In this episode, Danny and EJ dive into the often-overlooked realities of addiction on family unit. Because addiction doesn’t just affect the individual—it ripples through the family, creating tension, confusion, and dysfunction in spades. Join us as we explore 10 key indicators that your family has become deeply affected and "sick" right along with your addicted loved one. We’ll discuss the signs and offer insights on how families can begin to heal and find support once they are aware of how th...
Feb 10, 2025•29 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode of Your Living Proof Podcast, hosts Danny and Emily Deaton dive deep into a topic that often feels isolating and confusing for many: loving a partner struggling with porn or sex addiction. Whether you’re in a relationship with someone facing these challenges or simply seeking to understand more, Danny and Emily offer 5 practical and compassionate tips to help you navigate the complexities of love, trust, and healing. Our Website: https://yourlivingproof.com/ Our FREE Masterclass:...
Jan 27, 2025•46 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode of The Your Living Proof Podcast, we dive into a delicate but important truth: while your bishop or priest is a vital spiritual leader and holds the keys to helping your loved one find their ultimate freedom through the atonement of Jesus Christ, they are not the best first step in helping your addicted loved one. In fact, they could be adding fuel to the fire of addiction and the shame your loved one carries. This episode explores why the first steps in addiction recovery requir...
Jan 11, 2025•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast Loving someone with an addiction can be incredibly challenging, often leaving you feeling confused, hurt, and helpless. In this episode, we explore 8 essential things you need to know if you love an addict. Whether you're a partner, friend, or family member, this episode provides practical advice, emotional support, and compassion for those walking alongside an addict. Website:https://yourlivingproof.com/ Free Masterclass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass
Dec 28, 2024•42 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we dive into the complex and often painful issue of setting boundaries with addicted loved ones—something many members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and other Christians find particularly challenging. For those who are committed to showing unconditional love, the idea of drawing a line can feel like a betrayal, or even a lack of compassion. But when love becomes enabling, it can unintentionally perpetuate the cycle of addiction. We explore why members of the...
Dec 18, 2024•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this weeks episode we dive deep into the complexities of addiction recovery, challenging the conventional wisdom surrounding traditional interventions. While interventions can be effective in the short term, they often fail to address the root causes of addiction, leaving lasting recovery elusive. Join us as we explore the factors that influence long-term sobriety, and discuss alternative approaches that focus on sustainable healing. We’ll unpack why interventions alone aren’t enough—and what...
Dec 09, 2024•35 min•Transcript available on Metacast The holiday season is supposed to be joyful, but for those living with a loved one struggling with addiction, it can feel overwhelming and isolating. In this episode, we dive into practical strategies and emotional insights for navigating the holidays with ( or without ) your addicted loved one. We discuss how to set healthy boundaries, manage stress, and maintain your own well-being during a time that often amplifies feelings of fear, guilt, and frustration. Whether you love someone currently b...
Nov 20, 2024•46 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join us as we explore the 5 crucial things that serve as the foundation for lasting change and recovery, from building a support system to developing new habits and mindset shifts. You'll hear practical advice, real-life stories, and powerful tips to help you or a loved one take the next step toward healing and freedom. For more Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com/
Nov 12, 2024•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast Setting boundaries in the face of addiction can feel like an endless struggle. If you find yourself repeatedly setting limits, only to have them disregarded, you're not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into why boundaries are so critical in addiction recovery, how to reinforce them without feeling guilty, and ways to protect your own well-being while still supporting your loved one. Tune in for practical advice and insights on navigating one of the toughest parts of recovery. For more Danny ...
Nov 06, 2024•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast Today we tackle porn, masturbation, alcohol, vaping, weed, sex, mushrooms, pills and all the topics parents would rather clean baseboards than discuss with their kids!! This is a must listen and must share episode. Danny and EJ don't mince words when discuss these topics head on with their kids. For more Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com FREE MasterClass: https://www.yourlivingproof.com/2-lies Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/
Oct 16, 2024•52 min•Transcript available on Metacast The speedball of heroine and cocaine has evolved into something much easier to get and much more dangerous. The worst part is, it doesn't even require leaving your home. You don't want to miss this episode where Danny breaks down the latest speedball that is changing an entire generation of kids. For more Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com/
Oct 07, 2024•50 min•Transcript available on Metacast You asked, We answered. In this weeks episode Danny and EJ answer the most frequently asked questions they are asked including: "How do you know if it's truly an addiction?", "What about ketamine therapy?", "Is inpatient care better than intensive outpatient?" "What is the hardest addiction to overcome?" and lots more! Tune in to hear your questions answered in the only way Danny and EJ know how - raw and honest truth. For more info or to learn about working with Danny check out: https://yourliv...
Sep 27, 2024•42 min•Transcript available on Metacast Almost all of our listeners sit (uncomfortably) in the space of loving a "functioning" addict. You know they have a problem but is it THAT bad? You know people who have much worse addictions that YOUR loved one. After all, they still have a job, they still go to school, and no one else would really suspect they had a problem...you are probably overreacting. These are all the difficulties that come with loving a "functioning" addict. Danny and EJ uncover the truth about this enormous group of peo...
Sep 11, 2024•34 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you give academy award winning speeches to your loved one struggling with addiction? Have you begged on your knees for them to stop and do better? Have any of those moments pierced the heart of your addicted loved one and motivated them to change long term? Today Danny and EJ discuss the importance of understanding your role right now and where to focus all of that energy. For more Living Proof check out : www.yourlivingproof.com Our Program for Families: www.yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-...
Aug 28, 2024•31 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this weeks episode Danny and EJ discuss the topic of CONTROL. Everyone that loves an addict reacts to the unwanted chaos the same - with CONTROL. This is 100% natural but the problem is, it's only an illusion and it only negatively impacts YOU. We are so happy you are here and hope that you share this episode with someone that needs the support. For more Living Proof check out : https://www.yourlivingproof.com Our Program for Families: https://www.yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-program-8007...
Aug 05, 2024•27 min•Transcript available on Metacast https://www.yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-program-8007 This is the episode where Danny and EJ breakdown the 6 stages every family progresses through as they mirror their loved one's addiction. If you love someone struggling with addiction - you won't want to miss this episode! See if you can identify which stage you are in and make sure you share it with someone else. Our FREE MASTERCLASS: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass-funnel-page Our Program for Families: https://www.yourlivin...
Jul 15, 2024•32 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode Danny and EJ answer one of the most asked questions they get. "But what if my loved one refuses to get help"? Then what? If this is a question you have been wrestling with - this episode is just for you! Check out our Free Masterclass : https://www.yourlivingproof.com/2-lies Our Website: https://www.yourlivingproof.com
Jun 13, 2024•31 min•Transcript available on Metacast EJ interviews a woman who was on the verge of divorce when she found our program, enrolled and now a year later can see what a massive impact that one decision had on her entire family. Hear her raw and vulnerable story about how the tools she gained helped her make more progress in 6 months than she had in 15 years of therapy. This is what we live for! We know you will love this episode. More info: https://www.yourlivingproof.com/ Free Masterclass: https://www.yourlivingproof.com/free-mastercla...
May 29, 2024•42 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode Danny discusses the top 7 mistakes parents and spouses of addicts make as they attempt to navigate their loved ones behavior. He teaches 7 things to STOP doing as well as diving into his professional advice on what to immediately START doing. This episode is also available to watch on our YOUTUBE channel. https://www.youtube.com/@your_living_proof Join our Program and Private Community: https://www.yourlivingproof.com Free Masterclass https://www.yourlivingproof.com/free-mastercl...
May 15, 2024•32 min•Transcript available on Metacast Don't try to watch this episode without a box of tissues! This week our founder, Danny Deaton talks in depth about his journey from spiritual and ( almost) physical death - to where he is today. Danny talks frankly about the first years of struggle and the difference between becoming sober and entering recovery. Danny's wife EJ offers her perspective on the journey she has walked with him. If you like this episode please share it and subscribe to our channel. https://www.yourlivingproof.com http...
May 01, 2024•41 min•Transcript available on Metacast If you love an addict you know that they are the masters of manipulation - but what tactic do they use the most to control everyone around them? Listen to this weeks episode and find out the answer and also how not allow this tactic to control you any longer. For more LivingProof including information about our Program - head to : https://www.yourlivingproof.com and watch our FREE Masterclass by clicking the link below https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass-funnel-page This episode is also...
Apr 23, 2024•28 min•Transcript available on Metacast "Our Secrets Keep Us Sick" is the mantra for our company and our family life. Living by this mantra is what Danny credits for his almost 17 years of sobriety. Danny shares this message to youth groups, schools, and companies across the United States and in this episode you get to hear what this mantra really means and why it is so critical for ALL families, but especially those affected by addiction to embrace it and live by it. Make sure you connect with Danny and EJ on IG so you don't miss a t...
Apr 09, 2024•33 min•Transcript available on Metacast Can't get through to your addicted loved one? Is it making you lose your mind? You're not crazy!! You just need to learn how to speak to the disease of Addiction. In this episode, Danny and EJ discuss the 4 things that addiction fears the most. Get ready to flip the script on Addiction. https://yourlivingproof.com Follow Us on IG for more FREE content: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/
Mar 20, 2024•43 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a deep dive into a today's gateway drug. This is a topic Danny gets the most inquiries about and the one that affects the most families not only in the United States, but the world. Danny and EJ talk about the far reaching effects of the use of this drug and how to help someone who is struggling with an addiction to it. This is an episode you won't want to miss and one we hope you will share with a friend! This podcast is for anyone who loves an addict - to learn more, watch our ...
Mar 05, 2024•50 min•Transcript available on Metacast Shouldn't having faith and belief in something bigger than you bring you strength and peace when you are caught in a storm? Shouldn't Christ be your anchor when your world is spinning out of control. The answer is YES - but then why is it that so many power house, faith filled, Christ centered families get rag-dolled the hardest when someone in their family is struggling with addiction? In this episode, Danny and EJ discuss 6 pitfalls families of faith fall into that actually accelerate the addi...
Jan 31, 2024•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is for the wives and spouses of addicts who feel shattered by the thought that their loved one chose drugs over them. In this deeply vulnerable episode, EJ shares her personal experience with not feeling chosen and Danny dives into how he helps his clients work through these painful feelings and move into a place of healing and wholeness. The letter EJ reads in this episode can be found in the link below: https://www.yourtango.com/2016287068/loving-an-addict-letter-to-man-who-chose-...
Jan 22, 2024•34 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode of the podcast we talk about the very true but very frustrating fact that your loved one cannot " just stop" their active addiction. Danny speaks from first hand experience about how many times he tried to stop using when he was deep into his addiction and how he failed every time - which only led him to feel more hopeless. Danny and Emily offer their insights on how you can step in and help your loved one even though they may be refusing help.
Jan 07, 2024•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this week's episode, hosts Danny and Emily delve deep into a critical aspect of the recovery journey: the pivotal role you play in the recovery of your loved ones. Danny and Emily explore the significance of your support and how it acts as a catalyst for change. Learn more about the unique approach the Living Proof Process takes and their method for helping families achieve their desired outcomes by not only providing a roadmap for families seeking guidance - but offering support every step o...
Dec 10, 2023•35 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this special holiday episode, hosts Danny and Emily delve into the heart of a topic that resonates deeply with anyone who loves an addict: surviving the holidays with a loved one in the throes of addiction or early in recovery. The holiday season can bring joy and warmth, but it also poses unique challenges for those affected by addiction. Join Danny and Emily as they share personal insights, experiences, and most importantly, five powerful strategies to not only survive but to thrive during ...
Nov 20, 2023•37 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join hosts Danny and EJ in a candid conversation as they explore the subtle yet profound shifts from Danny's sobriety into recovery. In this episode of Your Living Proof Podcast, our hosts get brutally honest about the gradual changes that paved the way for a deeper, more authentic experience of recovery. From navigating the challenges of sobriety to finding true wholeness, their personal stories offer a raw and relatable perspective. Whether you're on your own path to recovery or supporting som...
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