my relationship so I shouldn't get upset. What do you think? 3. Can a person's placing on the agreeability continuum be situational? I believe I am more or less disagreeable depending on the dynamics of di...
Jun 08, 2017•57 min•Season 1Ep. 69
Explaining enablers, dating with psychiatric disorders, and having grit
Jun 01, 2017•56 min•Season 1Ep. 68