Episode description
In this episode of Calm Talks, we discuss the often-complicated dating scene and share 4 tips for finding a compatible partner. Whether you're looking for a casual or serious relationship, these tips can help you navigate the dating landscape with confidence and intention.
- Tip 1: Date with intent or don’t intend to date
When it comes to dating, it's important to have a clear idea of what you're looking for in a partner. Are you seeking a casual relationship or something more serious? Knowing your relationship goals can help guide your approach to dating. For example, if you're looking for a serious relationship, you may want to consider meeting potential partners through mutual friends or in more low-key settings like libraries or coffee shops. If you're looking for something more casual, apps and bars might be more suitable for you. Whatever your relationship goals, it's important to be honest and upfront about your intentions, whether you're dating casually or seriously. - Tip 2: Know your basis before your bases
Before you start dating, it's important to have a clear idea of your "non-negotiables" – the baseline of things you are not willing to accept in a partner. This could include things like religion, political views, or lifestyle choices. By identifying your non-negotiables, you can save yourself time and energy by focusing on potential partners who align with your values. - Tip 3: You’re only allowed 3 wishes
When it comes to finding a compatible partner, it's important to prioritize what you're looking for. Most people tend to prioritize looks first, but what's more important? Emotional compatibility, religion, or something else? By ranking your priorities, you can make sure that you're focusing on what really matters in a relationship. - Tip 4: Don’t look for the right partner, look in the mirror
When it comes to finding a compatible partner, it's important to remember that you can't change someone else. Instead of searching for the "right" partner, focus on becoming the kind of person you would want to be with. One way to do this is by understanding your attachment style, which can affect your relationships. To learn more about attachment theory, visit the show notes for a link to additional resources.
Resources
- Myers Briggs Test
- 16 Personalities Test (Free Myers Briggs Test)
- Big 5 Personalities Traits
- Attachment Theory
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