Daddy Issues: Attachment Wounding, Dealing with Common Symptoms, and Becoming More Securely Attached | Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson podcast - Listen or read transcript on Metacast
Daddy Issues: Attachment Wounding, Dealing with Common Symptoms, and Becoming More Securely Attached
If you listen to a podcast like ours, you’re probably familiar with the phrase “daddy issues.” A more accurate way to understand daddy issues is as a form of attachment wounding, which describes situations where our adult relationships are affected by complicated, difficult, or traumatic experiences we had as a child.
In this episode, Forrest and Dr. Rick explore what daddy issues are, how they relate to attachment theory, sexism and the broader social and historical context, different forms of attachment wounding, and a simple way to understand your attachment style. They then walk through four common sets of symptoms and challenges related to attachment wounding, and what a person can do to move toward secure attachment.
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Key Topics:
0:00: Introduction
1:50: What are daddy issues?
6:35: Parental roles and symptoms of attachment wounding
13:35: How attachment patterns are created
19:35: Yearning for narcissistic supplies
22:10: Gendered dynamics, and the pejorative use of the phrase “daddy issues”
28:20: Claiming your power
31:15: Forming a coherent narrative, and looking for what was missing
34:50: A simple method for assessing your attachment style
41:50: Social support
44:10: Who you are to others, and meeting person to person
50:55: Situation #1: How to deal with fears of abandonment and being alone
55:00: Situation #2: “I need a lot of reassurance and external validation.”
58:10: Situation #3: Fears related to emotional vulnerability
1:05:15: Situation #4: “I keep dating the same (problematic) kind of person.”
1:10:30: Making deliberate effort
1:14:50: Recap
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