The Orgasm Gap with Bella Rolland
On this month's episode of XR University, we have guest Bella Rolland join us to talk about female pleasure and help bridge the gap… the orgasm gap!
May 04, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 11Ep. 118
XR University
Want a peek inside the world of kink from those who know it best? Longtime BDSM lifestylers and professionals Ian Rath and Aiden Starr host this intimate, sexy and entertaining show that is perfect for viewers of any level or experience in kink. Using eXtreme Restraints props, toys and tech, they show you the newest toys to play with and invite sexy guests to try them out and share their unique and very explicit experience with them. Conversations between Ian and Aiden are not only fun to listen to, they’re easy to understand and perfect for people from all walks of life who are interested in enhancing their sex life.
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Episodes
Kink and Disability with Rachel plus Maya Woulfe
With over 25% of the population identifying as disabled, knowing how to adjust for neutral positions that aren't painful and still let everyone feel sexy, empowered and feel pleasure is important. Our illustrious hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath invite an exciting new guest, Rachel, who lets us take a look inside the world of enjoying your body as a kinky, disabled person
Mar 10, 2023•35 min•Season 10Ep. 117
Play & Pleasure with Zariah Aura
In this episode of XR University, hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr invite Zariah Aura, a gorgeous trans woman, to share how she uses sex toys to enhance her own pleasure and fully enjoy her body!
Jan 06, 2023•23 min•Season 10Ep. 116
Roleplay with Charlotte Sins
Fantasize about role play scenes? Want to be a kinky animal? Enjoy the idea of "breeding" fantasies? On this episode of XR University, we get into our favorite part of BDSM, the element of having fun and playing! Everyone has a fantasy. How do we talk about it and bring it into the bedroom? Our hosts Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their guest Charlotte Sins dive into the psychology of role play and show us some of the toys that are great tools to make it happen!
Nov 01, 2022•29 min•Season 10Ep. 115
Building a Dungeon (Sex Room) w/ Casey Calvert
While How To Build A Sex Room takes viewers into the world of building new rooms, remodels and upgrades, our show shares ways to make it easy for yourself to create a spicy room that is specific and unique to your kinks and desires.
Oct 03, 2022•28 min•Season 10Ep. 114
Bondage Gear with Destiny Cruz
Ian and Aiden, are joined by the vibrant Destiny Cruz to discuss the headspace and communication involved with proper, professional, fun, and stimulating bondage play. If you're wondering about Episode #112 that episode was too visual for an audio podcast. We suggest heading to our site for that one.
Aug 31, 2022•27 min•Season 10Ep. 113
Corporal Punishment with Daddy An Li & Elori
In this episode of Extreme Restraints University, guests Daddy An Li and Elori join Ian Rath and Aiden Starr to teach and talk about Impact Play and Corporal Punishment! You can enjoy Aiden, Ian, Elori or An Li nerding out about the science of beating up the body with different toys and enjoy the combined experience and wisdom from all four of them.
Jul 07, 2022•34 min•Season 10Ep. 111
What’s In Our Play Bag w/ Bella Rolland
As people start meeting up via FetLife and munches again, dungeons, playspaces and parties bring us back to planning for fun and kinky nights. Preparing for the best scenario while also being cautious and careful is part of building a perfectly curated Play Bag.
Jun 01, 2022•33 min•Season 10Ep. 110
The Travel Show w/ Page Owens
This week on XR University we tune in to Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their gorgeous and entertaining guest Paige Owens as they talk about the hot topic that’s on everyone’s minds since restrictions have been lifted: travel!
May 02, 2022•24 min•Season 9Ep. 109
Fantasy and Reality w/ Izzy Lush
As the world starts to open up, our “proverted” hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath (joined by Izzy Lush) help the audience understand how to be professional when trying new things.
Apr 04, 2022•27 min•Season 9Ep. 108
E-Stim Play w/ Electra Rayne
Get ready to get shocked, or at least surprised, at how fun and pleasurable E-stim can be! Ian and Aiden bring first time guest Electra Rayne into the studio.
Mar 01, 2022•22 min•Season 9Ep. 107
Communication & Valentine’s Day w/ Alexia Anders
In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Alexia Anders to discuss how to use Valentine's Day as a springboard to better sex.
Feb 01, 2022•28 min•Season 9Ep. 106
The New Year’s Show with Maya Woulfe
Ian and Aiden are joined by Maya Woulfe to discuss your sexy new year's resolutions.
Jan 03, 2022•31 min•Season 9Ep. 105
Squirting with Vanessa Vega
Our hosts Ian and Aiden are joined by Vanessa Vega to discuss a sexual technique known as squirting.
Dec 01, 2021•24 min•Season 9Ep. 104
Prostates & Pegging with Ruckus
This month, Ian and Aiden are joined by Ruckus, to discuss both the prostate and pegging play. While we have a male guest to help demonstrate various types of play this episode is for anyone who identifies with having a prostate, and wants to discover new ways to stimulate it.
Nov 05, 2021•39 min•Season 9Ep. 103
Butt Plugs & Booty Sparks with Kira Noir
Ian, Aiden, and special guest Kira Noir discuss and demonstrate Booty Sparks, a unique line of anal toys that include decorated gems, and flashing lights.
Sep 30, 2021•33 min•Season 9Ep. 102
The FemDom Show with Mistress An Li
Join Ian, Aiden, and Mistress An Li, as they discuss and demonstrate the practice of FemDom, or female domination. It includes impact and chastity play.
Sep 01, 2021•49 min•Season 9Ep. 101
Don’t Be Afraid of Sex Toys! with Casey Calvert and Brooklyn Gray
Join Ian Rath, Casey Calvert, and Brooklyn Gray as they discuss how both women and men can introduce sex toys, and other bits of play, into your sexual routine.
Aug 04, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Season 9Ep. 100
Kinky Dating with Casey Calvert & Kira Noir
Get kinky dating tips from Casey Calvert and Kira Noir as they both speak with Ian Rath about kinky dating and how to find a kinky partner.
Jun 14, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Season 9Ep. 99
Erectile Dysfunction with Whitney Wright
Erectile Dysfunction, a common condition, affects around 3 million men per year, in the United States. Learn what to do from Ian, Aiden and Whitney.
May 04, 2021•48 min•Season 9Ep. 98
Femdom with Kendra James
Celebrate Women's History Month, International Women's Day, and a new season of XRU with Ian and Aiden and the amazing Kendra James and discuss Femdom.
Mar 03, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 9Ep. 97
The Valentine’s Day Show with Penny Pax
With Valentine’s Day approaching, you have a chance to treat your partner, or yourself, with some sexual bliss. On this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Penny Pax.
Feb 03, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 8Ep. 96
Must Have Sex Toys (with Ashley Lane)
This episode of XR University finds Ian and Aiden joined by the lovely Ashley Lane. The trio discuss some must have sex toys for your collection.
Dec 10, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Season 8Ep. 95
BDSM As Therapy (with Kira Noir)
Due to prolonged periods of isolation and self-quarantine, more people are turning to bondage play as a form of therapy. Learn more from Ian and Aiden, with special guest Kira Noir.
Oct 05, 2020•1 hr•Season 8Ep. 93
Masturbation (with Lance Hart and Charlotte Sartre)
Whether alone, or with a partner, masturbation can be stimulating and orgasmic. In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by Lance Hart and Charlotte Sartre.
Aug 17, 2020•1 hr 23 min•Season 8Ep. 92
Consent in Relationships (with Dixie Comet)
Ian and Aiden are joined by Dixie Comet and Nate to discuss consent in relationships. Relationships are a 2 way street, and it's important for both partners to have a say in what goes on.
Jul 08, 2020•1 hr 9 min•Season 8Ep. 91
Long Distance Relationships (with Sebastian Keys)
Unless you happened to be quarantined with your significant other (or special someone), the events of recent weeks may have caused you to rely on technology to get your fix.
Jun 01, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Season 8Ep. 90
Stay at home. Play at home. (feat. Casey Calvert)
Being stuck at home doesn’t have to be all bad. The team at XR University (Ian Rath and Aiden Starr) are joined by the luscious Casey Calvert to talk about how you can enjoy sexual play at home.
Apr 30, 2020•1 hr 1 min•Season 8Ep. 89
High Tech Anal Play w/ Kira Noir
XR University is back with a new episode. This time, the duo of Aiden and Ian are joined by the superb and sexy Kira Noir, to discuss high tech anal play.
Mar 05, 2020•52 min•Season 8Ep. 88
Techy Prostate Toys w/ Sebastian Keys
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr are joined by Sebastian Keys to discuss and demonstrate the latest technologies, around prostate stimulation.
Nov 04, 2019•50 min•Season 8Ep. 87
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