Episode description

Bek Lover, was born in the USA, after his mother’s family was hunted down by the communist regime in Albania, because his grandfather was an anti-communist fighter. His father fled the oppression that occurred in the now, non-existent country of Yugoslavia, now the Republic of Kosova. Bek Lover, has lost a lot of people in his lifetime, from various situations,  including the Kosovo War, in 1999. He lost 30 people in a single day when they were massacred by the Serbian Military. He also was present during the September 11th attacks on the World Trade Center!  Bek Lover, uses his struggles, life experiences, and his connections to inspire people to never give up! The best way to help others is to share what we know about this life through our own experiences. After getting back up, over and over, it is now Bek’s mission, to help other people, get back up... to make a Come Back!

In this episode, Brad and Bek discuss many life-changing events and how to survive them as well as what it means to make a come back!

00:00 Intro

00:23 Follow @beklovernyc or go to https://www.thecomebackteam.com

01:38 Did Carol Baskin kill her husband?

02:48 Thoughts on Bill Cosby being freed

04:04 Bomb 1: “I think it’s better to let 1000 prisoners go free than have one innocent person behind bars.” - Bek Lover

05:38 Bek’s story

08:28 “Your word is everything.” - Bek Lover

09:14 “The guest is the God of the house.” - Bek Lover

10:05 How Albania protected Jews in WWII

14:40 The nightlife community in Manhattan

20:43 Why they want to fill up the club

21:26 Bomb 2: Between the image model and the whale in the club, you want to be the whale.

25:10 “Six degrees of separation is real.” - Bek Lover

28:57 “There is a price for everything.” - Bek Lover

30:22 There is no comparison between 9/11 and the pandemic

31:17 Bomb 3: “Life has its way of fu*kin you up sometimes.” - Bek Lover

38:30 Building Seven

43:42 “You might not have a tomorrow.” - Bek Lover

44:41 Bomb 4: “The worst thing in the world is regret, be the bigger person.” - Bek Lover

50:20 Bomb 5: “There is nowhere else to live but America.” - Bek Lover

55:00 What not to say in Albania

57:13 What is the comeback team about

58:39 “I disappeared for three years and I didn’t think I would ever come back.” - Bek Lover

01:03:30 Check out the comeback team on YouTube

01:07:00 Ayahuasca 

01:08:10 Clubhouse

01:11:25 Bomb 6: Brad’s content

01:12:52 check out Brad’s stuff! https://www.closerschool.com https://www.closerschoollive.com https://www.lightspeedvt.com

01:14:15 Bomb 7: “As long as you have air in your lungs, you can always make a comeback!” -Bek Lover