Pain, discipline, rosy-red butts – there's a lot to love about spanking, and a lot of loaded questions to ask about it, too. One of the most prominent mainstream journalists to tackle those issues these days is Jillian Keenan, who has written extensively about her own spanking fetish. She reveals a bunch of emotionally honest and nerdily physiological explanations into why spanking is such a turn on for her… and our host… and probably most of our audience, too! Discussed: Kiss ...
Nov 14, 2014•1 hr 23 min•Transcript available on Metacast What’s your fantasy? Crack your knuckles and do your carpal tunnel exercises: it’s time to talk about porn! Journalist Anna Breslaw just might be changing women’s magazines from the inside, and in this episode she sits down with Tina to answer some tricky questions about nudie pics and blue movies. Why do people like watching other people have sex? Why do people keep trying to tell us there’s something wrong with that? What is the connection between Linda Tripp, the Duke student who outed Belle ...
Oct 20, 2014•1 hr 23 min•Transcript available on Metacast International Ms Bootblack 2011 kd diamond is an accomplished artist: and she's also a card-carrying leather fetishist. In this episode, kd opens up her boot care kit and lets us peek inside. We learn how integral bootblacks are to the Leather Scene, and how taking care of leather clothes can represent service, worship, or simply hot kinky sex. Discussed: How To Always Smell The Glove; The Smokiest Batch of Huberd's Grease; Commodity Fetishism; NYC's Submit Play Party; How Is A Bootblack Like A ...
Oct 01, 2014•1 hr 17 min•Transcript available on Metacast Conner Habib's personal library gave Tina Horn such a big brain boner she kinda just wanted to roll around reading and smelling his books all afternoon. Because that's the kind of creep she is. Instead, she pulled it together and asked the writer, porn star, and advocate to discuss the Occult. How is magic related to sex? Why are gay sex and BDSM such a threat to those in power? What's the most psychedelic thing you can do while masturbating? Discussed: “What if these crazy things are true?”, He...
Sep 12, 2014•1 hr 26 min•Transcript available on Metacast Cocktease, striptease, tease and denial… For Episode 13, Mitra Kaboli, the producer of that other amazing sexy podcast Audiosmut, came over to talk about how much she loves to be teased. We talked about the delicious tension of long, slow foreplay, and we also dug into more serious social questions of sexual entitlement. Discussed: Sex monsters / Tickling / Excitement / Boundaries / Dates / DTF / Intimacy / MakingOut / First Base / Consummation / Horniness / Satisfaction / Play / Silliness...
Sep 02, 2014•50 min•Transcript available on Metacast Dicks! Dicks! Dicks! Episode 12 has more cock talk than any YAPIT episode yet! My guest is Nayland, an interdisciplinary artist who knows a whole lot about the sexual fetish of chastity devices and orgasm control. In his own words, “Cocks are ludicrous” and this episode has lots of ideas for consensually exploiting that wonderful fact. Discussed: ownership, predicament bondage, tease and denial, mini iron maidens, frustration, conditioning, long distance submission, Maid Marion’s Everlast chasti...
Aug 16, 2014•1 hr 17 min•Transcript available on Metacast In Side B of Episode 11, Sarah Patterson and I discussed the myriad motivations of people in the sex trades. Whether you work on the street or in a dungeon, on camera or in a private room, with your voice or with your body, every sex worker faces staggering stigma against the legitimacy of the labor they do in exchange for the things they need. What happens when the need to make a living intersects with human sexual desire? How do those needs jive, and how do they clash? Sarah and I speak from o...
Jul 31, 2014•44 min•Transcript available on Metacast Last October, I was sharing a modest office studio space in Bushwick with one of my favorite organizations, the Persist Health Project. One day, the Executive Director of Persist, Sarah Patterson, and I got coffee and vegan deli sandwiches and sat in our little white room for almost two hours talking about sex work. We challenged ourselves to ask both: Why Are People Into Hiring Sex Workers, and Why Are People Into Doing Sex Work (the later question being not as much about personal sexual desire...
Jul 11, 2014•1 hr 23 min•Transcript available on Metacast It's our 10th Episode! There are a hell of a lot of sexual desires that Igancio could explain to us, and we'd eat our hats if they didn't have a story to tell about it that made us weak in the knees. We are really glad we settled on “squirting” because the personal anecdotes they shared sort of made us squirmy and giggly and forget our notes, which is pretty much what you wanted out of this podcast, right? But seriously, folks, what does it mean to talk about “female ejaculation” with someone wh...
Jun 25, 2014•1 hr 20 min•Transcript available on Metacast I am a blithering fangirl for Siouxsie Q's podcast The Whorecast – in many ways, it continues to inspire me to make YAPIT . When Siouxsie and I met at Catalyst Con, we tumbled into predestined JournHOlist/whorenalist love at first sight. We snuggled up with Siouxsie's prized My Little Pony blanket and Frederick the Bear for a very personal discussion of Age Play. What is the erotic appeal of a consenting adult pretending to be younger than she actually is? Siouxsie was brave enough to open...
Jun 13, 2014•1 hr 8 min•Transcript available on Metacast OMG SHOES!! When James Darling stopped by my New York City apartment, he immediately spotted one of my prized possessions: a pair of black leather Jimmy Choo 4 inch stiletto high heels. Boy's got taste. James and I had some fun with those shoes in a porno once… and that strut down memory lane inspired us to talk about high heel worship! We discussed the femme phallus, trampling, and the precautions you might want to talk before inserting the heels into your holes. LISTEN: James Darl...
Jun 04, 2014•1 hr 2 min•Transcript available on Metacast Opinionated “intelligent hedonist”. Savvy business-woman. Frat boy trapped in a the body of a gorgeous lady. Kelly Shibari can come sit on my couch and tweet all about it any day. Sometimes it seems Kelly gets tired of always being asked about big girl sex, so we tried to broaden our conversation to the more general topic of “Why Are People Into Size?!” Listen in as we speculate about the business end of body politics in porn, and invent a machine that shakes big boobs in your face while you wor...
May 13, 2014•1 hr 26 min•Transcript available on Metacast In our continued commitment to post-modernity, Episode 6, “Why Are People Into Exhibitionism?!” with very special guest Carol Queen was recorded live in front of an audience at Catalyst Con East last March … which means that Tina and Dr. Queen talked about the love of having sex in front of other people in front of other people. Of course, Exhibitionism is about more than getting off on being watched while you fuck. It's about all kinds of arousal that comes from all kinds of being seen. A...
Apr 30, 2014•1 hr 16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Helloooooooooooo Nurse! For Episode 5, Tina spoke to her friend Zil Goldstein, a badass medical professional and health advocate, about the phenomenon of Naughty Nurses. Why are nurses such pervasive pop culture sex symbols? How do trust, bedside manner, and Mommy issues play into nurse obsessions? Or is it really all about the outfits? This episode also features a spontaneous mock medical play scene, during which we don't really learn much besides the fact that Tina is a very bratty patient and...
Apr 22, 2014•1 hr 18 min•Transcript available on Metacast In Episode Four, we're joined by Tina's old friend from San Francisco, Aislinn Emirzian . Badass sex educator Aislinn is the co-author (with the equally esteemed Dr. Charlie Glickman ) of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure , a one-of-a-kind book that explores that misunderstood erogenous zone: the male g-spot! This episode is for anyone with a prostate (whatever you may call it) who wants to explore its erotic potential, as well as anyone who loves to play with people who have prostates. Bu...
Mar 31, 2014•1 hr 8 min•Transcript available on Metacast In Episode Three, Tina Horn talks with prolific kinky author Laura Antoniou about erotic service and sex slaves. Why would someone want to be sexually enslaved to another? Why would someone want a slave to submit to them utterly? Could this all just be about getting off and feeling more connected? Laura gives some surprising advice for newbies: get off the internet and volunteer at an event, especially if you're a top! And we learn just how romantic a cup of coffee can be… LISTEN: Laura Antoniou...
Mar 13, 2014•52 min•Transcript available on Metacast Tina has been dreaming of chatting with legendary pervert Mollena Williams about role play for a long time, and she finally got her wish! In Part Two of this episode, Tina and Mollena get to the bottom of characters, costumes, scenarios, and dirty talk; and Mollena shares some pretty unforgettable tales of pretty ponies, daddy/girl scenes, and that one time she really upset a slave auction… LISTEN: Mollena Williams, the “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised ...
Feb 28, 2014•57 min•Transcript available on Metacast Tina has been dreaming of chatting with legendary pervert Mollena Williams about Role Play for a long time, and she finally got her wish! In this episode (Part One of Two!), Tina and Mollena dig into primal impulses, negotiations, and storytelling. LISTEN: Mollena Williams, the “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. She is extremely proud to have served as International Ms Leather 2...
Feb 17, 2014•1 hr 4 min•Transcript available on Metacast In the first episode, old friends Tina & Sinclair Sexsmith snuggle up in bed to talk about POWER: why it gets them hot, how to play with it, and how to be a good feminist while doing so. LISTEN: Sinclair Sexsmith is an educator, coach, and writer specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They produce the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch... Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit . Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit . Hosted on Acast. ...
Feb 17, 2014•1 hr 11 min•Transcript available on Metacast 
