246: Because sometimes you have to be the bad friend first to learn how to be a great one. This week, my beautiful friend (and Unwineding Podcast favorite) Angie Lassman is BACK. Think of this episode as part two of our 'Friendship Playbook' series—this time, we’re diving into the mistakes we’ve made as friends (and humans), and how those moments helped us grow, evolve, and show up better in our friendships. I hope there's something in this episode you needed—let us know what it was. LOVE YOU. x...
Jul 01, 2025•52 min
245: We’re gathered here today to unpack our May Book Club pick: The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control by Katherine Morgan Schafler. This book lovingly DRAGGED me—and I loved every second of it. I’m so excited to be joined by my friend (and incredible photographer) Remy Hernandez as we dissect our perfectionism: the parts that drive us, fulfill us, and also—the parts that make us feel never good enough (we're working on it). I hope there's something in here you needed & as always, I'd ...
Jun 24, 2025•56 min
244: This week, you're basically on FaceTime with Em (my bff) & I—and it's one of my favorite conversations yet. We're talking heartbreak, hyper-independence, becoming someone you'd want to date, and all the lessons we've learned (and maybe ignored) along the way. A few dating & relationship mantras you'll hear us say in this episode: + if it's not love, it's a lesson + why don't you think you're worthy of the relationship of your dreams? + you attract who you are + trust your gut feelin...
Jun 17, 2025•52 min
243: Just us this week with a little hi, bye, and advice that has truly altered my brain chemistry. Should we make this a series? Because I could probably record 1,000 of these. This week's advice is for my *fellow* overthinkers and for anyone wanting to have more bravery in their decisions... maybe take a few more risks? Maybe stop underestimating yourself? All of the above? I hope it hits & let me know if it does. LOVE YOU. x SAY HI (to LISA): IG: @lisaxgilmore TikTok: @l...
Jun 17, 2025•15 min
242: So you wanna become a content creator? Or you’ve been thinking about starting your own brand? Maybe both? This is the episode for you. I’m joined by my beautiful friend Kira Jones—content creator, founder of Cacti Wellness, and branding QUEEN—to talk all things consistency, building a brand you actually love, and becoming the kind of creator you’d follow. We talk all things content creation, brand building, and what it really takes to grow on platforms like Instagram and TikTok in 2025. Fro...
Jun 03, 2025•52 min
241: Because not everyone deserves to experience you (in fact, I wish people could un-experience me, you know what I mean?). You wouldn't know by the title, but this episode is slightly chaotic and I did, in fact, cry of laughter because that's just what happens when I'm with Lauren. It's Lauren's third time on Unwineding for a little dating/relationship/& friendship talk - again, like we're on FaceTime but happened to be recording. Take whatever you need from this episode & leave the re...
May 27, 2025•47 min
240: Another round of solicited dating advice led by my favorite comedian & returning guest, Zack Signore. Whether you should or shouldn't take our advice is up to you, but we're getting into: exclusivity vs. boyfriend/girlfriend, emotionally unavailable men, picking hot a$$holes, de-centering men (while still falling in love), and tooooo much more. Hope you enjoy (but I know you will!!!), LOVE YOU. x SAY HI (to LISA): IG: @lisaxgilmore TikTok: @lisaxgilmore Pinterest: @lisaxg...
May 20, 2025•41 min
239: I can live without somebody's son for a little longer but without my best friends? Not even a single day. My beautiful, smart, funny, and perfect friend Angie Lassman is back on Unwineding and this time we're unpacking all things friendship. We chat about why making and maintaining friendships in your late 20s/30s can feel so tough (but why it's so worth it), how friendship breakups impact us, and why expectations can make or break even the closest bonds. Whether you're feeling stuck in a f...
May 18, 2025•55 min
238: Apparently our thoughts have the ability to create the life of our dreams... and we're getting into all of it today. It's just us this week for a quick girl talk/catchup before we get into the five gems I took from April's book, Don't Believe Everything You Think, by Joseph Nguyen. I am, for once, not being dramatic when I say—this book is life-changing (and if you're a *fellow* over-thinker, I cannnnnot recommend it enough). I hope there's something in this episode you needed (and I'd self...
May 06, 2025•27 min
237: Things my bff did: scale Nyud to a 7-figure, community-driven swimwear brand—and today, we're getting all the juice. Em is back on the podcast for one of my favorite episodes ever, talking all things branding, business, and leadership. We dive into how Nyud came into her life, what it takes to build a competitive edge in a crowded market, and what it really means to create a brand that feels timeless and human. Em shares the power of truly listening to your customers and how she (and her in...
Apr 29, 2025•39 min
236: An episode dedicated to my *fellow* overthinkers. I'm sharing advice I've been needing lately on: why we overthink, examples of when we're assuming & catastrophizing instead of gathering facts, and tangible ways to stop spiraling. The goal? To stay calmer and realize that an unanswered text does not mean we're in danger. To learn how to self-regulate, self-soothe, and trust ourselves more. To stay present. As always, take whatever you need & leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x TYSM & IL...
Apr 24, 2025•21 min
235: Take a shot every time I say "self-sabotage." In this episode, we're diving into the most powerful lessons from The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest (our March book club pick!)— all about why we self-sabotage, how to recognize when we’re playing small, and what it really means to glow up from the inside out. The amount of gems in this book? The limit *simply* does not exist, but I share my five most valuable and impactful lessons that I hope resonate. As always, take whatever you need &...
Apr 15, 2025•34 min
234: Just you and I talking sh*t today. We get into: the dating takeaways Love On The Spectrum gave me, body image realness, and a few gentle reminders I wanted to share with you. Take whatever you need, leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x TikTok I referenced: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTj1pprny/ Creator: @ayandastood Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 08, 2025•26 min
233: I needed girl talk this week so I hope you did too. Drea is back for another round of SOLICITED ADVICE and the Q's this week were too good. We get into: bridesmaid drama (thinking a friend would make you a bridesmaid and she doesn't), feeling stuck in your career (and what to do about it), tangible tips on becoming a better communicator (and flirt-er), and so much more. Take whatever you need - leave the rest. LOVE YOU. TYSM & ILYSM SPONSORS: HUNGRYROOT: Get 40% off your first HungryRoo...
Apr 01, 2025•1 hr
232: Welcome to part one of our new *mini series* on: how to become unbothered as f*ck. In today's episode, I'm sharing my personal definition of what it means to be unbothered (as well as what it doesn't mean) and I'm assigning you a little bit of homework before we get into part two. Being unbothered is a skill, not a personality trait - and this means we can work on developing this skill and constructing it into our everyday lives (because stress = wrinkles = we don't want that). So excited a...
Mar 25, 2025•19 min
231: The episode to listen to when you're feeling off, uninspired with life, or point blank, when you're in the trenches (like I currently am). I'm sharing gentle reminders and resources that help me navigate difficult seasons of life (no matter how short or long the season is). As always, take whatever you need from this episode & leave the rest. TYSM & ILYSM SPONSORS: BETTERHELP: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give therapy a try at: betterhelp.com/UNWINEDING GREEN CHEF: ...
Mar 18, 2025•24 min
230: Two bff's *who have no idea what they're doing* giving you solicited advice on (mainly) dating and relationships. Drea came back for another episode & we're answering a few of your Q's this week - everything from: the difference between venting vs. gossiping, when ghosting is actually okay, navigating love languages in a relationship, flying to a different city for a first date, and more. All the girl talk this week with one of my most favorite people in the world. As always, take whate...
Mar 11, 2025•59 min
229: Book Club is back and this month we read: The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. This episode will highlight the most valuable takeaways from the book (different takeaways than I've seen online) and share real-life examples of where this theory can be applied in our daily life. Take whatever you need, leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x TYSM & ILYSM SPONSORS: BETTERHELP: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give therapy a try at: betterhelp.com/UNWINEDING HELLO FRESH: Thank you so much to...
Mar 04, 2025•33 min
228: You might know her from YouTube but I know her as one of my best and most special friends, please welcome Drea to the podcast this week! We're talking all about her YouTube career: why she stopped, lessons learned, and if she's coming back.... spoiler alert: SHE IS! I loved this part of the conversation because it highlights the importance of who we're surrounded by and how being in the wrong relationship can *and did* affect her confidence. Drea also talks about founding and building her j...
Feb 25, 2025•56 min
227: Just us for a conversation about the hidden gems and most valuable lessons I took from my time in + after therapy. I love sharing how life-changing therapy has been for me, and hope these lessons resonate. Take whatever you need & leave the rest. *TW: I talk about dieting and body image in this episode.* This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at: betterhelp.com/UNWINEDING. January's Book Club Episode: The Confidence Code February's Book Club Pick: The Let The...
Feb 18, 2025•35 min•Ep. 227
226: An alternative title for this episode was: the love of your life would never do that to you. This one is (as per ujje): FOR THE GIRLS. We're joined by my beautiful friend (and fellow Capricorn) Zayit, to chat all things dating and relationships. We're vibe-checking our dating rules for 2025, sharing why we absolutely refuse to settle, talk about mistakes we've made in our most recent experiences & relationships, & truly so much more. The lore of our hot neighbors, our preferences vs...
Feb 11, 2025•56 min•Ep. 226
225: A quickie episode where we explore how embracing the question 'if I truly adored myself, what would I do?' can transform the way we live & love ourselves (and those around us). My favorite productivity shots: Get your Magic Mind subscription here: https://www.magicmind.com/LISAGILMORE40 Save up to 40% off with my code: LISAGILMORE40 Thank you so much to this week's sponsor: HELLO FRESH. Get 10 free meals at www.hellofresh.com/freelisa (applied across 7 boxes, new subscribers only). BOOK...
Feb 06, 2025•17 min•Ep. 225
224: We're gathered here today for January's Book Club, where we'll be reading and discussing The Confidence Code by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman. This is the number one book I want every single woman in my life (and everyone else) to read. The authors break down the science of confidence, how socialization impacts our self-assurance as men and women, and offer actionable strategies to help us build more confidence every single day. I ABSOLUTELY LOVED this book, and I hope this episode inspires ...
Feb 01, 2025•27 min•Ep. 224
223: File this episode under: how to *truly* channel confidence and own your worth. Tacha joins me on another round of SOLICITED ADVICE to do what we do best: TALK (and maybe overshare a little). We dive into five questions on: friendship breakups, cultivating deep friendships, confidence advice that actually works, and navigating imposter syndrome. This episode inspired me to dive deeper into our worthiness and what we can do to actually BELIEVE we are worthy and deserving of all the good thing...
Jan 31, 2025•50 min•Ep. 223
222: Just us today for our annual birthday episode where I overshare what the last year of my life taught me: a lot of self-love, mindset, confidence, & relationship lessons. Take whatever you need, leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x COME SAY HI (to LISA): IG: @lisaxgilmore TikTok: @lisaxgilmore Pinterest: @lisaxgilmore Amazon Storefront: updated weekly COME SAY HI (to UNWINEDING): IG: @unwinedingpod TikTok: @unwinedingpod Amazon Storefront: Unwineding Podcast Favorites BOOK CLUB! *We're reading 1 ...
Jan 21, 2025•45 min•Ep. 222
221: There's nothing I love more than talking to powerful, confident women, and today's episode is exactly that. Emilie is an absolute powerhouse in the influencer industry and gave us so much juice on: what networking truly means, how to work absolutely any room you enter, letting go of comparison, and building the brand (and life) of your dreams. I hope this episode leaves you as inspired (to not give a f*ck) as it did me. LOVE YOU. x EMILIE SOBEL: @emiliesobel @emiliesobelmedia Thank you so m...
Jan 14, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 221
220: New year, better mindset. This week, we're getting inspired for 2025 by talking about intention-setting, building habits that stick, and why our belief systems are so important. If we want to transform our lives, the vision boards are great, but I've realized there are a few things we need to straighten out beforehand: our mindset being the main one. So, as usual, take whatever you need from this episode and leave the rest. LOVE YOU, WE'RE GONNA HAVE A BEAUTIFUL YEAR. TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 0:0...
Jan 07, 2025•44 min•Ep. 220
219: Because starting now, we're going to get in the habit of celebrating EVERYTHING. Nothing is "too little" to be celebrated, at least I don't think so. It's just us this week for another end-of-year-themed episode where I'll remind you of a bunch of things you probably accomplished this year but are failing to celebrate/recognize. Take whatever you need, add to the list, and leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x My favorite productivity shots: Get your Magic Mind subscription here: https://www.magicmin...
Dec 24, 2024•26 min•Ep. 219
218: This episode combines three things I love: lessons, lists, and my bff Anastasia. We each share 5 of of our most special + valuable lessons from 2024 and how we're going to implement them in this upcoming year. I hope you hear something in this episode that you needed today and if so, let me know what it was. LOVE YOU. x Other episodes with Tacha: #215: what men really think #185: how to live your best single life #122: your ultimate guide for surviving & thriving after a breakup My favo...
Dec 17, 2024•54 min•Ep. 218
217: Welcome to our first installment of: things cool girls do (and btw, absolutely nothing on this list is related to your physical appearance). Tell me what's on your list please & thank YOU. LOVE U. x My favorite productivity shots: Get your Magic Mind subscription here: https://www.magicmind.com/LISAGILMORE20 You get up to 48% off with my code: LISAGILMORE20 Thank you so much to this week's sponsor: HELLO FRESH. Get 10 free meals at www.hellofresh.com/freelisa (applied across 7 boxes, ne...
Dec 10, 2024•22 min•Ep. 217
