
Episode description
“Kids are really seeing more of what you’re doing. Even if you say the most brilliant, conscious building statements to your children; if you’re not modeling that, if you’re modeling reactivity, if you’re modeling worrying about the external world, whatever it is that you’re modeling is more what’s going to impact your children.” - Dr. Nicole LePera
“People can only provide others, even children, what they provide themselves.” - Dr. Nicole LePera
“I think the more you practice self-observation, the more you get to see how patterned those narratives and then those feelings are, so you can get clarity that ‘okay this is just that nervous anxiety I always feel in that situation’ so probably safe situation, old story that I can lose.” - Dr. Nicole LePera
Dr. Nicole LePera is leading the way for a holistic approach in the clinical field. In this episode, Lacy and Nicole discuss how she has intertwined her background in clinical psychology with a holistic approach to mind, body, and soul. She shares tools for approaching healing and acknowledging patterns in our own narratives.
#In This Episode We Talk About:
- Lacy’s experience with Panchakarma
- How Lacy has been incorporating Ayurvedic practices and how it’s been feeding her Uplevel
- Nicole’s cultural upbringing
- Approaching inner child work, and how Nicole discovered and researched the concept through her own healing journey
- Developing consciousness around the place where the inner child lives within each of us
- Exploring the ways we are still impacted by our inner child
- Learning how our wounds show up and how we may start to heal them
- Two ways to work with our wounds: being aware of our narratives (through meditation) and giving ourselves permission to consider ourselves and make ourselves a priority
- Indicators of when a wound has been healed or shifted
- Nicole’s astrology sign and human design
- The protective nature of ego
- Humans are intuitive and adaptive
- Using affirmation as a positive reinforcement tool
- Recognizing awareness through conscious, and continuing to reaffirm this through repetition
- Creating a new self, with flexibility for creation
- Nicole’s model of interacting with people and functioning, and her journey to get there
- Some of the physical changes Nicole made to improve her mental space
- An approach that looks at the body, the lifestyle, interventions, and the power of the subconscious
- The biggest part of shadow work is self-acceptance
- Acknowledging, questioning, and accepting when triggers show up
- Two-fold intuition: listening to our body-based guidance system and trusting it
- Reconnecting with our intuition through nature, art, music
- Emotional addiction and identifying cycles
- How to catch ourselves in emotional cycles
- The chemical reactions in our bodies when we are in those cycles
- Deep belly breathing to regulate
- Emotional enmeshment and how that shows up in adulthood
- Discovering our needs and wants, and learning how to show up in the world
- How to consciously communicate boundaries and practice this communication
- Self-healing, modeling, and communication as parents
- Allowing grace for ourselves as a part of healing
- Conscious parenting and shielding from the not-so-postives of life and ourselves
- Nicole’s future-self journal and daily consciousness/affirmation
- Nicole’s biggest rock bottom
- Nicole’s top 3 expanders: Joe Dispenza, Abraham Hicks, and her partner
#Resources:
- Surya Spa
- Expanded x 19: Martha Soffer
- Expanded x 35: Jacqui Lewis
- Biossance
- Howard Wills
- How to Identify and Heal from Emotional Enmeshment
- Free Journal EBook
- Dr. Nicole’s Blog
- Dr. Joe Dispenza
- Abraham Hicks
- To Be Magnetic
- Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour
- The Pathway Membership
- A la Carte Workshops
- The Forest Retreat House
- Instagram: @forestretreathouse
#Where to Find Dr. Nicole LePera
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