
Episode description
How to Raise Healthy & Resilient Children with Erica Komisar
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What inspired her to write her book ‘Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters’. (1:54)
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The first 3 years are the first CRITICAL period of brain development. (4:52)
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Various attachment disorders. (10:33)
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Defining ‘learned helplessness’. (13:35)
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The myths that children need daycare. (15:15)
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Sleep with your children. (18:18)
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Why little boys are more sensitive. (21:07)
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Social-emotional development has to proceed with cognitive development. (24:59)
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Regulating toughness and aggression. (28:24)
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Mothers are the love objects of attachment, and fathers are the love objects of separation. (32:13)
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Advocating for the importance of paid leave. (34:37)
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The lost instinct. (37:53)
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The causes of postpartum. (43:53)
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Breastfeeding is best. (47:55)
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The birthing effects on attachment. (51:49)
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What can fathers do in the first three years to support? (54:46)
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Young children benefit from being talked to. (57:14)
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The greatest gift you can give your children. (59:15)
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Can you repair attachment issues from the first three years? (1:00:07)
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In adolescence, you have a second chance. (1:01:45)
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The importance of the friends your kids choose. (1:04:12)
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The impact of technology. (1:07:19)
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Are children’s tantrums a reflection of the parents? (1:14:16)
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Gentle separation process. (1:16:47)
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Building the foundation of resilience. (1:18:45)
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Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters
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How ‘alloparenting’ can be a less isolating way to raise kids
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Lamarck, Evolution, and the Inheritance of Acquired Characters
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Oxytocin produces more engaged fathers and more responsive infants
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CDC: One in Five Kids Lives with a Mental Health Issue - NAMI
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Brain templates for Chinese babies from newborn to three months of age
Featured Guest
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Erica Komisar, LCSW (@ericakomisar) Instagram