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"I am such a great listener. I'm emotionally available and I'm always up for doing things. Those are wonderful qualities and characters that somebody will appreciate." - Guy Winch

When rejection hits, our minds leap to devastating conclusions about our worthiness. Acclaimed psychologist Guy Winch shares powerful insights on why we take dating rejections so personally, often spiraling into self-defeating thoughts like "I'll never find love" after the simplest of interactions. He offers a transformative approach: instead of assuming the worst about ourselves when someone doesn't respond, we should deliberately remind ourselves of our genuine strengths and what we bring to relationships.

Lewis and Guy discuss how building solid self-esteem forms the foundation for healthy relationships. Guy explains that true self-acceptance involves embracing both our strengths and weaknesses—recognizing that every positive quality naturally comes with trade-offs. Through personal examples and humor, he demonstrates how understanding yourself fully prevents settling for relationships that don't honor your boundaries or needs. Listen now to discover practical techniques for building unshakable self-worth that transforms your dating experiences.

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