Episode description

🎙️ Episode Overview:
In this episode of the Vector Accelerator Podcast, Scott Schimmel and Joe Lara dive deep into the science of mattering—why feeling valued and knowing you add value are fundamental to both personal and professional success. Scott shares his experience working with youth and veterans, exploring how connection, belonging, and mattering shape identity.

The discussion also unpacks the mental and emotional challenges of military transition, including self-doubt, identity shifts, and the struggle to translate military skills into civilian life. They offer a powerful reflection exercise for veterans: calling someone they trust to ask, “What is it about me that you love?”—a small but transformative step toward clarity and confidence.

🔹 Key Takeaways:
✔ The Science of Mattering: Understanding how feeling valued and adding value impact well-being, motivation, and mental health.
✔ The Transition Identity Shift: Why career moves aren’t just about skill translation but about rediscovering who you are.
✔ Self-Doubt & Civilian Fit: How many veterans struggle with seeing their value in a new context.
✔ The Power of Reflection & Community: Journaling, conversations, and intentional networking are crucial for successful transitions.
✔ A Challenge for Listeners: Pick up the phone and ask someone you respect: “What is it about me that you love?”—then listen.

Chapters

00:00 The Science of Mattering
08:56 Connecting with Veterans
15:50 Self-Discovery in Transition
22:39 Creating a Supportive Environment
32:57 The Journey of Vector Accelerator

Sound Bites

"It's not that hard."
"Mattering really matters."
"You have so much to offer."
"Do you see me?"
"You matter for who you are."
"What is it about me that you love?"

🚀 Next Steps:
💡 Feeling stuck in transition? Start your journey with Vector Accelerator—a self-guided course designed to help you gain clarity, build confidence, and create a fulfilling next chapter.
👉 Join today at VectorAccelerator.org

🎧 Listen now, share with a fellow veteran, and step into your next mission with clarity and purpose.