We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. As experienced therapists with backgrounds in addressing trauma and mental health disorders, we believe there is hope and there certainly is ...
Aug 29, 2024•22 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the 200th episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast! Join licensed marriage and family therapists, Tim and Ruth Olson, as they celebrate this exciting milestone and dive into one of the most requested topics: communication. With over 120,000 downloads, they express their gratitude to their listeners and offer tips on how to support the podcast further. In this episode, Tim and Ruth focus o...
Aug 27, 2024•23 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. Together, we'll unravel the layers of personal growth, healing from trauma, and building healthy relationships. In this episode, we continue ...
Aug 22, 2024•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. Together, we'll unravel the layers of personal growth, healing from trauma, and building healthy relationships. In this episode, we discuss a...
Aug 20, 2024•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. We've spent our lives supporting people through the ups and downs, and we want to share these insights with you. In this episode, we delve in...
Aug 15, 2024•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast! In this episode, we delve into the importance of knowing your true identity and how it can help you stay focused on your path without getting sidetracked by others' opinions. We discuss a powerful analogy about how understanding who you are can protect you from hurtful comments and criticism, just like how you wouldn't be offended by someone critici...
Aug 13, 2024•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the latest episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy! In this final installment of our extensive series on negative beliefs and cognitions, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve deep into the origins and impacts of these detrimental thoughts. Join us as we explore how negative beliefs like "I'm a failure," "I cannot succeed," "I have to be perfect," and "I cannot stand...
Aug 08, 2024•27 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another transformative episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast! Join Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, as they dive deep into the final segment of their series on negative cognitions and beliefs. This week, Tim and Ruth explore the intricate layers of control and choice, discussing how beliefs such as "I'm not in control," "I am powerless," "I am weak," and "I ...
Aug 06, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through the complex journey of healing from trauma and fostering healthier relationships. In this episode, they continue their deep dive into the negative beliefs and cognitions often addressed during EMDR therapy. Tim and Ruth explore a range of negative beliefs related to safety a...
Aug 01, 2024•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast! In this episode, we continue our deep dive into the series on negative cognitions and beliefs. We've already explored feelings of responsibility and guilt in previous episodes. Today, we shift our focus to safety and vulnerability, specifically examining the negative beliefs around trust. Join us as we discuss how environments of constant doubt and ...
Jul 30, 2024•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode, we continue our insightful series on negative cognitions and beliefs. Today, we delve into the second category under responsibility: "I did something wrong." We explore three core beliefs in this category and discuss their origins and impacts on our lives. We start with "I should have done something," examining how traumatic events can lead to an overinflated sense of responsibilit...
Jul 25, 2024•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast! In today's episode, we continue our series on negative cognitions and negative beliefs, focusing on the "I Am Something Wrong" category. If you haven't caught the previous episodes, we highly recommend listening to those first. We'll delve into the beliefs such as "I am stupid," "I'm insignificant," "I'm a disappointment," "I deserve to die," "I deserve to be miserable," and "I am different or I don't belong." Understanding these deeply rooted negativ...
Jul 23, 2024•23 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the Mrs. Therapy podcast! In this episode, we continue our series on negative beliefs and cognitions, particularly how they relate to EMDR therapy. If you're new here, EMDR is a highly effective trauma treatment that helps reprogram the brain to let go of negative beliefs. We're diving deeper into these beliefs, exploring their origins and impacts on our current lives. In the last episod...
Jul 18, 2024•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. Join your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, as they share their insights and strategies to help you heal from the past and build meaningful connections. In today's episode, we begin a ne...
Jul 16, 2024•19 min•Ep 53•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. Join us as we unravel the layers of personal growth, healing from trauma, and building healthy relationships through engaging conversations, ...
Jul 11, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode, we delve into the idea of vulnerability—why it can be scary to engage in and why it's so beneficial. We discuss common perceptions of vulnerability, the fears associated with it, and how to weigh the potential risks and rewards. Vulnerability isn't just about sharing deep secrets; it's about openness and the possibility of building genuine connections. Join us as we explore how vul...
Jul 09, 2024•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode Tim and Ruth delve into the detrimental effects of comparison on children and how parents can foster a healthier environment for personal growth. Tim and Ruth discuss the concept of "tabula rasa" and the importance of recognizing and nurturing each child's unique traits and interests. They provide insights on how to avoid harmful comparisons, both within the family and externally, a...
Jul 02, 2024•27 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy! Today, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into the crucial topic of the messages we send our children about health and appearance. Building on their previous discussion, they emphasize the importance of prioritizing health over appearance, especially in a world heavily influenced by social media and ...
Jun 27, 2024•19 min•Ep 1•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy! In this episode, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into the crucial topic of the themes and messages we send to our kids. They discuss the importance of not parenting out of fear but rather fostering a level of awareness and intentionality in our actions and words. The Olsons emphasize how recurrin...
Jun 25, 2024•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. In this episode, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, delve into mental health disorders caused by trauma. Continuing their series, they explore borderline personality disorder (BPD), substance use disorders, and eating disorders. The Olsons explain the symptoms, underlying trauma, and th...
Jun 20, 2024•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we delve into the impact of trauma on mental health. We explore how severe, repetitive trauma, especially during key developmental periods, can lead to various psychological conditions or mental health disorders. We'll introduce nine mental health disorders influenced by trauma, starting with PTSD and acute stress disorder, and discuss how treating the root cause of trauma can lead to full healing rather than just addressing symptoms. Join us as we discuss PTSD, acute stress dis...
Jun 18, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Segment 1: Understanding the Brain's Response to Trauma Brain Anatomy and Trauma: We begin by identifying the key areas of the brain involved in the trauma response—namely, the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex. Discover how these structures collaborate to process emotions, store memories, and make decisions, and why their function is critical in the context of trauma. Neurological Responses: Learn about the immediate reactions of the brain to traumatic events, including the fight, fl...
Jun 13, 2024•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we dive deep into the often-overlooked signs of trauma that can manifest in everyday behaviors and reactions. Understanding these signs is crucial for recognizing the need for support and beginning the journey toward healing. Join us as we explore three key indicators that someone might be dealing with unresolved trauma. Overreactions to Common Situations: We start by discussing why some individuals might have intense emotional reactions to seemingly mi...
Jun 11, 2024•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the concept of learned helplessness—a psychological condition where individuals feel powerless to change their circumstances, even when opportunities for improvement exist. Join us as we explore the origins, impacts, and strategies for overcoming learned helplessness, providing listeners with a comprehensive understanding of this complex phenomenon. **What You'll Learn in This Episode:** - **Origins and Definition**: Discover th...
Jun 06, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this thought-provoking continuation of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we further engage with statements made by John MacArthur regarding mental health. Specifically, we address his views on the role of community and self-control in managing mental health issues. MacArthur suggests that the lack of community support causes problems and that individuals simply need more self-control to overcome their struggles. Join us as we explore these claims with empathy and a commitment to understanding the compl...
Jun 04, 2024•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome back to another episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we continue our important conversation about the views on mental health within some religious communities, specifically addressing statements made by John MacArthur regarding the non-existence of mental disorders and the use of psychiatric medications. In this follow-up episode, titled "Beyond Belief: Addressing Stigmas in Mental Health Care - Part 2," we take a closer look at the contentious claim that prescribing psychiatric medi...
May 30, 2024•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this thoughtful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we engage in a respectful examination of views presented by John MacArthur regarding psychological disorders. Specifically, we focus on a sermon where he discusses his beliefs about the non-existence of these disorders, using schizophrenia as a representative example for all conditions, and his views on the psychological community's approach to treatment. Our goal is to explore these topics with care and provide a balanced perspective. Join u...
May 28, 2024•31 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this compelling episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we explore the difficult yet sometimes necessary decision of parental estrangement. While estrangement is often viewed negatively, there are circumstances where it becomes essential for personal safety, mental health, and emotional growth. This episode sheds light on the healthy reasons behind choosing distance from one's parents and how it can serve as a protective and empowering measure. Self-Protection from Abuse: We delve into the painful...
May 23, 2024•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to a thought-provoking episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we delve deep into the complex world of family estrangement. Today, we explore some of the less discussed but critically influential factors that can lead to breaks within families. From miscommunication to external influences, unrealistic expectations, and impulsive decisions, we uncover the nuances that can drive wedges between loved ones. Miscommunication: We start by examining how misunderstandings and a lack of effectiv...
May 21, 2024•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast Episode Description: In this transformative episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the science and strategy of building lasting habits that can significantly enhance your personal and professional life. We break down the process into four actionable steps, providing a blueprint for anyone looking to develop new, positive routines. Whether you're striving to be more active, wanting to manage your time better, or looking to adopt a healthier lifestyle, this episode is your guide to makin...
May 16, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast