Episode description

Join Paulette and Brenda for this conversation on Knowing the approach that best suits your situation and family will give you more control over your process, ensure you are more likely to put together the team you need and ultimately lead to a better outcome. Remember the three P's - purpose, process professionals.

About Brenda:

Brenda's journey is nothing short of inspirational. After making it through the harsh realities and emotional challenges of her divorce, she transformed her experience into a catalyst for change, dedicating her career to guiding others through their own challenges and taking a fresh look at how we go about divorce. Bridging Divorce Solutions is Brenda's vision, a beacon for those facing the daunting world of divorce. Her approach balances the financial complexities that often accompany it and the emotions that influence money decisions. Brenda's expertise lies in demystifying the financial implications of divorce, ensuring that her clients are well-informed and empowered to make decisions that safeguard their future. Brenda's approach is unique; she combines empathy with financial savvy, offering a lifeline to those feeling overwhelmed by the divorce process. Her personal experience fuels her passion, making her not just an advisor but a relatable ally.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:32 Brenda's Personal Experience and Career Transition

06:18 The Need for a Balanced Approach in Divorce

08:29 Brenda's Journey to Becoming a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst

12:50 Choosing a Career Path and Finding Fulfillment

16:24 The Importance of Working with Qualified Professionals

19:22 Understanding Options and Setting Goals in Divorce

22:12 Understanding the Rules and Requirements

23:11 Choosing the Right Mediator

24:23 Different Methods of Divorce

26:09 Considering Relationship Dynamics

27:06 Categorizing Elements of the Case

27:10 Matching the Process to the Situation

28:07 Financial Planning and Divorce Settlements

29:20 The Role of a CDFA

30:26 Financial Analysis and Future Forecasting

32:19 Avoiding Pitfalls and Mistakes

33:26 Understanding the Ramifications

34:21 Emotional Attachments to Assets

35:18 Ensuring Feasibility of Agreements

37:34 The Importance of Financial Education

38:08 The Benefits of Prenuptial Agreements

39:01 Revisiting Prenuptial Agreements

40:13 Planning for the Future

41:24 The Importance of Financial Awareness

42:30 Finding Support and Resources

43:28 The Book: Oh Shit, I'm Getting Divorced

44:23 Closing Remarks