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E61 - Becoming A Grandpa For The First Time - Five Things to Consider in This Next Chapter

So, some news from my side of the microphone - I am recording this episode a few days from becoming a first time Grandpa - I am in my early 50's, so this feels early to me to cross this line into becoming a Grandfather, I am struggling with feelings of inadequacy, some fear, excitement, nervousness and feeling a little lost in the whole thing to be honest - so I recorded this ahead of the big day so that I can listen back and hear my thoughts pre and post - and I want to reach out to others just like me to gain your wisdom and support in this next chapter of life!

New Role, New Responsibilities

So, if you’re about to become a first-time grandparent, congratulations! It’s sure to be a rewarding and life-changing experience. 

You’ll likely have a lot of unkowns, and that’s totally normal. Learning as you go is part of the fun. Here’s what you can expect:

• #1 An emotional rollercoaster — there’s no denying that becoming a grandparent is a huge life event and you’ll feel a range of emotions, from excitement and happiness to anxiety 
• #2 A change in lifestyle — depending on how involved you’ll be, you can expect your weekly routine to change as you take on grandparenting duties
• #3 A deeper understanding of parenting — seeing your child become a parent can be both rewarding and emotional, giving you a new perspective on parenting

And to prepare for becoming a first-time grandparent:

• #1 Set expectations — talk to your child about how involved you’ll be and what role you’ll play in your grandchild’s life
• #2 Offer advice if asked — don’t give out unsolicited advice, but be open and honest if your child comes to you with questions or concerns
• #3 Stick to their rules — respect the parenting style of your child and follow their rules when you’re around the grandkids
• #4 Offer help (when needed) — offer to babysit or help out around the house, but don’t overstay your welcome or cross boundaries
• #5 Enjoy this special time — be present and savor every moment because it flies by

Get ready to embark on an amazing adventure as you accept your new role and responsibilities as a new grandparent. Although it can be exhausting at times, there’s nothing quite like seeing the world through the eyes of a child.

The most important thing, though, is just being there for your family and showing them how much you love them. That’s what being a grandparent – and parent – is all about.

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