What is Conscious Discipline and How Can it Help Parents Raise Self-Controlled Kids? (Ep 115)

In Episode 115, Sara and I interview Cristy Roberts, a certified Conscious Discipline trainer. She has been teaching teachers and educators for over a decade on how to approach children from a different perspective. She shares her story about her son’s struggles with school and how CD gave her the tools that both she and her son needed to navigate the challenges at school in a better way. She discusses rituals parents can implement now to help their children be more successful at working through...

What is Conscious Discipline and How Can it Help Parents Raise Self-Controlled Kids? (Ep 115)

In Episode 115, Sara and I interview Cristy Roberts, a certified Conscious Discipline trainer. She has been teaching teachers and educators for over a decade on how to approach children from a different perspective. She shares her story about her son’s struggles with school and how CD gave her the tools that both she and her son needed to navigate the challenges at school in a better way. She discusses rituals parents can implement now to help their children be more successful at working through...

24 Ways to Connect With Your Teenager (Ep 114)

In Episode 114, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, discuss 24 fun ways to connect with your teenager over the summer and going into the new school year. Teenagers are seeking independence but they also crave a strong relationship with their parents. They are entering a phrase in life that can be overwhelming, and they want to know you will be there with them through it all. I guarantee you will leave this episode with some great ways to connect more deeply with your teenager son/daughter. Get our video course...

How Can We Stop Food and Eating From Being Such a Power Struggle? (Ep 113)

In Episode 113, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, have an in depth discussion on food and eating with Mandy Foster. She speaks to groups around the world helping parents raise children that grow up to be curious learners of food. Sara and I discuss our own personal challenges as parents but also just as people in relationship to food. Mandy provides several specific steps you can take immediately that will completely change how kids and parents approach this subject. Get our video courses at https://art-of-r...

What Should I Do When My Kid Doesn’t Do What I Ask? (Ep 112)

In Episode 112, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, discuss one of most common questions parents ask us when we are coaching them. What consequence or punishment should I do when my kid doesn’t do what I ask? We share the steps we take to help parents approach these moments in a different way, which inevitably leads to more cooperation and less resistance. When parents do these steps they are surprised that their children actually want to be cooperative and helpful. Get our video courses at https://art-of-rais...

The 5 Pillars Kids Need to Be Prepared for Adulthood (Ep 111)

In Episode 111, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, interview Nellie Harden, she is an author, speaker, and mother of 4 teenage girls. She shares with us the 5 pillars that prepare kids to leave the nest and feel confident growing into adulthood. We discuss how important it is for our kids to feel worthy and valued so they can become healthy human beings. She also shares some awesome rituals they do to connect and understand their teenagers more deeply. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.ne...

We Can’t Get On the Same Page With Our Parenting! (Ep 110)

In Episode 110, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, discuss the challenges we faced changing how we parented. Being calm, patient, and loving came much easier to one of us and it was much harder for the other. So many parents we coach report that this is one of the most difficult things to change. When couples fail to parent together it typically begins to destroy their relationship and it hurts the kids. Sara and I give some tips on how we help parents get on the same page and we have a little surprise offer ...

Why Is Play So Important and Do I Really Need To Do It? (Ep 109)

In Episode 109, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, interview Hayley Williams, a licensed clinical social worker and registered play therapist. She shares with us how important play is for children’s development and connection with their parents. She provides easy-to-take steps for every parent to begin playing with their kids today. We also discussed what play therapy is and what a parent should be looking for if they are thinking about taking their child to a play therapist. Get our video courses at https://...

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How Do We Get Our Kids to Read and Help Around the House? (Ep 108)

In Episode 108, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, discuss the common motivational technique of paying kids to do reading, chores, and other activities. Is this method helping motivate them or is it more likely to demotivate them? What other things can we do as parents to get them do this stuff if we aren’t paying them? Maybe we need to change the question all together. Sara and I talk about how changing the question completely transforms how we approach these topics. Get our video courses at https://art-of-r...

How Do We Raise Resilient Kids? (Ep 107)

In Episode 107, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, interview Dr. Amy King, a licensed psychologist. We have a fascinating conversation about resiliency and trauma. We discuss what trauma is and isn’t and how connection plays a powerful role in shaping how trauma affects our children. At the end, she lays out specific steps that parents can do today to build resilience in their kids. In these uncertain times, we need to prioritize being parents that raise resilient kids on purpose and not on accident. This dis...

“Are We There Yet? How Can We Enjoy The Journey As Parents?” (Ep 106)

In Episode 106, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, discuss how embracing parenting as a journey rather than a destination has changed how we view each stage with our children. As parents we often resist the present moment and white knuckle our way through the sleepless nights and all of the diapers. However, by doing this we often miss the beauty and the joy that is waiting for us in each moment. Every stage we go through with our kids can be endured or it can enjoyed, it is up to us and it models a lot to ou...

“Isn’t Peaceful Parenting Really Just Permissive Parenting?” (Ep 105)

In Episode 105, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, interview Sarah Rosensweet, a Peaceful Parenting Coach. She discusses how Peaceful Parenting isn’t permissive at all and how she is passionate about helping parents reimagine what it could look like in their families. She explains how parenting her kids this way has helped her raise children that are generous and kind, both with themselves and with others. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com . View the full podcast transcript ...

How To Change Persistent Ongoing Conflicts With Your Children? (Ep 104)

In Episode 104, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, talk about one of the most important steps to effectively change behavior in a family. The follow up conversation is vital in not only encouraging desirable behavior but also teaching new behavior and skills. Why is it so hard to do the follow up? Why do kids resist it so much? Is it possible to create a different type of interaction where the child actually welcomes and looks forward to the follow up conversation? Get our video courses at https://art-of-rais...

Mother of 3 kids under the age of four needs help now! (Ep 103)

In Episode 103, Kyle and Sara, LPCs talk with Kelly Tietsort about her experience as a mom of a teenager and pre-teen twins. When she came to us for help the kids were all under the age of 4, there were huge tantrums, and they were struggling with how to handle their kids' aggression. Kelly and her husband Zach were exhausted and didn’t know what else to do, that is when they reached out for some help. Listen as she discusses how getting parent coaching has changed everything for them as a ...

Is tracking our kids locations and grades helpful or hurtful to their growth? (Ep 102)

In Episode 102, Kyle and Sara, LPCs discuss the growing ability parents have to track their kids. We discuss the positive and negative outcomes that may come as a result of using this technology. Does it help our kids be safe while also hinder our kids from learning valuable skills they need for adulthood? Is there a way to use the technology while also helping our kids be confident independent humans? Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com . View the full podcast t...

How to intentionally connect with our kids in a world full of technological distractions (Ep 101)

In Episode 101, Kyle and Sara, LPCs have a discussion with Joey Odom, father of 2 teenagers and founder of Aro. He shares his transformational journey from being a distracted dad to an intentional one. We talk with him about how challenging it can be to really be present with our children. We also dive into how our kids need and want us to model what a healthy relationship with technology even looks like. This episode will equip parents with the tools to create a family that is able to be presen...

It’s never too late to start parenting differently (Ep 100)

In Episode 100, Kyle and Sara, LPCs celebrate reaching this milestone by sharing some of the ways the podcast has helped families. Then we dive into a conversation where we discuss some of the ways we have recently messed up as parents. We invite every parent, no matter where they are on their journey, to join us as we continue to grow and change. This parenting adventure isn’t about being perfect but about imperfect progress. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com ...

How storytelling and play can transform your child’s behavior (Ep 99)

In Episode 99, Kyle and Sara, LPCs interview Sarah Moore, author of the book Peaceful Discipline. She has been featured on NBC, CBS, and many parenting magazines. We dive into her journey as a parent and the transformational moment that changed how she wanted to parent. She also shares how Story Teaching is a powerful tool that can help children process their emotions and work through the events of the day. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com . View the full podc...

Mother of 2, an Arbonne VP, (living off the grid), decides she won’t spank, but doesn’t know what else to do (Ep 98)

In Episode 98, Kyle and Sara, LPCs interview Bethany Jones about her journey raising 2 girls off the grid. Early on in their parenting, she and her husband Jimmy made a decision they weren’t going to spank their kids and they knew they needed some other tools. This is when they sought out parent coaching. Needless to say this was a huge shift for them, but the results speak for themselves. A surprising outcome was that the teenager years have been some of the best they have had. Listen in on thi...

Saying STOP IT! doesn’t change anything - let’s try something different (Ep 97)

In Episode 97, Kyle and Sara, LPCs discuss how common it is for kids and parents to use "Stop" as a tool to resolve conflict. However, all it typically accomplishes is creating power struggles within the family. We share 4 specific steps we use that will help parents and kids to actually make long-lasting change. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com . View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.parentinglegacy.com/saying-stop-it-doesnt-change-anythi...

What is ADHD and how to help your child understand it without shame? (Ep 96)

In Episode 96, Kyle and Sara, LPC’s have the opportunity to interview two experts on the topic of children and ADHD. Dr. Katia Fredriksen & Dr. Yael Rothman, are pediatric neuropsychologists and authors of the book “Different Thinkers: ADHD”. We talk about how parents can support their children to better understand the diagnosis free from the shame that sometimes comes along with it. This conversation will be a great resource for all adults who spend any time with kids who have ADHD. Get our...

Four ways to connect with your kids (no matter how busy you are) (Ep 95)

In Episode 95, Sara and I discuss how difficult it can be to connect with kids when life gets busy. We delve into why intentional connection during these times is so crucial to cultivating an open and honest relationship with children. If we aren’t intentional then we risk making the disconnection the new norm in the family. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com . View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.parentinglegacy.com/four-ways-to-connect-with-your-ki...

The power a transformed father can have on his family - an interview with Justin Foster - Father of 3 (Ep 94)

In Episode 94, I get the opportunity to interview Justin about his journey as a dad. He wanted so badly to have a deep connected relationship with his kids. He wanted them to grow up in a home free of yelling and fear. However, he discovered he didn’t have all the tools or the skills he needed to succeed at this goal. This is when he reached out for help and we started coaching. Listen in as we explore how he made the change and how it has transformed his family. Get our video courses at https:/...

What to do when kids are demanding your attention (Ep 93)

In Episode 93, Kyle and Sara, LPC’s discuss how to handle kids when their need for attention seems to be endless. Most parents tend to approach these moments by ignoring it, punishing it, or giving into it. There is another way. We discuss 4 specific techniques to help shift this dynamic in the family today. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com . View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.parentinglegacy.com/what-to-do-when-kids-are-dedmanding-your-attention...

How to raise kids that aren’t selfish (Ep 92)

In Episode 92, Kyle and Sara, LPC’s discuss issues that come from raising kids that are either selfish or selfless. We need to help our kids know who they are and advocate for their needs, while also teaching them that the world doesn’t revolve around them. We share 3 specific steps we take to try and thread this needle with our own children. ​​Book Kyle & Sara to speak at your next live or virtual event! Learn more at www.parentinglegacy.com/speaking . Get our video courses at https://art-o...

How to help your quiet child be more open (Ep 91)

In Episode 91, Kyle and Sara, LPC’s discuss the joys and the struggles of having a quiet kid. Quiet kids can make a lot of things easier in a family but it can be really challenging for them later on in life. It is important for parents to help these kids know what they want and help them communicate how they feel. If they don’t learn this skill they are more likely to give into peer pressure and also be in codependent relationships. ​​Book Kyle & Sara to speak at your next live or virtual e...

What should I do with my defiant child? (Ep 90)

In Episode 90, Sara and Kyle, LPCs, discuss the importance of giving kids power and control. When children feel they have no power and control in their lives they will be more resistant and defiant. Knowing they have the power to write their own story leads to kids being more resilient and confident throughout their entire lives. ​​Book Kyle & Sara to speak at your next live or virtual event! Learn more at www.parentinglegacy.com/speaking . Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-hum...

Do parents need to give consequences to discipline their kids? (Ep 89)

In Episode 89, Kyle and Sara, LPC’s do a follow-up discussion on Episode 27. A lot of people have commented recently that parents need to be giving their kids consequences. We want to dive deeper into this topic to see it from a different angle. Sara and I explore different types of consequences and how a parent’s intent changes the entire equation. ​​Book Kyle & Sara to speak at your next live or virtual event! Learn more at www.parentinglegacy.com/speaking . Get our video courses at https:...

How to prepare your child for the REAL world (Ep 88)

In Episode 88, Sara and Kyle, LPCs, discuss what it takes to prepare kids to be successful adults. Do kids need to be toughened up so they don’t wilt under the pressure or does it make it more challenging for them in adulthood? We also discuss the soft skills children need to learn to help them face life’s ups and downs. ​​Book Kyle & Sara to speak at your next live or virtual event! Learn more at www.parentinglegacy.com/speaking . Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newze...