Think manifesting is just for the hippie crowd? Think again. In this episode, Hillary breaks down the science behind manifesting and shows you why it’s not magic—it’s mindset. From neuroscience to universal laws, Hillary reveals how to stop blocking your blessings and start becoming an unstoppable magnet for everything you want. No crystals or vision boards required (unless you’re into that). Episode Highlights: Why manifesting works (and why you’ve been doing it wrong). The two universal laws t...
Feb 07, 2025•17 min•Ep 47•Transcript available on Metacast Resentment is toxic AF. It’s the sneaky little emotion that quietly poisons your mood, relationships, and maybe even your skin. In this episode, Hillary peels back the layers of resentment, exposing it as the blend of hurt, anger, and judgment that keeps you stuck in victim mode. Feeling overlooked or undervalued? It’s time to face the real truth: resentment is a YOU problem. It’s time to stop blaming others, own your role, and set yourself free from the soul-sucking cycle of stewing and simmeri...
Jan 31, 2025•15 min•Ep 46•Transcript available on Metacast Tired of your own BS thought loops? Let’s fix that. In this episode, Hilary reveals the game-changing power of thought habits—the deeply ingrained patterns of thinking that shape your actions, your mindset, and ultimately your success. Drawing from her personal journey of reprogramming her mind, Hilary spills the tea on how she rewired her own mindset to become a more positive, unstoppable, self-led powerhouse—and how you can too. Trust us, adopting even ONE of these high-vibe thought habits wil...
Jan 24, 2025•16 min•Ep 45•Transcript available on Metacast Setting big goals is easy. Staying on track when life inevitably throws you a curveball? That’s the real challenge. In this episode, Hillary Silver shares seven game-changing tools to help you stay committed to your goals—even when you mess up (because you will, and that’s okay). Forget perfectionism; it’s about showing up for yourself, learning from setbacks, and making progress every day. Hillary dives into the practical and mindset shifts needed to turn your resolutions into realities, withou...
Jan 17, 2025•17 min•Ep 44•Transcript available on Metacast Control freaks, brace yourselves! In the final episode of her five-part series, Hilary serves up a truth bomb with the fifth core concept of her self-centered model: The outcome is internal. Translation? Stop obsessing over things you can’t control and start owning what’s already yours—your inner power. Hilary breaks down why we tie our worth to things we can’t control—whether it’s nailing the job interview, getting the client deal, or making someone like us. Really, It’s a losing game. She shar...
Jan 10, 2025•14 min•Ep 43•Transcript available on Metacast Your past doesn’t define you—unless you let it. In this episode, Hilary Silver serves up a reality check with core concept number four of her self-centered model: identity is a choice. That’s right—who you are isn’t carved in stone, no matter what your childhood, parents, or society told you. For too long, you’ve been letting outdated beliefs and hand-me-down narratives dictate your life. It’s time to rip up that old script and write a new one where YOU call the shots. Whether you’re 40, 50, or ...
Jan 09, 2025•8 min•Ep 42•Transcript available on Metacast We’ve been told that putting others first is the hallmark of a good person, but what if that’s a big, fat lie? In this episode, Hilary Silver tackles the myth of selflessness head-on, revealing how this deeply ingrained belief isn’t just harmful—it’s downright toxic. Drawing on her decades of experience as a psychotherapist and lifestyle mentor, Hilary introduces the third core concept of her self-centered model: "In your life, you come first and you go first." Hilary explains how the pressure t...
Jan 08, 2025•14 min•Ep 41•Transcript available on Metacast Ever been told, “The world doesn’t revolve around you”? Yeah, same. Hillary is here to call BS on that tired cliché. In this episode, she’s rewriting the narrative and proving why your world absolutely should and DOES revolve around you For too long, we’ve been guilted into thinking that putting ourselves first is wrong, especially women. Hillary is showing you why being the sun in your own universe is the only way to thrive. When you focus on your energy, your mindset, and your desires, every p...
Jan 07, 2025•10 min•Ep 40•Transcript available on Metacast If you’ve ever wished you could cut through the noise of self-help fluff and get straight to the good stuff, buckle up. Hilary is about to deliver 25 years’ worth of raw, unfiltered, no-BS therapy advice—distilled into just 12 minutes. Best believe she’s not here to hand you more surface-level band-aids for your problems. Hilary’s seen it all. After tens of thousands of hours spent in one-on-one sessions with clients, she’s got the receipts on what works and what doesn’t. In this episode, she ca...
Jan 05, 2025•11 min•Ep 39•Transcript available on Metacast Think self-discipline is the key to success? Think again. Drawing from her own transformation, Hilary explains why self-discipline is the anti-hero of personal growth—restrictive, harsh, and downright unsustainable. Instead of relying on rigid rules and unrealistic expectations, Hillary introduces the concept of self-devotion—a compassionate, loving, and sustainable approach to achieving your goals. Think of self-devotion as the unwavering commitment you’d expect from a devoted partner but turne...
Jan 03, 2025•10 min•Ep 38•Transcript available on Metacast In this final episode of 2024, Hilary sets the stage for your most transformative year yet. January 1st isn’t just another day—it’s game day, and you’re stepping into it armed with the mindset and tools to crush your goals. Hilary breaks down her self-centered approach to success, showing how internal growth unlocks the external life you’ve always dreamed of. Episode Highlights: Ready to ditch the doubt? Hilary’s hourglass method shows you how to turn internal growth into external wins Stop wish...
Dec 27, 2024•10 min•Ep 37•Transcript available on Metacast Who do you think you are? No, seriously. Because the truth is, you are exactly who you think you are. The way you see yourself? That’s the reality you’re living. Your thoughts shape everything—what you do, what you achieve, and what you believe is possible (or not)! In this episode, Hilary explains how your self-perception and thought patterns are the biggest factors holding you back or propelling you forward. If you’re stuck in the same old patterns, here's the good news: you’re just running an...
Dec 20, 2024•16 min•Ep 36•Transcript available on Metacast How many times have you said, “I’ll start after the holidays,” or “I’ll get to it when things slow down?” Waiting for the “perfect time” is just a sneaky way of staying stuck… and Hilary is here to call you out on it! In this episode, Hilary tackles the excuses we tell ourselves and shows us how to stop sitting on the sidelines of life. With her signature no-BS style, she’s serving up the truth about why now is always the right time to go after what you want, and how investing in yourself is the...
Dec 13, 2024•15 min•Ep 35•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 33: Mental Load: Feel More Joy & Drop The Invisible Weight Ladies, it's time to ditch the Superwoman cape! Who says you have to be the holiday magic-maker while juggling life like a circus act? In this episode, Hilary Silver pulls back the curtain on the mental load—the invisible, never-ending to-do list that's got you running the household 24/7. And let's be real, the holidays just crank up the chaos. Hilary reveals the truth about why we end up stuck in this exhausting role and how...
Dec 06, 2024•16 min•Ep 34•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 32: Awaken Your Feminine Energy for Beauty, Productivity, and Love Ladies, let’s get real: juggling work, family, and everything in between is no small feat. But does it have to come at the expense of your well-being (and let’s face it, your glow)? In this episode, Hilary gets candid about why living in constant overdrive isn’t the flex we think it is, and how reconnecting with your feminine energy could just be the ultimate life hack! Episode Highlights: The secret to looking, feeling, ...
Nov 29, 2024•21 min•Ep 33•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 31: Five Rules I Break for Fitness Who says you have to follow the rules to get fit? Hilary Silver unapologetically shreds the fitness handbook and proves you don’t need rigid routines to look amazing at 52. Forget arm day, endless cardio, and those boring sit-ups! In this episode, Hilary shares the five fitness rules she proudly ignores (plus the one rule that she never breaks). Episode Highlights: Break the rules! Fitness isn’t one-size-fits-all. Hilary’s approach to fitness is proof y...
Nov 22, 2024•10 min•Ep 32•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 30: Life on Your Own Terms Being self-centered isn’t selfish. It’s the ultimate power move! It’s time to put yourself first in a way that’s empowering, not egotistical. In this episode, Hilary redefines what it means to be self-centered and why it’s the key to living life on your own terms. At 52, she’s thriving in her health, relationships, business—literally every area of her life—and she’s here to show you how you can do it too. Episode Highlights: Forget the lie that “the world doesn...
Nov 15, 2024•12 min•Ep 31•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 29: Don’t Be Invisible Over 50 Ladies, forget “fading” with age. Hilary Silver is here to bust that myth wide open and show you how aging can crank up your confidence and magnetism. In this episode, she shuts down “Invisible Woman Syndrome”—a tired idea that women lose their spark over time. At 52, Hilary is thriving! She’s strutting into every room with a presence that demands attention, not for validation, but because she knows exactly who she is. Episode Highlights: Confidence isn’t a...
Nov 08, 2024•11 min•Ep 30•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 28: 6 Reasons Why You’re Stuck If you’ve mastered the “know better” game but somehow can’t crack the code to “do better“, this episode is for you! Hilary digs into the hidden mental blocks that keep you looping back to old habits. Tired of self-help that doesn’t stick? Get ready to uncover the six secret saboteurs standing between you and real, lasting change. Episode Highlights: Hilary breaks down three levels of self-awareness that expose why we keep circling back to old patterns. Blam...
Nov 01, 2024•12 min•Ep 29•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 27: Uplevel in 2025 Ready to stop messing around and finally start making big moves in your life? In this episode, Hilary breaks down five power plays that are going to help you get exactly what you want—faster. She’s pulling back the curtain on the mindsets and strategies that have taken her from stuck to unstoppable. Hilary’s got the blueprint to get you where you want to go and in this episode she delivers with no fluff, just real results. Episode Highlights: Get clear or get stuck. I...
Oct 25, 2024•11 min•Ep 28•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 26: Hard Work Won’t Make You Rich Think working yourself to the bone is the only way to get rich? Hilary flips that tired narrative on its head. Forget grinding yourself into the ground! Hilary built a $12 million business and hit millionaire status by 47, not by hustling harder, but by shifting her mindset. She’s here to tell you that wealth isn’t all about effort but also about energy. And in this episode, she’s sharing the three principles that took her from endless hustle to serious ...
Oct 18, 2024•12 min•Ep 27•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 25: Life Advice That Actually Sucks Social media’s got advice flying at you from every angle—some of it sounds like a hug, but a lot of it just keeps you stuck. Hilary serves up the truth about why taking radical responsibility is the only way to break free and grow. With her no-nonsense approach, Hilary dives into the harmful narratives that TikTok, Instagram, and influencers everywhere are selling—and why they’re keeping you trapped in toxic cycles instead of helping you level up. Epis...
Oct 11, 2024•14 min•Ep 26•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 24: 9 Things WINNERS Don’t Do What makes high achievers stand out? Hilary Silver is here to break down 9 things winners don’t do—trust us, it’s not what you think. Ready to up your game in life, love, or business? This episode is your VIP ticket! Episode Highlights: Winners don’t sit around complaining. They handle it, find solutions, and move on. Blame games are for losers. Winners own their stuff and get to work fixing the problem, not shifting the blame. Making excuses? Not a chance. ...
Oct 04, 2024•10 min•Ep 25•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 23: This Virtue May Make You RICH What if impatience wasn’t a flaw but your secret success weapon? Hilary Silver flips the script on the idea that patience is always a virtue. She shows how tapping into her impatience fueled her transition from local therapist to global coaching powerhouse. In this episode, Hilary reveals how urgency, action, and a fearless attitude have been the keys to her unstoppable success. Episode Highlights: Hilary doesn’t just embrace impatience—she owns it. Lear...
Sep 27, 2024•11 min•Ep 24•Transcript available on Metacast Episode 22: The Sneaky Ways We Self Sabotage Ambivalence might seem harmless, but it’s that sneaky little voice that keeps you stuck, second-guessing, and ultimately self-sabotaging your goals. In this episode, Hilary pulls no punches, diving into how those “meh” feelings are secretly holding you back from what you really want. She shares personal stories, client confessions, and straight-up truths about why we keep driving with one foot on the gas and the other on the brake. Episode Highlights:...
Sep 20, 2024•10 min•Ep 23•Transcript available on Metacast EP21 - 9 Habits to Look 10 Years Younger It’s more than genetics—looking and feeling youthful is largely about the choices you make every day. As Hilary celebrates her 52nd birthday, she’s spilling her best-kept secrets to staying energized and radiant. Episode Highlights: Mindset Magic: Hilary’s dishing out four game-changing mindset habits that help her stay youthful—like focusing on solutions (not problems) and living a self-centered life that puts her needs first. Daily Rituals for Radiance:...
Sep 13, 2024•15 min•Ep 22•Transcript available on Metacast EP20 - You’re Not Broken, Stop Fixing Yourself The key to true personal growth isn’t fixing your flaws, but embracing them as part of your wholeness. Hilary dives into this idea, challenging the widespread obsession with constant self-improvement. Do we really need to fix every perceived flaw, or is there a better path? In this episode, she advocates for a radical shift—moving away from the relentless pursuit of perfection and embracing unconditional self-love and acceptance. Episode Highlights:...
Sep 06, 2024•18 min•Ep 21•Transcript available on Metacast EP19 - Seeing Good is Bad Is seeing only the good in others truly noble and a characteristic to aspire to? Hilary debunks the myth that focusing solely on the positive aspects of people is virtuous. In fact, she suggests that this one-sided, limited viewpoint is not only not good for you, but it’s actually a harmful set-up for everyone involved. Episode Highlights: Hilary explains how idealizing others by only seeing their good traits is a distorted view of reality. Explore how this behavior man...
Aug 28, 2024•11 min•Ep 20•Transcript available on Metacast EP18 - This Radical Gratitude Practice Will Change The Results In Your Life Why isn’t gratitude bringing the happiness we expect? In this episode, Hilary shares a deeper, more radical approach to gratitude that will revolutionize how you view your past, especially the tough parts. Incorporating Hilary’s method into your daily practice leads to a stronger relationship with your whole self, and creates resilience, confidence and a self-centered quality that creates beautiful results in your life. ...
Aug 21, 2024•8 min•Ep 19•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, Hilary explores a pivotal realization she experienced shortly after she turned 50: the unnecessary burdens we all carry by tolerating less than we deserve. This episode is a candid exploration of personal thresholds, examining everything from daily inconveniences to significant life choices, and how moving past “what we put up with” can transform our lives as we commit to putting SELF first. Episode Highlights: Hilary's personal journey of eliminating “just putting up with sh*t”...
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