What is the definition of a Cougar? Why do people have such a hard time with female led age gap relationships, when male led age gaps are seen as no big deal? What is so appealing about older women to younger men, how can older women stop second-guessing their desirability, and what are some tips and tricks to help fuel women’s sexual response at any age? Repeat guest Dr. Sarah Hill answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and p...
Sep 20, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Transcript available on Metacast What is a fetish, and how can people work with their fetishes in a safe, pleasurable way? What does it mean to be “master fetish trainers”? And how can we approach porn, sex toys, and our consumption of the erotic industry with more awareness, sex-positivity and inclusivity? Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire share this and so much more. About our guests: Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical Psychotherapist with a strong emphasis on Intimacy Post Injury and Intimacy ...
Sep 13, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Transcript available on Metacast Sex and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon join us once again to talk about sex positions and the art of orgasmic, pleasurable penetration. Learn why it's helpful allow the vulva owner (or any receiving orifice for that matter) to move towards the giver to build up desire. Also why there's a time and place for “pushing it real good" (shout out to Salt 'n' Pepper), top tips for mind-blowing penetrative sex, how to continue play without a hard cock, and so much more. About our guests: Erw...
Sep 06, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Transcript available on Metacast The title tells it all, but this episode is all about our current top sex toy recommendations when it comes to anything anal including pegging products, plugs, beads, anal pleasure and safety, and positions. Happy Anal August and on to Shameless Sextember! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athl...
Aug 30, 2022•56 min•Transcript available on Metacast What is the pelvic floor about and how is it related to sexual pleasure (and orgasms!)? Why is the idea of having a tighter pussy generally BS? How can people heal or improve their pelvic floors? And what's the truth about "popping cherries" (AKA first time penetration)? About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropria...
Aug 23, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this fun in-person interview we chat with Alexis Lauren Ware all about becoming WET - not necessarily the way Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion describe it, but more so about how we can (re)connect with our genitals, “reclaim” our wetness and turn-on, and live a life of feeling WET both in and out of the bedroom. I mean, who doesn't want that? We cure to check out Alexis' live online 6-week group course (guess what it's called...WET!) as it's limited to only 20 people at sovereign-university.co...
Aug 16, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Transcript available on Metacast We've all heard about the power of transcendent and cervical orgasms (AKA the A-Spot), but how are they obtained? What do they feel like, why are they life-changing, and what are the tips and tricks for having more powerful, transcendent internal orgasms? About our guests: Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth. Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator while...
Aug 09, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this playful episode we interview Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT all about flirting, in-person and online dating, relationships and casual sex. Whether you are single, non-monogamous, or want to learn how to navigate the dating field, this episode has plenty of gems to offer you. About our guest: Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships, mental health, and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitato...
Aug 02, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Transcript available on Metacast It's almost one of our favorite months - Anal August! And to celebrate we are interviewing repeat guest and sex expert Kenneth Play all about anal sex. Kenneth shares his top tips and "hacks" for making anal sex more fun, relaxing, pleasurable, and even orgasmic. You don't want to miss this one. And be sure to check out our YouTube Channel to get a visual of some of the techniques he shares, as well as our Instagram for short clips from this episode. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an internati...
Jul 26, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Transcript available on Metacast While we love Masturbation May, April decided it's time to start celebrating Jerk-Off July. In this episode we discuss why it's good for you, our own experiences with masturbation, and tips and tool to up your self-pleasure game. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first ...
Jul 19, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Transcript available on Metacast How does sexual confidence for penis owners show up in sex and enhance the way they tend to their lovers, specifically ones with pussies? Why do so many men feel like they need to push their sexuality down in order to be a “safe person”? How can they find their sexual power in a safe way? What can they do to uncover parts of their sexuality they’ve been burying and how can they integrate them? And how can penis owner’s learn how to have more full-bodied orgasms? About our guest: Fabienne is a Ca...
Jul 12, 2022•57 min•Transcript available on Metacast What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What’s the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people’s unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it’s triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-mono...
Jul 05, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode we talk all about masturbation AKA 'batin, why it's beneficial to have a masturbation practice and how to develop one, and ways your solo-sex can also lead to more pleasurable and connected sex with partners. About our guest: As a sex and relationship facilitator, Mike creates transformational group experiences to support people in their journey of sex, intimacy, and relationship. Mike is kinky, queer, and poly, and they live in an intentional community in Seattle called Confluen...
Jun 28, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this playful episode we talk all about what most doctors call erectile or sexual dysfunction (ED), but we prefer the term erectile control issues, and you will learn all about why we reframe it this way in this episode. Dr. Dubin also explains the statistics on erectile issues, his research with porn performers and the correlation between porn and erectile control, tips for working around this, as well as whether or not blue balls are a real thing. About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in...
Jun 21, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Transcript available on Metacast Layla Martin joins us once again to take back the word slut and own it as an empowering tool for becoming the ultimate sexy badass that is uniquely you in the bedroom. Whether you want to learn to worship a slut or goddess, or you want to dive deeper into that powerful part of you, Layla has plenty of juicy tips and tricks you won't want to miss. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study...
Jun 14, 2022•1 hr 15 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film. More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex ...
Jun 07, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Transcript available on Metacast What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more. Be sure to checkout Orpheus's upcoming 3 day workshop extravaganza on June 25, July 2, July 9. It is a hybrid class to be h...
May 31, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you. About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specialize...
May 24, 2022•58 min•Ep 277•Transcript available on Metacast Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection? For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certifie...
May 17, 2022•54 min•Transcript available on Metacast Why is it so common for vulva-owners to experience pain during penetrative sex, and what are some of the solutions? What about hemorrhoids? Can people with hemorrhoids still explore and enjoy anal sex? And if so, what can they do to make it more pleasurable? Trigger warning: We talk a lot about bowel movements AKA poop in this episode. But hey, everybody poops, right? To learn more about our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, O...
May 10, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this fun in-person recording we collaborate with two badass women - Natasha Root, the creator of the successful Fan's Utopia site where she sells porn performers used panties, sex toys and more - as well as Kenna James, an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. While our main intention was to focus on the porn industry as well this lucrative business Natasha has created, we also somehow end up getting a free Anal 101 lesson as well. Enjoy! About...
May 03, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Transcript available on Metacast Episode #258 was all about how to give blowjobs and handjobs (on/with) penis-owners, and now it's time for Alicia and Erwan Davon to join us once again to give us all the juicy tips on how this applies to vulva pleasure. They talk about everything from their top techniques for manual stimulation to oral stimulation to how to have extended orgasms along the way. Note: We had a bit of a technical issue so we apologize if the audio quality is not top notch :/ About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davo...
Apr 26, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Transcript available on Metacast Sex Educator and Sex Hacker Kenneth Play returns to teach us his top sex hacks from fulfilling fantasies to curating a mind-blowing 90 minute orgasmic experience to multiple orgasms, unlocking erogenous zones, being a great lover no matter what size you are, and so much more. You definitely do not want to miss this one, and be sure to check out his new book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence. Also, join our free Shameless Se...
Apr 19, 2022•58 min•Transcript available on Metacast Return guest and badass sex-ed priestess Layla Martin joins us to talk all about how to have the best sex of your life. Listen to learn why she says "If you want to f**k a Goddess then you have to know you're a God". Be sure to check out her upcoming offerings: To sign up for Layla's FREE Epic Lover's Digital Guide, click here To check out her 21 Day Erotic Confidence Challenge, click here About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love t...
Apr 12, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Transcript available on Metacast What are the different types of erotic blueprints? How might each one show up in sex and relationships - both as superpowers and challenges? And how can folks to utilize their erotic blueprints in their daily lives in the bedroom and beyond? About our guest: Julianne is a women’s life and health coach, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, Certified Somatic Sexologist Practitioner, and Certified Holistic Health Counselor. Her innovative Goddess Approach Methodology focuses on healing the mind, body, an...
Apr 05, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode includes a raw yet playful discussion of all the things we wish we knew about sex from our teenage years, to our 20's, to our 30's and soon to be 40's. We shamelessly share everything from our first sexual experiences to some of the not so great ones, to the tips and tools we've learned along the way where great sex and deep connection are now the standard (but with the understanding that we will be forever learning and growing). We both share our love and appreciation for getting o...
Mar 29, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this bonus episode we learn all about what it means to “maximize pleasure for for you”, as well as ways people can bring their personal pleasure game to the next level from both a burlesque star's and sex therapist's perspectives. To learn more, be sure to check out their offerings including their upcoming April 2nd, 2022 InToPleasure Virtual event here: intopleasure.com About our guests: Michelle L’amour is an international burlesque star and empowerment advocate. She is the creator of InToP...
Mar 25, 2022•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast One of the more common answers we share when addressing your sex questions is to go get support with a (sex) therapist or coach. But we realize taking that next step is not always an easy process. Return guest Keeley Rankin, M.A. and Sex and Relationship Coach joins us to answer everything from why it's helpful to work with a (sex and relationship) therapist or coach, to where to find them and the questions you should ask to see if they feel right to you, as well as red flags to watch out for, a...
Mar 22, 2022•1 hr 27 min•Transcript available on Metacast Repeat guest Orpheus Black joins us to discuss everything from the differences between BDSM and Fetish, to tools and tips for spanking, face slapping and chocking - all with a great emphasis on pleasure, play, safety and consent. His expertise and relatable way of teaching will likely inspire you to want to learn more via his upcoming 2-part course on "The Erotic Art of Spanking" happening online April 2nd and April 9th, 2022. Space is limited so sign up ASAP at orpheusblack.com and be sure to u...
Mar 15, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Transcript available on Metacast Certified Sexologist and world renown educator Destin Gerek joins us once again to teach us all about penis-owners can learn to up their sexual confidence and skills - resulting in the high probability of becoming one of the best lovers their vulva-owning partners has ever had. Not only does he dive into the qualities of what makes a great lover, he also shares plenty of tips, tools and practices that you can begin to implement in your life whether you are single, dating or long-term partnered. ...
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