Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust. --- Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with t...
Jun 08, 2022•57 min•Transcript available on Metacast One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight. But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . . That is, of course, to always have a North Star. This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, an...
Jun 06, 2022•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you... --- Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets...
Jun 03, 2022•7 min•Transcript available on Metacast Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. --- Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASK...
Jun 01, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Transcript available on Metacast So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful. The incredible responses also brough...
May 30, 2022•12 min•Transcript available on Metacast Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Fo...
May 27, 2022•9 min•Transcript available on Metacast Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with? Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder. --- Download your FREE guide at 9Texts.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com...
May 25, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Transcript available on Metacast When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd. The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky. In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people ...
May 23, 2022•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind ...
May 20, 2022•5 min•Transcript available on Metacast It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!” But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness? In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com...
May 18, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out? This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities. In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → ...
May 13, 2022•7 min•Transcript available on Metacast When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship. There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry. Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences. In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship. --- ...
May 11, 2022•43 min•Transcript available on Metacast When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions. Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal. They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant i...
May 09, 2022•26 min•Transcript available on Metacast Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth). If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.” In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and a...
May 06, 2022•4 min•Transcript available on Metacast What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment? In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma. If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com ...
May 04, 2022•32 min•Transcript available on Metacast Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness. But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person? Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to ...
May 02, 2022•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible? Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing. Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond. In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy ...
Apr 29, 2022•12 min•Transcript available on Metacast How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again. In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retrea...
Apr 27, 2022•57 min•Transcript available on Metacast What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media. Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere. Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media. Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out wit...
Apr 25, 2022•10 min•Transcript available on Metacast It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can...
Apr 22, 2022•9 min•Transcript available on Metacast No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person. And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem… Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of...
Apr 20, 2022•58 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out. Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat →...
Apr 18, 2022•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship. Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!) --- Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live "Dating With Results" virtual event on April 19th here → http:/...
Apr 15, 2022•6 min•Transcript available on Metacast "How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?" What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?" Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect. If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away. --- Protect your time, energy & your heart... Rese...
Apr 13, 2022•41 min•Transcript available on Metacast Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?” You feel amazing...
Apr 11, 2022•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast Sick of being asked "why are you still single?" Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship? Me too. Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www....
Apr 08, 2022•5 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you? Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't? This is called microdosing. And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term. In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person. --- Let's ...
Apr 06, 2022•51 min•Transcript available on Metacast How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently? Whether it’s due to: • A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier • A family member you could’ve created more distance with • A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted. But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not...
Apr 04, 2022•6 min•Transcript available on Metacast How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start... --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com...
Apr 01, 2022•2 min•Transcript available on Metacast Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier. We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this. We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy. But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field. We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’...
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