I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives. It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with. I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go. Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear. I hope y...
Mar 29, 2021•24 min•Transcript available on Metacast Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . . http://www.3SecretsToLove.com --- There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present. And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories... The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever. And when you do ...
Mar 26, 2021•7 min•Transcript available on Metacast We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run: Kindness Respect Clear and compassionate communication But there are also other little skills that make a big difference. Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impul...
Mar 21, 2021•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.” In this episode we talk about: - The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness - Why purpose really matters - Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge --- Join us on our vir...
Mar 18, 2021•27 min•Transcript available on Metacast Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com --- I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relation...
Mar 13, 2021•41 min•Transcript available on Metacast People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! --- Follow ...
Mar 10, 2021•12 min•Transcript available on Metacast Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss. It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to: - Increasing your confidence - Expanding your life - Being irreplaceable to the person you want - Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong This is where my dating advice meets my d...
Mar 08, 2021•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated? A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship. Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps? --- Don't forget: you can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow...
Mar 05, 2021•28 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship? This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions. Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about: How to approach being a "builder" when you're in a relationship Choosing the right partner for your needs Connection vs. compatibility How to not get distracted when you're single --- Don't forget: you can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- P.S. Join us o...
Mar 03, 2021•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast ►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad a...
Mar 01, 2021•8 min•Transcript available on Metacast It's ok to be weird... In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhus...
Feb 26, 2021•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy? It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking). Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong. P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21! This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I...
Feb 24, 2021•9 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey...
Feb 21, 2021•23 min•Transcript available on Metacast Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them go weak in the knees for you. They are subtle . . . They are unexpected . . . And they will make someone fall even harder for you than they already are (because why wouldn’t they be already . . . you’re adorable, aren’t you? Aren’t you! Sorry.) Check ‘em out, friend. Free download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com Free download:...
Feb 16, 2021•10 min•Transcript available on Metacast ►► Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com --- Join Matt and Steve for a chat on vulnerability, when to reveal yourself in a relationship, and what counts as over-sharing... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey...
Feb 12, 2021•29 min•Transcript available on Metacast Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com Happy February! :-) I just made this episode for you. Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out? If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, here is your essential listening for today... Let me know what you ...
Feb 10, 2021•8 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Hey listeners! Join Matt and I for a chat today on: Why we get attached too quickly (even after only one date) The biggest key to avoiding disappointment Why Eminem was wrong If you want to get in touch, email us at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt Instagram - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen Instagram - ...
Feb 06, 2021•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join Me on a Bigger Journey & Get Results in Your Love Life. Try My VIP Coaching Experience for Free... → http://www.AskMH.com Quiz for you... What do the following 3 things all have in common?: - Getting nervous on a date - Getting upset that someone isn’t texting you back - Not being able to get over a breakup Can you guess? The answer is in this episode, let’s see if you got it right... You’re going to witness a moment taken from a live, exclusive webinar I held for my Love.Life members tha...
Feb 02, 2021•8 min•Transcript available on Metacast Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today Matt and Steve sit down for a little chat. We talk: - Keeping on track with 2021 goals - Why you don't need to be "100% happy" to attract a great relationship - How to decide what really matters in your to -do list - 3 things you need to work on to have an extraordinary love life...
Jan 29, 2021•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast Discover How to Love Your Life Every Day. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat... http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done. But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone. And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to half of the ...
Jan 25, 2021•8 min•Transcript available on Metacast Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room? In this episode, Matt and I sit down to discuss: - Why you can *still* have massive impact as an introvert - How to get rid of your bad conversation habits - The secret to overcoming shyness - How to answer difficult questions under pressure (and look good doing it!) --- If you're serious about upgrading your people skills, transforming your confidence, and learning the secrets of ...
Jan 21, 2021•28 min•Transcript available on Metacast I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice... Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that the communication skills I teach have massive practical application for your business relationships, your ability to network, your ability to persuade, to captivate, and to navigate challenging conversations in every part of life. I’ve not just used these skills in my own love life. They have been the fundamental people skills I have used to create eve...
Jan 17, 2021•29 min•Transcript available on Metacast Heyyyy, It's a chat episode! We sit down to talk about: - How to identify addictive behaviours - Avoiding red flags vs. not being affected by past relationships - How to figure out your goals - Crunchy vs. smooth peanut butter It's all here - come join and let us know your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.comn --- Follow Matt - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen - @stephenhhussey...
Jan 16, 2021•29 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back? It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of angry or upset subside...
Jan 11, 2021•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to hi...
Jan 07, 2021•12 min•Transcript available on Metacast Maybe you began this year with visions of finally creating the love life you always dreamed about. You told yourself: “This is the year I’m going to meet my person.” But then 2020 happened, and it made dating even more complicated, more exhausting, and more futile than it seemed to be already. And now you sit here, at the end of another year, with this feeling in the pit of your stomach. A feeling of frustration, resentment, and even panic. “I’ve lost an entire year of progress in my love life b...
Dec 20, 2020•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend. In it, I give you the 4 questions you should ask to figure out if it’s all worth it. Because let’s face it, long-distance relationships are HARD. WORK. T hey require dedication, commitment, loyalty, and a real vision for the future. Do you ever find yourself worrying if yours has what it takes? Or wondering if the person you are giving all of this mental and emotional ...
Dec 15, 2020•7 min•Transcript available on Metacast It's finally happened... Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions. In this special Q&A episode, we talk: How to communicate when you have different expectations from a guy you're dating Matt's #1 secret to overcoming your deep insecurities and avoid comparing yourself to other attractive people Books to build your happiness How to keep motivation when you lose focus Is Los Angeles overrated? Hope you enjoy, and let us know your thoughts and feedback...
Dec 06, 2020•45 min•Transcript available on Metacast I wanted to step outside of the dating conversation for this week’s new episode. Relationship or no relationship, the quality of our lives is the quality of our emotions. And many of us feel plagued by our emotions. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt, fear… we can find ourselves living in a constant state of suffering. If you can relate to this, please listen to this before you do anything else today... I’ve had moments in my life where I was scared I’d never feel better, es...
Nov 30, 2020•8 min•Transcript available on Metacast Transform Your Life and Claim Your Happiness NOW. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat… http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week... How do you set standards? How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away? How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one? To answer some of these questio...
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