We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast! In this episode, we continue our deep dive into the series on negative cognitions and beliefs. We've already explored feelings of responsibility and guilt in previous episodes. Today, we shift our focus to safety and vulnerability, specifically examining the negative beliefs around trust. Join us as we discuss how environments of constant doubt and ...
Jul 30, 2024•16 min•Ep 57•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode, we continue our insightful series on negative cognitions and beliefs. Today, we delve into the second category under responsibility: "I did something wrong." We explore three core beliefs in this category and discuss their origins and impacts on our lives. We start with "I should have done something," examining how traumatic events can lead to an overinflated sense of responsibilit...
Jul 25, 2024•14 min•Ep 56•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast! In today's episode, we continue our series on negative cognitions and negative beliefs, focusing on the "I Am Something Wrong" category. If you haven't caught the previous episodes, we highly recommend listening to those first. We'll delve into the beliefs such as "I am stupid," "I'm insignificant," "I'm a disappointment," "I deserve to die," "I deserve to be miserable," and "I am different or I don't belong." Understanding these deeply rooted negativ...
Jul 23, 2024•23 min•Ep 55•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the Mrs. Therapy podcast! In this episode, we continue our series on negative beliefs and cognitions, particularly how they relate to EMDR therapy. If you're new here, EMDR is a highly effective trauma treatment that helps reprogram the brain to let go of negative beliefs. We're diving deeper into these beliefs, exploring their origins and impacts on our current lives. In the last episod...
Jul 18, 2024•20 min•Ep 54•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. Join your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, as they share their insights and strategies to help you heal from the past and build meaningful connections. In today's episode, we begin a ne...
Jul 16, 2024•19 min•Ep 53•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. Join us as we unravel the layers of personal growth, healing from trauma, and building healthy relationships through engaging conversations, ...
Jul 11, 2024•19 min•Ep 52•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode, we delve into the idea of vulnerability—why it can be scary to engage in and why it's so beneficial. We discuss common perceptions of vulnerability, the fears associated with it, and how to weigh the potential risks and rewards. Vulnerability isn't just about sharing deep secrets; it's about openness and the possibility of building genuine connections. Join us as we explore how vul...
Jul 09, 2024•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode Tim and Ruth delve into the detrimental effects of comparison on children and how parents can foster a healthier environment for personal growth. Tim and Ruth discuss the concept of "tabula rasa" and the importance of recognizing and nurturing each child's unique traits and interests. They provide insights on how to avoid harmful comparisons, both within the family and externally, a...
Jul 02, 2024•27 min•Ep 1•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy! Today, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into the crucial topic of the messages we send our children about health and appearance. Building on their previous discussion, they emphasize the importance of prioritizing health over appearance, especially in a world heavily influenced by social media and ...
Jun 27, 2024•19 min•Ep 1•Transcript available on Metacast We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy! In this episode, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into the crucial topic of the themes and messages we send to our kids. They discuss the importance of not parenting out of fear but rather fostering a level of awareness and intentionality in our actions and words. The Olsons emphasize how recurrin...
Jun 25, 2024•20 min•Ep 1•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. In this episode, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, delve into mental health disorders caused by trauma. Continuing their series, they explore borderline personality disorder (BPD), substance use disorders, and eating disorders. The Olsons explain the symptoms, underlying trauma, and th...
Jun 20, 2024•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we delve into the impact of trauma on mental health. We explore how severe, repetitive trauma, especially during key developmental periods, can lead to various psychological conditions or mental health disorders. We'll introduce nine mental health disorders influenced by trauma, starting with PTSD and acute stress disorder, and discuss how treating the root cause of trauma can lead to full healing rather than just addressing symptoms. Join us as we discuss PTSD, acute stress dis...
Jun 18, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Segment 1: Understanding the Brain's Response to Trauma Brain Anatomy and Trauma: We begin by identifying the key areas of the brain involved in the trauma response—namely, the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex. Discover how these structures collaborate to process emotions, store memories, and make decisions, and why their function is critical in the context of trauma. Neurological Responses: Learn about the immediate reactions of the brain to traumatic events, including the fight, fl...
Jun 13, 2024•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we dive deep into the often-overlooked signs of trauma that can manifest in everyday behaviors and reactions. Understanding these signs is crucial for recognizing the need for support and beginning the journey toward healing. Join us as we explore three key indicators that someone might be dealing with unresolved trauma. Overreactions to Common Situations: We start by discussing why some individuals might have intense emotional reactions to seemingly mi...
Jun 11, 2024•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the concept of learned helplessness—a psychological condition where individuals feel powerless to change their circumstances, even when opportunities for improvement exist. Join us as we explore the origins, impacts, and strategies for overcoming learned helplessness, providing listeners with a comprehensive understanding of this complex phenomenon. **What You'll Learn in This Episode:** - **Origins and Definition**: Discover th...
Jun 06, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this thought-provoking continuation of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we further engage with statements made by John MacArthur regarding mental health. Specifically, we address his views on the role of community and self-control in managing mental health issues. MacArthur suggests that the lack of community support causes problems and that individuals simply need more self-control to overcome their struggles. Join us as we explore these claims with empathy and a commitment to understanding the compl...
Jun 04, 2024•21 min•Ep 51•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome back to another episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we continue our important conversation about the views on mental health within some religious communities, specifically addressing statements made by John MacArthur regarding the non-existence of mental disorders and the use of psychiatric medications. In this follow-up episode, titled "Beyond Belief: Addressing Stigmas in Mental Health Care - Part 2," we take a closer look at the contentious claim that prescribing psychiatric medi...
May 30, 2024•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this thoughtful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we engage in a respectful examination of views presented by John MacArthur regarding psychological disorders. Specifically, we focus on a sermon where he discusses his beliefs about the non-existence of these disorders, using schizophrenia as a representative example for all conditions, and his views on the psychological community's approach to treatment. Our goal is to explore these topics with care and provide a balanced perspective. Join u...
May 28, 2024•31 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this compelling episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we explore the difficult yet sometimes necessary decision of parental estrangement. While estrangement is often viewed negatively, there are circumstances where it becomes essential for personal safety, mental health, and emotional growth. This episode sheds light on the healthy reasons behind choosing distance from one's parents and how it can serve as a protective and empowering measure. Self-Protection from Abuse: We delve into the painful...
May 23, 2024•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to a thought-provoking episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we delve deep into the complex world of family estrangement. Today, we explore some of the less discussed but critically influential factors that can lead to breaks within families. From miscommunication to external influences, unrealistic expectations, and impulsive decisions, we uncover the nuances that can drive wedges between loved ones. Miscommunication: We start by examining how misunderstandings and a lack of effectiv...
May 21, 2024•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast Episode Description: In this transformative episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the science and strategy of building lasting habits that can significantly enhance your personal and professional life. We break down the process into four actionable steps, providing a blueprint for anyone looking to develop new, positive routines. Whether you're striving to be more active, wanting to manage your time better, or looking to adopt a healthier lifestyle, this episode is your guide to makin...
May 16, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Episode Description: Welcome to another insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." Today, we tackle the common barriers that prevent us from starting and maintaining beneficial behaviors. While we often know what’s good for us, implementing these positive changes can be surprisingly challenging. We’ll explore the psychological and practical hurdles of delayed rewards, the initial effort and energy required, the fear of failure, and the ambiguity of results. In This Episode, You Will Learn: De...
May 14, 2024•22 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to a compelling episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we delve into the psychological complexities behind why certain behaviors are so hard to break, and how we can effectively overcome them. In today’s discussion, we uncover the four key factors that often anchor us to unwanted habits: habituation, instant gratification, fear of withdrawal, and the lack of alternative coping strategies. Habituation: We explore how repeated behaviors become automatic responses, deeply ingrained in our...
May 09, 2024•22 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome back to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for Part 2 of our deep dive into the varied world of cleaning styles. In this episode, we explore three more unique approaches to cleaning: Routine Cleaners, Spot Cleaners, and Social Cleaners. Each style comes with its own set of benefits and challenges, influencing not only the cleanliness of our spaces but also our personal habits and interactions with others. Explore with us: Routine Cleaners: Discover the structured world of Routine Cleaners who adhere...
May 07, 2024•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where today we're diving into the fascinating world of cleaning styles in the first installment of our two-part series. Cleaning is a universal task, yet how we approach it can vary widely, influenced by personality, culture, upbringing, and personal preferences. In this episode, we explore three distinct cleaning styles: Meticulous Cleaners, Speed Cleaners, and Minimalist Cleaners. Join us as we break down each style: Meticulous Cleaners: Discover the world of...
May 02, 2024•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast Dive into a fresh episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" where we explore the intriguing connection between cleaning and mental health. Discover how maintaining a clean and organized environment does more than just please the eye—it can fundamentally enhance your psychological well-being. From reducing stress and anxiety to improving mood and focus, cleaning is not just about tidiness; it's a powerful tool for mental clarity and emotional stability. In this episode, we uncover how a clutter-free spac...
Apr 30, 2024•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." In today's episode, we explore a highly effective method for managing anxiety: the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 grounding technique, with a unique twist. This method is renowned for its ability to bring calm and focus in moments of anxiety by anchoring you in the present through sensory awareness. As a bonus, we've added a sixth step that incorporates touch in a simple yet powerful way, offering an extra layer of grounding. The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 technique is a grounding practice ...
Apr 28, 2024•11 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." In this episode, we dive into the art of conflict resolution within relationships, offering practical strategies to help you navigate disagreements with your spouse or partner in a way that strengthens your bond. Conflicts are an inevitable part of any relationship, but how you approach them can make all the difference. Our aim is to equip you with the tools you need to resolve conflicts constructively, promoting understanding and harmony. We explore key elemen...
Apr 25, 2024•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast Welcome to another engaging episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where today we explore a crucial aspect of any healthy relationship: the importance of valuing your partner's perceptions and opinions as much as your own. In a world where individual viewpoints can often overshadow collaborative understanding, recognizing and respecting each other’s perspectives not only nurtures mutual respect but also deepens emotional connections. In this episode, we'll delve into why acknowledging your partner's...
Apr 18, 2024•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast Podcast Episode Title: "Memory vs. Perception: Navigating Emotions and Conflicts" Episode Description: In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the fascinating interplay between emotions, memory, and perception, and how they shape our experiences and interactions, particularly during conflicts. Emotions are powerful influencers; they not only color our memories but also skew our perceptions, often leading to misunderstandings and escalated disputes. Join us as we explo...
Apr 16, 2024•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast