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Be Love Be Well Be Whole

Nicole M. Raines, LMFT & Dr. Dena Scottpodcasters.spotify.com
Be Love Be Well Be Whole is a holistic collaboration between two Gen X mental health professionals that takes a journey into the multiple pieces of experience that makes us whole. We will dive into relationships in all phases and stages, mental health and wellness.
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Episodes

Paying Attention to You

Join Nicole on this stop of the journey to close out Mental Health Awareness month with a quick self-check in. Episode Theme Song "I Lied to You" ~ Miles Caton You can listen to this season's theme songs on Spotify. Mood Reboot

May 31, 202512 minSeason 5Ep. 24

Financing the Future

On this stop of the journey we are focusing on financial wellbeing and one of the major stressors many people and families face...paying for school. Join Nicole and Guest Host Tamika Ritchie as Tamika dispels a few common myths about scholarships and drops gems for giving yourself our your student more options for the future. Join the journey! Connect with Tamika: Instagram @msfreedegree Episode Theme Songs "I Ain't Stressing 'Today" ~ Dear Silas "Alright" ~ Kendrick Lamar Listen to Season 5 The...

Apr 22, 20251 hr 11 minSeason 5Ep. 23

Walking Through Stress

April is Stress Awareness Month! On this pit stop, Nicole encourages us to get curious about stress and to try walking in order to move through the stress response cycle.

Apr 19, 202518 min

Getting There in Your Own Time: Individual Healing During a Collective Trauma

Nicole is back for Season 5 with guest co-host Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Alexandria Tillard- Gates. On this stop of the journey, the uniqueness of the healing process is discussed along with ways to support others. The LA Wildfires are part of the conversation. Learn More About Alexandria and the work she does: HerHealing https://www.herhealingla.com Instagram @herhealingla Episode Theme Songs "Smile" by Pharrell Williams "Everyday Sunshine" by Fishbone Listen to Season 5 Theme Son...

Mar 25, 202541 minSeason 5Ep. 22

Sitting in Silence

Be Love Be Well is back! It's a new season and we are rebooting the show! At the 3:50 mark Enjoy some silence

Mar 20, 20257 min

Put on the Boots and Splash in the Puddle

Previous guests, Patrice Marshall Mackenzie and Chef Halili, join Nicole on this stop on the journey to talk about self love. They are defining self-love and defying the the ways in which we talk about and practice it. "Sometimes self-love is an act of defiance." Join the journey! Episode Theme Songs Patrice - "Workin' Day and Night" - Michael Jackson Nicole - "Defying Gravity" - Original Broadway Cast Halili - "Golden" - Jill Scott Self Love Practices in This Episode Acceptance Asses your own n...

Mar 15, 202438 min

Accepting of The Way That I Am

Join Nicole and Dr. Dena as they chat with the multi-passionate speaker, author and podcast host Lisette Zounon. Connect with Lisette https://zsquarecorner.com/ Listen to her podcast https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/upyourconfidence Episode Theme Songs Lisette: "SoSo" - Omah Lay Dr. Dena: "Through the Fire" – Chaka Khan Nicole: "Crazy "- Seal...

Feb 24, 202433 min

Welcome to the Season of Love!

We're back!!! Join Dr. Dena, Nicole and Shanelle for this intro to our 2024 journey. We are delving into the love and will be spending this season chatting about relationships. Our stops this season include relationships with ourselves as and with others be it platonic, familial, romantic or work related. Join the journey! Episode Theme Songs Dr. Dena : The vibe is Sade (select your own song "By Your Side" is the reminder) Nicole: "Love's Holiday" Earth, Wind and Fire Shanelle: "Un-thinkable" Al...

Jan 29, 202411 min

"I'm fabulous! I'm a star! I need to lay down!"

On this stop on the journey, Nicole and Dr. Dena are joined by Joy Stephens to dip into the world of mental end emotional wellbeing. Join the conversation as they chat about laying down strength and picking up power, creating a safe space in your own mind and how rest is a part of it all. Joy is a connecter of minds and challenger of thoughts. Her professional title is executive coach. Connect with Joy LinkedIn (Joy Stephens New Heights) https://www.newheightsawait.com/ Episode Mood Joy: "I Will...

Mar 30, 202327 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Belonging Is An Active Process

Nicole and Dr. Dena are back! Season three's journey kicks off in the space of belonging. We all belong and it is a dynamic process. Finding and creating that sense of belonging is an important part of being whole. Join Nicole and Dr. Dena as they chat with their guest Dr. Dave Cornelius, DM about belonging and how it relates to healing. Connect with Dr. Dave Social Media Profiles: https://linktr.ee/drdaveduka Article: "It’s Time For Business Leaders To Address Healing—The Missing Piece Of The D...

Feb 15, 202327 minSeason 3Ep. 1

From Letters to Swiping, Relationships The POV Episode

Wow, it’s been 2 years already! On this final and the anniversary stop of 2022’s journey, Nicole and Dena eavesdrop on a conversation between guests Edwardo Jackson and Chef Halili Davis. Join the journey as they share their points of view on dating, polyamory and situationships. Edwardo is a connoisseur of cryptocurrency, lover of movies and fan of dating feedback. He also spends time as CEO & Founder of CinemaDraft, LLC and as a Cryptocurrency Consultant. Connect with Edwardo Website: www....

Dec 16, 202254 minSeason 2Ep. 8

Tap Into Your Sensual Intelligence With Ask Goody

This stop on the journey is tapping into our sensual intelligence. Join Nicole and guest co-host Dr. Shanelle Watson as they chat with Goody Howard (aka Ask Goody) about the difference between being sensual and sexual, the numerous types of orgasms and how to honor your sensual self. Goody is a revolutionary and dynamic boss of sensual and sexual empowerment. These traits are expressed in her work as a sexologist. Learn more about and connect with Goody Instagram: @askgoody Website: https://www....

Nov 09, 202229 minSeason 2Ep. 7

Gratitude in Grief II

This stop on the journey has us continuing to explore the concept of gratitude within the grief process. Join Nicole and Dr. Dena and special guest producer and co-host Dr. Shanelle Watson as they define and discuss anticipatory grief and some ways to support yourself and others who are experiencing grief. Learn more about and connect with Dr. Shanelle https://drshanellelwatson.com Instagram: @drslwatson Episode Sign Posts mark 5:45 defining anticipatory grief Loving Kindness Meditation Episode ...

Oct 03, 202238 minSeason 2Ep. 6

Financial Gems With Darvell Williams

This stop on the journey is about getting our money together. Join Nicole and guest co-host Dr. Shanelle Watson as they chat with Darvell Williams about the relationship with money now and in the future. Darvell is an an educator and builder. These traits are expressed in his work as a financial professional. Learn more about and connect with Darvell Instagram: @darvellwfinancial email: dwilliams13@ft.newyorklife.com Episode Theme Songs Darvell: "Golden Time of Day" Maze with Frankie Beverly Dr....

Sep 11, 202236 minSeason 2Ep. 5

Gratitude in Grief

This stop on the journey has us exploring the concept of gratitude within the grief process. Join Nicole and Dr. Dena and special guest producer and co-host Dr. Shanelle Watson as they share their own experiences with losing their mothers and some of the things that have helped in their journeys. This episode is dedicated to those who have lost a mother but for anyone grieving the loss of a loved one, we encourage you to join the conversation. Learn more about and connect with Dr. Shanelle https...

Aug 22, 202250 minSeason 2Ep. 4

Wandering Through Meaning and Purpose

This stop on the journey has us exploring meaning and purpose. Join Nicole and Dr. Dena as they wander though a discussion about finding meaning and purpose in life. Episode Sign Posts Give yourself permission to not exist in just one way. Does this elevate or depreciate your energy? Episode Theme Songs Dr. Dena- " Closer" by Slum Village & Dwele Nicole - repeat of a previous episode (substitute "Lifted" by Trombone Shorty) Listen to the Theme Songs...

Jul 05, 202225 minSeason 2Ep. 3

You Are Here

In this bonus episode, Nicole guides us through a few mental health hygiene exercises in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month. Each exercise is a minute or less. Let go of your self judgment and use whatever that comes up as information. Tune in and engage! Exercises: Sitting in Silence Deep Breathing 5 Senses Grounding Global Theme Song: "Under Pressure" by Queen and David Bowie Listen to the Theme Songs...

May 02, 202210 min

Taking Up, Holding, Sharing and Leaning into Space

This stop on the journey has us thinking about the ways we take up space. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest Patrice Marshall McKenzie as they delve into ways to bring your whole self into the spaces that you occupy. Patrice is an orator, door opener and celebrator of others. She spends her professional time as an educator and community advocate. Connect With Patrice https://www.patricemarshallmckenzie.com Episode Sign Posts The relationship has its own life too. As you create your relationsh...

Mar 30, 202227 minSeason 2Ep. 2

Conflict Could Be Where The Cool Stuff Comes From

Nicole and Dr. Dena are back for their second season! This year's journey starts in the relational space with be love. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest, Brandon Raines as they debunk some of the common myths about conflict in relationships. Brandon is a people mover, seeker of kindness and creator of reflection. His professional time is spent as an Organization Design and Enterprise Coach. Busting These Myths 1. Healthy relationships don't have conflict. 2. We should just know what a health...

Feb 26, 202240 minSeason 2Ep. 1

Just Breathe

This month we are hanging out at a quick rest stop. Join Nicole for a moment to just breathe. Learn the science behind why breathing helps to calm us as well as two simple postures to practice belly breathing.

Jan 31, 202210 min

Being Brave

In this episode, our journey has us "getting off the porch." Feeling stuck or stagnant is not a bad thing, it means you're human. It is how we navigate those moments that makes a difference. Join Dr. Dena and Nicole and their guest Alicia Booker, as they discuss ways to move through a place of feeling stuck. Alicia is a bringer of big energy, steward of worthiness and advocate of empowerment. Her professional time is spent as a certified professional and executive coach and author. Connect with ...

Oct 31, 202133 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Being Clutter Free

In this episode, our journey takes us inside of our physical spaces for some Fall cleaning. Show love for your physical environment and incorporate it into your plan for your overall well-being. Join Nicole and guest Candace Davenport-Raines, as they declutter our perceptions of what it means to tidy our physical spaces. Candace is a confronter of clutter, dismantler of space shame and guide to organization. Her professional time is spent as an entrepreneur and professional organizer. Connect wi...

Sep 29, 202134 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Being Able to Quiet the Inner Saboteur

In this episode, our journey takes us inside of our minds to check out our self-talk. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest ,Alicia R. McLain, MA, PCC, as they journey into the world of Positive Intelligence and Mental Fitness. Alicia is a holder of empathy, organizational whisper and promoter of empowerment. Her professional time is spent as an entrepreneur and Executive & Leadership Coach. Connect with Alicia Twitter https://twitter.com/AgileLeaderSD LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/al...

Aug 04, 202132 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Being About Feedback and Escapes

In this episode, our journey takes us to the zone of dating feedback and healthy escapes. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest , Edwardo Jackson, as the chat winds through many places. Edwardo is a connoisseur of cryptocurrency, lover of movies and fan of dating feedback. He also spends time as CEO & Founder of CinemaDraft, LLC and as a Cryptocurrency Consultant. Connect with Edwardo Twitter: @SwagPoker Instagram: @edwardojackson Check Out and Follow Our Mood Theme Songs Be Love Be Well Be ...

Jul 08, 202138 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Being Free to Be You

This part of the journey takes us to an authentic space. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest , Tashiana Scott-Cochran, as they chat about imposter syndrome and ways to handle when others project being an imposter onto you. Tashiana is a seeker of knowledge and advocate of candor and optimism. Episode Quote: "...freedom to let whatever is in you out, there's a journey in that." Check Out and Follow Our Mood Theme Songs Be Love Be Well Be Whole Mood You can also join the journey on Instagram @be...

Jun 21, 202121 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Being Without Limits

This month's journey takes us to a limitless mind space. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest ,Dr. Shanelle L. Watson, as they chat about living abundantly, gratitude in our daily lives and how to be optimistic without becoming a projector of toxic positivity. Dr.Shanelle is a cultivator of empowerment, champion of caring and projector of passion. These are expressed in her work as an Educational Psychologist and Behavior Interventionist. Learn more about and connect with Dr. Shanelle https://d...

May 08, 202129 minSeason 1Ep. 6

Being Comfortable Talking About Sex

The second part of this month's journey takes us to a sex positive space. Join Nicole, Dr. Dena and their guest Crystal Harrison as they chat about becoming comfortable talking about sex. Crystal is a radiator of caring, creator of comfort and builder of confidence. These are expressed in her work as a Project Coordinator and Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant. Learn more about and connect with Crystal https://www.bedroomkandi.com/9011 Instagram: @bkpartiesbycrystal Check Out and Follow Our Mood ...

Apr 25, 202132 minSeason 1Ep. 5

Being Still

This month's journey takes us to a rest stop. Join Dr. Dena and Nicole as they talk about the value of the pause and provide some tips for being still in this ever moving world. Read "How Being More Productive Starts With Doing Nothing" Check Out and Follow Our Mood Theme Songs Be Love Be Well Be Whole Mood...

Apr 05, 202118 minSeason 1Ep. 4

A Taste of Wellness

The Pivot Episode This month's journey has us making a pivot and shifting course to A Taste of Wellness. Join Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Nicole and Guest Host Chef Halili as they chat about morning mood makeovers and nighttime wind down routines. There is "thyme today" as they explore a "hug in a mug", simple grounding exercises and sleep hygiene. Chef Halili Davis is a creative entrepreneur, celebrity chef, caterer, and mental health advocate. Connect with Chef Halili Website: http...

Mar 26, 202127 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Being a Vessel of Love

This month's journey takes us to the "loveverse." Join us and our guest Chevvy Cheung, MSW, PsyD as we explore self-love and relationships. Chevvy is a champion of relationships, enhancer of dreams and humble collaborator. These are expressed in his work as a relationship and life coach. Learn more about and connect with Chevvy https://www.mindmuscleheartlifecoaching.com Find Your Love Language https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Find Your Apology Language https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quiz...

Feb 28, 202138 minSeason 1Ep. 3
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