Being able to know who you are and what you need is important. Our emotional needs can feel confusing sometimes because we can function without them being met but we do function in less optimal ways. Knowing if you are introverted or extroverted can help you understand situations that are better for you and why you may struggle in others. **Take the inventory linked below, then screenshot your results & post them over in the designated post in our Facebook Community** http://www.humanmetrics.com...
Mar 21, 2023•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast We are launching into a new series - Personality Types and Relationships Who are you? Who am I? That is what we seek to answer in this podcast. We are going to be explaining and giving a brief overview of the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). This inventory helps you to understand your needs and the needs of others. It is hard to ask for something if you don't even know you need it. In this Series we'll be discussing the 16 Personality Types of the MBTI. Today we start with the flyover view of...
Mar 16, 2023•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast This title may unsettle you. But rest assured we want you to let them do dangerous things...carefully. This will help them learn what they are capable of and also learn how to handle the dangerous situations in ways that they are less likely to get hurt. Keeping them out of harms way and never allowing them to confront difficult situations will often leave kids unsure and unable to take action for fear of failure. **Join our Facebook Community Here! >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at po...
Mar 14, 2023•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast Can losing 1 hour of sleep really make a difference? In short, YES! This Sunday is the start of Day Light Savings Time where many of us will change our clocks & "Spring Forward." Besides being exhausted the next day, why should we even care? Because there can be short term & long term effects while we not only lose this hour of sleep, but throughout the months of March - November we are getting less morning sunlight & throwing our circadian rhythms into a frenzy. In just the week after Day Light...
Mar 09, 2023•14 min•Transcript available on Metacast Anger can damage relationships and cause you to feel out of control. The truth is anger is the symptom but not the actual problem. Unresolved and not expressed emotions are the problem that turn into anger. In this podcast we will help you to identify your underlying emotions and learn to express them so that we can ICE out anger. Other episodes mentioned on today's podcast: Ep. 34 - Fair Fighting Rules **Join our Facebook Community Here! >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at podcast@mrand...
Mar 07, 2023•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast In Part 2 of this 2 part series we will talk about how you might be wasting your time by dating the wrong people and we'll talk about how you can learn to laser focus your time dating to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. In order to keep laser focus you need your list... Your Non-Negotiables List. Your Non-Negotiables List will help you when you start to catch feelings to BE ABLE TO ASSESS IF THIS PERSON IS WORTH YOUR TIME OR LIKELY TO WASTE YOUR TIME! Related Episodes: Ep. 45 - You Are Wasting Your Time ...
Mar 02, 2023•9 min•Transcript available on Metacast In this 2 part series we will talk about how you might be wasting your time by dating the wrong people and we'll talk about how you can learn to laser focus your time dating to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. In order to keep laser focus you need your list... Your Non-Negotiables List. Your Non-Negotiables List will help you when you start to catch feelings to BE ABLE TO ASSESS IF THIS PERSON IS WORTH YOUR TIME OR LIKELY TO WASTE YOUR TIME! Listen here for related episodes mentioned on today's podcast: ...
Feb 28, 2023•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast We all want to have healthy relationships, but what does that even look like? Last episode we discussed Healthy vs. Addictive Love and shared comparisons #1-6, today we complete the list with comparisons #7 - 10! If you haven't already listened to Part 1 - you can go back and listen to it here: Healthy vs. Addictive Love (Part 1) Let's get started! 7. Healthy Love creates a deeper sense of ourselves the longer we're together. Addictive love creates a loss of self the longer you are together. 8. ...
Feb 23, 2023•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast We all want to have healthy relationships, but what does that even look like? Tune in to today's episode as we compare Healthy Love vs. Addictive Love. Today we will cover #1-6 1. Healthy love develops after we feel secure. Addictive love tries to create love and connection before we understand who the person is. 2. Healthy love comes from being healthy ourselves , we overflow with love. Addictive love is always trying to fill an inner void. 3. Healthy love begins with loving ourselves, being th...
Feb 21, 2023•10 min•Transcript available on Metacast Today we continue with part 2 of "What is Love Anyway? Everyone is searching for it or trying to increase it. But how do you actually define love? We define it as loving actions we take toward our spouse no matter how we feel. We don't define it as an emotion. Come along with us and learn more about what LOVE IS! "Love is PATIENT and KIND; Love DOES NOT ENVY or BOAST It is NOT ARROGANT or RUDE. It DOES NOT INSIST ON ITS OWN WAY It is NOT IRRITABLE or RESENTFUL It DOES NOT REJOICE at WRONGDOING, ...
Feb 16, 2023•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast What is love? Everyone is searching for it or trying to increase it. But how do you actually define love? We define it as loving actions we take toward our spouse no matter how we feel. We don't define it as an emotion. Come along with us and learn more about what LOVE IS! We'd love for you to join us over at our Facebook Community! Click here >>> Facebook Group or you can email us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com...
Feb 14, 2023•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast We have gotten so many questions about if EMDR is okay for Christians. We've seen the hesitation and worry from those who know they need help but don't know what to do and are hesitant or worried about EMDR. In today's episode we address this concern and help you understand why, not only is it okay, but it may help you discover your true identity in Christ and heal from past hurts or trauma that are stopping you from truly believing and knowing your identity in Christ. We want you to experience ...
Feb 09, 2023•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast In today's episode we're talking all about the Unconscious Mind. The Unconscious can influence us in positive or negative ways. What can the Unconscious influence? 1. Our Automatic Behaviors and Habits 2. Our Emotions & Feelings 3. Our Beliefs & Attitudes What are some ways we can see the negative effects of the Unconscious? 1. Whenever we have an oversized response to the situation at hand. 2. If you have an irrational fear or belief 3. If you have negative experiences or memories that create a...
Feb 07, 2023•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast In today's episode we are doing Part 2 of - Don't Drive Your Teen Away! Connecting with your Teens! We have a great time as we interview with Stefanie Bolio, LMFT. Teens of today face many challenges. Depression, anxiety, loneliness, self-harm, suicide, feeling the weight of helping their friends who struggle with all this and more. In addition to all of that, teens also have the academic and social pressures to do well in school, date, find friends, navigate the pressures of social media, and t...
Feb 02, 2023•24 min•Transcript available on Metacast Teens of today face many challenges. Depression, anxiety, loneliness, self-harm, feeling the weight of helping their friends who struggle with all this and more. In addition to all of that, teens also have the academic and social pressures to do well in school, date, find friends, navigate the pressures of social media, and then there's family. You as their parent can easily drive your teen away....but don't! On this episode, Stefanie will share tips for you to Connect with Your Teen! Stefanie B...
Jan 31, 2023•27 min•Transcript available on Metacast What does it take to be a great leader? Whether you're an executive in a big company or you are at home leading your family, join us in todays episode! In this 2 part series we go through 15 different aspects a good leader should have. Today we will be covering aspects #9-15. Here are #9-15: 9. Be Empathetic: Show empathy and understanding towards your team. 10. Show Appreciation and gratitude towards your team members. Create a culture of appreciation. 11. Be a Good Role Model: Lead by example ...
Jan 26, 2023•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast What does it take to be a great leader? Whether you're an executive in a big company or you are at home leading your family, join us in todays episode! In this 2 part series we go through 15 different aspects a good leader should have. Today will be aspects 1-8. Develop self-awareness & use emotional intelligence. Understand your own strengths, weaknesses, values, and emotions, and how they impact your leadership style. Be aware of the emotions of others. Build trust: Earn the trust of your team...
Jan 24, 2023•24 min•Transcript available on Metacast Not all is fair in love an war! That is why we have a list of 15 rules for fighting fair. 1. Ask yourself why you are upset before you start talking 2. Physical violence is not aloud! 3. No degrading language 4. No yelling 5. No emotional blackmail 6. No bringing up the past 7. Stay away from overgeneralizations 8. Don't make assumptions 9. Take turns talking 10. Discuss one issue at a time 11. Express your feelings 12. No stonewalling 13. Take a time-out if things get rough 14. Be accepting 15....
Jan 19, 2023•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast Is therapy just hoping to get marginally better or make life manageable or does it have the capacity to truly heal your emotional wounds? In this podcast we discuss what therapy can actually accomplish! **Join us over at our Facebook Community here >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek p...
Jan 17, 2023•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Shame is a powerful motivator...to hide what you are doing. There are 3 concepts that have to due with altering behaviors. One is shame, which is social pressure that causes you to feel bad about your behavior. Shame is the least effective way to change behaviors because the person does not believe what they did was wrong but feel embarrassed about how society views them. Guilt is a better motivator for change than shame because guilt means you know you did wrong and have a negative emotional re...
Jan 12, 2023•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast Today we address the topic of Self Care. Sometimes people can feel like taking care of yourself is selfish but when you have done a good job of meeting your own needs it allows you to be joyful when you are being selfless and helping others. 15 tips to help you practice better Self Care: 1. Practice Mindfulness 2. Take Breaks 3. Regular Physical Exercise 4. Get Enough Sleep 5. Eating Healthy 6. Practice Gratitude 7. Connecting With Others (even you introverts!) 8. Take Up a Hobby or Something Yo...
Jan 10, 2023•18 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you heard of the Pareto Principle? Maybe not, but it's likely that you've heard of the 80/20 rule. This is a key concept that can help us to be more productive, more successful, and can even impact how we approach our relationships. The 80/20 rule is the principle that 80% of your outcomes come from 20% of your inputs and 20% of your outcomes are coming from 80% of your inputs. Why is this important? If you can figure out what 20% is responsible for the 80% of outcomes, you can focus in on ...
Jan 05, 2023•13 min•Transcript available on Metacast Today, January 3, 2023 is Divorce Day. What is Divorce Day? It's the first working Monday of January and it's a day when lawyers see an uptick in cases of those who are filing for divorce. Many people hang on throughout the holidays and don't want to break it to their kids and ruin the holidays, and the stressors of the get togethers and pretending everything is okay in front of family finally all comes to a breaking point. We are not here to celebrate Divorce Day, instead, we are doing this epi...
Jan 03, 2023•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast When we mess up or make mistakes, we hope others will give us the benefit of the doubt, but why is it so hard to give others that same gift? In this episode we'll talk about how giving the benefit of the doubt can help to improve your relationships with others. **Join us over at our Facebook Community here >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatm...
Dec 29, 2022•15 min•Transcript available on Metacast When we face difficulties and set backs, what's the difference between someone who moves forward and succeeds and someone who doesn't? Their resilience. Resilience is an important quality that can improve your ability to succeed in your career, physically, mentally, relationally....well, really in almost everything. It's being able to successfully adapt and overcome these challenges. Today we'll be sharing 3 Factors that Contribute to Resiliency and 6 Keys to Build Resiliency. 3 Factors that con...
Dec 27, 2022•13 min•Transcript available on Metacast In the last episode we discussed 4 Theories of Motivation, but today we're going to put this into action and share 15 tips to help build your motivation! 15 tips to help build your motivation: 1. Set specific, meaningful goals. Write them down and make them visible. 2. Prioritize your goals 3. Just get started! 4. Set a deadline 5. Start small 6. Get off the failure cycle 7. Surround yourself with winners 8. Remember your why 9. Establish a daily routine ( Check out "Systemize Your Life" Podcast...
Dec 22, 2022•25 min•Transcript available on Metacast Lets get Motivated! In this episode we explore the 4 different theories behind motivation: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, Self-Determination Theory, Expectancy Theory, Self-Efficacy Theory. Each of these theories offer something that can help you learn how to be motivated and follow through on your goals! We'd love to hear from you! Join our Facebook community - Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/
Dec 20, 2022•16 min•Transcript available on Metacast Part 2! We're so glad you're here! Today we sit down with Parenting Coach, Kaile Myers, to talk about connection based parenting and premeditated parenting. Kaile is a happily married mother of 4 who is passionate about enjoying motherhood and finding FUN in the daily events of life. Kaile addresses the importance of having and protecting the connection you have with your children and parenting in a way that enhances that connection. She addresses the difference between discipline and punishment...
Dec 15, 2022•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast We're so glad you're here! Today we sit down with Parenting Coach, Kaile Myers, to talk about connection based parenting and premeditated parenting. Kaile is a happily married mother of 4 who is passionate about enjoying motherhood and finding FUN in the daily events of life. Kaile addresses the importance of having and protecting the connection you have with your children and parenting in a way that enhances that connection. She addresses the difference between discipline and punishment, and gi...
Dec 13, 2022•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast It is so much easier to tell people what we don't like or don't want but it is more difficult and takes more effort to ask people for what we want. To ask for what we want takes more effort, we have to first identify what it is we even want, and then figure out how to explain that to others. The problem with always talking about what we don't like is that it doesn't get us any closer to what it is you DO want. Listen to this episode and this week let's focus on telling people more of what we DO ...
Dec 08, 2022•11 min•Transcript available on Metacast